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By *wcw OP   Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

We go to adult clubs. And its easy to pick up guys there for the wife. But when we go out on a normal night. Around the pubs. Whats the best way to get a guys attention to let them know that i want to see her with other guy. She dresses sexy enough and gets guys looking at her. But does not seem right to come out with. You wonna play with her. Lol. A good chat n flirt would be a good start. Most guys wont come over to speak cuz we are a couple. Just asking for your thoughts. Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the real world OP single guys just don't approach a couple in a pub and expect to be invited to a sexy time!

If your wife/partner was alone then I'm sure the guys would try their chances, swingers do tend to recognise other swingers would out even speaking lol!

We just kinda know!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Strangely enough, a couple chatted me up in a pub and it's how I got into swinging. Except I didn't realise I was being chatted up. I'd say, generally speaking, I'd not approach a couple unless they spoke to me first and the guy said 'my wife likes you' and be bloody obvious about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why doesn't your wife go over and chat to the guy she likes in the first place?

You could give a friendly wave and smile to say you're happy with him talking to her.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"Why doesn't your wife go over and chat to the guy she likes in the first place?

You could give a friendly wave and smile to say you're happy with him talking to her."

This. But you could take him a drink over after a few minutes and say hi.

Then leave them to it before rejoining them. I imagine a lot of guys would do a runner but some would be happy if you are.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"We go to adult clubs. And its easy to pick up guys there for the wife. But when we go out on a normal night. Around the pubs. Whats the best way to get a guys attention to let them know that i want to see her with other guy. She dresses sexy enough and gets guys looking at her. But does not seem right to come out with. You wonna play with her. Lol. A good chat n flirt would be a good start. Most guys wont come over to speak cuz we are a couple. Just asking for your thoughts. Thanks. "

Does she wear a hotwife ankle bracelet? It's what I look for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most men in pubs would just think it's some sort of trap and you'd beat the shit out of him for saying you wanted to fuck his wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The BEST way to get knocked clean out during an evening in the pub, is to wander up to a lady, in front of her husband, and ask if she fancies a roll around while her other half watches.

For the one time it works, the other 99 times just aren't going to be worth it.

So if you're interested in a chap, you're going to have to let him know explicitly. Though be prepared for the possibility of him thinking you're both a little odd, and declining your offer.

Personally, I don't think you're odd... but then, I'm on this site too. So I wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe let ur wife go out first on her own do a bit of flirting then join her later on.Go to wherever she is and watch her for a bit then later on join them once they had a few drinks then chat maybe invite him back for a few drinks

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By *wcw OP   Couple
over a year ago

cheshire


"We go to adult clubs. And its easy to pick up guys there for the wife. But when we go out on a normal night. Around the pubs. Whats the best way to get a guys attention to let them know that i want to see her with other guy. She dresses sexy enough and gets guys looking at her. But does not seem right to come out with. You wonna play with her. Lol. A good chat n flirt would be a good start. Most guys wont come over to speak cuz we are a couple. Just asking for your thoughts. Thanks.

Does she wear a hotwife ankle bracelet? It's what I look for "
yes she does. But not everyone reconize that.

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By *wcw OP   Couple
over a year ago

cheshire


"Maybe let ur wife go out first on her own do a bit of flirting then join her later on.Go to wherever she is and watch her for a bit then later on join them once they had a few drinks then chat maybe invite him back for a few drinks"
yes. Sounds good. Where do you go drinking. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often go to clubs and as a single man I sometimes find it hard to approach couples. I usually speak to the male first to almost get "permission" (for lack of better word). A few of these males have then told me to speak to the Mrs as it's her decision.

I've played with some great couples and I think each couple has different dynamics. I would say it would make it easier for couples to approach single guys that they may like to play with as apposed to us single men venturing into uncharted territory. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds good. Where do you go drinking. Lol.

Ha ha im pretty flexible where i go however i take it ur trying get a vanilla meet if it were a fab meet we wouldnt be having this convo in the Forum ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most men in pubs would just think it's some sort of trap and you'd beat the shit out of him for saying you wanted to fuck his wife. "

Yeah, this crossed my mind as well

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Instead of sending the lady in first, we'd probably go in as a couple and try and spark a conversation. Just the same as we would in a club. That should avoid the 'IT'S A TRAP!' aspect

If you get a spark from them (ie they're happy to chat and seem interested in you) then the female half can turn up the charm. Give that a few minutes to settle in and make it obvious that the Mr is happy with this and then the male half can 'visit the gents' to give them some time together. If it's all going well, pitch the suggestion that the three of you go somewhere a little more private

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By *ndyandMandyCouple
over a year ago

swansea


"We go to adult clubs. And its easy to pick up guys there for the wife. But when we go out on a normal night. Around the pubs. Whats the best way to get a guys attention to let them know that i want to see her with other guy. She dresses sexy enough and gets guys looking at her. But does not seem right to come out with. You wonna play with her. Lol. A good chat n flirt would be a good start. Most guys wont come over to speak cuz we are a couple. Just asking for your thoughts. Thanks.

Does she wear a hotwife ankle bracelet? It's what I look for "

This is a new one. Seriously???

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By *wcw OP   Couple
over a year ago

cheshire


"We go to adult clubs. And its easy to pick up guys there for the wife. But when we go out on a normal night. Around the pubs. Whats the best way to get a guys attention to let them know that i want to see her with other guy. She dresses sexy enough and gets guys looking at her. But does not seem right to come out with. You wonna play with her. Lol. A good chat n flirt would be a good start. Most guys wont come over to speak cuz we are a couple. Just asking for your thoughts. Thanks.

Does she wear a hotwife ankle bracelet? It's what I look for

This is a new one. Seriously???"
anklet braclet. Ive heard it is a sign of hotwife. Or something simalar.

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

Some of our best meets are from meeting randoms. Normally he will chat to a guy i fancy and then he will show him our profile on his phone . If he's interested then he will head to the bar while I chat to the guy for a bit . Imostly they chat about our lifestyle and stuff and dissapear but the one or two that come back have a great night lol

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"We go to adult clubs. And its easy to pick up guys there for the wife. But when we go out on a normal night. Around the pubs. Whats the best way to get a guys attention to let them know that i want to see her with other guy. She dresses sexy enough and gets guys looking at her. But does not seem right to come out with. You wonna play with her. Lol. A good chat n flirt would be a good start. Most guys wont come over to speak cuz we are a couple. Just asking for your thoughts. Thanks. "

Never in a million years gonna happen.

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By *wcw OP   Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

Lol lol lol only for some.

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