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By *ike Oxmall OP   Man
over a year ago

Elderslie

I've come across a few profiles that say something along the lines of "don't contact me if you're a site bike, or if you've been riding the site bikes", and I just wondered what other people would consider to constitute a "bike"? Given that it's a swinging site, I'm not really bothered if someone has had loads of meets, but I can also understand that members might not want to feel like just another notch on the bedpost. Where do you draw the line?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those profiles do make me giggle. Like everyone that meets lots has lots of verifications...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i find it a bit odd that some people think that a particular amount of veris ,meets etc may bear any relation to how many people someone has slept with...are they really naive enough to think every single person on here faithfully records every single shag they have! and yes, its an odd place to be if you take exception to people having casual sex..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Odd or not, I wouldn't meet someone who had sex with others within a few days of wanting to meet me. It has nothing to do with jealousy. I'd merely rather not be just another box he has to tick off.

I'd rather meet a guy who has more respect for women then to only treat us like a list to plough through.

Apologies if I don't make sense lol

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

probably me. i used to fuck 2 or 3 guys a day but i like to have a lot of sex so you have to fuck loads of guys to get that. hardly anyone gives you a proper good session on here.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I would draw the line at meeting someone who referred to "site bikes". It shows a deep disrespect, unintentional irony and double standards not to mention an appalling attitude to women.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

It's rather hilarious that on a site devoted to promiscuous casual sex some people feel the need to slut shame. Obviously most people in the vanilla world thinks everyone on this site is a disgusting pervert.

I suppose it just shows the general human characteristic of wanting to feel morally superior to someone

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Maybe not put down in the best words Op, but I know what you are getting at...and I for one am influenced by who/when someone has met, and yes there are some that if someone has met, I defo wont! Of course not all verifications are displayed or even given, so you can only go on what you can see!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Odd or not, I wouldn't meet someone who had sex with others within a few days of wanting to meet me. It has nothing to do with jealousy. I'd merely rather not be just another box he has to tick off.

I'd rather meet a guy who has more respect for women then to only treat us like a list to plough through.

Apologies if I don't make sense lol"

This makes sense as I am the same

And if I see my potential meet display a verification just before the date we are due to meet I will cancel

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By *ike Oxmall OP   Man
over a year ago

Elderslie


"Maybe not put down in the best words Op, but I know what you are getting at...and I for one am influenced by who/when someone has met, and yes there are some that if someone has met, I defo wont! Of course not all verifications are displayed or even given, so you can only go on what you can see! "

Just to be clear, it's not me that refers to people with a lot of meet verifications as bikes, it's actually something I've seen on profiles belonging to women. I took it to be along the lines that you said, ie if someone contacting them has been with a person that they feel has too many meet verifications, then they'll decline a meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never liked the terms...but to be honest...and very honest.

there seems an allowance of a semi-sort of prostitution...

I get covering costs etc for any venue, whether its a club/hotel/someones house...

I'd always like to meet with the prospect of sex...but never guaranteed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is one person on here that would put me off meeting if I see them on a veri. That is for sexual health reasons tho not because I particularly disagree with the way they play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe not put down in the best words Op, but I know what you are getting at...and I for one am influenced by who/when someone has met, and yes there are some that if someone has met, I defo wont! Of course not all verifications are displayed or even given, so you can only go on what you can see!

Just to be clear, it's not me that refers to people with a lot of meet verifications as bikes, it's actually something I've seen on profiles belonging to women. I took it to be along the lines that you said, ie if someone contacting them has been with a person that they feel has too many meet verifications, then they'll decline a meeting"

I get that..and unfortunately very recently by someone I quite fancy lol...never even asked to fuck her...but I suppose my pics and verifications put her off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah ppl in the vanilla world would call us all names But there's nothing wrong with having a high sex drive or even if your into a bit of kink, I personally like to tie up my gf and tease for a while it's awesome fun and for me it gives me a strange sence of power over her and she loves it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Odd or not, I wouldn't meet someone who had sex with others within a few days of wanting to meet me. It has nothing to do with jealousy. I'd merely rather not be just another box he has to tick off.

I'd rather meet a guy who has more respect for women then to only treat us like a list to plough through.

Apologies if I don't make sense lol

This makes sense as I am the same

And if I see my potential meet display a verification just before the date we are due to meet I will cancel

"

I don't understand this. It's not unusual for me to meet 3-4 times a week on those weeks I have time for fun. In no way does that mean they are notches. They are all carefully selected, we've spoken on the phone and generally had a social meet and often are not meeting for the first time. My diary and those of the people I meet are full enough that we have to take advantage when a mutually convenient date occurs. If someone I'm talking to gets precious about a 3 day exclusion zone either side of meeting them, it's not going to happen. I'm not clearing out a fortnights worth of meet opportunities unless they're offering to take me to the Caribbean. Can't imagine that makes me a 'site bike'.

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By *dores blackmenWoman
over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)

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By *dores blackmenWoman
over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)

I'm cycling along popping in this thread

I go to a party 3-4 times a month,play 1-3 times in a night

I call myself a player

How dare I be judged on a swinging site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Odd or not, I wouldn't meet someone who had sex with others within a few days of wanting to meet me. It has nothing to do with jealousy. I'd merely rather not be just another box he has to tick off.

I'd rather meet a guy who has more respect for women then to only treat us like a list to plough through.

Apologies if I don't make sense lol"
i on a swing site find that really odd. Don't think meeting multiple people a week makes them "ploughing through "... when i meet Mr he was having a few meets a week.. It didn't bother me. But then I often play with someone that ive watched or know has been with someone else just before me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If someone doesn't want to meet people with lots of verifications or verifications from certain people that's their choice. I don't know why some of them choose to express it disrespectful though.

It's like the people who say "not looking to work my way through the site". As my kids would say "I'm like meh!"

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

If your here, then you have to accept sex happens. So carry on, it's what you wanted after all!

However, if you are offended by someone else doing the same, then maybe you should question why you are here in the first place.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"I've never liked the terms...but to be honest...and very honest.

there seems an allowance of a semi-sort of prostitution...

"

What an insult to women. I meet for my own pleasure and pay myself. I am not a "semi-prostitute".

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Odd or not, I wouldn't meet someone who had sex with others within a few days of wanting to meet me. It has nothing to do with jealousy. I'd merely rather not be just another box he has to tick off.

I'd rather meet a guy who has more respect for women then to only treat us like a list to plough through.

Apologies if I don't make sense lol i on a swing site find that really odd. Don't think meeting multiple people a week makes them "ploughing through "... when i meet Mr he was having a few meets a week.. It didn't bother me. But then I often play with someone that ive watched or know has been with someone else just before me.

"

I find that odd but that's just my opinion and something I wouldnt do. Totally each to their own.

This isn't just a swinging site. Long as the rules are adhered to, we're all free to do whatever we like with ourselves. That includes having the freedom to refuse sex for whatever reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been known to have 2 or 3 meets in a night when I want to other times it's 2-3 a week and as far as I know the guys I've met don't care and if they have met a couple of days before our meet so what it wouldn't put me off or make me cancel but then a very good male friend of mine has called me a slut for it and I just laugh at him lol

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Odd or not, I wouldn't meet someone who had sex with others within a few days of wanting to meet me. It has nothing to do with jealousy. I'd merely rather not be just another box he has to tick off.

I'd rather meet a guy who has more respect for women then to only treat us like a list to plough through.

Apologies if I don't make sense lol

This makes sense as I am the same

And if I see my potential meet display a verification just before the date we are due to meet I will cancel

I don't understand this. It's not unusual for me to meet 3-4 times a week on those weeks I have time for fun. In no way does that mean they are notches. They are all carefully selected, we've spoken on the phone and generally had a social meet and often are not meeting for the first time. My diary and those of the people I meet are full enough that we have to take advantage when a mutually convenient date occurs. If someone I'm talking to gets precious about a 3 day exclusion zone either side of meeting them, it's not going to happen. I'm not clearing out a fortnights worth of meet opportunities unless they're offering to take me to the Caribbean. Can't imagine that makes me a 'site bike'."

Totally agree. A person might not have a meet fir mobths or more then like buses a few come close together. Additionally thinking along the lines that someone who likes to meet a lot of people doesnt have respect for them i think is bonkers. Its a site for fun. People should be able to have a lot of fun wuth a lot of different people if they wish. You respect soneones needs and rules when your in their company.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Odd or not, I wouldn't meet someone who had sex with others within a few days of wanting to meet me. It has nothing to do with jealousy. I'd merely rather not be just another box he has to tick off.

I'd rather meet a guy who has more respect for women then to only treat us like a list to plough through.

Apologies if I don't make sense lol

This makes sense as I am the same

And if I see my potential meet display a verification just before the date we are due to meet I will cancel

I don't understand this. It's not unusual for me to meet 3-4 times a week on those weeks I have time for fun. In no way does that mean they are notches. They are all carefully selected, we've spoken on the phone and generally had a social meet and often are not meeting for the first time. My diary and those of the people I meet are full enough that we have to take advantage when a mutually convenient date occurs. If someone I'm talking to gets precious about a 3 day exclusion zone either side of meeting them, it's not going to happen. I'm not clearing out a fortnights worth of meet opportunities unless they're offering to take me to the Caribbean. Can't imagine that makes me a 'site bike'.

Totally agree. A person might not have a meet fir mobths or more then like buses a few come close together. Additionally thinking along the lines that someone who likes to meet a lot of people doesnt have respect for them i think is bonkers. Its a site for fun. People should be able to have a lot of fun wuth a lot of different people if they wish. You respect soneones needs and rules when your in their company."

Apologies for typos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Odd or not, I wouldn't meet someone who had sex with others within a few days of wanting to meet me. It has nothing to do with jealousy. I'd merely rather not be just another box he has to tick off.

I'd rather meet a guy who has more respect for women then to only treat us like a list to plough through.

Apologies if I don't make sense lol

This makes sense as I am the same

And if I see my potential meet display a verification just before the date we are due to meet I will cancel

I don't understand this. It's not unusual for me to meet 3-4 times a week on those weeks I have time for fun. In no way does that mean they are notches. They are all carefully selected, we've spoken on the phone and generally had a social meet and often are not meeting for the first time. My diary and those of the people I meet are full enough that we have to take advantage when a mutually convenient date occurs. If someone I'm talking to gets precious about a 3 day exclusion zone either side of meeting them, it's not going to happen. I'm not clearing out a fortnights worth of meet opportunities unless they're offering to take me to the Caribbean. Can't imagine that makes me a 'site bike'.

Totally agree. A person might not have a meet fir mobths or more then like buses a few come close together. Additionally thinking along the lines that someone who likes to meet a lot of people doesnt have respect for them i think is bonkers. Its a site for fun. People should be able to have a lot of fun wuth a lot of different people if they wish. You respect soneones needs and rules when your in their company."

Exactly I don't meet for a few months at a time if work is hectic so when I get the chance and loads of meets appear I pick the ones that I want to meet and then meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging it around... if someone is very selective or doesn’t meet many people, often get called “frigid” or “time waster”

Damed if you do

Damed if you don’t IMO

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

If we ended up meeting someone who felt entitled enough to expect us not to meet anyone for a a day or two before them , we would simply choose not to meet them .

Whatever next ? We do what we want , with whoever we want , whenever we want to , and there isn't a person on here who will change that .

We have multiple meets most nights we go out , and have yet to have anyone complain about that .

We don't see any meet as a notch , and we sure as hell aren't trying to shag the whole site either . We simply enjoy the hedonistic lifestyle that swinging offers .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Initially I was having 3-4 meets a week, a few of these are now regulars. So I do have sex with more than one man per week and often only one day between

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By *homas_enigmaMan
over a year ago

South-East Cheshire

I'd like to add something that might be considered by many to be "bleeding obvious"...

We're all different, which obviously is good, because variety really IS the spice of life. So - breaking news! - it's no surprise whatsoever that tastes and preferences will vary, and as long as we are all as open as possible about our preferences, lifestyle, and behaviour, we will naturally select or reject potential partners accordingly. Being judgemental is pointless and unhelpful, but having views and private opinions is perfectly natural.

Almost all of us, if we are honest, have negative opinions about some members... the trick is to keep them private and not to try to influence the opinions of others.

There. I feel better for that. Happy Fabbing!

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"

Initially I was having 3-4 meets a week, a few of these are now regulars. So I do have sex with more than one man per week and often only one day between "

As long as your happy, then it's none of our business.

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By *ac916Man
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Maybe not put down in the best words Op, but I know what you are getting at...and I for one am influenced by who/when someone has met, and yes there are some that if someone has met, I defo wont! Of course not all verifications are displayed or even given, so you can only go on what you can see! "

Would you like to fuck ?

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Almost all of us, if we are honest, have negative opinions about some members... the trick is to keep them private and not to try to influence the opinions of others."

Honest.

Forthright.

True.

(although I should have blocked him for beating me to the moral high ground!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Initially I was having 3-4 meets a week, a few of these are now regulars. So I do have sex with more than one man per week and often only one day between

As long as your happy, then it's none of our business.

"

Aww bless you

I'm loving it x

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth


"I'd like to add something that might be considered by many to be "bleeding obvious"...

We're all different, which obviously is good, because variety really IS the spice of life. So - breaking news! - it's no surprise whatsoever that tastes and preferences will vary, and as long as we are all as open as possible about our preferences, lifestyle, and behaviour, we will naturally select or reject potential partners accordingly. Being judgemental is pointless and unhelpful, but having views and private opinions is perfectly natural.

Almost all of us, if we are honest, have negative opinions about some members... the trick is to keep them private and not to try to influence the opinions of others.

There. I feel better for that. Happy Fabbing! "

This!

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Funny, I guess I'm one of the few who had never heard the term 'site bike' before. I guess I am one of them. I love sex and sleep with a lot of people both on and off Fab. Not ashamed of it one bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funny, I guess I'm one of the few who had never heard the term 'site bike' before. I guess I am one of them. I love sex and sleep with a lot of people both on and off Fab. Not ashamed of it one bit."

I would never question who you shag...maybe I just understand the scene lol..I never think "what was the guy she shagged better than me, or will the next guy she shags be better than me"...and likewise...I'd always ask the same.

Sorry hot bum...I bloody love yer pics!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinging it around... if someone is very selective or doesn’t meet many people, often get called “frigid” or “time waster”

Damed if you do

Damed if you don’t IMO "

There certainly isnt any winning for women. Always some idiot man to judge

Lucky I dont give a stuff what they think really, isnt it?

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By *ike Oxmall OP   Man
over a year ago

Elderslie


"There certainly isnt any winning for women. Always some idiot man to judge

Lucky I dont give a stuff what they think really, isnt it? "

I completely agree that people should be able to meet whoever they want, as often as they want. But the point of my original post was that it was actually women using the term to describe other women with lots of meet verifications

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

Frankly using terms like "site bikes" says far more about the person using the phrase than anyone else. Who wants to have sex with someone who looks down on other people's sexual choices?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that if you "disapprove" of who and how people fuck on here - then swinging isn't for you.

How can you possibly know who and how many someone has been with on here?

By assuming a stranger on the Internet is telling the truth?

How do you know that the "straight single male" you're meeting isn't a married bisexual bareback gangbanger ...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"There certainly isnt any winning for women. Always some idiot man to judge

Lucky I dont give a stuff what they think really, isnt it?

I completely agree that people should be able to meet whoever they want, as often as they want. But the point of my original post was that it was actually women using the term to describe other women with lots of meet verifications"

It's clear to me from your op that it's not you saying it. Loads of people, men and women, think that women who have lots of sexual partners are bad. As I said before the irony is strong with these people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Frankly using terms like "site bikes" says far more about the person using the phrase than anyone else. Who wants to have sex with someone who looks down on other people's sexual choices? "

obviously not mentioning names, but I overheard a 'couple' on their webcam slagging off another..I was like...er...I'm sure some think the same about you!

always just find it an odd thing do do....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were mssaged by a couple recently who we chatted to for a bit

At point we were planning a social they said they had seen we had a number of verifies -& that if we wished to meet and play with them we must reduce our play frequency ( not exactly regulars ) and not play for a few weeks before meets with them

I wished them well and politely explained what we did was our business

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think its difficult for all of us to shake off social mores but some stick to them more than others.

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne


"We were mssaged by a couple recently who we chatted to for a bit

At point we were planning a social they said they had seen we had a number of verifies -& that if we wished to meet and play with them we must reduce our play frequency ( not exactly regulars ) and not play for a few weeks before meets with them

I wished them well and politely explained what we did was our business "

Did those two Morons also specify what position you two could shag each other for the weeks before you me them?

The nerve of some people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We were mssaged by a couple recently who we chatted to for a bit

At point we were planning a social they said they had seen we had a number of verifies -& that if we wished to meet and play with them we must reduce our play frequency ( not exactly regulars ) and not play for a few weeks before meets with them

I wished them well and politely explained what we did was our business "

a polite block thereafter would suffice lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was one profile I read who had a verification from each night. Sometimes 2 or 3 on some nights over the course of 4 months. I'm new here and certainly not going to judge but I did feel a bit sick when I read it. Each to their own but I wouldn't meet anyone who had that sort of behaviour

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Not everyone displays their verifications. Not everyone likes to give or receive them. Part of that discretion term that gets used a lot on here.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"There was one profile I read who had a verification from each night. Sometimes 2 or 3 on some nights over the course of 4 months. I'm new here and certainly not going to judge but I did feel a bit sick when I read it. Each to their own but I wouldn't meet anyone who had that sort of behaviour "

If people having multiple sexual encounters in one night makes you sick, this might not be the best site for you.

People who judge others for the amount of sex they have on a website that is run to enable people to have sex with others are, IMO, a bit strange.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recently had a lady say she wouldn't meet me as it looked like I had something to prove due to the amount of veris I had but considering I've been here a few yrsand lots of mine are repeat meets I don't see what I've got to proof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a sit bike. 'Ride me like you stole me please'

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

For me i do club scene - so may not have any veri's for 2 weeks then 4 in one day

So it looks like I shagged them but I often have just watched or chatted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was one profile I read who had a verification from each night. Sometimes 2 or 3 on some nights over the course of 4 months. I'm new here and certainly not going to judge but I did feel a bit sick when I read it. Each to their own but I wouldn't meet anyone who had that sort of behaviour "

I'll assume this was a womans profile you looked at...I understand you are new..cant but help think you were scoping out the female that a male had met lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We were mssaged by a couple recently who we chatted to for a bit

At point we were planning a social they said they had seen we had a number of verifies -& that if we wished to meet and play with them we must reduce our play frequency ( not exactly regulars ) and not play for a few weeks before meets with them

I wished them well and politely explained what we did was our business

Did those two Morons also specify what position you two could shag each other for the weeks before you me them?

The nerve of some people."

No but specified what they'd like Mrs C to wear !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was one profile I read who had a verification from each night. Sometimes 2 or 3 on some nights over the course of 4 months. I'm new here and certainly not going to judge but I did feel a bit sick when I read it. Each to their own but I wouldn't meet anyone who had that sort of behaviour

I'll assume this was a womans profile you looked at...I understand you are new..cant but help think you were scoping out the female that a male had met lol"

The guy I was chatting to mentioned he had a meet so I read the verification and yes curiosity got the better of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was one profile I read who had a verification from each night. Sometimes 2 or 3 on some nights over the course of 4 months. I'm new here and certainly not going to judge but I did feel a bit sick when I read it. Each to their own but I wouldn't meet anyone who had that sort of behaviour

If people having multiple sexual encounters in one night makes you sick, this might not be the best site for you.

People who judge others for the amount of sex they have on a website that is run to enable people to have sex with others are, IMO, a bit strange."

I can't really help what my first reaction was lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was one profile I read who had a verification from each night. Sometimes 2 or 3 on some nights over the course of 4 months. I'm new here and certainly not going to judge but I did feel a bit sick when I read it. Each to their own but I wouldn't meet anyone who had that sort of behaviour

I'll assume this was a womans profile you looked at...I understand you are new..cant but help think you were scoping out the female that a male had met lol

The guy I was chatting to mentioned he had a meet so I read the verification and yes curiosity got the better of me "

hahaha nosy parker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was one profile I read who had a verification from each night. Sometimes 2 or 3 on some nights over the course of 4 months. I'm new here and certainly not going to judge but I did feel a bit sick when I read it. Each to their own but I wouldn't meet anyone who had that sort of behaviour

I'll assume this was a womans profile you looked at...I understand you are new..cant but help think you were scoping out the female that a male had met lol

The guy I was chatting to mentioned he had a meet so I read the verification and yes curiosity got the better of me

hahaha nosy parker "

Yes I am nosey by nature

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

Some people are very defensive about their swinging. You see it in profiles with phrased like "not looking to shag the whole site" or "not hardened swingers". What they. Actually mean is "I am a cut above the disease ridden plebs on here who will fuck anything".

In reality of course, they are the same horny beasts as the rest of us. Just they don't want to admit it.

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Always found it funny, how people won't meet people who have lots of varies, or long friend lists or even certain people on said friends list.

News flash, we help out in a club, most of our verifications orfriends ARNT people we have had sex with, but folk we met.

To many folk seem far to concerned at who is fucking who, or who is bi, straight or a pudding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was one profile I read who had a verification from each night. Sometimes 2 or 3 on some nights over the course of 4 months. I'm new here and certainly not going to judge but I did feel a bit sick when I read it. Each to their own but I wouldn't meet anyone who had that sort of behaviour

If people having multiple sexual encounters in one night makes you sick, this might not be the best site for you.

People who judge others for the amount of sex they have on a website that is run to enable people to have sex with others are, IMO, a bit strange."
100% agree but people do seem to find it disgusting. Got called a slut once at a greedy girl night for.. well being greedy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

People who judge others for the amount of sex they have on a website that is run to enable people to have sex with others are, IMO, a bit strange. 100% agree but people do seem to find it disgusting. Got called a slut once at a greedy girl night for.. well being greedy... "

Hilarious! And yet I know I've not really let loose yet for fear of being judged. I wonder, how greedy is 'too greedy'?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Odd or not, I wouldn't meet someone who had sex with others within a few days of wanting to meet me. It has nothing to do with jealousy. I'd merely rather not be just another box he has to tick off.

I'd rather meet a guy who has more respect for women then to only treat us like a list to plough through.

Apologies if I don't make sense lol

This makes sense as I am the same

And if I see my potential meet display a verification just before the date we are due to meet I will cancel

"
and if it's a social meet veri would you still cancel?

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I would say I probably shagged less than a quarter of my veri's

And people have said no because I have played with two many ppl

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Each to their own ,we are all here to enjoy the site.I would struggle to find enough people i am attracted to ,to meet lots of times a week.

Miss

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"There was one profile I read who had a verification from each night. Sometimes 2 or 3 on some nights over the course of 4 months. I'm new here and certainly not going to judge but I did feel a bit sick when I read it. Each to their own but I wouldn't meet anyone who had that sort of behaviour "

How would you know if they hadn't displayed the veris? I played with a lot of guys last Sunday and didn't receive one veri from that night. If I had a regular FB I wouldn't be verifying him every time we met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just find it ironic some peoples ideas of 'morality' and options of others on here, when basically we are all here to fuck and have fun. As long as someone isn't hurting anyone, its none of my business what anybody is up to...maybe jealous they are having more fun than me, or that ill never get to meet some of the beautiful and highly sexed people on her, but im never going to judge anyone for there choices.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was one profile I read who had a verification from each night. Sometimes 2 or 3 on some nights over the course of 4 months. I'm new here and certainly not going to judge but I did feel a bit sick when I read it. Each to their own but I wouldn't meet anyone who had that sort of behaviour

How would you know if they hadn't displayed the veris? I played with a lot of guys last Sunday and didn't receive one veri from that night. If I had a regular FB I wouldn't be verifying him every time we met."

I can't comment on verifications I've not read. I just read the verifications and she parked a van and multiple people "took their turn" and as I said earlier I can't judge but people have their preferences. I just have mine on who I'll meet whether it be on Looks, cock size or the type of person they are. Shame I'm getting judged on that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was one profile I read who had a verification from each night. Sometimes 2 or 3 on some nights over the course of 4 months. I'm new here and certainly not going to judge but I did feel a bit sick when I read it. Each to their own but I wouldn't meet anyone who had that sort of behaviour

How would you know if they hadn't displayed the veris? I played with a lot of guys last Sunday and didn't receive one veri from that night. If I had a regular FB I wouldn't be verifying him every time we met.

I can't comment on verifications I've not read. I just read the verifications and she parked a van and multiple people "took their turn" and as I said earlier I can't judge but people have their preferences. I just have mine on who I'll meet whether it be on Looks, cock size or the type of person they are. Shame I'm getting judged on that"

I'm a bit disgusted you have taken the verifications out of context... she has a removals van and asked a few nice guys to help her move the boxes out, each guy took their turn carrying them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

People who judge others for the amount of sex they have on a website that is run to enable people to have sex with others are, IMO, a bit strange. 100% agree but people do seem to find it disgusting. Got called a slut once at a greedy girl night for.. well being greedy...

Hilarious! And yet I know I've not really let loose yet for fear of being judged. I wonder, how greedy is 'too greedy'?"
to be fair since being in a couple i have really reigned myself in not because I or Mr dont enjoy it but because others made assumptions about Mr and it made me uncomfortable.... X

And as to how greedy

There is never an upper limit just do what your happy with and enjoy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is sooooooooo judgy!

This is why I dont display veris - I don't want to be judged.

Oh .... but I want everone else to display theirs though

By the way- unlike everyone else - I am here to fuck the whole site

Surely it's the things people are doing they're not displaying on their profiles is what you judgy people should worry about

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

Some people need to grow up and stop being childish.

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

As with everything in life, people have preferences. Many people on here are looking for someone regular, as they feel that sex improves over time as they learn more about each other. Similarly, there are many people who want the opposite and meet as many people as time allows. Neither is wrong and should not be judged on what they choose to do, as long as they are open about it and no one gets harmed in the process.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was one profile I read who had a verification from each night. Sometimes 2 or 3 on some nights over the course of 4 months. I'm new here and certainly not going to judge but I did feel a bit sick when I read it. Each to their own but I wouldn't meet anyone who had that sort of behaviour "

Take a careful look at that profile and the schedule she keeps. I'd advise a healthy dose of scepticism. Or consider it performance art..

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

I don't know. But I do know I've had more that our verified meets. I'm guessing over a few hundred now but I don't know. Thanks to everyone that contributed to the amazing times I've had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a good ride on a Boris Bike the other day!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would draw the line at meeting someone who referred to "site bikes". It shows a deep disrespect, unintentional irony and double standards not to mention an appalling attitude to women."

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I have more Veris from social meets & events, than actual play meets.

But the most embarrassed I've felt was when I got 2 delayed veris on the same day I got 1 from a social meet, looked like I'd be very busy that day

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I think anyone describing other swingers as 'site bikes' outs themselves as judgemental non-swingers straight away.

Maybe they have self esteem issues?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have more Veris from social meets & events, than actual play meets.

But the most embarrassed I've felt was when I got 2 delayed veris on the same day I got 1 from a social meet, looked like I'd be very busy that day "

We believe you

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

*starts singing *

I've got a bike, you can ride it if you like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*starts singing *

I've got a bike, you can ride it if you like.

"

I'd like to lick the seat afterwards xxx

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Had a good ride on a Boris Bike the other day!!!"

And I thought he was straight, but he does get around does our Boris!

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

There are certain members on here (and I'm sure most of you will agree) that I personally wouldn't go near a guy if they have met them , all sorts of reasons - varying from well known use of unprotected sex and STI's or just the fact you know them and you don't get on and rather not have the same bloke stirring shit between you (yes it's not just the girls that are bitchy ! Haha

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