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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Am I the only woman who dreads a guy saying ill lick or eat u for hours?

Most men haven't got the skill to make me cum and if you are at it longer than 20 mins I get bored and numb.

So you tell them that and yet they insist on doing it anyway.

Last time I ended up receiving it on all fours so I could lean over the bed and read a magazine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a playmate isn't doing what I need, that's OK, as long as they are prepared to listen when I make suggestions.

The ones who get firmly booted off the button are the ones who are rubbish and won't listen.

I get irritable if it's done wrong.

And girls DO NOT instinctively know what girls like. Everyone needs something different.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If a playmate isn't doing what I need, that's OK, as long as they are prepared to listen when I make suggestions.

The ones who get firmly booted off the button are the ones who are rubbish and won't listen.

I get irritable if it's done wrong.

And girls DO NOT instinctively know what girls like. Everyone needs something different. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a woman wasn't into oral, I'd never insist on giving it. But I'd also never insist I'd make someone cum, or stay down there for so long if it clearly isn't working...

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

Why just sit there not enjoying it. Just tell them how you like it and what to do. Men have no problems recieiving instructions during sexual acts of it helps to get you off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep same.

I take a long time, and too much just leaves me desensitised and mind wandering onto something more interesting.

I'd much rather have it to warm everything up, then on with the main event.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy it but don't insist on it, if the woman doesn't enjoy it I wouldn't force it on her. I'm all for taking direction as well. You're both there to enjoy and if that means a bit of telling me to the left, or right, softer, faster whatever then I'll listen.

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

i always cum from oral and although being told that wouldn't turn me on, coz guys talk shit to get into your fanny anyway.

but if they actually went down on me i'd be guaranteed to cum. every single guys who has given me oral has made me cum and i enjoy receiving it just as much as giving it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy giving oral but wouldn't say it's an essential for a meet. If what I'm doing isn't right for the lady I'd want to know.

I'm not sure many men would be happy knowing the female wasn't happy and enjoying herself. I know I wouldn't x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't much like receiving oral. I find that most guys on here love giving it. So I make sure to tell guys before a meet that it's not something I like doing a lot so they know in advance.

There are a few people who have been awesome. But I still only have the patience for short intervals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does absolutely nothing for me and I make it clear before I meet a guy that his tongue is going nowhere near my minge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving it but if I say I'm going to as a wine is hesitant about it then I give them 2 naughty alternative options;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, you're not alone. I roll my eyes when I read profiles that day things like Love going down for hours, guarantee I'll make you cum on my tongue etc etc.

I enjoy oral as a part of foreplay mostly but if someone ain't doing it for me they'll get a nudge I the right direction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything that they insist 'will make me cum' is an utter turn off. No matter what it is. As soon as they say that I stop chatting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Don't get me wrong I enjoy well done oral but I still don't want 2 hours of it. Foreplay and more on to something else foreplay.

I know very quickly if i am going to cum by oral and one fab friend can have me from 0 to orgasm in under two minutes. There is something he does between licking and sucking that just gets me there.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

It's seems it's a good thing I couldn't lick for hours..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love oral but not for hours on end I prefer lots of other forms of foreplay as well as oral then a good fucking....when a man says he will lick me for hours I normally say no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I must be fortunate enough to love it and it is usually a sure fired way to have me week at the knees...but we are all different, wouldn't do to be all the same xx

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

Whatever it is am doing if the women isn't enjoying it I don't see the point in carrying on, I get excited by seeing the Woman getting excited, Cliché I know but its the same with a blow job I don't wont one if she doesn't enjoy giving it, Saying that just like kissing giving oral is a big part in having sex for me, It doesn't have to be 20-30 of continuous oral as I like to mix it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really enjoy oral, but find it so intense that I struggle to cum, I like a good mixture of forplay and oral now I can do that for a few hours!

I take so long to cum that lots of forplay builds the intensity that when I do it's powerful and last ages

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By *assionate Pleasures 1964Woman
over a year ago

Isle of Wight

"No, you're not alone. I roll my eyes when I read profiles that day things like Love going down for hours, guarantee I'll make you cum on my tongue etc etc.

I enjoy oral as a part of foreplay mostly but if someone ain't doing it for me they'll get a nudge I the right direction. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do love it, but no not for too long. It's a good entree. However, I did meet a rather skilful chap recently who had an amazing technique. I was surprised.

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

"Am I the only woman who dreads a guy saying ill lick or eat u for hours?

Most men haven't got the skill to make me cum and if you are at it longer than 20 mins I get bored and numb.

So you tell them that and yet they insist on doing it anyway.

Last time I ended up receiving it on all fours so I could lean over the bed and read a magazine

Its times like this when you realise the ceiling really does need painted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I must be fortunate enough to love it and it is usually a sure fired way to have me week at the knees...but we are all different, wouldn't do to be all the same xx"

I'm with you on this

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Am I the only woman who dreads a guy saying ill lick or eat u for hours?

Most men haven't got the skill to make me cum and if you are at it longer than 20 mins I get bored and numb.

So you tell them that and yet they insist on doing it anyway.

Last time I ended up receiving it on all fours so I could lean over the bed and read a magazine

I love giving oral and don't think I could be in a relationship with a woman who didn't like receiving oral sex.

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By *entonMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"i always cum from oral and although being told that wouldn't turn me on, coz guys talk shit to get into your fanny anyway.

but if they actually went down on me i'd be guaranteed to cum. every single guys who has given me oral has made me cum and i enjoy receiving it just as much as giving it."

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By *ocforuMan
over a year ago

Cork City

"Why just sit there not enjoying it. Just tell them how you like it and what to do. Men have no problems recieiving instructions during sexual acts of it helps to get you off"
hi your right tell the guy he'll understand but I think a guy should start at the top and work he's way down slowly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love giving oral but do like to mix things up so its not repetitive in the same stimulus area.

There is nothing better than hearing a lady breathe out that it feels good

Listening is important

Even if your at are clamped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I the only woman who dreads a guy saying ill lick or eat u for hours?

Most men haven't got the skill to make me cum and if you are at it longer than 20 mins I get bored and numb.

So you tell them that and yet they insist on doing it anyway.

Last time I ended up receiving it on all fours so I could lean over the bed and read a magazine

You would have been better stopping him and just went and read a magazine, save you both being bored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I the only woman who dreads a guy saying ill lick or eat u for hours?

Most men haven't got the skill to make me cum and if you are at it longer than 20 mins I get bored and numb.

So you tell them that and yet they insist on doing it anyway.

Last time I ended up receiving it on all fours so I could lean over the bed and read a magazine

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I love giving oral and like to take my time and Mrs says I do a good job and I'm very considerate

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By *nterracial2Couple
over a year ago

Ribble Valley

If it takes him hours of "eating" my pussy, he's not doing it right. Takes hubby five to ten minutes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same get bored quite quick. My oh has learn how to be efficient now lol

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Am I the only woman who dreads a guy saying ill lick or eat u for hours?

Most men haven't got the skill to make me cum and if you are at it longer than 20 mins I get bored and numb.

So you tell them that and yet they insist on doing it anyway.

Last time I ended up receiving it on all fours so I could lean over the bed and read a magazine

This is so me, receiving oral pisses me off lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

M is pretty bloody good when it comes to giving oral to me and he has never had any complaints from any other women. I have not been so lucky with some of the guys on meets with most guys being way to rough!

Star x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a playmate isn't doing what I need, that's OK, as long as they are prepared to listen when I make suggestions.

The ones who get firmly booted off the button are the ones who are rubbish and won't listen.

I get irritable if it's done wrong.

And girls DO NOT instinctively know what girls like. Everyone needs something different. "

I'd like to think I was good at it, slow soft licks to the clit, sensual n not hard..I'm also prepared to listen..also agree everyone's needs are different

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

*Removes snorkel and goggles* and wanders off with tail between legs muttering "who knew?" under his breath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've cum, I never could before as my ex's didn't have a clue, I was only ever to cum since I met my Dom / Boyfriend, oral is my fav new thing, my first cum takes a little while, but after that I'm a volcano !!! V

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I the only woman who dreads a guy saying ill lick or eat u for hours?

Most men haven't got the skill to make me cum and if you are at it longer than 20 mins I get bored and numb.

So you tell them that and yet they insist on doing it anyway.

Last time I ended up receiving it on all fours so I could lean over the bed and read a magazine

OP your thread made me smile...

I have a very sensitive clit, and cannot abide a guy who feels I'm wanting to be licked for hours upon end, I could get my dog to do that ( if I had one!).

Now more importantly what magazine did you read?

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

I would ask you how you like it and if it still wasn't working I'd ask you to read the magazine out loud haha.

Seriously tho, you have to be able to adapt to the other person's needs. It has to be pleasurable for the lady for me to get pleasure from it.

I once had an ex girlfriend who said "you don't like the way I suck your cock so i won't stuck it again". That's not a good attitude to have xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its more a problem if someone thinks they know best or knows all the tricks to start with. Every woman is different, so different tricks, or length of time needed....hell, iv even got a vibrating tongue stud just for something different lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank the Lord! I thought I was odd not being particularly fussed about too much oral. Would much rather fuck.

Although I did give the heave to someone who wouldn't do it at all. Claimed he was 'allergic to pussy juice'...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love giving oral but do like to mix things up so its not repetitive in the same stimulus area.

There is nothing better than hearing a lady breathe out that it feels good

Listening is important

Even if your at are clamped

I need my clit licking, not sucking, not a tongue inside, not fingers banging away....my clit needs licking! When I breathe out (in frustration) that means the 'almost there' moment is gone. All women are not the same

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Well I luv giving oral but if a lady say she does not like it then I won't annoy her . Most women I meet like it and some even Cum with oral play . I don't know what to say like ladies that don't like oral . I luv receiving it as well. I suppose different strokes for different folks .

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

"Love giving oral but do like to mix things up so its not repetitive in the same stimulus area.

There is nothing better than hearing a lady breathe out that it feels good

Listening is important

Even if your at are clamped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many men and sadly bi women thinking they know how to do it. When someone says I'll eat your pussy I could die. I'm delicate I don't want to be eaten I want to licked slowly, kissed and stroked.

Saying that though I've not cum throw oral for a very long time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if a woman doesnt look like a demon is being exorcised from her body when your giving her oral sex...then your just not doing it right! ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each woman is different, and it can take a very long time (weeks!) to build up the sort of relationship that makes it work well....

I never want it within a Fab meet and am very clear in saying so...

... in return for which I get insulted, told that there's something wrong with me, told that they can "guarantee" it being good - anything but having my preferences and limits respected!...

So I don't mess around now - any hint of not respecting my wishes and things stop dead! Finished!

Really makes me mad!

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

"Well if a woman doesnt look like a demon is being exorcised from her body when your giving her oral sex...then your just not doing it right! ??"

You mean when she's recoiling in abject horror at the effort ??

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

As the fellow says if you don't like it what's the point in any guy trying it on you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As the fellow says if you don't like it what's the point in any guy trying it on you. "

Probably because they've been watching too much cheap porn where they see it making women scream (it doesn't...)

Then they assume:

- it's what the woman "really wants"

- it's what always happens

- it's easy

- it's their right to do it...

Yes - I've been given all these reasons...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I the only woman who dreads a guy saying ill lick or eat u for hours?

Most men haven't got the skill to make me cum and if you are at it longer than 20 mins I get bored and numb.

So you tell them that and yet they insist on doing it anyway.

Last time I ended up receiving it on all fours so I could lean over the bed and read a magazine

at the last bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It makes me laugh more when they state... I’m the best “licker” you will ever have!

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over a year ago

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Not sure if this is pertinent...but I love doing it.

It's a very intimate act where I try and please her with no thoughts for myself.

It tastes lovely and is (usually) a lovely place to be.

Sorry if that is selfish

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By *eral SexMan
over a year ago

Port Talbot

It would be fascinating to know how we've all developed the sexual profile that we have. Why it is that something that moves the next person to orgasm leaves us cold and vice versa? Is it the way our sexuality is moulded in our infancy and teenage years as the Freudians claim or is it predetermined by genetics? Would sooo love to know.

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I love receiving oral but prefer giving it ( as long as the lady doesn't object ) and I'm told Im rather good as my last meet & very can adhere to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love giving oral but do like to mix things up so its not repetitive in the same stimulus area.

There is nothing better than hearing a lady breathe out that it feels good

Listening is important

Even if your at are clamped

Love this.... I can almost hear the frustrating sound lol

Although I do like a tongue inside..

But not my clit being sucked within an inch of its life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What magazine? Good read? Was he helpful during the crossword?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cumming from oral does feel amazing but for me it has to be done right.

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

"It would be fascinating to know how we've all developed the sexual profile that we have. Why it is that something that moves the next person to orgasm leaves us cold and vice versa? Is it the way our sexuality is moulded in our infancy and teenage years as the Freudians claim or is it predetermined by genetics? Would sooo love to know. "

i've always loved sex. got with a guy who was highly affectionate and had a high sex drive to match mine and had the best decade of my life sexually 2000-2011.

we got pregnant a lot of times and so i got more into oral, penetration seemed too risky and he was good at giving oral. i more enjoy oral than anything. although i still love bareback sex, i'm more into oral. i love affection. i got these fetishes from being with that ex. any other sex is mediocre in comparison.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"Cumming from oral does feel amazing but for me it has to be done right. "

Gets out notepad....

What is right for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see it as fore play leading on to some good hard fucking. Those that insist on oral for hours often have difficulties in other areas.Definitely not for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Am I the only woman who dreads a guy saying ill lick or eat u for hours?

Most men haven't got the skill to make me cum and if you are at it longer than 20 mins I get bored and numb.

So you tell them that and yet they insist on doing it anyway.

Last time I ended up receiving it on all fours so I could lean over the bed and read a magazine

OP your thread made me smile...

I have a very sensitive clit, and cannot abide a guy who feels I'm wanting to be licked for hours upon end, I could get my dog to do that ( if I had one!).

Now more importantly what magazine did you read?

It was a take a break... some of those poor women

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