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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do you women and couples think it's lazy for a fella to wink instead of sending a message you all must know single fellas get rejected a lot on here so we send a polite wink rather than a long introduction that way you can either wink back if interested or move on thoughts please

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

It's not about being lazy as such but we get hundreds of winks which puts the onus on us to search through every profile to decide who to message...it would be a full time job...so we just delete them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sounds fair

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I never look at winks because as all fems on here with either no pics or loads we get lots of messages so get caught up with them

It's not s question of thinking guys are lazy or is being lazy responding to a wink just there isn't enough time x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok thanks Scarlett or are you Katie price?? just had a few couples and women lately slag me off for winking

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Ok thanks Scarlett or are you Katie price?? just had a few couples and women lately slag me off for winking "

No way really ? TBH then I would say they have far too much time on their hands to slag you off for that !

Big egos on here unfortunately Haha

Only time I have ever moaned at someone for winking is if as I say I've not noticed said wink and they've messaged to berate me for ignoring it

And Katie Price ? I get that a lot haha ... wouldn't mind her money lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In theory a wink should be a polite signal of inerest prior to a message, especially if you're a bit reticent like me. If they wink back it's a green light to send a message.

In reality they rarely get returned because (as said above) people either get far too many to respond to or they think you're lazy.

I love getting winks (on the rare occasion I do), it makes me feel warm and fuzzy inside. And I send one back ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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