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i want to do a experiment but need help..

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By *eeside OP   Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Ladies for 1 month......

Can you Put your filters to max and do the hunting for your self.

Guys for 1 month......

Can you not send a singall message unles you are messaged 1st

Couples stay nutrall as that tend to look for both sides

If this works it may change how fab works.

And may even improve it

The ladies carnt complain about all the messages and all the bad messages and the guys carnt complain about thar messages getting deleted or red with no arnsar.

Everyone will be happy

If it don't work then everyone goes back to normall

If your in say in then in 1 month give feedback on if it made finding/getting meets better or worce.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice idea... but can't see it happening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The threads with men complaining about the ladies of fab, far out way the threads with ladies moaning about messages.

Maybe for a month it would go better if anyone thinking of complaining about not getting meets, actually checked past threads about profile advice without having to be told to, or, even more unthinkable, took the advice offered?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is what bumble is apart from the sexual nature of this place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,'ve done some looking for myself today XXX

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...

My most successful meets have happened when I've done my own searching. I don't get many rubbish messages as my filters are set really tightly. Nice idea OP

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

The majority of folks, on this site, don't use the forums so are therfore unlikely to see this post.

Great idea though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is what bumble is apart from the sexual nature of this place. "

I love bumble

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

[Removed by poster at 30/08/17 19:47:34]

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By *eeside OP   Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"The majority of folks, on this site, don't use the forums so are therfore unlikely to see this post.

Great idea though "

But thar are also a lot Hoo are hear looking without posting hear to.

And if this works it may catch on and spreed throw the site.

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By *eeside OP   Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Come on everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But if guys still don't sell themselves in their profile they still won't get messages surely?

Plus I'm sure there are many women that do the searching themselves anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have worked to improve my profile, and working on new pics as well.. I guess it's kinda like fishing, use the right bait and you can't loose. Of course, if the bait smells bad or is off, you won't get a nibble. Then you can use lures that are geared for certain fish, and are pretty successful... Um... What was the topic again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll give it a go. It's what I do anyway tbh lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But if guys still don't sell themselves in their profile they still won't get messages surely?

Plus I'm sure there are many women that do the searching themselves anyway. "

If the site did this and forced men to be the 'prey', they might make more of an effort on their profiles.

Nahhhhhh. Who am I trying to kid....

Great idea OP.

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By *eeside OP   Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Need Mor volunteers plees

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

I don't send the first message anyway, does that mean I'm in or out by default

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