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Can I ask why some ladies do not think that the site is a numbers game ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can I ask why some ladies have not realised that from a man on this site it is a numbers game

They cannot be that niave!!!!

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Who told ya that? Its DEFO a numbers game...must be 20 guys to every female..at least!

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond


"Can I ask why some ladies have not realised that from a man on this site it is a numbers game

They cannot be that niave!!!!

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We choose not to think we are just numbers?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well said

A number of ladies I contacted have mentioned that because I had contacted other ladies they know lol

Just my luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can I ask why some ladies have not realised that from a man on this site it is a numbers game

They cannot be that niave!!!!

We choose not to think we are just numbers?"

Aren't we all "just a number" not a name lol

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I haven't got anyone's number yet

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond


"Can I ask why some ladies have not realised that from a man on this site it is a numbers game

They cannot be that niave!!!!

We choose not to think we are just numbers?

Aren't we all "just a number" not a name lol"

Speak for yourself!!!!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"Can I ask why some ladies have not realised that from a man on this site it is a numbers game

They cannot be that niave!!!!

We choose not to think we are just numbers?

Aren't we all "just a number" not a name lol"

No!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tens of thousands of men do not increase choice if the vast majority are short and fat. Not for me, anyway. Why would I want to 'downgrade'

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I ask why some ladies have not realised that from a man on this site it is a numbers game

They cannot be that niave!!!!

"

Well I,m up to no 26 XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"

Well I,m up to no 26 XXX"

Going door to door up the street?

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not a number!!! (Showing my age)

What does 'it's a numbers game' actually mean.

There are more men than woman. I think that's a fact, everything else is subjective and speculation.

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By *ertsRobMan
over a year ago

Rickmansworth

A great site to be on for women!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure what it is you mean....

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

It's not a numbers game at all....it's around 10 to 1 men to women but so what. As long as you find the right people to connect with then the numbers are irrelevant.....ask the guys with the list of meet verifications.

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples


"Can I ask why some ladies have not realised that from a man on this site it is a numbers game

They cannot be that niave!!!!

"

Because the amount of men on here has no bearing on my choice of who i want to meet.

It would make no difference because i won't meet just for the sake of having a meet.

So it could be a choice between 1 or 500 for all i care, if didn't like any of them, I'd be playing with myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A great site to be on for women! "

Actually, it isn't for me

Looks like most of the tall, fit handsome men either always lived ooop norf or have moved there. Nothing to choose from dawn sarf

- Mrs. J -

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"A great site to be on for women! "

I wish that were true! Just because we receive more messages, doesn't mean they are messages we want.

I haven't had sex in over 5 months, because none of them interest me in the slightest, so that doesn't fit your logic does it?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Not sure what it is you mean...."

No me neither. Yeah there's clearly more men on here,what's that got to do with women being naive?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"A great site to be on for women!

I wish that were true! Just because we receive more messages, doesn't mean they are messages we want.

I haven't had sex in over 5 months, because none of them interest me in the slightest, so that doesn't fit your logic does it? "

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"A great site to be on for women!

I wish that were true! Just because we receive more messages, doesn't mean they are messages we want.

I haven't had sex in over 5 months, because none of them interest me in the slightest, so that doesn't fit your logic does it? "

Totally agree,even in a couple its tough to find profiles that we both agree on and so many have no male pics on show

Miss

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Do you mean to say that sheer volume of men means that they become less selective thereby giving women choices they wouldn't normally have?

I think its true in certain cases but most women are far more canny than that.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"A great site to be on for women!

I wish that were true! Just because we receive more messages, doesn't mean they are messages we want.

I haven't had sex in over 5 months, because none of them interest me in the slightest, so that doesn't fit your logic does it?

Totally agree,even in a couple its tough to find profiles that we both agree on and so many have no male pics on show

Miss"

I would guess it was much harder for a couple if your looking for a 4 way match, a bloody nightmare!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"A great site to be on for women!

I wish that were true! Just because we receive more messages, doesn't mean they are messages we want.

I haven't had sex in over 5 months, because none of them interest me in the slightest, so that doesn't fit your logic does it?

Totally agree,even in a couple its tough to find profiles that we both agree on and so many have no male pics on show

Miss

I would guess it was much harder for a couple if your looking for a 4 way match, a bloody nightmare! "

It can be sadly ,hence why i use the forums mostly lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you mean to say that sheer volume of men means that they become less selective thereby giving women choices they wouldn't normally have?

I think its true in certain cases but most women are far more canny than that.

"

Understandable but men should not be told off for the volume of messages sent

You have to send lots to even get someone to reply lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A great site to be on for women!

I wish that were true! Just because we receive more messages, doesn't mean they are messages we want.

I haven't had sex in over 5 months, because none of them interest me in the slightest, so that doesn't fit your logic does it? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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You have to send lots to even get someone to reply lol

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Complete and utter bollocks I'm afraid.

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester


"Can I ask why some ladies have not realised that from a man on this site it is a numbers game

They cannot be that niave!!!!

We choose not to think we are just numbers?

Aren't we all "just a number" not a name lol"

Sounding a bit like "where I came from they didn't give us names, they gave us numbers and mine was......47."

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Do you mean to say that sheer volume of men means that they become less selective thereby giving women choices they wouldn't normally have?

I think its true in certain cases but most women are far more canny than that.

Understandable but men should not be told off for the volume of messages sent

You have to send lots to even get someone to reply lol

"

It doesn't bother me how many messages men send as long as they're not all to the same person

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"You have to send lots to even get someone to reply lol"

You make yourself sound such a catch

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By *ilent.KnightMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"Can I ask why some ladies have not realised that from a man on this site it is a numbers game

They cannot be that niave!!!!

"

Aka I copy and paste my messages.

You can spot a numbers man a mile off. Doesn't mean you can't engage with them. I suspect very few think you've messaged them and them only with a shit one liner. And those that call you up on it are seeing if you own your style.

Of course I don't play the numbers game. I only message the top 100 girls in my area asking if they "wanna fun" selective !

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