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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Evening so I was talking to a friend and broke it down she was in laffter

So as a guy I totally u understand a women's pain they are expected or happily or some how end up having to make breakfast, make the bed , go work , cook dinner sort the little ones out and some house work . AND AT THE END OF EXPECTED TO BE PORN STAR having to do all the work .

What your opinion .

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Be more helpful round the house?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

My opinion (as a woman) is that it might be expected of me but I won't be delivering.

Pretty much an equal division of labour in our house

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By *aelawMan
over a year ago

Paisley


"Evening so I was talking to a friend and broke it down she was in laffter

So as a guy I totally u understand a women's pain they are expected or happily or some how end up having to make breakfast, make the bed , go work , cook dinner sort the little ones out and some house work . AND AT THE END OF EXPECTED TO BE PORN STAR having to do all the work .

What your opinion .

"

I'm pretty sure that is not the expectation nowadays. There are still a lot that needs to change but it's a very prehistoric way to look at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is she married to someone stuck in the 1950s?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is she married to someone stuck in the 1950s?"

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"Evening so I was talking to a friend and broke it down she was in laffter

So as a guy I totally u understand a women's pain they are expected or happily or some how end up having to make breakfast, make the bed , go work , cook dinner sort the little ones out and some house work . AND AT THE END OF EXPECTED TO BE PORN STAR having to do all the work .

What your opinion .

"

Have we gone back in time??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol just a question I'm Indian and have seen a lot growing up . Believe me in all society's some people are like horses with blinkers . Just look at trump lol

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS


"Evening so I was talking to a friend and broke it down she was in laffter

So as a guy I totally u understand a women's pain they are expected or happily or some how end up having to make breakfast, make the bed , go work , cook dinner sort the little ones out and some house work . AND AT THE END OF EXPECTED TO BE PORN STAR having to do all the work .

What your opinion .

"

What a load of bollocks.

Mrs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol just lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Lol just a question I'm Indian and have seen a lot growing up . Believe me in all society's some people are like horses with blinkers . Just look at trump lol "

You're right. There are still women who feel they need to keep a perfect home, work etc and men who sit back and allow them to do it. I think(hope) its becoming less acceptable though.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I'm single and even without support I used to feel the pressure and the need to try and keep up with other people. The burden of trying to do it all, work, children, home, exercise, beauty, and still be miss sunshine and sex.

Spinning so many plates just left me empty.

Now I am far nore laid back. Sometimes my house is tidy, sometimes it isn't. Sometimes I cook healthy balanced meals for my boys, sometimes I take them for drive through in my pjs.

I'm grateful for the invention of dry shampoo. Some days I fall apart and cry in the car and I know that's ok. Oh and sometimes I have wild sex and sometimes I make him do all the work with nothing in return.

I don't feel bad about any of that stuff anymore.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm single and even without support I used to feel the pressure and the need to try and keep up with other people. The burden of trying to do it all, work, children, home, exercise, beauty, and still be miss sunshine and sex.

Spinning so many plates just left me empty.

Now I am far nore laid back. Sometimes my house is tidy, sometimes it isn't. Sometimes I cook healthy balanced meals for my boys, sometimes I take them for drive through in my pjs.

I'm grateful for the invention of dry shampoo. Some days I fall apart and cry in the car and I know that's ok. Oh and sometimes I have wild sex and sometimes I make him do all the work with nothing in return.

I don't feel bad about any of that stuff anymore.

"
sometime it hard to get to not felling bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont believe you thats my opinion!

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By *izzlemoonMan
over a year ago

Bath

Firstly i get what you're saying OP but your sentence structure makes reading your post tricky but anyway.

I think it depends on whatever dynamic works for you as a couple and your responsibilities at the time. If a couple is lucky enough that 1 can stay at home then that person should look after homr stuff. if both busy all day then share it out with consideration.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this a 1950's housewife thread thread?? .

They can feck off if that's what they expect

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

I'm single and live alone so I do all my chores and run a business too. How I find time for a wank in the evening I'll never know

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

I think the 99 year old has just been discovered...

BTW That;s after she's scrubbed the step, washed the nets, beat the rugs, used the mangle and tea stained her legs and drawn a line down the back to look like seemed stockings.... The final question, teeth in or out

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I know of couples in their twenties where the dynamic the op talks about is played out.

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By *khotcouple20Couple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

I'm a feminists worst nightmare...I love being a woman and having that responsibility..he works hard everyday at work..so yes he deserves a pornstar at the end of everyday...we are a very traditional couple and I realise not every woman would agree

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm a feminists worst nightmare...I love being a woman and having that responsibility..he works hard everyday at work..so yes he deserves a pornstar at the end of everyday...we are a very traditional couple and I realise not every woman would agree "

Feminism isn't about making women (or men)conform to a set way of behaving that to me would be defeating the object.

We've always had a fairly equal division of labour. Whoever does the least outside the home does the most in it unless one of us is ill then the other takes it all on.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

As always on fab people make sweeping generalisations,

When i was in a relationship I did more than my share as she was lazy and I am sure I wasn't the only one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see why people make such a fuss about doing housework.

It's not difficult and it doesn't take long, no matter what anyone says

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton


"I don't see why people make such a fuss about doing housework.

It's not difficult and it doesn't take long, no matter what anyone says "

They are coming for your head.

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS


"Is this a 1950's housewife thread thread?? .

They can feck off if that's what they expect "

We don't honestly think it is what many people expect nowadays.

It did attract some attention though, didn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see why people make such a fuss about doing housework.

It's not difficult and it doesn't take long, no matter what anyone says

They are coming for your head."

Bring it on I've got time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hurt my head reading that. Still don't entirely know what the question is mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a single dad, i do all them things named and still find time for sex for whoever im with....do i get a thread about me?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Evening so I was talking to a friend and broke it down she was in laffter

So as a guy I totally u understand a women's pain they are expected or happily or some how end up having to make breakfast, make the bed , go work , cook dinner sort the little ones out and some house work . AND AT THE END OF EXPECTED TO BE PORN STAR having to do all the work .

What your opinion .

"

I don't have to do anything. If I do the above, its because I choose too.

I actually like doing housework (I'm odd) that's not to say that Mr doesn't do his fair share.

Hell, we'd hardly ever eat decent food if he didn't do alot of the cooking.

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