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By *reman6976 OP   Man
over a year ago

Deeping St James

Hi all,

I was just thinking about this recently.

Just a brain fart...

What are your thoughts on sharing sex toys with different partners?

Obviously cleaning them between is a given but...

Do you not mind? Often bring them out? Or just use them on the one person they were intended for?

M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are very careful with sharing toys. It can spread things quite quickly I feel you don't pay attention to where it's been etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are different materials they are made from. Some can be safely sanitised and are body safe.

So with the correct type, good hygiene, and a fresh condom covering it; there is no problem having a couple of toys to help you rock your playmate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no i would not share anyones sex toys and get quite a few messages from single guys who seem to collect sex toys in hope to get a meet with a woman ..i cant be the only one who thinks thats creepy ??

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By *aelawMan
over a year ago

Paisley

Definitely a no no with any sex toys for me anyway. I know there are specialist cleaning liquids and solutions as I use those on my canes when they have been used but with penitrative toys I would be very reluctant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For girly play I share toys if not it gets a little boring. I sheath my toys and use buzz fresh to clean them well.

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By *reman6976 OP   Man
over a year ago

Deeping St James


"no i would not share anyones sex toys and get quite a few messages from single guys who seem to collect sex toys in hope to get a meet with a woman ..i cant be the only one who thinks thats creepy ??"

It was after seeing a guys photo with him smiling broadly next to an array of toys that made me post, I had also had moments when I thought I'd just like to get mine out to further the fun but decided against it.

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By *reman6976 OP   Man
over a year ago

Deeping St James


"For girly play I share toys if not it gets a little boring. I sheath my toys and use buzz fresh to clean them well. "

Buzz fresh? Thanks for that. I did obviously think about condoms on the toys

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By *reman6976 OP   Man
over a year ago

Deeping St James


"Definitely a no no with any sex toys for me anyway. I know there are specialist cleaning liquids and solutions as I use those on my canes when they have been used but with penitrative toys I would be very reluctant "

Thank you for commenting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For girly play I share toys if not it gets a little boring. I sheath my toys and use buzz fresh to clean them well.

Buzz fresh? Thanks for that. I did obviously think about condoms on the toys"

Yeah it's a cleaner you can buy. Mines a foam variety. My strap on and double ender would be pretty useless if I couldn't share them

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By *reman6976 OP   Man
over a year ago

Deeping St James


"For girly play I share toys if not it gets a little boring. I sheath my toys and use buzz fresh to clean them well.

Buzz fresh? Thanks for that. I did obviously think about condoms on the toys

Yeah it's a cleaner you can buy. Mines a foam variety. My strap on and double ender would be pretty useless if I couldn't share them "

I hadn't heard of it, cheers.

Haha, so true. Erm, strap on you say?...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pop a Jonny on them then discard after use.

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By *reman6976 OP   Man
over a year ago

Deeping St James


"Pop a Jonny on them then discard after use."

Just discard the jonny?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd only share toys using them with a condom on. In honesty though I'd rather not share at all, it's not a thought I'm keen in which I know is ridiculous bearing in mind what else we're likely to be up to.

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By *aughyapantsoffMan
over a year ago

Thurrock

With my ex only used with a condom, safe use only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a total hypocrite...apart from one exception who is an extremely good friend, I would never allow anyone to use their toys on me ever but have been known to use mine on others including my strap on because I know they've been adequately cleaned, have condoms on them that have been put on with clean hands and are safe.

Anyone who uses their bag of toys which are all tumbled together in a bag, as a selling point to meet them, is avoided and I was horrified to see an array of grim looking toys lined up on a shelf in a club once...*shudder*...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a previous life I used to drive working girls to their appointments at night to earn extra money, I dropped 2 girls off at an Indian restaurant in the middle of nowhere and as usual waited for them, when they came out they told me the booking was for 2 waiters who worked there, problem was they only had 1 condom which the guys proposed sharing !! It wasn't a long appointment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not something that we have done or thought about doing to be honest. This made us think about it and it is a definite no here...just seems wrong...not sure why lol but it is!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pop a Jonny on them then discard after use.

Just discard the jonny? "

Unless you're a Gansta Rapper then obviously it's a use sex you once once before opening the next box fresh one lol... I assume they'll donate the excess to the homeless like the considerate, generous rich people (from the hood) that they are!!

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*use sex toy once only!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always clean them using a proper sex toy cleaner, and then if sharing and as said earlier put a condom over the top and it will be absolutely fine. At that point it's probably more hygienic than many people!!

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By *reman6976 OP   Man
over a year ago

Deeping St James


"Pop a Jonny on them then discard after use.

Just discard the jonny?

Unless you're a Gansta Rapper then obviously it's a use sex you once once before opening the next box fresh one lol... I assume they'll donate the excess to the homeless like the considerate, generous rich people (from the hood) that they are!!

Lol"

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By *reman6976 OP   Man
over a year ago

Deeping St James


"Always clean them using a proper sex toy cleaner, and then if sharing and as said earlier put a condom over the top and it will be absolutely fine. At that point it's probably more hygienic than many people!!"

Thanks, good point!

M

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

The cleaners used on sex toys cause an allergic reaction in me so I would never share another persons even with a condom. If we want to use them I take my own.

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By *reman6976 OP   Man
over a year ago

Deeping St James


"The cleaners used on sex toys cause an allergic reaction in me so I would never share another persons even with a condom. If we want to use them I take my own."

Ouch!

Good to be prepared!

Thanks

M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will only use toys I have on others with a condom on aswell as thoroughly cleaning them before and after use

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was only thinking about this the other day ..and some people are reluctant to put condoms on toys that have been used on others before......i find that a bit worrying....put a condom on it...stay safe and go home with a healthy body and a healthy mind ?? that's my motto .

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By *ardiffCoupleNJCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd/Rhyfelin


"Always clean them using a proper sex toy cleaner, and then if sharing and as said earlier put a condom over the top and it will be absolutely fine. At that point it's probably more hygienic than many people!!"

Yep usual hygiene applies! Condoms if sharing. Thorough cleaning after followed by use of anti bacterial cleaners available from the usual sources...

As you say, I tend to avoid using these sprays on my cock though

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

I have alot of sex toys cock extension sleeves are my favourite always put a condom on them before use and washed with boiling soap and water after ever use. I have seen and heard of people using dishwasher to clean toys. Not electric one of course.

Do not think anyone on this site is a virgin we all been used if you think about it. It's much the same thing to me as long as you clean & look after your toys lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have alot of sex toys cock extension sleeves are my favourite always put a condom on them before use and washed with boiling soap and water after ever use. I have seen and heard of people using dishwasher to clean toys. Not electric one of course.

Do not think anyone on this site is a virgin we all been used if you think about it. It's much the same thing to me as long as you clean & look after your toys lol"

we use the dishwasher for our glass and steel toys...

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Always give them a good scrub afterwards and always cover with a condom

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