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"Verifications are to verify the person/s are genuine not War & Peace on every single detail of what happened! I hate the "Over the top" veri's, what happens behind closed doors should stay there IMO " SO agree. I like the ones that state the basics and that he/she showed up on time, etc. More than that is usually bragging .... often to showcase how wonderful the writer is! | |||
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"I looked at a local guys new veri earlier, the one he had given was particularly graphic. Went on about how he fisted her at a club, and stuff. It made me cringe, I'd hate it if every little thing was written about me!! " Oh I know what you mean there | |||
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"The more info the better, regardless and can be funny too. It's pretty simple to read between the lines and helps (in our opinion) get an introduction to the person you 'might' meet. Don't really buy into 'it's just to prove you exist' talk. We like to meet who we perceive to be nice, grounded and realistic people and from veris we can get a feel for this. Veris are the starter but the decision making to meet is based upon what happens during our fab interactions. " Exactly how we see it too . | |||
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"The more info the better, regardless and can be funny too. It's pretty simple to read between the lines and helps (in our opinion) get an introduction to the person you 'might' meet. Don't really buy into 'it's just to prove you exist' talk. We like to meet who we perceive to be nice, grounded and realistic people and from veris we can get a feel for this. Veris are the starter but the decision making to meet is based upon what happens during our fab interactions. " Indeed | |||
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"They always end the veri with 'until next time'. " Or "hands off he's mine xxxxxxxx lol". Or "mmmwwwwaaaahhhhhh". | |||
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"I dont give veris... Esp when the guy asks me to leave them one... " That's jolly sporting of you | |||
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"Most verifications are now just usually a vehicle to boost the giver's and recipient's fragile egos. " Most? No. I meet rarely but will verify when requested. It's a vehicle for others to know whether someone is what/who they say they are. | |||
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"Veris mean nothing! Exactly like profiles Just words ... " At the end of the day what you might like might not be my cuppa... | |||
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"Most verifications are now just usually a vehicle to boost the giver's and recipient's fragile egos. Most? No. I meet rarely but will verify when requested. It's a vehicle for others to know whether someone is what/who they say they are. " The point I was making is that if you read some peoples verifications you will note that the same people have verified them numerous times. Kinda blows your last sentence out of the water. | |||
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"Not a great fan of veris if I'm honest. I also think we should be allowed to delete ones people leave for us if we don't like them! " I sort of agree with that ... the option of not displaying it is good. People can still say negative things. | |||
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