FabSwingers.com forum: The Girl Code ....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So does it exist on here? Or is it a case of we are all swingers and stuff the traditions from the vanilla world? What's your views ladies and gentlemen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think "girl code" is quite rare on here or in life these days tbh

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

I think it exists but to a lesser extent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So does it exist on here? Or is it a case of we are all swingers and stuff the traditions from the vanilla world? What's your views ladies and gentlemen?"

I think it's rare and that's a sad thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is the girl code ladies?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"What is the girl code ladies?"

I was about to ask the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the girl code ladies?"

I take it to mean watching the backs of other girls. Warning of weirdos. Helping any way possible. And I would say not shagging a guy who is meeting a mate lol ... bit more to it too but loosely xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah right. It would be difficult to do in practice here though. You can't name and shame (quite rightly) and like me, a lot of ladies don't have their filters open to other ladies. I would certainly warn someone if it were possible though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What is the girl code ladies?

I take it to mean watching the backs of other girls. Warning of weirdos. Helping any way possible. And I would say not shagging a guy who is meeting a mate lol ... bit more to it too but loosely xx

Yeh this pretty much describes it. Basically looking out for your fellow ladies and not doing tge dirty on them behind their back. When I first joined about 5 years ago it was pretty much like this, however over the years I've noticed this is happening less.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the girl code ladies?

I take it to mean watching the backs of other girls. Warning of weirdos. Helping any way possible. And I would say not shagging a guy who is meeting a mate lol ... bit more to it too but loosely xx

Sounds just like the boy code, perhaps we should call it the person code! We wouldn't want to be sexist would we!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id like to think we all have eachothers back. I wouldn't play with a known playmate of a friend unless it was ok'd in group situations. I know its all fair to an extent id just feel a bit shit doing it

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

My bestie is on here and we both honour it.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I group chat with some local ladies, I'd definitely warn them if I came across a looney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I group chat with some local ladies, I'd definitely warn them if I came across a looney

Oh that's cool xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the girl code ladies?

I take it to mean watching the backs of other girls. Warning of weirdos. Helping any way possible. And I would say not shagging a guy who is meeting a mate lol ... bit more to it too but loosely xx

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yup.. pretty much it.. Although i wouldn't fuck an ex partber or fb either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't suppose it's as necessary here as in vanillasville, but I think it does still exist.

I certainly observe girl code... chicks before dicks

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By *ilent.KnightMan
over a year ago

Swindon

"I group chat with some local ladies, I'd definitely warn them if I came across a looney

Crap. I'd better behave the.

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By *atrionaSavageWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I let my close fab friends know if I find/have a great meet cause I want them to have a good time too and vice versa.

I'm always happy to share...especially at the same time!

With my special FWB's we tend to ask first if it's ok to play with particular friends as it's only polite.

Definitely warn each other if come across a nutter as well.

Cat x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In vanilla life I would not shag my mates guy. In swinging life it's just all friends together, shagging whoever we want to shag. Very happy for swinging friends to play with the same guy as me, and it wouldn't occur to me that someone that a swinging friend seeing is out of bounds.

Mrs

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"In vanilla life I would not shag my mates guy. In swinging life it's just all friends together, shagging whoever we want to shag. Very happy for swinging friends to play with the same guy as me, and it wouldn't occur to me that someone that a swinging friend seeing is out of bounds.

Mrs"

I love your pov

A couple of fab friends said they have the agreement that they won't meet anyone that the other one has met!! I was a bit

especially as they aren't looking to date!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs

I love your pov

A couple of fab friends said they have the agreement that they won't meet anyone that the other one has met!! I was a bit

especially as they aren't looking to date!! "

I'd actively avoid a guy / girl if I had a fab friend whom I knew was after the guy / girl x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs

I love your pov

A couple of fab friends said they have the agreement that they won't meet anyone that the other one has met!! I was a bit

especially as they aren't looking to date!! "

Gosh. We find a lot of our swinging friends have practically identical verifications lists. I think everybody scan their friends lists for potential playmates!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe in girl code. I have a female fab friend. I started chatting to a guy on here only to discover she had met this guy. I messaged her to tell her I would stop chatting to him straight away if she was unhappy.

If it's a female I don't know, or have only spoken a little to, then that's a different story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In fact we're more likely to meet someone, if they've met someone we know. Is that really bad? People have done it to us to, and if I'm no longer the flavour of the month I've had to suck it up.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there a man code then ? Not discriminating men

all equal & all that

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Every woman for themselves as far as I am concerned.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Mrs"

This is what I think. Plus I watch my friends' backs etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there a man code then ? Not discriminating men

all equal & all that "

seems when it comes to the lifestyle, it's every man for themselves. Have to admit that's certainly what this site drives, due in particular to the high number of men on here. However, different in clubs and parties, where etiquette and respect must be adhered to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there a man code then ? Not discriminating men

all equal & all that

Roger that

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Mrs

I love your pov

A couple of fab friends said they have the agreement that they won't meet anyone that the other one has met!! I was a bit

especially as they aren't looking to date!!

I'd actively avoid a guy / girl if I had a fab friend whom I knew was after the guy / girl x"

I wouldn't seek them out but if I happened to stumble upon their profile and they were what I was looking for it wouldn't be an issue for me

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple
over a year ago

Neverland

When attending Chams recently there was a woman there with a man who was quite d*unk and just being a dick to her to be honest. When he became physically aggressive towards her alot of females /couples stepped in and looked out for this lady.

Was such a great time to know that others do care sometimes

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When attending Chams recently there was a woman there with a man who was quite d*unk and just being a dick to her to be honest. When he became physically aggressive towards her alot of females /couples stepped in and looked out for this lady.

Was such a great time to know that others do care sometimes

Mrs"

Aww that's great to hear x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually don't get the back off thing. If someone is in a relationship then yeah, of course it must be discussed but two singles? No. I wouldn't even think of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In fact we're more likely to meet someone, if they've met someone we know. Is that really bad? People have done it to us to, and if I'm no longer the flavour of the month I've had to suck it up.

Mrs"

I dont think if its a meet then it matters .. I mean i wouldn't go with a friends partber or fb. Or at least not unless it was a 4sum. I also wouldn't want dirty chat with someone I knews partner But then I wouldn't want to do that if i knew they had a partner regardless.

But i found a some years ago that not many women on here care for girls code. Or stabbing people in the back. So i am now much less open.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs

I love your pov

A couple of fab friends said they have the agreement that they won't meet anyone that the other one has met!! I was a bit

especially as they aren't looking to date!! "

Oh my god, what's wrong with these people, swinging is about sharing, if we meet lovely people we recomend them to friends, simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs

I love your pov

A couple of fab friends said they have the agreement that they won't meet anyone that the other one has met!! I was a bit

especially as they aren't looking to date!!

Oh my god, what's wrong with these people, swinging is about sharing, if we meet lovely people we recomend them to friends, simple

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for me its more about approaching them without the partner... but as I'd not do that to anyone I guess it's just how I am. But i also have told guys from couples we have met together sorry but no after they have split up.. as it would be weird. And just against my code.. no matter how greay it had been. I Certainly wouldn't try and get the guy to be my fb as happened with a few of my so called friends.

ive since learnt to be very careful who i call friend in this lifestyle and it has to some extent made me less confident

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh the girl code has come into effect tonight!!! Fab forum ladies are the best

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

would actually love to have more contact with ladies on here to chatand discuss experiences- and would definitely warn others about weird ones...

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

can some one give me the combination please. I want to get into this club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it stands everywhere recently had a message off a girl asking not to fuck but come take pics of us together just to get revenge on his gf I told him to fuck off

In all walks of life girls need to bug each other up and support each other not tear each other to pieces xx

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