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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so is it only me that does a when they receive 'you're beautiful/gorgeous' messages? How can they they possibley know that - nooooo face pics.

So guys - why do you do it? Do you think us ladies on here are that short of genuine compliments in real life that bs like that works?

And ladies - how does it make you feel - flattered? Boost your ego? Or are you like me and see it as patronising BS from a stranger trying to (unsuccessfully) get into your knickers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ignore it. I have no face pics on so they have no way of knowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a problem I have ever needed to worry about...

I've a body like a melted welly...

And a face like a ruptured spleen..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I get it all the time! More often that not spelt incorrectly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they were referring to the bits they can see?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have a beautiful body if that helps any?!!.. Lol what I can see of your profile pic is h o t!!... I'd say for some men that's just as good as a pretty face pic lol

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I don't take any notice and tend to assume the rest of the message is also gonna be cut and paste bs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't take any notice and tend to assume the rest of the message is also gonna be cut and paste bs"

Hello gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's Bs ,I normally just say thanks and forget it

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By *arleyfanCouple
over a year ago

Dover

We have a few like that saying "your a great looking couple, when are you free" usuallybfrom single guys who have just joined with a cock pic taken over a toilet

I wonder which one of us they are interested in lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have a beautiful body if that helps any?!!.. Lol what I can see of your profile pic is h o t!!... I'd say for some men that's just as good as a pretty face pic lol"

See that's what I just dont get. Yeh I know I have a good body (hours at the gym tell me that) but I may have a face like a well slapped arse for all they know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't take any notice and tend to assume the rest of the message is also gonna be cut and paste bs"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have a few like that saying "your a great looking couple, when are you free" usuallybfrom single guys who have just joined with a cock pic taken over a toilet

I wonder which one of us they are interested in lol "

But you are are a good looking couple from your face pics. I have no face pics and even got it when I had no pics up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think that's amusing. Bearing in mind what we have written on our profile, we still get 'you look amazing and sound like a really fun and genuine couple.'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It does make me giggle at the stupidity of it all.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

The bits they can see could be beautiful. And as long as you don't have a face that looks like it's caught fire and someone put it out with a shovel, that's beautiful.

If you've got the confidence to take a good picture, even not showing your face, then that can be attractive too.

Maybe the way you write on here can be good too, it all builds a picture of someone. And most blokes have a fairly simple dial, it's either got "yeah, I would" or "ugh, not even if I was pissed" and if the needle goes to the "yeah, I would" side, that's beautiful enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know they are trying... but it's like saying the car drives nice without ever having driven it ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a semi polite way in saying 'I like your tits, wanna fuck?'

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it's a semi polite way in saying 'I like your tits, wanna fuck?'

Lol"

Possibley also thry really need to add 'I will bring a bag for your head, just in case i'm a moose' lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have a beautiful body if that helps any?!!.. Lol what I can see of your profile pic is h o t!!... I'd say for some men that's just as good as a pretty face pic lol

See that's what I just dont get. Yeh I know I have a good body (hours at the gym tell me that) but I may have a face like a well slapped arse for all they know."

A lot of men don't just go for a pretty face, it's the whole package... A lot of them are pervs/have photographic memories... If they don't like your face they'll flip you over and look at your bum, or focus on your gorgeously toned tummy, your boobs or your lush lips... Lol.

These past few years I've been the biggest weight wise of my life.. And I've probably been the horniest (might have something to do with my age I dunno)

Despite that I have had interest from men whenever I've put myself "out there" even when I thought I wouldn't get any takers due to being weightier than I'd like and also being more self conscious than I'd like... I've come to the conclusion there's a lot of very unfussy men who just love curves, horny women who are sexually proactive and they particularly lovr women who have stamina lol.

I think woman can be a heck of a lot more critical sexually than most men are... Obv there's always exceptions to the rule and body fascists who are turned off by physical "imperfections"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The bits they can see could be beautiful. And as long as you don't have a face that looks like it's caught fire and someone put it out with a shovel, that's beautiful.

If you've got the confidence to take a good picture, even not showing your face, then that can be attractive too.

Maybe the way you write on here can be good too, it all builds a picture of someone. And most blokes have a fairly simple dial, it's either got "yeah, I would" or "ugh, not even if I was pissed" and if the needle goes to the "yeah, I would" side, that's beautiful enough."

So basically they'd fuck any female with confidence on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have a beautiful body if that helps any?!!.. Lol what I can see of your profile pic is h o t!!... I'd say for some men that's just as good as a pretty face pic lol

See that's what I just dont get. Yeh I know I have a good body (hours at the gym tell me that) but I may have a face like a well slapped arse for all they know.

A lot of men don't just go for a pretty face, it's the whole package... A lot of them are pervs/have photographic memories... If they don't like your face they'll flip you over and look at your bum, or focus on your gorgeously toned tummy, your boobs or your lush lips... Lol.

These past few years I've been the biggest weight wise of my life.. And I've probably been the horniest (might have something to do with my age I dunno)

Despite that I have had interest from men whenever I've put myself "out there" even when I thought I wouldn't get any takers due to being weightier than I'd like and also being more self conscious than I'd like... I've come to the conclusion there's a lot of very unfussy men who just love curves, horny women who are sexually proactive and they particularly lovr women who have stamina lol.

I think woman can be a heck of a lot more critical sexually than most men are... Obv there's always exceptions to the rule and body fascists who are turned off by physical "imperfections""

I think you hit the nail on the head. Im more into women than men (always have been) so uts definitely the whole package for me that attracts (inc personality)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so is it only me that does a when they receive 'you're beautiful/gorgeous' messages? How can they they possibley know that - nooooo face pics.

So guys - why do you do it? Do you think us ladies on here are that short of genuine compliments in real life that bs like that works?

And ladies - how does it make you feel - flattered? Boost your ego? Or are you like me and see it as patronising BS from a stranger trying to (unsuccessfully) get into your knickers."

Maybe it's just James Blunt

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know they are trying... but it's like saying the car drives nice without ever having driven it ... "

So true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I barely read any messages atm but I do see the odd one that says they have read my profile and think we have loads in common. Yeah. Read again

I believe the ones that I like the look of

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"The bits they can see could be beautiful. And as long as you don't have a face that looks like it's caught fire and someone put it out with a shovel, that's beautiful.

If you've got the confidence to take a good picture, even not showing your face, then that can be attractive too.

Maybe the way you write on here can be good too, it all builds a picture of someone. And most blokes have a fairly simple dial, it's either got "yeah, I would" or "ugh, not even if I was pissed" and if the needle goes to the "yeah, I would" side, that's beautiful enough.

So basically they'd fuck any female with confidence on here."

Many would fuck any female with tits on here.

I'm just saying that beauty doesn't have to come from the face, and that someone can still be beautiful if one feature isn't quite as good. Boobs to die for, the face of an angel but legs like a grand piano can still make a beautiful person.

If you ask anyone what they don't like about their body, there will always be something. Doesn't mean they aren't beautiful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to ignore the any message that opens with you're beautiful, gorgeous, fit etc etc.

I have no face pics up, I could be shreks love child for all they know. It just comes across as an insincere attempt at flattery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so is it only me that does a when they receive 'you're beautiful/gorgeous' messages? How can they they possibley know that - nooooo face pics.

So guys - why do you do it? Do you think us ladies on here are that short of genuine compliments in real life that bs like that works?

And ladies - how does it make you feel - flattered? Boost your ego? Or are you like me and see it as patronising BS from a stranger trying to (unsuccessfully) get into your knickers."

I just blatantly ask "Are you lying?"... Or I say "I can genuinely tell you mean that!"... Lol I don't really respond to ego boosts especially insincere ones, I don't see the point in lying to someone to get what you want as mostly I can tell it's bs lol.

So to have fun I let the person know I don't believe them, then make them sweat to get any further with me lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello OP...

Perhaos they are being either superficial or cynical or cut and paste because the guys are bored by the cliches knocked out on female profiles... you know the sort of thing...

No face pic no reply...

Dick pic = delete..

I need my brain engaged before anyone gets near me...

But I turn up in clubs for milf monday

Btw I'm looking for a 5 way bi girls plus guy meet..

If your not tall bald tattooed ripped etc then fuck off I'm not interested..

Yeah i paraphrased some... but if guys keep reading stuff like that are you at all surprised at the response it generates.

Cliche beats cliche...

You treat a guy like a price of meat don't complain when we do the same...

And if you dislike the guys so much on here then there is another option..

Then the guys won't bother reading clickbait look at me complaints like yours..

Wanders back to the man cave sits quietly on rick and waits for the howls of outrage...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Insert Michael Jackson eating popcorn gif here)

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By *arleyfanCouple
over a year ago

Dover


"We have a few like that saying "your a great looking couple, when are you free" usuallybfrom single guys who have just joined with a cock pic taken over a toilet

I wonder which one of us they are interested in lol

But you are are a good looking couple from your face pics. I have no face pics and even got it when I had no pics up."

Maybe assumption and hoping your looks continue upwards or a cut and paste message

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hello OP...

Perhaos they are being either superficial or cynical or cut and paste because the guys are bored by the cliches knocked out on female profiles... you know the sort of thing...

No face pic no reply...

Dick pic = delete..

I need my brain engaged before anyone gets near me...

But I turn up in clubs for milf monday

Btw I'm looking for a 5 way bi girls plus guy meet..

If your not tall bald tattooed ripped etc then fuck off I'm not interested..

Yeah i paraphrased some... but if guys keep reading stuff like that are you at all surprised at the response it generates.

Cliche beats cliche...

You treat a guy like a price of meat don't complain when we do the same...

And if you dislike the guys so much on here then there is another option..

Then the guys won't bother reading clickbait look at me complaints like yours..

Wanders back to the man cave sits quietly on rick and waits for the howls of outrage...

"

No you are entitled to your opinion. As am I. Those are MY conditions. My wants. My profile and certainly my way of playing and if arseholes message me who haven't read it then that's their issue not mine. No need for them to spit their metaphoric dummy out. Done me ok for the last 4 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From the guys take little notice but love it when from a lady as feel more genuine

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By *orgeouslyyoursWoman
over a year ago

essex just looking around


"From the guys take little notice but love it when from a lady as feel more genuine "

yea but i think half those female profiles are fake as well....

problem with having a big network of friends on here you see same messages go around to everyone no matter what they like..

zyes everyobe is beautiful in their own right to someone..

Call me a cynic but in cyber land I think it's all fake x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"From the guys take little notice but love it when from a lady as feel more genuine

yea but i think half those female profiles are fake as well....

problem with having a big network of friends on here you see same messages go around to everyone no matter what they like..

zyes everyobe is beautiful in their own right to someone..

Call me a cynic but in cyber land I think it's all fake x "

It is funny to compare messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello OP...

Perhaos they are being either superficial or cynical or cut and paste because the guys are bored by the cliches knocked out on female profiles... you know the sort of thing...

No face pic no reply...

Dick pic = delete..

I need my brain engaged before anyone gets near me...

But I turn up in clubs for milf monday

Btw I'm looking for a 5 way bi girls plus guy meet..

If your not tall bald tattooed ripped etc then fuck off I'm not interested..

Yeah i paraphrased some... but if guys keep reading stuff like that are you at all surprised at the response it generates.

Cliche beats cliche...

You treat a guy like a price of meat don't complain when we do the same...

And if you dislike the guys so much on here then there is another option..

Then the guys won't bother reading clickbait look at me complaints like yours..

Wanders back to the man cave sits quietly on rick and waits for the howls of outrage...

No you are entitled to your opinion. As am I. Those are MY conditions. My wants. My profile and certainly my way of playing and if arseholes message me who haven't read it then that's their issue not mine. No need for them to spit their metaphoric dummy out. Done me ok for the last 4 years."

Like everyone here it's your profile to do with as you please and I will defend yours or anyone's right to live their fab life the way that works for them. I have been put on the naughty step in the past for doing so but would still do it again.

As you can see I clearly did read your profile and have not spat out any metaphoric dummy... interesting concept that...

I merely pointed out the absurdity of complaining about guys responding your profile simply because their response may not meet your expectations of how they should respond...

Instead of a whiny look at me thread complaining about guys saying your beautiful without seeing your face or the interminable cut and paste whine perhaps it's simple if you don't like the txt you receive change your filters delete guys don't read them etc...

Instead of doing any of that you simply copied what so many guys do and put up a clickbait look at me thread...go figure..

If a guy had posted a similar thread on here he would get lynched we have all seen it happen...

Enjoy your fab life but plesse tone down the hypocracy...

Off back to the man cave to Watch the waves go by....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just Fab chat. Of course men want to pay you a compliment because ultimately "they want to get in your knickers" as you put it. That's why we are on this site, so a guy will try and send such a message. I don't see it as bullshit, yes it makes my eyes roll but it's better than saying "your a bit chubby" or anything nasty? Just delete and laugh it off, it's not worth letting it get to you?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

*shrugs* I assume, its just their way of saying they like what they can see.

It's not really something that bothers me. It's easy to ignore or take with a pinch of salt.Surely, its far better than them messaging, nasty comments.

I sometimes, think that men cant win with anything they type at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*shrugs* I assume, its just their way of saying they like what they can see.

It's not really something that bothers me. It's easy to ignore or take with a pinch of salt.Surely, its far better than them messaging, nasty comments.

I sometimes, think that men cant win with anything they type at times."

No they can't win unless they act more like us awesome women lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least give them some credit for spelling 'you're' correctly!

I'll admit I do use both adjectives often but in some cases I might be referring to the pictures themselves - the angle, lighting, mood etc.

In a few select cases I have been known to comment on a beautiful mind.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Your putting pictures up of your incredible body. I'm a red blooded male. Any such male naturally has an urge to stick his cock in you. Can't see your face so he takes a punt. What he sees he finds hot, sexy or indeed beautiful. He tells you this. Whats the bloody problem? Men have been charming women into bed for thousands of years. Fab is just another way of doing it. Poster above hit the nail on the head. You believe the ones you fancy. If mr munter comes over to you in the pub and tells you your hot your likely to tell him to do one. If mr adonis comes over your likely to say fuck me now. Dress it up how you like but fab is same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I get it all the time! More often that not spelt incorrectly... "

Yuu ar sow butefool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your putting pictures up of your incredible body. I'm a red blooded male. Any such male naturally has an urge to stick his cock in you. Can't see your face so he takes a punt. What he sees he finds hot, sexy or indeed beautiful. He tells you this. Whats the bloody problem? Men have been charming women into bed for thousands of years. Fab is just another way of doing it. Poster above hit the nail on the head. You believe the ones you fancy. If mr munter comes over to you in the pub and tells you your hot your likely to tell him to do one. If mr adonis comes over your likely to say fuck me now. Dress it up how you like but fab is same."

I don't have sex with mingers or adonis's that chat me up in clubs... I do however accept drinks made in front if me at the bar... And then I wonder off because how the f believes they own someone just because they bought them a bevy?!!! lol.

Not had a one night stand from clubbing in a gazillion years thankfully, dancing's for clubs imo lol.

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

To be fair, Boos face is all over our profile but then we take most messages like that with a pinch of salt.

What really bugs us is more spelling like "hey sxc" or "hi baeu".... Instant delete

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hello OP...

Perhaos they are being either superficial or cynical or cut and paste because the guys are bored by the cliches knocked out on female profiles... you know the sort of thing...

No face pic no reply...

Dick pic = delete..

I need my brain engaged before anyone gets near me...

But I turn up in clubs for milf monday

Btw I'm looking for a 5 way bi girls plus guy meet..

If your not tall bald tattooed ripped etc then fuck off I'm not interested..

Yeah i paraphrased some... but if guys keep reading stuff like that are you at all surprised at the response it generates.

Cliche beats cliche...

You treat a guy like a price of meat don't complain when we do the same...

And if you dislike the guys so much on here then there is another option..

Then the guys won't bother reading clickbait look at me complaints like yours..

Wanders back to the man cave sits quietly on rick and waits for the howls of outrage...

No you are entitled to your opinion. As am I. Those are MY conditions. My wants. My profile and certainly my way of playing and if arseholes message me who haven't read it then that's their issue not mine. No need for them to spit their metaphoric dummy out. Done me ok for the last 4 years.

Like everyone here it's your profile to do with as you please and I will defend yours or anyone's right to live their fab life the way that works for them. I have been put on the naughty step in the past for doing so but would still do it again.

As you can see I clearly did read your profile and have not spat out any metaphoric dummy... interesting concept that...

I merely pointed out the absurdity of complaining about guys responding your profile simply because their response may not meet your expectations of how they should respond...

Instead of a whiny look at me thread complaining about guys saying your beautiful without seeing your face or the interminable cut and paste whine perhaps it's simple if you don't like the txt you receive change your filters delete guys don't read them etc...

Instead of doing any of that you simply copied what so many guys do and put up a clickbait look at me thread...go figure..

If a guy had posted a similar thread on here he would get lynched we have all seen it happen...

Enjoy your fab life but plesse tone down the hypocracy...

Off back to the man cave to Watch the waves go by....

"

Oh dear seems like I have hit a nerve. The dummy remark was referring to those who message me complaining after not reading my profile. Dont think I have ever received a message off you, so sorry if you think I singled you out. What my OP is asking is why they do it? As in what is their reasoning behind it and other ladies responses to it.

Now why exactly my profile needed to be critiqued (yep your right it is against forum rules but I'll let that go to make a point) Even profiles with nothing on them, no text,no pictures get the same messages. So back to the OP ' why do they do it?

As for whiney look at me thread ffs get real!! My filters are on to the max and I know where the block and delete buttons are.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Your putting pictures up of your incredible body. I'm a red blooded male. Any such male naturally has an urge to stick his cock in you. Can't see your face so he takes a punt. What he sees he finds hot, sexy or indeed beautiful. He tells you this. Whats the bloody problem? Men have been charming women into bed for thousands of years. Fab is just another way of doing it. Poster above hit the nail on the head. You believe the ones you fancy. If mr munter comes over to you in the pub and tells you your hot your likely to tell him to do one. If mr adonis comes over your likely to say fuck me now. Dress it up how you like but fab is same.

I don't have sex with mingers or adonis's that chat me up in clubs... I do however accept drinks made in front if me at the bar... And then I wonder off because how the f believes they own someone just because they bought them a bevy?!!! lol.

Not had a one night stand from clubbing in a gazillion years thankfully, dancing's for clubs imo lol."

Absolutely how it should be lol. Take the drink as a metaphor for a compliment. You got a drink bought you or you had a compliment. No harm done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so is it only me that does a when they receive 'you're beautiful/gorgeous' messages? How can they they possibley know that - nooooo face pics.

So guys - why do you do it? Do you think us ladies on here are that short of genuine compliments in real life that bs like that works?

And ladies - how does it make you feel - flattered? Boost your ego? Or are you like me and see it as patronising BS from a stranger trying to (unsuccessfully) get into your knickers."

Face isn't the only gorgeous part, body obviously can be but brain as well...

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I'm actually feeling sorry for single guys on here, well some of them at least.

As women, we get bombarded every day with some total & utter bollox, bullshit messages.

It must be incredibly hard for a guy to write a message that actually grabs attention, without it being seen as fake, or over the top.

They can't win!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I once got that on my old single profile,before i uploaded any pics.My shadow must be hot

Miss

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"I'm actually feeling sorry for single guys on here, well some of them at least.

As women, we get bombarded every day with some total & utter bollox, bullshit messages.

It must be incredibly hard for a guy to write a message that actually grabs attention, without it being seen as fake, or over the top.

They can't win!

"

Its fab life. Women recieve too many messages. Men have to send too many messages. Meanwhile couples are shagging each other senseless laughing at the singles saying your not real swingers, ner ner ner

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

I think the silhouettes photos are gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And a "no thanks" turns one immediately into a sad, old, fat cow who should be grateful that a little pudgy old man wrote to you

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was born with an ego that doesn't crave flattery. Every man who messages me wants sex, so it's expected that some will use flattery. There will be some who find my body attractive, as I can myself find larger bodies attractive, but those who go on about my physical features usually put me off. It's like they are trying too hard and there's only so many times I can read flattering messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm actually feeling sorry for single guys on here, well some of them at least.

As women, we get bombarded every day with some total & utter bollox, bullshit messages.

It must be incredibly hard for a guy to write a message that actually grabs attention, without it being seen as fake, or over the top.

They can't win!

"

It's an uphill struggle...but some meets make it all worthwhile

PS You're now on my Christmas card list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm actually feeling sorry for single guys on here, well some of them at least.

As women, we get bombarded every day with some total & utter bollox, bullshit messages.

It must be incredibly hard for a guy to write a message that actually grabs attention, without it being seen as fake, or over the top.

They can't win!

"

I've had many messages that grabbed my attention, that had no mention of my physical appearance.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"I'm actually feeling sorry for single guys on here, well some of them at least.

As women, we get bombarded every day with some total & utter bollox, bullshit messages.

It must be incredibly hard for a guy to write a message that actually grabs attention, without it being seen as fake, or over the top.

They can't win!

I've had many messages that grabbed my attention, that had no mention of my physical appearance. "

Me too and most have ended up with a meet or at least friendship if they live too far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i know you and you are bloomin gorgeous - so if they read this they can take my word for it but i get what youre saying - when you get the 'WOW' message and not much else -

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By *wesomeSauce!Man
over a year ago

Brighton


"

So guys - why do you do it? Do you think us ladies on here are that short of genuine compliments in real life that bs like that works?

"

It is basically an impossible situation. Women receive a ridiculous amount of mail, and men have to put in a lot of thought to even get a mail noticed and read.

It's quite hard when some women's profiles give so little information, other than do this / don't do that. What kind of message do you send? I usually just skip over them now, no matter how attractive they seem.

I have to smile after putting in a bit of effort on an initial message, I get a one word reply - positive, maybe, but hard to reply to.

Still, that will happen due to the demographics here - women get swamped with mail and have no option but to ignore, delete or reply quickly.

I'm not sure there is a solution - except maybe cut the guys some slack - it's hard! A compliment is better than a "fancy a ...." message.

Something in the profile that can trigger a conversation is a plus...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe what they are trying to say is that, you have a beautiful body/boobs/bum etc..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"well i know you and you are bloomin gorgeous - so if they read this they can take my word for it but i get what youre saying - when you get the 'WOW' message and not much else - "

And so are you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know they are trying... but it's like saying the car drives nice without ever having driven it ...

So true!"

When someone says i am beautiful without having met me, Let's just say I take it with a very big pinch of salt ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm actually feeling sorry for single guys on here, well some of them at least.

As women, we get bombarded every day with some total & utter bollox, bullshit messages.

It must be incredibly hard for a guy to write a message that actually grabs attention, without it being seen as fake, or over the top.

They can't win!

"

Totally agree with this. I hate writing 1st messages, trying to spark up a conversation with a complete stranger using only the 5 pics and a few short paragraphs of text on a profile can be hard. Plus even without a face pic I like to give honest compliments about certain things without being too graphic, I wouldn't be sending the message in the 1st place if I wasn't in some way attracted to that person. So why not tell them what's caught your eye?

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By *vetteBondTV/TS
over a year ago

English Riviera

I take all the compliments I can get!

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"I know they are trying... but it's like saying the car drives nice without ever having driven it ...

So true!

When someone says i am beautiful without having met me, Let's just say I take it with a very big pinch of salt ... "

Youve got a cracking ass that i wouldnt mind grabbing. Take that with a pinch of salt but its true.

Obviously if i was sending you a message with a view to meeting you I would not just say that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if I'm reading this right guys, skip the compliments and go straight in with the insults as ladies are gonna say no thanks anyway

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"I take all the compliments I can get! "

Me too. Compliments are meant to make you feel good. So feel good. No further action required.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"So if I'm reading this right guys, skip the compliments and go straight in with the insults as ladies are gonna say no thanks anyway "

Haha im sure that happens too!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I think it's the difference between compliment that is said in earnest, or a message that is copied and pasted to as many profiles as possible with nothing personal at all in it except flattery.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I take all the compliments I can get!

Me too. Compliments are meant to make you feel good. So feel good. No further action required."

Or alternatively treat us like human beings. You know normal conversation? Tho I realise for some that is an alien concept.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going back to something I said earlier though I was actually half joking about believing the ones that I liked the look of...but I wonder how many women complain about getting complimentary messages from someone that they find attractive? Not many I bet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I take all the compliments I can get!

Me too. Compliments are meant to make you feel good. So feel good. No further action required.

Or alternatively treat us like human beings. You know normal conversation? Tho I realise for some that is an alien concept."

So complimenting someone is treating someone like they aren't a human being?

I really think this is being blown up to something that is verging on the ridiculous!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your putting pictures up of your incredible body. I'm a red blooded male. Any such male naturally has an urge to stick his cock in you. Can't see your face so he takes a punt. What he sees he finds hot, sexy or indeed beautiful. He tells you this. Whats the bloody problem? Men have been charming women into bed for thousands of years. Fab is just another way of doing it. Poster above hit the nail on the head. You believe the ones you fancy. If mr munter comes over to you in the pub and tells you your hot your likely to tell him to do one. If mr adonis comes over your likely to say fuck me now. Dress it up how you like but fab is same.

I don't have sex with mingers or adonis's that chat me up in clubs... I do however accept drinks made in front if me at the bar... And then I wonder off because how the f believes they own someone just because they bought them a bevy?!!! lol.

Not had a one night stand from clubbing in a gazillion years thankfully, dancing's for clubs imo lol.

Absolutely how it should be lol. Take the drink as a metaphor for a compliment. You got a drink bought you or you had a compliment. No harm done "

There's always harm done when peeps engage with me in clubs lol, grievous full bodily laughing is always had!!!... Some get mortally wounded by it lol

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Going back to something I said earlier though I was actually half joking about believing the ones that I liked the look of...but I wonder how many women complain about getting complimentary messages from someone that they find attractive? Not many I bet. "

Yes i belive it was your post i quoted in my original one. And I totally agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In this thread, positive reinforcement that single guys can't win!

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"I take all the compliments I can get!

Me too. Compliments are meant to make you feel good. So feel good. No further action required.

Or alternatively treat us like human beings. You know normal conversation? Tho I realise for some that is an alien concept."

Complimenting someone is part of normal conversation. If i messaged you and went corr nice tits and nothing else id expect my message to be binned and you to block me. Maybe after telling me to go fuck myself. If i complimented your incredible body as i have done in this thread already but also told you a bit about myself and my likes and asked you about your likes and to tell me a bit about yourself surely thats fine? You could still delete my message and block me as per the rules of fab. Or lets say i dont compliment you on the first message and we get on and chat a lot. Then suddenly say maybe a week down the line i might say btw you have a fantastic body. Would you then end our chats and block me?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Going back to something I said earlier though I was actually half joking about believing the ones that I liked the look of...but I wonder how many women complain about getting complimentary messages from someone that they find attractive? Not many I bet. "

Exactly!

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Your putting pictures up of your incredible body. I'm a red blooded male. Any such male naturally has an urge to stick his cock in you. Can't see your face so he takes a punt. What he sees he finds hot, sexy or indeed beautiful. He tells you this. Whats the bloody problem? Men have been charming women into bed for thousands of years. Fab is just another way of doing it. Poster above hit the nail on the head. You believe the ones you fancy. If mr munter comes over to you in the pub and tells you your hot your likely to tell him to do one. If mr adonis comes over your likely to say fuck me now. Dress it up how you like but fab is same.

I don't have sex with mingers or adonis's that chat me up in clubs... I do however accept drinks made in front if me at the bar... And then I wonder off because how the f believes they own someone just because they bought them a bevy?!!! lol.

Not had a one night stand from clubbing in a gazillion years thankfully, dancing's for clubs imo lol.

Absolutely how it should be lol. Take the drink as a metaphor for a compliment. You got a drink bought you or you had a compliment. No harm done

There's always harm done when peeps engage with me in clubs lol, grievous full bodily laughing is always had!!!... Some get mortally wounded by it lol "

Haha. Im confident that is very accurate! If i am ever your way id love to buy you a bevvy. And no im not trying to get into your knickers!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I take all the compliments I can get!

Me too. Compliments are meant to make you feel good. So feel good. No further action required.

Or alternatively treat us like human beings. You know normal conversation? Tho I realise for some that is an alien concept.

So complimenting someone is treating someone like they aren't a human being?

I really think this is being blown up to something that is verging on the ridiculous! "

Normal communication. You know like you would with someone you arent treating as a vagina on legs. I dont think that's ridiculous and it's those messages that get my attention.

I think there has been some good responses on here. Which was the whole point of my OP.

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By *ntnCleoCouple
over a year ago

Dortmund (Germany) might travel!


"We have a few like that saying "your a great looking couple, when are you free" usuallybfrom single guys who have just joined with a cock pic taken over a toilet

I wonder which one of us they are interested in lol "

The cock pic over a toilet is always funny! I just wonder what the thought process is there - hey my cock is looking pretty awesome today I'll just take a snap!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello OP...

Perhaos they are being either superficial or cynical or cut and paste because the guys are bored by the cliches knocked out on female profiles... you know the sort of thing...

No face pic no reply...

Dick pic = delete..

I need my brain engaged before anyone gets near me...

But I turn up in clubs for milf monday

Btw I'm looking for a 5 way bi girls plus guy meet..

If your not tall bald tattooed ripped etc then fuck off I'm not interested..

Yeah i paraphrased some... but if guys keep reading stuff like that are you at all surprised at the response it generates.

Cliche beats cliche...

You treat a guy like a price of meat don't complain when we do the same...

And if you dislike the guys so much on here then there is another option..

Then the guys won't bother reading clickbait look at me complaints like yours..

Wanders back to the man cave sits quietly on rick and waits for the howls of outrage...

No you are entitled to your opinion. As am I. Those are MY conditions. My wants. My profile and certainly my way of playing and if arseholes message me who haven't read it then that's their issue not mine. No need for them to spit their metaphoric dummy out. Done me ok for the last 4 years.

Like everyone here it's your profile to do with as you please and I will defend yours or anyone's right to live their fab life the way that works for them. I have been put on the naughty step in the past for doing so but would still do it again.

As you can see I clearly did read your profile and have not spat out any metaphoric dummy... interesting concept that...

I merely pointed out the absurdity of complaining about guys responding your profile simply because their response may not meet your expectations of how they should respond...

Instead of a whiny look at me thread complaining about guys saying your beautiful without seeing your face or the interminable cut and paste whine perhaps it's simple if you don't like the txt you receive change your filters delete guys don't read them etc...

Instead of doing any of that you simply copied what so many guys do and put up a clickbait look at me thread...go figure..

If a guy had posted a similar thread on here he would get lynched we have all seen it happen...

Enjoy your fab life but plesse tone down the hypocracy...

Off back to the man cave to Watch the waves go by....

Oh dear seems like I have hit a nerve. The dummy remark was referring to those who message me complaining after not reading my profile. Dont think I have ever received a message off you, so sorry if you think I singled you out. What my OP is asking is why they do it? As in what is their reasoning behind it and other ladies responses to it.

Now why exactly my profile needed to be critiqued (yep your right it is against forum rules but I'll let that go to make a point) Even profiles with nothing on them, no text,no pictures get the same messages. So back to the OP ' why do they do it?

As for whiney look at me thread ffs get real!! My filters are on to the max and I know where the block and delete buttons are.

"

It's true I have never messaged you or even seem your profile before today...as a fellow Manc I apologise for my shortsightedness.

I felt in no way singled out.

However that was not my point and referencing your profile which is there for all to see or maybe even read and looking at many of the subsequent posts here... it does seem that a number agree with my comments.

You either put yourself out there and accept what comes with it or you don't and maybe don't get the meets you want.

But if you do then just accept that compliments or any other txts are a response to what you show of yourself.

To then complain it's not the right response does suggest something rather egocentric.

Apologies if that offends but your post started matters and if you post what appears to be blatant clickbait then others will feed.

As others have pointed out if the compliment comes from someone you perceive to be suitable I am sure you would not complain at all!

Just like Alice I can believe 6 impossible things before breakfast...

But to play this game you have been here long enough to know the rules....and if you don't like compliments from mingers as another poster puts it just delete and move on. Otherwise posting threads like this is akin to guys posting why can't I get a meet isn't this instashag... which they do on a daily basis.

Perhaps beauty remains in the eye of the beholder...but I do know for sure it's more than skin deep..

Off back to the man cave...i need to evolve opposable thumbs to improve my typing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe because you describe yourself as sexy on your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm actually feeling sorry for single guys on here, well some of them at least.

As women, we get bombarded every day with some total & utter bollox, bullshit messages.

It must be incredibly hard for a guy to write a message that actually grabs attention, without it being seen as fake, or over the top.

They can't win!

"

Exactly that!

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"You have a beautiful body if that helps any?!!.. Lol what I can see of your profile pic is h o t!!... I'd say for some men that's just as good as a pretty face pic lol

See that's what I just dont get. Yeh I know I have a good body (hours at the gym tell me that) but I may have a face like a well slapped arse for all they know.

A lot of men don't just go for a pretty face, it's the whole package... A lot of them are pervs/have photographic memories... If they don't like your face they'll flip you over and look at your bum, or focus on your gorgeously toned tummy, your boobs or your lush lips... Lol.

These past few years I've been the biggest weight wise of my life.. And I've probably been the horniest (might have something to do with my age I dunno)

Despite that I have had interest from men whenever I've put myself "out there" even when I thought I wouldn't get any takers due to being weightier than I'd like and also being more self conscious than I'd like... I've come to the conclusion there's a lot of very unfussy men who just love curves, horny women who are sexually proactive and they particularly lovr women who have stamina lol.

I think woman can be a heck of a lot more critical sexually than most men are... Obv there's always exceptions to the rule and body fascists who are turned off by physical "imperfections""

Why do you think men who like curvy women are not fussy? Not all guys are after slim/skinny types, and dare I suggest that some guys even prefer a decent personality first and foremost?

Regardless of how a woman feels about her own weight/body shape, there will always be someone who appreciates it, whether they be male or female.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hello OP...

Perhaos they are being either superficial or cynical or cut and paste because the guys are bored by the cliches knocked out on female profiles... you know the sort of thing...

No face pic no reply...

Dick pic = delete..

I need my brain engaged before anyone gets near me...

But I turn up in clubs for milf monday

Btw I'm looking for a 5 way bi girls plus guy meet..

If your not tall bald tattooed ripped etc then fuck off I'm not interested..

Yeah i paraphrased some... but if guys keep reading stuff like that are you at all surprised at the response it generates.

Cliche beats cliche...

You treat a guy like a price of meat don't complain when we do the same...

And if you dislike the guys so much on here then there is another option..

Then the guys won't bother reading clickbait look at me complaints like yours..

Wanders back to the man cave sits quietly on rick and waits for the howls of outrage...

No you are entitled to your opinion. As am I. Those are MY conditions. My wants. My profile and certainly my way of playing and if arseholes message me who haven't read it then that's their issue not mine. No need for them to spit their metaphoric dummy out. Done me ok for the last 4 years.

Like everyone here it's your profile to do with as you please and I will defend yours or anyone's right to live their fab life the way that works for them. I have been put on the naughty step in the past for doing so but would still do it again.

As you can see I clearly did read your profile and have not spat out any metaphoric dummy... interesting concept that...

I merely pointed out the absurdity of complaining about guys responding your profile simply because their response may not meet your expectations of how they should respond...

Instead of a whiny look at me thread complaining about guys saying your beautiful without seeing your face or the interminable cut and paste whine perhaps it's simple if you don't like the txt you receive change your filters delete guys don't read them etc...

Instead of doing any of that you simply copied what so many guys do and put up a clickbait look at me thread...go figure..

If a guy had posted a similar thread on here he would get lynched we have all seen it happen...

Enjoy your fab life but plesse tone down the hypocracy...

Off back to the man cave to Watch the waves go by....

Oh dear seems like I have hit a nerve. The dummy remark was referring to those who message me complaining after not reading my profile. Dont think I have ever received a message off you, so sorry if you think I singled you out. What my OP is asking is why they do it? As in what is their reasoning behind it and other ladies responses to it.

Now why exactly my profile needed to be critiqued (yep your right it is against forum rules but I'll let that go to make a point) Even profiles with nothing on them, no text,no pictures get the same messages. So back to the OP ' why do they do it?

As for whiney look at me thread ffs get real!! My filters are on to the max and I know where the block and delete buttons are.

It's true I have never messaged you or even seem your profile before today...as a fellow Manc I apologise for my shortsightedness.

I felt in no way singled out.

However that was not my point and referencing your profile which is there for all to see or maybe even read and looking at many of the subsequent posts here... it does seem that a number agree with my comments.

You either put yourself out there and accept what comes with it or you don't and maybe don't get the meets you want.

But if you do then just accept that compliments or any other txts are a response to what you show of yourself.

To then complain it's not the right response does suggest something rather egocentric.

Apologies if that offends but your post started matters and if you post what appears to be blatant clickbait then others will feed.

As others have pointed out if the compliment comes from someone you perceive to be suitable I am sure you would not complain at all!

Just like Alice I can believe 6 impossible things before breakfast...

But to play this game you have been here long enough to know the rules....and if you don't like compliments from mingers as another poster puts it just delete and move on. Otherwise posting threads like this is akin to guys posting why can't I get a meet isn't this instashag... which they do on a daily basis.

Perhaps beauty remains in the eye of the beholder...but I do know for sure it's more than skin deep..

Off back to the man cave...i need to evolve opposable thumbs to improve my typing.

"

The forums are a place for discussion. I asked a valid question. One which I was interested to know peoples point of view. Now my profile is irrelevent, and saying you have supporters agree with you smacks of mob mentality. So you do not need to mention my profile again. I could have a profile full of pictures with a market stall growing out of my foof. It's totally irrelevant as men message people with no pics.

If you dont like the topic or feel my question is not valid then feel free to bypass my thread.

So, again back to the original question ......

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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OP, ignore the references to your profile - you didn't ask for profile advice or anything similar. Everyone is entitled to a moan about fab now and again.

As far as the actual OP goes, yes, I've rolled my eyes previously on occasion and have done so regardless of how attractive I've found the person complimenting me.

I think it's just part and parcel of the fab experience so I've grown accustomed to it. I don't write off all messages like that as insincere or ego boosting but an attempt at breaking the ice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know they are trying... but it's like saying the car drives nice without ever having driven it ...

So true!

When someone says i am beautiful without having met me, Let's just say I take it with a very big pinch of salt ... "

- Mrs. J -

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire


"Ok so is it only me that does a when they receive 'you're beautiful/gorgeous' messages? How can they they possibley know that - nooooo face pics.

So guys - why do you do it? Do you think us ladies on here are that short of genuine compliments in real life that bs like that works?

And ladies - how does it make you feel - flattered? Boost your ego? Or are you like me and see it as patronising BS from a stranger trying to (unsuccessfully) get into your knickers."

Well to be fair about this what I see in your photos is very appealing.

Crass one liners are a bit lame i agree (i get them myself) but guys are trying to start conversations with woman that they do not know so have to start somwhere after all.

Perhaps people should be judged on their second message more than thier first.

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By *eadonistCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Ashton under Lyne


"We have a few like that saying "your a great looking couple, when are you free" usuallybfrom single guys who have just joined with a cock pic taken over a toilet

I wonder which one of us they are interested in lol "

Awwww the classic cock n toilet pic.. It's like Fabs version of the duck pout selfie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its nice to give compliments but they need to be specific, my flaw on here is I struggle to make something out of nothing so if theres not a big profile write up and interesting pictures I struggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one tells me I'm beautiful

I never compliment them on their pics unless something really catches my eye and then I'm specific.

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"We have a few like that saying "your a great looking couple, when are you free" usuallybfrom single guys who have just joined with a cock pic taken over a toilet

I wonder which one of us they are interested in lol

Awwww the classic cock n toilet pic.. It's like Fabs version of the duck pout selfie"

In fairness Fab has it's fair share of duck pout selfies too!

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire


"Its nice to give compliments but they need to be specific, my flaw on here is I struggle to make something out of nothing so if theres not a big profile write up and interesting pictures I struggle"

you can only do your best Brother.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok so is it only me that does a when they receive 'you're beautiful/gorgeous' messages? How can they they possibley know that - nooooo face pics.

So guys - why do you do it? Do you think us ladies on here are that short of genuine compliments in real life that bs like that works?

And ladies - how does it make you feel - flattered? Boost your ego? Or are you like me and see it as patronising BS from a stranger trying to (unsuccessfully) get into your knickers.

Well to be fair about this what I see in your photos is very appealing.

Crass one liners are a bit lame i agree (i get them myself) but guys are trying to start conversations with woman that they do not know so have to start somwhere after all.

Perhaps people should be judged on their second message more than thier first."

This exactly! If the first message isnt abusive/sucky the second message is an opportunity for some men to shine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you can be beautiful in many different ways...face, body, personality, attitude, demeanour..if I was to send a message like that, and I do very occasionally, it's more of a compliment on the profile itself....the photos regardless of no faces, and also the way it's worded ( I even read them lol lol ) attraction is more than just a face for me...??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP, ignore the references to your profile - you didn't ask for profile advice or anything similar. Everyone is entitled to a moan about fab now and again.

As far as the actual OP goes, yes, I've rolled my eyes previously on occasion and have done so regardless of how attractive I've found the person complimenting me.

I think it's just part and parcel of the fab experience so I've grown accustomed to it. I don't write off all messages like that as insincere or ego boosting but an attempt at breaking the ice."

Thank you. I am genuinely interested why some do it tho and others reactions to it. Oh I can block and delete for England.

Another interest is what people hear about this site that draws them here.Did that well known search engine that rhymes with moogle bring them here or word of mouth? Maybe save that for another day tho.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think you can be beautiful in many different ways...face, body, personality, attitude, demeanour..if I was to send a message like that, and I do very occasionally, it's more of a compliment on the profile itself....the photos regardless of no faces, and also the way it's worded ( I even read them lol lol ) attraction is more than just a face for me...??"

And that is fine. If it's specific - like I really love your left elbow. But the whole genetic 'beautiful' thing is still just to me. (My right elbow is waayy hotter tho)

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"Ok so is it only me that does a when they receive 'you're beautiful/gorgeous' messages? How can they they possibley know that - nooooo face pics.

So guys - why do you do it? Do you think us ladies on here are that short of genuine compliments in real life that bs like that works?

And ladies - how does it make you feel - flattered? Boost your ego? Or are you like me and see it as patronising BS from a stranger trying to (unsuccessfully) get into your knickers."

You are actually beautiful though. Stood out at Xstasia that night, that's for sure

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By *ex mad ladMan
over a year ago

Sussex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok so is it only me that does a when they receive 'you're beautiful/gorgeous' messages? How can they they possibley know that - nooooo face pics.

So guys - why do you do it? Do you think us ladies on here are that short of genuine compliments in real life that bs like that works?

And ladies - how does it make you feel - flattered? Boost your ego? Or are you like me and see it as patronising BS from a stranger trying to (unsuccessfully) get into your knickers.

Alrite we will fucking say your ugly instead....stop complaining about fuck all....don't be on this site if your not prepared for guys wanting to fuck you "

Oh dear! Did that make you feel all big and macho?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok so is it only me that does a when they receive 'you're beautiful/gorgeous' messages? How can they they possibley know that - nooooo face pics.

So guys - why do you do it? Do you think us ladies on here are that short of genuine compliments in real life that bs like that works?

And ladies - how does it make you feel - flattered? Boost your ego? Or are you like me and see it as patronising BS from a stranger trying to (unsuccessfully) get into your knickers.

You are actually beautiful though. Stood out at Xstasia that night, that's for sure "

Yes we have unfinished business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it is a load of tosh to be honest. A copy and paste sent out to hundreds, with just the name added. Cynical? Yep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just remember this is Fab .. no more no less... all I am saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so is it only me that does a when they receive 'you're beautiful/gorgeous' messages? How can they they possibley know that - nooooo face pics.

So guys - why do you do it? Do you think us ladies on here are that short of genuine compliments in real life that bs like that works?

And ladies - how does it make you feel - flattered? Boost your ego? Or are you like me and see it as patronising BS from a stranger trying to (unsuccessfully) get into your knickers.

Alrite we will fucking say your ugly instead....stop complaining about fuck all....don't be on this site if your not prepared for guys wanting to fuck you

Oh dear! Did that make you feel all big and macho?"

Love it when deleted stuff can still be read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one tells me I'm beautiful

I never compliment them on their pics unless something really catches my eye and then I'm specific. "

You're a very beautiful looking man!... Now you say a woman has told you so!.

You seem way older than 24 to me!

I call everyone beautiful tho lol, as I think people are in innumerable ways... I much prefer a beautiful personality than a beautiful facade, tho obv if peeps have both the view gets even beautifuller lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok so is it only me that does a when they receive 'you're beautiful/gorgeous' messages? How can they they possibley know that - nooooo face pics.

So guys - why do you do it? Do you think us ladies on here are that short of genuine compliments in real life that bs like that works?

And ladies - how does it make you feel - flattered? Boost your ego? Or are you like me and see it as patronising BS from a stranger trying to (unsuccessfully) get into your knickers.

Alrite we will fucking say your ugly instead....stop complaining about fuck all....don't be on this site if your not prepared for guys wanting to fuck you

Oh dear! Did that make you feel all big and macho?

Love it when deleted stuff can still be read.

"

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say I've been guilty of this in the past. For me it been was in some cases lack of emotional intelligence, experience, confidence and if I'm completely honest with myself desperation.

It is very difficult as a single guy on here and I think in some cases these messages are just very missguided, maybe they believe they have to be a certain way to get a response/attention.....maybe they can't think of anything to say and panic. I'm sure it is said for many different reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello OP...

Perhaos they are being either superficial or cynical or cut and paste because the guys are bored by the cliches knocked out on female profiles... you know the sort of thing...

No face pic no reply...

Dick pic = delete..

I need my brain engaged before anyone gets near me...

But I turn up in clubs for milf monday

Btw I'm looking for a 5 way bi girls plus guy meet..

If your not tall bald tattooed ripped etc then fuck off I'm not interested..

Yeah i paraphrased some... but if guys keep reading stuff like that are you at all surprised at the response it generates.

Cliche beats cliche...

You treat a guy like a price of meat don't complain when we do the same...

And if you dislike the guys so much on here then there is another option..

Then the guys won't bother reading clickbait look at me complaints like yours..

Wanders back to the man cave sits quietly on rick and waits for the howls of outrage...

No you are entitled to your opinion. As am I. Those are MY conditions. My wants. My profile and certainly my way of playing and if arseholes message me who haven't read it then that's their issue not mine. No need for them to spit their metaphoric dummy out. Done me ok for the last 4 years.

Like everyone here it's your profile to do with as you please and I will defend yours or anyone's right to live their fab life the way that works for them. I have been put on the naughty step in the past for doing so but would still do it again.

As you can see I clearly did read your profile and have not spat out any metaphoric dummy... interesting concept that...

I merely pointed out the absurdity of complaining about guys responding your profile simply because their response may not meet your expectations of how they should respond...

Instead of a whiny look at me thread complaining about guys saying your beautiful without seeing your face or the interminable cut and paste whine perhaps it's simple if you don't like the txt you receive change your filters delete guys don't read them etc...

Instead of doing any of that you simply copied what so many guys do and put up a clickbait look at me thread...go figure..

If a guy had posted a similar thread on here he would get lynched we have all seen it happen...

Enjoy your fab life but plesse tone down the hypocracy...

Off back to the man cave to Watch the waves go by....

Oh dear seems like I have hit a nerve. The dummy remark was referring to those who message me complaining after not reading my profile. Dont think I have ever received a message off you, so sorry if you think I singled you out. What my OP is asking is why they do it? As in what is their reasoning behind it and other ladies responses to it.

Now why exactly my profile needed to be critiqued (yep your right it is against forum rules but I'll let that go to make a point) Even profiles with nothing on them, no text,no pictures get the same messages. So back to the OP ' why do they do it?

As for whiney look at me thread ffs get real!! My filters are on to the max and I know where the block and delete buttons are.

It's true I have never messaged you or even seem your profile before today...as a fellow Manc I apologise for my shortsightedness.

I felt in no way singled out.

However that was not my point and referencing your profile which is there for all to see or maybe even read and looking at many of the subsequent posts here... it does seem that a number agree with my comments.

You either put yourself out there and accept what comes with it or you don't and maybe don't get the meets you want.

But if you do then just accept that compliments or any other txts are a response to what you show of yourself.

To then complain it's not the right response does suggest something rather egocentric.

Apologies if that offends but your post started matters and if you post what appears to be blatant clickbait then others will feed.

As others have pointed out if the compliment comes from someone you perceive to be suitable I am sure you would not complain at all!

Just like Alice I can believe 6 impossible things before breakfast...

But to play this game you have been here long enough to know the rules....and if you don't like compliments from mingers as another poster puts it just delete and move on. Otherwise posting threads like this is akin to guys posting why can't I get a meet isn't this instashag... which they do on a daily basis.

Perhaps beauty remains in the eye of the beholder...but I do know for sure it's more than skin deep..

Off back to the man cave...i need to evolve opposable thumbs to improve my typing.

The forums are a place for discussion. I asked a valid question. One which I was interested to know peoples point of view. Now my profile is irrelevent, and saying you have supporters agree with you smacks of mob mentality. So you do not need to mention my profile again. I could have a profile full of pictures with a market stall growing out of my foof. It's totally irrelevant as men message people with no pics.

If you dont like the topic or feel my question is not valid then feel free to bypass my thread.

So, again back to the original question ...... "

Methinks the lady doth protest too much....

If the response to her thread does not meet her own prejudices...

Anyone who knows me here knows I am anti mob mentality and have no time for the bullying and abuse generated often in the forums.

Just like you I have the same rights to post on any thread in any way I choose...

Your suggestion that I move on because I dare to question your comments says much about your attitude to others... but presumably only those who dare to disagree with you...

Or perhaps you believe this site is purely for your own gratification and that the opinions of those who disagree with you have no place here...or anywhere.

You do of course have the same choice you offered me...

If you don't like what I say... don't read it...dont respond to it ...just move on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one tells me I'm beautiful

I never compliment them on their pics unless something really catches my eye and then I'm specific.

You're a very beautiful looking man!... Now you say a woman has told you so!.

You seem way older than 24 to me!

I call everyone beautiful tho lol, as I think people are in innumerable ways... I much prefer a beautiful personality than a beautiful facade, tho obv if peeps have both the view gets even beautifuller lol"

Yay. Thank you. I've been told I have an old head on my shoulders, whatever that's good for.

That may be true but you can only usually pull very little about someone's personality from their profile unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so is it only me that does a when they receive 'you're beautiful/gorgeous' messages? How can they they possibley know that - nooooo face pics.

So guys - why do you do it? Do you think us ladies on here are that short of genuine compliments in real life that bs like that works?

And ladies - how does it make you feel - flattered? Boost your ego? Or are you like me and see it as patronising BS from a stranger trying to (unsuccessfully) get into your knickers."

In your case I'd say they mean your pics are gorgeous. Face is irrelevant on that case.

When they say it to me when I only have boots or a shoe as a pic I know it's just BS and it annoys me.

But hey after quickly reading a bit of this thread I realised that as a woman I should be grateful of whatever compliments I get. I'm just a wet hole and if the menfolk are going out of their way to compliment me, I should let them fuck me and stop being a whiney bitch.

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By *dores blackmenWoman
over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)

I've been here over 5years and like to think I keep it real

I don't think of it as b.s./or an ego boost

It's just woman and men complimenting me to try to arrange meets,simple as that,there not going to message and say oi ugly can we meet up

I just don't let compliments go to my head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one tells me I'm beautiful

I never compliment them on their pics unless something really catches my eye and then I'm specific.

You're a very beautiful looking man!... Now you say a woman has told you so!.

You seem way older than 24 to me!

I call everyone beautiful tho lol, as I think people are in innumerable ways... I much prefer a beautiful personality than a beautiful facade, tho obv if peeps have both the view gets even beautifuller lol

Yay. Thank you. I've been told I have an old head on my shoulders, whatever that's good for.

That may be true but you can only usually pull very little about someone's personality from their profile unfortunately.

"

Your personality seems very funk able to me lovely lol, lovely body too and I like your swag... S'very sexy.

I do have soft spots for younger than me peeps tho, and older than me peeps, and for sexy peeps, shy peeps, annoying peeps too as long as they're great shags lol x

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"No one tells me I'm beautiful

I never compliment them on their pics unless something really catches my eye and then I'm specific. "

Youve got a great body and a cracking arse. Im straight as opposed to fab straight. I have no interest in getting in your pants or sucking on your chap. But there have some props from a bro.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"

I do have soft spots for younger than me peeps tho, and older than me peeps, and for sexy peeps, shy peeps, annoying peeps too as long as they're great shags lol x"

What about Samuel? Do you ha è a soft spot for that Peeps?

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Ok so is it only me that does a when they receive 'you're beautiful/gorgeous' messages? How can they they possibley know that - nooooo face pics.

So guys - why do you do it? Do you think us ladies on here are that short of genuine compliments in real life that bs like that works?

And ladies - how does it make you feel - flattered? Boost your ego? Or are you like me and see it as patronising BS from a stranger trying to (unsuccessfully) get into your knickers.

In your case I'd say they mean your pics are gorgeous. Face is irrelevant on that case.

When they say it to me when I only have boots or a shoe as a pic I know it's just BS and it annoys me.

But hey after quickly reading a bit of this thread I realised that as a woman I should be grateful of whatever compliments I get. I'm just a wet hole and if the menfolk are going out of their way to compliment me, I should let them fuck me and stop being a whiney bitch. "

Yeah too right woman

Disclaimer - im joking!

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"I've been here over 5years and like to think I keep it real

I don't think of it as b.s./or an ego boost

It's just woman and men complimenting me to try to arrange meets,simple as that,there not going to message and say oi ugly can we meet up

I just don't let compliments go to my head "

Absolutely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take everything anyone says to me on here with a very large pinch of salt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I do have soft spots for younger than me peeps tho, and older than me peeps, and for sexy peeps, shy peeps, annoying peeps too as long as they're great shags lol x

What about Samuel? Do you ha è a soft spot for that Peeps? "

Lol come again??? Who's Samuel, he sounds biblical and like I ought to know who he is?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so is it only me that does a when they receive 'you're beautiful/gorgeous' messages? How can they they possibley know that - nooooo face pics.

So guys - why do you do it? Do you think us ladies on here are that short of genuine compliments in real life that bs like that works?

And ladies - how does it make you feel - flattered? Boost your ego? Or are you like me and see it as patronising BS from a stranger trying to (unsuccessfully) get into your knickers."

Same here I think - how the F do you know.

It's lovely that these men are being nice but don't patronise and think yr sweet words will make my knickers fall off. Defo eye rolling!!

Great topic!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one tells me I'm beautiful

I never compliment them on their pics unless something really catches my eye and then I'm specific.

You're a very beautiful looking man!... Now you say a woman has told you so!.

You seem way older than 24 to me!

I call everyone beautiful tho lol, as I think people are in innumerable ways... I much prefer a beautiful personality than a beautiful facade, tho obv if peeps have both the view gets even beautifuller lol

Yay. Thank you. I've been told I have an old head on my shoulders, whatever that's good for.

That may be true but you can only usually pull very little about someone's personality from their profile unfortunately.

Your personality seems very funk able to me lovely lol, lovely body too and I like your swag... S'very sexy.

I do have soft spots for younger than me peeps tho, and older than me peeps, and for sexy peeps, shy peeps, annoying peeps too as long as they're great shags lol x"

We need more people like you on here.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"

I do have soft spots for younger than me peeps tho, and older than me peeps, and for sexy peeps, shy peeps, annoying peeps too as long as they're great shags lol x

What about Samuel? Do you ha è a soft spot for that Peeps?

Lol come again??? Who's Samuel, he sounds biblical and like I ought to know who he is?!! "

Well it is spelt Pepys but sounds the same.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Samuel_Pepys

Historical figure so no real need to know who he is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I do have soft spots for younger than me peeps tho, and older than me peeps, and for sexy peeps, shy peeps, annoying peeps too as long as they're great shags lol x

What about Samuel? Do you ha è a soft spot for that Peeps?

Lol come again??? Who's Samuel, he sounds biblical and like I ought to know who he is?!!

Well it is spelt Pepys but sounds the same.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Samuel_Pepys

Historical figure so no real need to know who he is. "

Well apparently he's a Tory...

So unless he has awesome shaggable qualities to him I'm kinda sure we possibly would not have any soft spots for each other lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so is it only me that does a when they receive 'you're beautiful/gorgeous' messages? How can they they possibley know that - nooooo face pics.

So guys - why do you do it? Do you think us ladies on here are that short of genuine compliments in real life that bs like that works?

And ladies - how does it make you feel - flattered? Boost your ego? Or are you like me and see it as patronising BS from a stranger trying to (unsuccessfully) get into your knickers."

The bits you have on show are beautiful.XXX

If a bloke says it to me I don't take much notice XXX

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"

And ladies - how does it make you feel - flattered? Boost your ego? Or are you like me and see it as patronising BS from a stranger trying to (unsuccessfully) get into your knickers."

To answer your original post.

I am, and I think most women are very perceptive. We have an instinct, women's intuition as it's known.

I could read exactly the same worded message from 2 different people, and each would get a different reaction from me.

I'd be taking into account their profile, pics, bio, preferences, and without fail, their veris, including the writer of it.

It takes me less than a minute to decide which way my thoughts go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so is it only me that does a when they receive 'you're beautiful/gorgeous' messages? How can they they possibley know that - nooooo face pics.

So guys - why do you do it?"

I don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take it as an attempt to break the ice.

Nothing more, or less.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I get those messages to OP, whilst I don't find it patronising it does make me have an eye rolly moment!!

I'm not naive enough to believe everything I'm told on here

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"

And ladies - how does it make you feel - flattered? Boost your ego? Or are you like me and see it as patronising BS from a stranger trying to (unsuccessfully) get into your knickers.

To answer your original post.

I am, and I think most women are very perceptive. We have an instinct, women's intuition as it's known.

I could read exactly the same worded message from 2 different people, and each would get a different reaction from me.

I'd be taking into account their profile, pics, bio, preferences, and without fail, their veris, including the writer of it.

It takes me less than a minute to decide which way my thoughts go.

"

Bingo

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"

Yes we have unfinished business"

Now that is good to know.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I DO have face pics - so it's fairly obvious that I'm neither stunning, gorgeous, nor 'the hottest woman on fab'!

I think it's just something some men feel they have to say in order to get a free pass to your fanny!

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

There are 3 options to consider when I receive such a message. 1 - I may have been wrong about my belief that psychics don't really exist because I am gorgeous and they sensed it without seeing my face, 2 - they've made a lucky guess or 3 - it's a rubbish attempt at flattery. I think the third option is the most logical -

and it doesn't work. I'd rather chat to someone who doesn't tell me I'm beautiful willy nilly since I like the surprise and delight when they find out a few messages and a face pic in or in person that I actually am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so is it only me that does a when they receive 'you're beautiful/gorgeous' messages? How can they they possibley know that - nooooo face pics.

So guys - why do you do it? Do you think us ladies on here are that short of genuine compliments in real life that bs like that works?

And ladies - how does it make you feel - flattered? Boost your ego? Or are you like me and see it as patronising BS from a stranger trying to (unsuccessfully) get into your knickers.

In your case I'd say they mean your pics are gorgeous. Face is irrelevant on that case.

When they say it to me when I only have boots or a shoe as a pic I know it's just BS and it annoys me.

But hey after quickly reading a bit of this thread I realised that as a woman I should be grateful of whatever compliments I get. I'm just a wet hole and if the menfolk are going out of their way to compliment me, I should let them fuck me and stop being a whiney bitch.

Yeah too right woman

Disclaimer - im joking!"

Ah crap thought I'd pulled!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I think it's just something some men feel they have to say in order to get a free pass to your fanny! "

I thought it was chocolate

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire


"No one tells me I'm beautiful

I never compliment them on their pics unless something really catches my eye and then I'm specific.

You're a very beautiful looking man!... Now you say a woman has told you so!.

You seem way older than 24 to me!

I call everyone beautiful tho lol, as I think people are in innumerable ways... I much prefer a beautiful personality than a beautiful facade, tho obv if peeps have both the view gets even beautifuller lol"

Now the above gesture is the act of an atractive heart. Concern for the feelings of others. Nice one and you look very interesting as well. Both actually.

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire


"Ok so is it only me that does a when they receive 'you're beautiful/gorgeous' messages? How can they they possibley know that - nooooo face pics.

So guys - why do you do it? Do you think us ladies on here are that short of genuine compliments in real life that bs like that works?

And ladies - how does it make you feel - flattered? Boost your ego? Or are you like me and see it as patronising BS from a stranger trying to (unsuccessfully) get into your knickers.

The bits you have on show are beautiful.XXX

If a bloke says it to me I don't take much notice XXX"

Love the blue skirt and handcuffs look you do boss that well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I flatter those I think are gorgeous. I will have seen their face and know a little bit about them to make a statement like that.

There are very attractive people here, no doubt about it in my mind. And if I like them, I like to tell them. Hopefully I'd get their attention a little bit more.

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire


"I DO have face pics - so it's fairly obvious that I'm neither stunning, gorgeous, nor 'the hottest woman on fab'!

I think it's just something some men feel they have to say in order to get a free pass to your fanny! "

Ok well not being vain is rather attractive to me,there are plenty of those types about and to me soooo boring.

Beauty is,as the wise man said, in the eye of the beholder. To me your face and body is rather attractive. As many fabs of your photos by me over the months should show.

Now I get a glimps of your personality. Not a bad start.

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples


"Ok so is it only me that does a when they receive 'you're beautiful/gorgeous' messages? How can they they possibley know that - nooooo face pics.

So guys - why do you do it? Do you think us ladies on here are that short of genuine compliments in real life that bs like that works?

And ladies - how does it make you feel - flattered? Boost your ego? Or are you like me and see it as patronising BS from a stranger trying to (unsuccessfully) get into your knickers."

I take everything on here with a pinch of salt, even if they've seen a face pic, doesn't mean anything as photos only ever give an impression of what someone is like.

Huge part of why i do socials before anything, as mutual attraction is very important for me and it's hard to fake in person

I do think more men are attracted by body parts than just one thing, like a face, where as women seem to be more attracted to faces more than just a body part.

The moment anyone starts to take all that's said in here seriously is time for them to back away from the screen

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry


"Oh I get it all the time! More often that not spelt incorrectly... "

Should be "than not"

Just saying like!

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

I often spell things wrong. I am dyslexic not stupid.

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