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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!?

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

they are rare tbh, i manage to find one every 6 months or so.

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "

You girls, it's all want want want

Keep looking we / they are here I promise x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanders out of man cave...

Smiles...

Waves quietly...

Sits in rock....

And waits....and waits...and waits

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

It doesn't feel like it at time's.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Exactly I feel the same, like they are all slowly extincting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm loosing hope here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "

Chat? You want chat? Some of these men cant even spell my name!

Methinks you want too much!

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By *ake5176Man
over a year ago

City

You're probably better off with Tinder, people join fab with sex as their main goal. At least with tinder you'll talk to a person with a face instead of a cock in your inbox

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

So we are to believe there are really no decent men on here ?

Not one guy that warrants the attention of the op , or indeed the female posters picking up on the thread .

Jeez ... I'm so glad we don't actively seek single women .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all the women on this site are too picky in my book

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford

By the law of fab averages there are even fewer women of such standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do exist

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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Compared to Men, Women have a lot more options on here, You have to wade through a lot more shite before you find what you want but when you find the right one/few it doesn't mean they want you

(I'm not comparing people to shite its just a figure of speech)

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Of course there are decent men on here, it just takes time to find them especially if you have preferences. If you weren't bothered you could most likely shag a different guy every day!!

It's good to be picky. Picky and proud here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are those kind of guys on here but you have to kiss a fair few frogs before you find them...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I am fairly normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Picky and proud here too

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth


"By the law of fab averages there are even fewer women of such standards "

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By *lue9753Man
over a year ago

Oldham

But how do you know what we all want. We don't all want the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "

Be as picky as you wish. The more picky you are, the fewer encounters you will have. If you want a certain level of encounters, there might he areas where you need to compromise and lower some expectations slightly.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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"There are those kind of guys on here but you have to kiss a fair few frogs before you find them...!"

Ribbit

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

There's 32006 people on line at present, which means there's 31000 single men logged in, if ya can't find one out of that lot.....then yea you're being a bit picky

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"You're probably better off with Tinder, people join fab with sex as their main goal. At least with tinder you'll talk to a person with a face instead of a cock in your inbox"

Tbh.... I've had the opposite experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So we are to believe there are really no decent men on here ?

Not one guy that warrants the attention of the op , or indeed the female posters picking up on the thread .

Jeez ... I'm so glad we don't actively seek single women ..... "

I have to agree with this, it seems men must put the effort in whilst the women just lie back and expect the men to come to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is definitely some good guys out there, it all depends on what you are looking for

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Plenty of lovely guys on here

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"people join fab with sex as their main goal. "

Not all do. And a cock in the inbox is easily ignored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"all the women on this site are too picky in my book "

God forbid we have standards

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

OP Fab goes in phases, and men are like buses.

It can get boring/demoralising/hopeless etc. and with no sign of a decent man.

Then a bunch of the buggers will all come along at once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So we are to believe there are really no decent men on here ?

Not one guy that warrants the attention of the op , or indeed the female posters picking up on the thread .

Jeez ... I'm so glad we don't actively seek single women .....

I have to agree with this, it seems men must put the effort in whilst the women just lie back and expect the men to come to them "

We don't actually know that she isn't actively seeking though, maybe she is and still can't find anyone....

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"So we are to believe there are really no decent men on here ?

Not one guy that warrants the attention of the op , or indeed the female posters picking up on the thread .

Jeez ... I'm so glad we don't actively seek single women .....

I have to agree with this, it seems men must put the effort in whilst the women just lie back and expect the men to come to them "

I just can't imagine how a guy must feel when he's put the effort in , written a nice message , attached a couple of pics , sends it and then nothing . He must question his looks , his style , and everything about himself .

Not for a second am I suggesting a lowering if standards , or a sympathy fuck , but when there's thousands of guys to choose from , and not one is up to scratch one has to question the selection criteria of the op .

Perhaps if the single guys on fab read this thread they will see what they are up against !

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"all the women on this site are too picky in my book "

Because we won't meet you?

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"So we are to believe there are really no decent men on here ?

Not one guy that warrants the attention of the op , or indeed the female posters picking up on the thread .

Jeez ... I'm so glad we don't actively seek single women .....

I have to agree with this, it seems men must put the effort in whilst the women just lie back and expect the men to come to them

We don't actually know that she isn't actively seeking though, maybe she is and still can't find anyone...."

Which is simply bizarre !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "

Fancy a shag

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•


"So we are to believe there are really no decent men on here ?

Not one guy that warrants the attention of the op , or indeed the female posters picking up on the thread .

Jeez ... I'm so glad we don't actively seek single women .....

I have to agree with this, it seems men must put the effort in whilst the women just lie back and expect the men to come to them

We don't actually know that she isn't actively seeking though, maybe she is and still can't find anyone...."

i manage to find one every six months or so, i do find them myself.

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!?

Be as picky as you wish. The more picky you are, the fewer encounters you will have. If you want a certain level of encounters, there might he areas where you need to compromise and lower some expectations slightly."

I'd rather be picky even if it means fewer encounters. Quality not quantity anytime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I offer my services

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This sort of post annoys me. Someone posts saying "Looking for a chat" etc and so you send them a message. The suddenly it's just deleted straight away.

Happens all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a thoroughly nice guy actually, I chat to plenty of girls on here without being a sex pest. I'm sure there are plenty of others just like me. Look and you shall find.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"This sort of post annoys me. Someone posts saying "Looking for a chat" etc and so you send them a message. The suddenly it's just deleted straight away.

Happens all the time "

They didn't want to chat with YOU

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I'd rather be picky even if it means fewer encounters. Quality not quantity anytime. "

Naked Bob is quality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "

There are 10 or more guys for every woman on here,the odds are seriously stacked in your favour. Try sending rainbows out instead of complaining that they are not coming to find you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So we are to believe there are really no decent men on here ?

Not one guy that warrants the attention of the op , or indeed the female posters picking up on the thread .

Jeez ... I'm so glad we don't actively seek single women .....

I have to agree with this, it seems men must put the effort in whilst the women just lie back and expect the men to come to them

We don't actually know that she isn't actively seeking though, maybe she is and still can't find anyone....

i manage to find one every six months or so, i do find them myself."

So if she's been here for 3 months, she has another 3 months to go....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So we are to believe there are really no decent men on here ?

Not one guy that warrants the attention of the op , or indeed the female posters picking up on the thread .

Jeez ... I'm so glad we don't actively seek single women .....

I have to agree with this, it seems men must put the effort in whilst the women just lie back and expect the men to come to them

I just can't imagine how a guy must feel when he's put the effort in , written a nice message , attached a couple of pics , sends it and then nothing . He must question his looks , his style , and everything about himself .

Not for a second am I suggesting a lowering if standards , or a sympathy fuck , but when there's thousands of guys to choose from , and not one is up to scratch one has to question the selection criteria of the op .

Perhaps if the single guys on fab read this thread they will see what they are up against !"

Or this is where the notion that women have it easy on here because men are the majority is slightly skewered.

I'd rather there be fewer men who tick my boxes that I have to fight for (so to speak) than have 1000's to choose from who ain't suitable.

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•


"So we are to believe there are really no decent men on here ?

Not one guy that warrants the attention of the op , or indeed the female posters picking up on the thread .

Jeez ... I'm so glad we don't actively seek single women .....

I have to agree with this, it seems men must put the effort in whilst the women just lie back and expect the men to come to them

We don't actually know that she isn't actively seeking though, maybe she is and still can't find anyone....

i manage to find one every six months or so, i do find them myself.

So if she's been here for 3 months, she has another 3 months to go.... "

she might get luckier than me, i'm a weirdo so it put most people off.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

The OP does have a huge list of conditions in her profile so it's not surprising very few guys measure up.

However there about 15 guys for every single woman on here, so she does have a large pool to choose from. Perhaps if she relaxed her requirements a little she would have more luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So we are to believe there are really no decent men on here ?

Not one guy that warrants the attention of the op , or indeed the female posters picking up on the thread .

Jeez ... I'm so glad we don't actively seek single women .....

I have to agree with this, it seems men must put the effort in whilst the women just lie back and expect the men to come to them

We don't actually know that she isn't actively seeking though, maybe she is and still can't find anyone....

i manage to find one every six months or so, i do find them myself.

So if she's been here for 3 months, she has another 3 months to go.... "

That's assuming the feeling is mutual when she finds what she's looking for. Us nice guys are allowed to be picky too. Not that there's anything wrong with the OP but it does work both ways

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Maybe the men are picky too and not choosing you op. Jack.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Until you have tried them all that's difficult to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "

Depends on your standards OP. I'd say yes they are lacking in our area. Very much so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"all the women on this site are too picky in my book

Because we won't meet you?"

no i only being honest its women right to be picky but one day they look back and regret it i think.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"all the women on this site are too picky in my book

Because we won't meet you?

no i only being honest its women right to be picky but one day they look back and regret it i think. "

I won't!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there are decent men on Fab. I'm quite fussy, and it's harder for a couple than for a single lady. But we usually have a one or two regulars, and one or two more for the occasional play. That being said, we would not be able to find a single guy in an instant - it took us some time to build up the connections. The early days were quite frustrating. Give it time.

Mrs

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By *aramelMINXWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "

The holy grail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!?

Depends on your standards OP. I'd say yes they are lacking in our area. Very much so. "

Lacking in Manchester...

Maybe I should move back home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"all the women on this site are too picky in my book

Because we won't meet you?

no i only being honest its women right to be picky but one day they look back and regret it i think. "

When you say all women on this site are 'too picky', what do you mean by that? Do you mean that they only play with men they fancy, or do you feel they are rejecting men they do fancy for an obscure reason. If the former is your definition, I'm not sure why any woman would regret not playing with a man they don't fancy. If the latter is your definition, I don't think you are correct. I for one might regret not playing more, but sadly time won't allow it - it would be pointless for me to even consider being less picky because I have enough to be getting on with.

Mrs

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford


"I'd rather be picky even if it means fewer encounters. Quality not quantity anytime.

Naked Bob is quality "
. Haha thanks Glad I'm not the only one who knows it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!?

The holy grail"

Nah, he would be independently wealthy, and come with an off switch, so work or social life doesn't get in the way. Incredibly well groomed but not vain, perfect except the well chosen flaws so there is something to complain about...

So many requirements

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "

If you was nearer I'd say 'yes you are'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No!

All the men on here are thinking with their cock.

They don't want to talk to you - and they want to fuck as many women as possible.

You are not important- you are just a vagina!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No!

All the men on here are thinking with their cock.

They don't want to talk to you - and they want to fuck as many women as possible.

You are not important- you are just a vagina!

"

I sense you are a tad cynical today

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"No!

All the men on here are thinking with their cock.

They don't want to talk to you - and they want to fuck as many women as possible.

You are not important- you are just a vagina!

"

That's a bit harsh and untrue actually. Sometimes I'm a cunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"all the women on this site are too picky in my book

Because we won't meet you?

no i only being honest its women right to be picky but one day they look back and regret it i think. "

Why would anyone regret being picky? I certainly wouldnt meet people I am not attracted to. Why would I regret meeting someone who does nothing for me?

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"You're probably better off with Tinder, people join fab with sex as their main goal. At least with tinder you'll talk to a person with a face instead of a cock in your inbox

Tbh.... I've had the opposite experience.

So have I total waste of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"all the women on this site are too picky in my book

Because we won't meet you?

no i only being honest its women right to be picky but one day they look back and regret it i think. "

surely its everyone's right to be as picky as they want! what are they going to regret?...not having crap sex with someone they didnt really want to have sex with?..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eurgh. Anyone who says they are too picky really mean "I think I'm far superior to everyone. No one is good enough for me"

You either like the look of someone or you don't. If there really is no one that interests you then the site isn't for you. You need to find other outlets. But It really isn't being too picky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"all the women on this site are too picky in my book

Because we won't meet you?

no i only being honest its women right to be picky but one day they look back and regret it i think. "

Why do you think they'll look back and regret it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a decent man and I have a cat, who likes my cat?

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Eurgh. Anyone who says they are too picky really mean "I think I'm far superior to everyone. No one is good enough for me"

You either like the look of someone or you don't. If there really is no one that interests you then the site isn't for you. You need to find other outlets. But It really isn't being too picky. "

Exactly this

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By *imonP23Man
over a year ago

Shepton Mallet

Trolling? Certainty looks that way.

Neither George Clooney nor Brad Pitt would meet the OP's requirements (too old). Also "cannot accommodate, cannot travel". And yet she has 10 meeting-verifications in 3 months.

Some sort of wind-up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not exactly. I have never said no one is good enough for me, I'm not perfect (far from that actually) but if I like the look of somebody but have no connection I won't meet them. Simple as that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trolling? Certainty looks that way.

Neither George Clooney nor Brad Pitt would meet the OP's requirements (too old). Also "cannot accommodate, cannot travel". And yet she has 10 meeting-verifications in 3 months.

Some sort of wind-up?

"

how is her question trolling? thats a ridiculous thing to say! and her meets could all be social from one night for all you know..the ones displayed are social..and she explains very clearly why she doesnt accom or travel... as do many women with children...all she has done is comment on how difficult it is to find a suitable guy on here...which is nothing new

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not exactly. I have never said no one is good enough for me, I'm not perfect (far from that actually) but if I like the look of somebody but have no connection I won't meet them. Simple as that. "

Well like I said. If it's not working you're young enough to find other outlets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so glad I'm not picky. I get plenty of sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "

Tbh I think you are asking for a bit much....... Blokes can't multi task like that ..... To have a decent chat while having amazing sex is really hard to do at the same time xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Trolling? Certainty looks that way.

Neither George Clooney nor Brad Pitt would meet the OP's requirements (too old). Also "cannot accommodate, cannot travel". And yet she has 10 meeting-verifications in 3 months.

Some sort of wind-up?

how is her question trolling? thats a ridiculous thing to say! and her meets could all be social from one night for all you know..the ones displayed are social..and she explains very clearly why she doesnt accom or travel... as do many women with children...all she has done is comment on how difficult it is to find a suitable guy on here...which is nothing new"

Thank you Hun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!?

Tbh I think you are asking for a bit much....... Blokes can't multi task like that ..... To have a decent chat while having amazing sex is really hard to do at the same time xx "

Perhaps she wants 3, one for each activity....

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "

I am a decent man. I'm here to chat and have a good time. I am bloody fantastic at sex as well.

You tell me whether any of that is true.

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By *ordan169Man
over a year ago

Bradford

I am a decent man too and I got a high sex drive got stamina. And I can also hold good conversations too

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By *imonP23Man
over a year ago

Shepton Mallet

If I were to start a thread whining about the poor quality of the women on Fab, I would expect some hostile/sarcastic responses! Isn't that obvious?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's 32006 people on line at present, which means there's 31000 single men logged in, if ya can't find one out of that lot.....then yea you're being a bit picky "
I think you will probably find 10 are single rest are on single profiles cheating xx

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "

Move along now. Nothing to see.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!?

Move along now. Nothing to see."

Excuse me?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The amazing men are also very picky and they definitely exist on here I've met several of them

I've also met plenty of idiots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!?

Chat? You want chat? Some of these men cant even spell my name!

Methinks you want too much!"

I wonder how some of them cross the road !

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield

There's no such thing as being to picky if someone isn't right for you then they're just not right for you, it's just a case of being patient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!?

Move along now. Nothing to see.

Excuse me?!"
Think he is on about his profile xx Female replying xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "

No, you are not

I don't have sex with people I am not attracted to or who bore me to death

- Mrs. J -

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By *hocolate_HeavenMan
over a year ago

Birmingham and Dubai


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "

There has to be something there for me. Quality over quantity every time OP.

I get how you feel and have felt the same way, but have found the right woman eventually comes along.

I am looking for a smart woman who has got some good banter and would actually ask my opinion on something or talk about something that might peak my interest. How do you feel about that?

Some of us men have standards too. We can all have fun at a club if we want. Something a little more intimate requires the brain engaged don't you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "

there are lots.

the rough truth is that they are picky too.

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By *hocolate_HeavenMan
over a year ago

Birmingham and Dubai


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!?

Chat? You want chat? Some of these men cant even spell my name!

Methinks you want too much!

I wonder how some of them cross the road ! "

Very true!. Though good grammar seems to allude both sexes. Some replies to my messages have left me thinking why did I send the message in the first place. Seems the word thanks has become thanx.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trolling? Certainty looks that way.

Neither George Clooney nor Brad Pitt would meet the OP's requirements (too old). Also "cannot accommodate, cannot travel". And yet she has 10 meeting-verifications in 3 months.

Some sort of wind-up?

"

If George Clooney or Brad Pitt didnt have a sense of humour, couldnt laugh at themselves and all that came out of their mouths was " ive got a huge cock. Ugg Ugg"

They could jog right on

Seriously, some men are just clueless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Exactly I feel the same, like they are all slowly extincting. "

Like the Dodo.

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

To be honast I think some women on here can be far to picky. (not aimed at op just a large number of woman on here in general).in real life fair enough but alot of average woman on here expect to be pulling guys way out their leauge because sites like this and the internet in general has that effect.thing is guys are different and are the oppisite and most are willing to drop their standards for a last min fuck but don't be offended if you are a 18 stone average and Paul the fireman with a 6 pack and ten incher isint a decent guy and up for chatting and only avalible at 2am when pissed lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well I can assure, this unicorn has definitely not gone extinct yet.

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By *arygoMan
over a year ago

Corwen


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "
I've always been nice and polite when contacting a woman and 9/10 just delete without even a no thanks ?????

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? I've always been nice and polite when contacting a woman and 9/10 just delete without even a no thanks ?????"

You've got a gorgeous new partner, and you're having loads of fantastic sex

Why worry?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "

Obviously haven't met me yet

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By *ngelsdevilWoman
over a year ago

Merseyside


"To be honast I think some women on here can be far to picky. (not aimed at op just a large number of woman on here in general).in real life fair enough but alot of average woman on here expect to be pulling guys way out their leauge because sites like this and the internet in general has that effect.thing is guys are different and are the oppisite and most are willing to drop their standards for a last min fuck but don't be offended if you are a 18 stone average and Paul the fireman with a 6 pack and ten incher isint a decent guy and up for chatting and only avalible at 2am when pissed lol."

Paul the fireman hahaha

This is true though! I get hundreds of messages from men and half of them wouldn't look sideways at me in a bar because I don't have a figure like Kim Kardashian but that's not what I'm looking for, that's why I'm so picky because I want to meet a guy who genuinely attracted to BBW's!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the responses on this treat really tickled me

I agree with all of them, it's like guys saying that the ladies are picky, ladies need more mental stimulation lots more, yeah yeah we all know it's a sex site but you wouldn't walk up to a lady in a pub and say " hi wanna fuck? " nooooo you'd take your time to engage conversation laugh be witty find that connection and then if your lucky you'll get to kiss her lady bits!

It's exactly the same here, stimulate the mind and the rest will surely follow!

I run our profile (fem) and weather it be a couple or single I'm speaking to, the same rule applies!

Think before you type if you think they're out of your league it'll come across that way, relax chill out be funny and articulate and don't get pissed if you don't cut the mustard xx

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"To be honast I think some women on here can be far to picky. (not aimed at op just a large number of woman on here in general).in real life fair enough but alot of average woman on here expect to be pulling guys way out their leauge because sites like this and the internet in general has that effect.thing is guys are different and are the oppisite and most are willing to drop their standards for a last min fuck but don't be offended if you are a 18 stone average and Paul the fireman with a 6 pack and ten incher isint a decent guy and up for chatting and only avalible at 2am when pissed lol.

Paul the fireman hahaha

This is true though! I get hundreds of messages from men and half of them wouldn't look sideways at me in a bar because I don't have a figure like Kim Kardashian but that's not what I'm looking for, that's why I'm so picky because I want to meet a guy who genuinely attracted to BBW's! "
thanks for the honast reply,very refreshing on here .

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By *ngelsdevilWoman
over a year ago

Merseyside


"To be honast I think some women on here can be far to picky. (not aimed at op just a large number of woman on here in general).in real life fair enough but alot of average woman on here expect to be pulling guys way out their leauge because sites like this and the internet in general has that effect.thing is guys are different and are the oppisite and most are willing to drop their standards for a last min fuck but don't be offended if you are a 18 stone average and Paul the fireman with a 6 pack and ten incher isint a decent guy and up for chatting and only avalible at 2am when pissed lol.

Paul the fireman hahaha

This is true though! I get hundreds of messages from men and half of them wouldn't look sideways at me in a bar because I don't have a figure like Kim Kardashian but that's not what I'm looking for, that's why I'm so picky because I want to meet a guy who genuinely attracted to BBW's! thanks for the honast reply,very refreshing on here ."

It's just true! Im always suspicious when a guy with his gym pics messages me, I think they presume that I'm desperate because I'm BBW but honestly I just have a better time with a guy who appreciates my body so that's why I will not reply to so many messages, we all like different things dont we! The world would be a boring place if we didn't!

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By *mojeeCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "

It's your body so be as picky as you like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally, we're all picky in our own way.

I guess the issue is that guys like me send lots of messages as only the strongest survive so to speak, but as women like you receive lots you only scan them expecting rubbish so sometimes the diamonds are missed.

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By *ettingdustyMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"There's 32006 people on line at present, which means there's 31000 single men logged in, if ya can't find one out of that lot.....then yea you're being a bit picky "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!?

Chat? You want chat? Some of these men cant even spell my name!

Methinks you want too much!

I wonder how some of them cross the road !

Very true!. Though good grammar seems to ****allude*****both sexes. Some replies to my messages have left me thinking why did I send the message in the first place. Seems the word thanks has become thanx. "

remember to proof read when criticising peoples writing...

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

OP, not too picky, it's just a known fact all the best men are in couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, not too picky, it's just a known fact all the best men are in couples "

True dat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, not too picky, it's just a known fact all the best men are in couples

True dat! "

lol I disagree but I would

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"OP, not too picky, it's just a known fact all the best men are in couples "

Some bloody woman cherry picked 'em already....

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By *huckzMan
over a year ago

spalding


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "
......yes now fuck the first thing that moves lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think the picky part is a bad way of saying ?

You don't feel a click with someone and would like to be mentally stimulated instead of just expected to drop everything and run for the guy !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very hard to find a guy that can offer you exactly what you want. Fairly easy to find guys that are one of the aspects you're wanting but very difficult to find a guy that fits most of your requirements. Then you think you've finally found him but then the sexual chemistry isn't right in bed or they do something that puts you off. Very, very frustrating. I think I'd have more luck on dating sites but then I can't have my face pic public like you need to with many of them.

I think perhaps we need to focus on the positive and enjoyable aspects of a person and accept that nobody can be everything we want. You might meet one guy that is good for one aspect and meet another who is great for another. That's the bonus of this lifestyle that you're not restricted to one person. However, it all sounds good in theory but then like you I probably rule people out too easily. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!?

Chat? You want chat? Some of these men cant even spell my name!

Methinks you want too much!

I wonder how some of them cross the road !

Very true!. Though good grammar seems to ****allude*****both sexes. Some replies to my messages have left me thinking why did I send the message in the first place. Seems the word thanks has become thanx.

remember to proof read when criticising peoples writing..."

And he's awoken.... Afternoon A! Lol

Sits back and watches...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!?

Chat? You want chat? Some of these men cant even spell my name!

Methinks you want too much!

I wonder how some of them cross the road !

Very true!. Though good grammar seems to ****allude*****both sexes. Some replies to my messages have left me thinking why did I send the message in the first place. Seems the word thanks has become thanx.

remember to proof read when criticising peoples writing...

And he's awoken.... Afternoon A! Lol

Sits back and watches... "

actually im just off to bed :p.

my normal sleeping is 12 midday til 7:30pm :p

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"OP, not too picky, it's just a known fact all the best men are in couples

Some bloody woman cherry picked 'em already.... "

They are often available on a loan basis, and come with the added advantage of having a lady, to double the fun.

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By *ornysxguyMan
over a year ago

Maldon, Essex


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "

One persons decent man is another's most annoying stalker. I see many posts like this, an do wonder what a woman really wants. In some profiles it's all about sex, an then in the next update it's like they want a full blown romance. And vice Versa.

For me I've been having great conversations with a ladie that recently messaged me, an I like to think it's going great, but she took a chance an so far looks like it hasn't been a regret.

There are guys on here that can have great conversations, and others that only think about 1 thing. A persons profile I think gives it away which they are.

Hope you find what your looking for, although not entirely sure what that may be.

Happy Fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, not too picky, it's just a known fact all the best men are in couples

Some bloody woman cherry picked 'em already....

They are often available on a loan basis, and come with the added advantage of having a lady, to double the fun. "

Love it, same here on loan but if wanting the lady too to double the fun

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"OP, not too picky, it's just a known fact all the best men are in couples

Some bloody woman cherry picked 'em already....

They are often available on a loan basis, and come with the added advantage of having a lady, to double the fun.

Love it, same here on loan but if wanting the lady too to double the fun "

We are always a double act (except for ff and fffff meets)

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire


"There are those kind of guys on here but you have to kiss a fair few frogs before you find them...!"

I will have you know I am not a frog. Ah but then we have yet to kiss properly so I could not have been included in your statement. Climbs down off soap box and sits on my own in the corner.

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By *ssex_VixenWoman
over a year ago

Maldon

From a woman's perspective, there's being picky and then there's being picky.

For me I'm just here to fuck guys, as long as they match up to what I want and don't act like twats then I'll invite them to meet. I'm not looking for anything more than one off fun, an I take that into account when people message giving the impression they want long term

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "

Yes there are lots

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

South

Yes there are decent guys on here.

Whether they fit your criteria is another question.

But as picky as you like.

Believe it or not some men are picky so they won't sleep with anyone they are not attracted to.

Works both ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!?

Chat? You want chat? Some of these men cant even spell my name!

Methinks you want too much!

I wonder how some of them cross the road !

Very true!. Though good grammar seems to ****allude*****both sexes. Some replies to my messages have left me thinking why did I send the message in the first place. Seems the word thanks has become thanx.

remember to proof read when criticising peoples writing...

And he's awoken.... Afternoon A! Lol

Sits back and watches...

actually im just off to bed :p.

my normal sleeping is 12 midday til 7:30pm :p"

In that case.... Good Night

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "
There all on fab guys, because they get to much rejection on here. Hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes there are decent guys on here.

Whether they fit your criteria is another question.

But as picky as you like.

Believe it or not some men are picky so they won't sleep with anyone they are not attracted to.

Works both ways"

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford


"OP, not too picky, it's just a known fact all the best men are in couples

Some bloody woman cherry picked 'em already.... "
. Don't worry most single men on fab are in couples

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By *rishman In LeedsMan
over a year ago

Leeds / Durham


"It's very hard to find a guy that can offer you exactly what you want. Fairly easy to find guys that are one of the aspects you're wanting but very difficult to find a guy that fits most of your requirements. Then you think you've finally found him but then the sexual chemistry isn't right in bed or they do something that puts you off. Very, very frustrating. I think I'd have more luck on dating sites but then I can't have my face pic public like you need to with many of them.

I think perhaps we need to focus on the positive and enjoyable aspects of a person and accept that nobody can be everything we want. You might meet one guy that is good for one aspect and meet another who is great for another. That's the bonus of this lifestyle that you're not restricted to one person. However, it all sounds good in theory but then like you I probably rule people out too easily. xxx"

The same frustration exists for single guys too, I'm sure. Not wanting to generalise, but it seems that a lot of couples are expecting a positive response to 'Can you come over now?' messages.

I'm not claiming to be an Adonis, but I know I'm not awful to look at. However, I'm surprised by the level of abuse I get sometimes - I'm accused of being a fake profile for example - because I'm (not my words) 'too good to be true for Fab'.

Ultimately, good conversation and good, clean fun with a healthy level of personal chemistry is what I'm looking for. Looks like that's the Fab Holy Grail.

M.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So we are to believe there are really no decent men on here ?

Not one guy that warrants the attention of the op , or indeed the female posters picking up on the thread .

Jeez ... I'm so glad we don't actively seek single women .....

I have to agree with this, it seems men must put the effort in whilst the women just lie back and expect the men to come to them

I just can't imagine how a guy must feel when he's put the effort in , written a nice message , attached a couple of pics , sends it and then nothing . He must question his looks , his style , and everything about himself .

Not for a second am I suggesting a lowering if standards , or a sympathy fuck , but when there's thousands of guys to choose from , and not one is up to scratch one has to question the selection criteria of the op .

Perhaps if the single guys on fab read this thread they will see what they are up against !

Or this is where the notion that women have it easy on here because men are the majority is slightly skewered.

I'd rather there be fewer men who tick my boxes that I have to fight for (so to speak) than have 1000's to choose from who ain't suitable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "

Yes.

Drop 'em blossom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guessing like in real life - lots of great guys with a mix of cockwombles... I'd say start an adventure right now by contacting the last person to post here - welcome him with open arms a warm heart and let the juices flow....

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By *arygoMan
over a year ago

Corwen


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? I've always been nice and polite when contacting a woman and 9/10 just delete without even a no thanks ?????

You've got a gorgeous new partner, and you're having loads of fantastic sex

Why worry?"
That's true, before I met T and was looking, quite happy now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully there are some on here

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "
it's a woman thing.. You say you want sex, but underneath it all you want love

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By *ocky-boyMan
over a year ago

Durness

Well, I consider myself a nice decent bloke, single for over 5 years but have had varied success on here. Don't get me wrong I have met nice people but never thought 'oh my god, this is the one!', so, i would say it's just as hard for guys as it is women. I, like other men I'm sure, like to talk to a nice girl sometimes and not just for sexual speak but rather just friendly chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? I've always been nice and polite when contacting a woman and 9/10 just delete without even a no thanks ?????

You've got a gorgeous new partner, and you're having loads of fantastic sex

Why worry?That's true, before I met T and was looking, quite happy now. "

You've had your super hot new partner for some weeks now

And yet three weeks ago you were asking how older ladies like to be approached

You know what this looks like dont you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? it's a woman thing.. You say you want sex, but underneath it all you want love"

Thats not what you said in your other thread

I do wish guys'd remember what comes out their moufs

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "

Only you can decide if a fella is right for you and what you are looking for. Plenty of decent blokes on here for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? it's a woman thing.. You say you want sex, but underneath it all you want love

Thats not what you said in your other thread

I do wish guys'd remember what comes out their moufs"

it makes it very confusing for our tiny kitten filled brains..we know we supposed to be sexually available to anyone that asks 24/7, we got that...but don't get us all confused with your mixed messages guys..

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By *arygoMan
over a year ago

Corwen


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? I've always been nice and polite when contacting a woman and 9/10 just delete without even a no thanks ?????

You've got a gorgeous new partner, and you're having loads of fantastic sex

Why worry?That's true, before I met T and was looking, quite happy now.

You've had your super hot new partner for some weeks now

And yet three weeks ago you were asking how older ladies like to be approached

You know what this looks like dont you?"
Yes I was asking because I really don't know how they like to be approached, it was just a question and didn't mean I was looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? I've always been nice and polite when contacting a woman and 9/10 just delete without even a no thanks ?????

You've got a gorgeous new partner, and you're having loads of fantastic sex

Why worry?That's true, before I met T and was looking, quite happy now.

You've had your super hot new partner for some weeks now

And yet three weeks ago you were asking how older ladies like to be approached

You know what this looks like dont you? Yes I was asking because I really don't know how they like to be approached, it was just a question and didn't mean I was looking."

Oh, I see. You were asking for future reference.

I understand now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "
nothing wrong with being picky and it's the same as dating why settle for someone you don't want? *Mr

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"all the women on this site are too picky in my book

Because we won't meet you?

no i only being honest its women right to be picky but one day they look back and regret it i think. "

Nope

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By *odestyB007Woman
over a year ago

Winchester


"all the women on this site are too picky in my book

Because we won't meet you?

no i only being honest its women right to be picky but one day they look back and regret it i think.

Nope "

Agree

If you do find them they're usually to far away

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By *arygoMan
over a year ago

Corwen


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? I've always been nice and polite when contacting a woman and 9/10 just delete without even a no thanks ?????

You've got a gorgeous new partner, and you're having loads of fantastic sex

Why worry?That's true, before I met T and was looking, quite happy now.

You've had your super hot new partner for some weeks now

And yet three weeks ago you were asking how older ladies like to be approached

You know what this looks like dont you? Yes I was asking because I really don't know how they like to be approached, it was just a question and didn't mean I was looking.

Oh, I see. You were asking for future reference.

I understand now "
No,no,no there's no harm in asking is there ???. It's just something I've wanted to know for a long time, way before I met T. Meeting someone doesn't mean I have to stop thinking about things does it.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? it's a woman thing.. You say you want sex, but underneath it all you want love"

Not true. I'm not looking for love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? I've always been nice and polite when contacting a woman and 9/10 just delete without even a no thanks ?????

You've got a gorgeous new partner, and you're having loads of fantastic sex

Why worry?That's true, before I met T and was looking, quite happy now.

You've had your super hot new partner for some weeks now

And yet three weeks ago you were asking how older ladies like to be approached

You know what this looks like dont you? Yes I was asking because I really don't know how they like to be approached, it was just a question and didn't mean I was looking.

Oh, I see. You were asking for future reference.

I understand now No,no,no there's no harm in asking is there ???. It's just something I've wanted to know for a long time, way before I met T. Meeting someone doesn't mean I have to stop thinking about things does it."

I said I understood

I followed your posts on the green arrow and things didnt really make sense

But its all very clear now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"they are rare tbh, i manage to find one every 6 months or so."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? I've always been nice and polite when contacting a woman and 9/10 just delete without even a no thanks ?????"

well at less you get a reply out of your 10 messages I get none

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"Exactly I feel the same, like they are all slowly extincting. "

It's the age cut off apparently from reading another thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe just not near you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As people has said already some of us guys are decent just need find one. the down side of that is that you have to find some rubbish ones before you find a good one

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "

Nope! I've been here for 8/9 years and the last 3/4 have been dire!

Too many exposes in local press, just entices all the dicks and most of them are just cheats, so we're left with the bottom feeders to dredge through, harsh but true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No!

All the men on here are thinking with their cock.

They don't want to talk to you - and they want to fuck as many women as possible.

You are not important- you are just a vagina!

I sense you are a tad cynical today "

Haha nope...

I'm just a realist!

As a single woman on here- I have gone through many emotions.

All a waste of my energy!

I cant speak for anyone else - but now I just want a good time.

A laugh a drink - hopefully good sex.

I'm not going to hold my breath ..

For a lot of men on here it's about penetrating a hole

Manky!

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By *arygoMan
over a year ago

Corwen


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? I've always been nice and polite when contacting a woman and 9/10 just delete without even a no thanks ?????

You've got a gorgeous new partner, and you're having loads of fantastic sex

Why worry?That's true, before I met T and was looking, quite happy now.

You've had your super hot new partner for some weeks now

And yet three weeks ago you were asking how older ladies like to be approached

You know what this looks like dont you? Yes I was asking because I really don't know how they like to be approached, it was just a question and didn't mean I was looking.

Oh, I see. You were asking for future reference.

I understand now No,no,no there's no harm in asking is there ???. It's just something I've wanted to know for a long time, way before I met T. Meeting someone doesn't mean I have to stop thinking about things does it.

I said I understood

I followed your posts on the green arrow and things didnt really make sense

But its all very clear now"
I'm glad you followed my post, and I'm sorry it didn't make any sense to you. Glad it's all clear to you now.

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By *wcwCouple
over a year ago

cheshire


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!?

Chat? You want chat? Some of these men cant even spell my name!

Methinks you want too much!"
lol.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Is there really no decent men here to chat and have a good time and be amazing at sex at the same time or am I being too picky!? "

I feel your pain op but its a supply and demand problem.

You see there are only so many men like you describe on fab such guys get snapped up rather quickly by other women looking for the same as you .

That leaves only the less desirable guys who copy and paste messages send crude messages basically assume this place is a brothel and the women are here for thier use .

My advice don't compromise stick in there be more proactive possible do a bit of searching yourself and snap up rather quickly any suitable guy before someone else does .

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