FabSwingers.com forum: What Grinds your Gears?

By *eadonistCouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Ashton under Lyne

What about this site really winds you up?

For us. It's not the usual "fuk me now" messages

It's the lazy little one or two word replys to messages.

For example, sent his guy a fairly concise reply round what we're looking for. Asked a few questions about what their wants and needs were.

All we got back was.....

"Yup"

What the shite is that supposed to mean?!!

Anyone else?

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

I wouldnt say anthing winds me up as such about the site. The interests section could be expanded and some other parts too. Search options are a bit clunky too.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

What grinds my gears?

Mal-adjusted de-railers.

Oh, and profile do's and don't list... grrrrrrrrrrrr

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By *ardiffCoupleNJCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd/Rhyfelin

The number of messages asking for meets from people with no public pics...

Why? We want to see who we potentially may be meeting!! Why would you not have pics on a site such as this -they don't have to identify you!

For all we know you could be a one eyed green monster with two dicks -lets face it, pics of that would guarantee you a meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those forum posts that ask 'do women like sucking dick?' etc. that always boil down to an individual's preferences. Some will say yes. Some will say no. Stop asking fuckin stupid questions before I throw a tractor at you!!!!

Sorry. It is rant Thursday, right?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"The number of messages asking for meets from people with no public pics...

Why? We want to see who we potentially may be meeting!! Why would you not have pics on a site such as this -they don't have to identify you!

For all we know you could be a one eyed green monster with two dicks -lets face it, pics of that would guarantee you a meet!"

That's easily solved. You can block messages from people with no public pics under message filters.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"What grinds my gears?

Mal-adjusted de-railers.

Oh, and profile do's and don't list... grrrrrrrrrrrr"

I'm with you on the deraileurs!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Those forum posts that ask 'do women like sucking dick?' etc. that always boil down to an individual's preferences. Some will say yes. Some will say no. Stop asking fuckin stupid questions before I throw a tractor at you!!!!

Sorry. It is rant Thursday, right?

So much this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the goddamn fakes

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

"All the goddamn fakes"

and those that keep disappearing x Storm x

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By *igger101ukMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

I think there is much that could fall into the grrrrrr category but like real life one just has to accept it - and work through the frustrations as best you can.

After all this is supposed to be fun!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

People who dont read profiles and message,despite not being what you're looking for .

Pushy sods

Couples looking for couples ,with no pics of the mr at all.

Miss

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By *ick-brown27Man
over a year ago

worsley

People who demand face pics or pics in general but have none there self

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By *ucklingsCouple
over a year ago

Rugby

Friend request we accept then look at their pictures and it still feels like blind date, instantly unfriend. Xx

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"Friend request we accept then look at their pictures and it still feels like blind date, instantly unfriend. Xx"

Yep get this,just more pics of their bits !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the main profile pics are disgusting. You don't expect to see that soft of filth in the forums.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Profile advice threads, if someones too lazy or lack the initiative to use the search button, they don't deserve any advice.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Some of the main profile pics are disgusting. You don't expect to see that soft of filth in the forums."

I quite agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having non synchromesh gears and forgetting to double de-clutch.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

Looking at some pics on here overwinds my watch

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By *r C Miss CCouple
over a year ago

llanelli

People that send a friend requests and never message.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"People that send a friend requests and never message. "

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

The bitchiness is pretty annoying and boring at the same time

Some people spend their whole life trying to dig people out on here and it's little sad

Silly status updates with connotations directed at others and even on the forums too (as I well know)

Supposed to be fun isn't it ? Personal issues should really be left at the school gates

Just smile and wave haha

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By *igger101ukMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

If the forum had a like button feature Scarlett you would get a very big one for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest blokes being chastised on here . I admit I'm married on here as my wife has a crumbling spine and as a consequence cannot for obvious reasons have sex. I have permission to play off her but most people seem to miss that part and call me a cheat and much worse. Maybe I should have kept the married part to myself and not been honest. In my case honesty definitely doesn't pay

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By *ardiffCoupleNJCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd/Rhyfelin

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I could live without the silly status updates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When girls message me to tell me I'm beautiful.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"When girls message me to tell me I'm beautiful."

Now that's a word I never use for a man ... only words for a guy I use are hot , fit , sexy etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The "LOOK/WINK/LIKE/MESSAGE ME AND YOU'RE BLOCKED!" brigade..

I've got news for you.. You really ain't all that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When girls message me to tell me I'm beautiful.

Now that's a word I never use for a man ... only words for a guy I use are hot , fit , sexy etc

Definitely more appropriate words to use, especially if you haven't seen my face.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"The "LOOK/WINK/LIKE/MESSAGE ME AND YOU'RE BLOCKED!" brigade..

I've got news for you.. You really ain't all that!

Haha with you on that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The "LOOK/WINK/LIKE/MESSAGE ME AND YOU'RE BLOCKED!" brigade..

I've got news for you.. You really ain't all that!

Haha with you on that

Yes! I've actually found someone else who thinks like I do! Big up yaself

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"The "LOOK/WINK/LIKE/MESSAGE ME AND YOU'RE BLOCKED!" brigade..

I've got news for you.. You really ain't all that!

Haha with you on that

Yes! I've actually found someone else who thinks like I do! Big up yaself "

Big egos ! I always say the higher the horse the bigger the fall ... and have ro say I feel smug when I have seen it Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about this site really winds you up?

For us. It's not the usual "fuk me now" messages

It's the lazy little one or two word replys to messages.

For example, sent his guy a fairly concise reply round what we're looking for. Asked a few questions about what their wants and needs were.

All we got back was.....

"Yup"

What the shite is that supposed to mean?!!

Anyone else? "

The one that annoys us is simply someone not reading our profile, or, they've read it but choose to ignore it.

We would take the "Yup" reply as block material.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys who are super keen to meet and when told yes we will meet you they become very awkward and start making excuses like "I can only meet between 17:45 and 18:30" even though they were told prior to being accepted that the meet was from 21:00

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

"All the goddamn fakes"

Most are sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only been on a week so absolutely nothing

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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

Not on here, but why the fuck do people use double negatives. And then, then, get arsey when you correct them.

It also grinds my gears when if someone doesn't hear your, they respond with a loud "hay?"

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By *eadonistCouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Ashton under Lyne

"People who dont read profiles and message,despite not being what you're looking for .

Pushy sods

Couples looking for couples ,with no pics of the mr at all.

Miss"

This as well!!!

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By *eadonistCouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Ashton under Lyne

"Honest blokes being chastised on here . I admit I'm married on here as my wife has a crumbling spine and as a consequence cannot for obvious reasons have sex. I have permission to play off her but most people seem to miss that part and call me a cheat and much worse. Maybe I should have kept the married part to myself and not been honest. In my case honesty definitely doesn't pay"

Honesty is always better fella.

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By *eadonistCouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Ashton under Lyne

"When girls message me to tell me I'm beautiful.

Now that's a word I never use for a man ... only words for a guy I use are hot , fit , sexy etc

We disagree... Men can be beautiful..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the forum, those that just choose the opposite or get picky about the subject being discussed. They also need to understand what, "Metaphorically speaking" means. They like to try to change people's beliefs and opinions.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"On the forum, those that just choose the opposite or get picky about the subject being discussed. They also need to understand what, "Metaphorically speaking" means. They like to try to change people's beliefs and opinions."

lol omg yes the forum trolls !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men only having pictures of their dick...I wanna see your body too!

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By *rEfoxMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

What gets my goat ( although it shouldn't really) is people who post the same pictures over and over again, sometimes every day, sometimes every ten minutes even. Makes my teeth grind lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noisy eaters! Munch , slurp etc.....

Bbbllllllaaaaaaaarreggggghh!!!!!!

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Noisy eaters! Munch , slurp etc.....

Bbbllllllaaaaaaaarreggggghh!!!!!!

That's the worst thing ... or talking with mouth full so worried it might land on me !

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

Messages that leave you without anything to reply to it

Meet now messages

People that clearly haven't read your profile

The same threads day in and day out on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i just got a message

Why cant you be athletic instead of fat?

Off a guy here a year with no photos and no verifications. I maybe fat but i can deadlift 70kg. Squat 50kg and im happy in my own skin oh and ive been verified quite a few times

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Well i just got a message

Why cant you be athletic instead of fat?

Off a guy here a year with no photos and no verifications. I maybe fat but i can deadlift 70kg. Squat 50kg and im happy in my own skin oh and ive been verified quite a few times

What a lovely message ! How thoughtful of him .. trust you axed him down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fake profiles. Local girls that are new but obviously men.

Men wanting to suck me off, no thanks.

Couples that are just men. I know this because the female half is coincidently never there, 'work', 'out', or 'busy,

People that join, talk for a few days and then delete their profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well i just got a message

Why cant you be athletic instead of fat?

Off a guy here a year with no photos and no verifications. I maybe fat but i can deadlift 70kg. Squat 50kg and im happy in my own skin oh and ive been verified quite a few times

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Some people are so disrespectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well i just got a message

Why cant you be athletic instead of fat?

Off a guy here a year with no photos and no verifications. I maybe fat but i can deadlift 70kg. Squat 50kg and im happy in my own skin oh and ive been verified quite a few times

What a lovely message ! How thoughtful of him .. trust you axed him down

My reply was

Thanks. Why cant you be civil. Happy fabbing.

Blocked. I know im fat and dont need amyone telling me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Noisy eaters! Munch , slurp etc.....

Bbbllllllaaaaaaaarreggggghh!!!!!!

That's the worst thing ... or talking with mouth full so worried it might land on me ! "

At least your getting a free meal haha

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Well i just got a message

Why cant you be athletic instead of fat?

Off a guy here a year with no photos and no verifications. I maybe fat but i can deadlift 70kg. Squat 50kg and im happy in my own skin oh and ive been verified quite a few times

What a lovely message ! How thoughtful of him .. trust you axed him down

My reply was

Thanks. Why cant you be civil. Happy fabbing.

Blocked. I know im fat and dont need amyone telling me. "

Good reply ! And for the record you are not even fat !

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Noisy eaters! Munch , slurp etc.....

Bbbllllllaaaaaaaarreggggghh!!!!!!

That's the worst thing ... or talking with mouth full so worried it might land on me !

At least your getting a free meal haha "

Bleugh !!! Please don't Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well i just got a message

Why cant you be athletic instead of fat?

Off a guy here a year with no photos and no verifications. I maybe fat but i can deadlift 70kg. Squat 50kg and im happy in my own skin oh and ive been verified quite a few times

What a lovely message ! How thoughtful of him .. trust you axed him down

My reply was

Thanks. Why cant you be civil. Happy fabbing.

Blocked. I know im fat and dont need amyone telling me.

Good reply ! And for the record you are not even fat !

Thank you xx on plus side i did get two "when we going to fuck " messages this morning. Silver lining ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A loan spider on the bedroom ceiling at night...... waiting for his opportunity to rub his willy on your face while you sleep!

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Well i just got a message

Why cant you be athletic instead of fat?

Off a guy here a year with no photos and no verifications. I maybe fat but i can deadlift 70kg. Squat 50kg and im happy in my own skin oh and ive been verified quite a few times

What a lovely message ! How thoughtful of him .. trust you axed him down

My reply was

Thanks. Why cant you be civil. Happy fabbing.

Blocked. I know im fat and dont need amyone telling me.

Good reply ! And for the record you are not even fat !

Thank you xx on plus side i did get two "when we going to fuck " messages this morning. Silver lining ..."

Silver linings from silver tongues eh ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A loan spider on the bedroom ceiling at night...... waiting for his opportunity to rub his willy on your face while you sleep! "

Them spiders are dangerous. While i lay in bed one night watching said spider. The fecker dropped from the ceiling i jumped that hard with the fright i put out 3 ribs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A loan spider on the bedroom ceiling at night...... waiting for his opportunity to rub his willy on your face while you sleep!

Them spiders are dangerous. While i lay in bed one night watching said spider. The fecker dropped from the ceiling i jumped that hard with the fright i put out 3 ribs."

Did you know, the male spiders drag their balls over your face when you're sleeping !

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"A loan spider on the bedroom ceiling at night...... waiting for his opportunity to rub his willy on your face while you sleep!

Them spiders are dangerous. While i lay in bed one night watching said spider. The fecker dropped from the ceiling i jumped that hard with the fright i put out 3 ribs.

Did you know, the male spiders drag their balls over your face when you're sleeping !

I thought that was just my bf !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A loan spider on the bedroom ceiling at night...... waiting for his opportunity to rub his willy on your face while you sleep!

Them spiders are dangerous. While i lay in bed one night watching said spider. The fecker dropped from the ceiling i jumped that hard with the fright i put out 3 ribs.

Did you know, the male spiders drag their balls over your face when you're sleeping !

Nearest i get to balls near my face lately

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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

"A loan spider on the bedroom ceiling at night...... waiting for his opportunity to rub his willy on your face while you sleep!

Them spiders are dangerous. While i lay in bed one night watching said spider. The fecker dropped from the ceiling i jumped that hard with the fright i put out 3 ribs.

Did you know, the male spiders drag their balls over your face when you're sleeping !

I thought that was just my bf !

That made me actually lol. At my desk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My biggest annoyance is that if i block someone i'd rather not see their forum posts.

But it's a trifle of an annoyance. Not earth shattering by any means.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"A loan spider on the bedroom ceiling at night...... waiting for his opportunity to rub his willy on your face while you sleep!

Them spiders are dangerous. While i lay in bed one night watching said spider. The fecker dropped from the ceiling i jumped that hard with the fright i put out 3 ribs.

Did you know, the male spiders drag their balls over your face when you're sleeping !

I thought that was just my bf !

That made me actually lol. At my desk

I'm glad it tickled you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What grinds my gears?

Mal-adjusted de-railers.

Oh, and profile do's and don't list... grrrrrrrrrrrr"

It's best to be honest about what they don't want, we don't have it on our profile but we do get messages off men going on like if we meet they can do what they like during the meet. Now that is what annoys us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty is always better fella. "

I agree but sometimes I do wonder

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