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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

During a recent play meet I face-timed a male friend so he could watch us. He directed some of the action. It was hot, we all enjoyed it but it was a brief part of a longer meet.

I'm wondering about doing it again but as the purpose of the meet, with a friend directing all of the action. I wonder though whether guys would be turned off by being directed by another male. I generally meet quite alpha men and enjoy full on, fairly rough sex.

Do you have experience of this? As a guy would you enjoy it?

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead


"During a recent play meet I face-timed a male friend so he could watch us. He directed some of the action. It was hot, we all enjoyed it but it was a brief part of a longer meet.

I'm wondering about doing it again but as the purpose of the meet, with a friend directing all of the action. I wonder though whether guys would be turned off by being directed by another male. I generally meet quite alpha men and enjoy full on, fairly rough sex.

Do you have experience of this? As a guy would you enjoy it?"

I would be fine with it and would at to the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats an alpha men op.?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me personally, as a dominant guy I like to dictate the pace rather than be guided by someone else's.

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne

Haven't you heard they not bi or gay they are fab straight lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Whats an alpha men op.?"

Likes to be in charge. I would have said dominant but wanted to avoid the bdsm connotations of that term.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Haven't you heard they not bi or gay they are fab straight lol "

This would be a guy instructing another guy remotely how to fuck a woman. I'm not seeing where questions of sexual preference come in. It's more, as Phil indicated, whether a guy would let another guy take charge, even if remotely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats an alpha men op.?

Likes to be in charge. I would have said dominant but wanted to avoid the bdsm connotations of that term."

Oh you mean the guys who wink at me. lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Whats an alpha men op.?

Likes to be in charge. I would have said dominant but wanted to avoid the bdsm connotations of that term.

Oh you mean the guys who wink at me. lol "

So if a guy lets another guy direct him in Herero sex by phone that makes him bi or gay? Ok. I learn something every day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats an alpha men op.?

Likes to be in charge. I would have said dominant but wanted to avoid the bdsm connotations of that term.

Oh you mean the guys who wink at me. lol

So if a guy lets another guy direct him in Herero sex by phone that makes him bi or gay? Ok. I learn something every day."

On Fab, any contact between two men, especially directly by phone means they are bi!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loved directing other men with my partner when I was in a relationship and swinging, and could imagine enjoying if I was a 3rd...im there for the couples fantasy, whatever turns them on is good for me :D

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead


"Loved directing other men with my partner when I was in a relationship and swinging, and could imagine enjoying if I was a 3rd...im there for the couples fantasy, whatever turns them on is good for me :D"

I have had so much great fun with the guy telling me what to do with his mrs awesome

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Whats an alpha men op.?

Likes to be in charge. I would have said dominant but wanted to avoid the bdsm connotations of that term.

Oh you mean the guys who wink at me. lol

So if a guy lets another guy direct him in Herero sex by phone that makes him bi or gay? Ok. I learn something every day.

On Fab, any contact between two men, especially directly by phone means they are bi!"

Do they 'catch the gay'? PMSL

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Loved directing other men with my partner when I was in a relationship and swinging, and could imagine enjoying if I was a 3rd...im there for the couples fantasy, whatever turns them on is good for me :D

I have had so much great fun with the guy telling me what to do with his mrs awesome "

Oh this is good to read. I had wondered about the power exchange causing issues. Must admit I hadn't considered that guys might think they would be 'turned' by Skype contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a guy contacts you,to fuck his missus-and you agree,you've already been directed! Sort of contradicts the notion that some guys don't like it.

I'm dom but,if I have an 'invite' to meet,I go with what the couple want.

All egos are checked at the door.

If someone directs me-great. They tend to know their wife/girlfriend a lot better than you,and what they like.

As long as everyone is happy,what the hell.

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By *iberatedPairCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk


"If a guy contacts you,to fuck his missus-and you agree,you've already been directed! Sort of contradicts the notion that some guys don't like it.

I'm dom but,if I have an 'invite' to meet,I go with what the couple want.

All egos are checked at the door.

If someone directs me-great. They tend to know their wife/girlfriend a lot better than you,and what they like.

You'll go a long way in the swinging world with that ethos.

Fair play to you.

As long as everyone is happy,what the hell. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If a guy contacts you,to fuck his missus-and you agree,you've already been directed! Sort of contradicts the notion that some guys don't like it.

I'm dom but,if I have an 'invite' to meet,I go with what the couple want.

All egos are checked at the door.

If someone directs me-great. They tend to know their wife/girlfriend a lot better than you,and what they like.

As long as everyone is happy,what the hell. "

And if I'm arranging the meet, as the one getting fucked, I guess as long as the deal is clear then this applies. Wonder how hard it would be to find volunteers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7 times out of 10,it's usually the guy contacting me for mmf. If it's the lady,same thing applies-I'm the one being invited. It's akin to being invited to someone's party,you go with the host's rules.

If they want me to dress as Mr Blobby,because it's their 'thing',then fine! If they're happy,I'm happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we ask a single guy to our house or we meet one in a hotel , my boyfriend instructs him he's in charge , it's our fantasy and if they don't like they can leave ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When we ask a single guy to our house or we meet one in a hotel , my boyfriend instructs him he's in charge , it's our fantasy and if they don't like they can leave .. "

I hadnt thought of it as a couple meet because the meet is with me, the friend is via Skype, but I guess in reality that's what it is, a couples meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When we ask a single guy to our house or we meet one in a hotel , my boyfriend instructs him he's in charge , it's our fantasy and if they don't like they can leave ..

I hadnt thought of it as a couple meet because the meet is with me, the friend is via Skype, but I guess in reality that's what it is, a couples meet."

Admitted I didn't see it that way either, I was thinking more on the lines of cam rooms on here which just becomes a free for all.

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By *eppoMan
over a year ago

London Colney

I love being directed on cam ... Does that help lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When we ask a single guy to our house or we meet one in a hotel , my boyfriend instructs him he's in charge , it's our fantasy and if they don't like they can leave ..

I hadnt thought of it as a couple meet because the meet is with me, the friend is via Skype, but I guess in reality that's what it is, a couples meet.

Admitted I didn't see it that way either, I was thinking more on the lines of cam rooms on here which just becomes a free for all. "

Have you used the cam Rooms on here? Are there guys there who enjoy being directed?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love being directed on cam ... Does that help lol"

Not really, but I hope you get some views out of it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When we ask a single guy to our house or we meet one in a hotel , my boyfriend instructs him he's in charge , it's our fantasy and if they don't like they can leave ..

I hadnt thought of it as a couple meet because the meet is with me, the friend is via Skype, but I guess in reality that's what it is, a couples meet.

Admitted I didn't see it that way either, I was thinking more on the lines of cam rooms on here which just becomes a free for all.

Have you used the cam Rooms on here? Are there guys there who enjoy being directed?

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Within couples yes, but as I say they turn into free for alls, mostly single men trying to tell the guy what to do to his other half to get their own rocks off

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