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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone, hearing the term unicorn a lot, why are single bi sexual females so hard to find on here? In the real world it's much harder to find a couple 'best of both worlds' to play with if you're single. Plus we just wanted to ask why, if they say bi-sexual and looking for couples etc does that make them so 'Unicorn' if that makes sense, most of the women out there say that's what they want on there profile. Very confusing.

This is not a rant, we just want to find out what others think, especially the Unicorns!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some ladies don't like the term 'unicorn.'

I suppose there the most sought after group of people so it makes them harder to catch

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So really the term just applies to women in general? Not couples looking to find woman?

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

Because a lot of couples want a female, but the female wants a couple and there are fewer bi females than there are couples seeking them. Also the female needs to find both attractive and feel like a human not a sex toy for them. Also many couples want to go straight into the play with a female but many females want to get to know a couple first before they decide whether they want to be involved (so to speak).

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester


"So really the term just applies to women in general? Not couples looking to find woman? "

Yes, a bi sexual woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So really the term just applies to women in general? Not couples looking to find woman? "

I think it means bi women who will meet couples.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay. That also makes sense. Still confusing as my partner is obviously a woman and has these feelings but still finds it strange how difficult it is to find a genuine hot female to get to know. Maybe we are just to impatient.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A bi sexual woman is just that, a bi sexual woman. My partner is bi sexual but we have been told we are searching for a unicorn. So confusing. I miss the old days of meeting in a bar.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Okay. That also makes sense. Still confusing as my partner is obviously a woman and has these feelings but still finds it strange how difficult it is to find a genuine hot female to get to know. Maybe we are just to impatient."

I wouldn't say 8 months was being too impatient !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Neither would we met lots of people who seems great then they disappear. Magic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because a lot of couples want a female, but the female wants a couple and there are fewer bi females than there are couples seeking them. Also the female needs to find both attractive and feel like a human not a sex toy for them. Also many couples want to go straight into the play with a female but many females want to get to know a couple first before they decide whether they want to be involved (so to speak)."

This!!!!!

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester


"Okay. That also makes sense. Still confusing as my partner is obviously a woman and has these feelings but still finds it strange how difficult it is to find a genuine hot female to get to know. Maybe we are just to impatient."

Your profile states that your partner is bi curious, to me this indicates she's not really sure and playing with the female with allow her to decide whether she is or not. Even though your profile states what it does, the bi curious part makes me ask questions.

But then I'm not bi, I know a lot of bi females though and it is hard for couples to meet one, due to what I previously said. You may be better off going to a club.

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester


"A bi sexual woman is just that, a bi sexual woman. My partner is bi sexual but we have been told we are searching for a unicorn. So confusing. I miss the old days of meeting in a bar. "

The term unicorn is used as people say they're rare to find... Another term could have been used I suppose, as unicorns are just mythical creatures.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe the term unicorn should change to something else. A unicorn isn't real.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Exactly. It's the term that's confusing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yea I understand that, Bec is bi-curious but I don't know what the difference is really, it's her fantasy as it's mine to meet another woman and get to know her. Not just a play mate. But obviously sex is part of the fantasy at some point. If we put bi sexual I feel like we would be saying we have experience or she does with another woman. She doesn't. Can't win really, but having fun trying too.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"A bi sexual woman is just that, a bi sexual woman. My partner is bi sexual but we have been told we are searching for a unicorn. So confusing. I miss the old days of meeting in a bar. "

To be fair you may have more chance of meeting a bi female in a bar .

We've met plenty over the years on here , but they aren't really what we are looking for specifically . As far as we are concerned they are no more or no less than any other demographic group on here .

One thing you will notice , particularly on the forums , is that there will be plenty of single bi females giving you all manner of reasons as to why you haven't found one . This may or may not help you .

Your best bet is to meet a couple who are happy for the male half not to get involved , or to go to a club and get that first meet under your belt .

Good luck

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

Maybe explain that in your profile.

I can see youre photo verified, but single women on here get accused of being fakes without a meet or cam veri within a couple of months! So as you don't have one people may be thinking you aren't genuine, which could be off putting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You're prob right.

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester


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Your best bet is to meet a couple who are happy for the male half not to get involved , or to go to a club and get that first meet under your belt .

Good luck "

This is probably your best option, but you may have to sit aside too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We shall see how we get on, not desperate to meet someone, it's just a fantasy, certainly not the fantasy to have to prove yourself over and over and be speaking to people who disappear after two or three messages. Thanks for your advice though, appreciate it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yea I understand that, Bec is bi-curious but I don't know what the difference is really, it's her fantasy as it's mine to meet another woman and get to know her. Not just a play mate. But obviously sex is part of the fantasy at some point. If we put bi sexual I feel like we would be saying we have experience or she does with another woman. She doesn't. Can't win really, but having fun trying too. "

Would you consider meeting females on your own? That way you could introduce the male later.

First experiences can be scary and I know I would of been a lot more comfortable meeting a female on my own for my first experience. If only I could turn the clock back

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not for us that. Sticking to the fantasy,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yea. Bec would meet a woman alone and get to know her, we have thought about that. Trouble is never get that far into a conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most ladies wont meet couples cause coupes seem think its about what they want and not what the lady wants and some use women like ther sex toys or experiments xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yea we get that. Not true on our part though, that's why we would like to chat first, get to know someone. Find out what they want and would like to experience etc. We used the term date on our profile meaning we want to get to know someone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would also say...why does it say 'looking for couples' on a Profile if they didn't want to meet or had reservations in the first place about meeting a couple? Mixed signals!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a married woman who just wants a woman. I'm not sure if I'm a unicorn or fair dust & either way what i want is unique

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester


"Would also say...why does it say 'looking for couples' on a Profile if they didn't want to meet or had reservations in the first place about meeting a couple? Mixed signals! "

Mine says I'm looking for couples but not single men, fab automatically does this to men if you put a filter on to stop men messaging you. I have stopped everyone messaging me, so I don't see why it says I'm looking to meet couples. It's the same with the who's viewed me page, couples will be there but men won't.

What some couples don't realise is that couples all meet/play differently, not all want to meet a woman for the woman. If I meet a couple it's because I'm interested in the man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yea. Bec would meet a woman alone and get to know her, we have thought about that. Trouble is never get that far into a conversation. "

Who mails them, you or her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would also say...why does it say 'looking for couples' on a Profile if they didn't want to meet or had reservations in the first place about meeting a couple? Mixed signals! "

Who says they don't want to meet couples? Doesn't mean they want to meet all couples.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Clear as mud now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Usually I mail them, Bec prefers me to do this and just get her involved if they message back. We are always honest about it. She does the same on Field which is another app that is hard to figure out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Usually I mail them, Bec prefers me to do this and just get her involved if they message back. We are always honest about it. She does the same on Field which is another app that is hard to figure out "

I'm guessing single women are all going to say that's where you are going wrong and Bec should be doing the messaging.

Couples get it hard on here in my opinion. Yes we get we have to make sure the single female is comfortable etc etc, and it's more daunting meeting two when you are just one, but a lot seem to want everything on their terms with the couple jumping through hoops to accomodate them.

When we meet couples or men we feel we all meet on equal terms, and think this is how it should be, unfortunately its hard to meet women who want this too, many want it to be all about them. You hear a lot on here if how females want to know what the couple can offer, but rarely have I seen any state what they can offer a couple. They know they can get away with it as its supply and demand, but it's why we dont actively search for women, we are happy with our men and couples meets

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