FabSwingers.com forum: People who viewed you

By *ornyCouple513 OP Couple
over a year ago

bristol

People who look at you ten times a day and never say anything.. Can send a message a wink and no reply...?? What's that all about???

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

"People who look at you ten times a day and never say anything.. Can send a message a wink and no reply...?? What's that all about???"

Well from your pictures you are attractive, so people will come for a perv, be flattered, maybe message the ones you like the look of?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guilty of looking at your profile a lot today. It's great, you guys are very good looking and very sexy.

Not everyone feels you would be interested in them, but maybe they appreciate your profile and enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As said above, you have very hot photos that other members are obviously enjoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Window shopping. I will look at pics maybe more than once and never message or wink because the profile already tells me I'm outside the preferences.

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By *ornyCouple513 OP Couple
over a year ago

bristol

Thanks for the compliment.. It is just weird tho to never even say hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And they are the ones you can see that aren't viewing you in Ninja mode

lol

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Posting the same thread in two forums could be a factor lol. I almost clicked on you again lol

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

People are enjoying your pics, but for one reason or another don't want to meet. Maybe they don't meet your profile, or you don't theirs.

Either way, take it as a compliment that someone is attracted to you

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By *ornyCouple513 OP Couple
over a year ago

bristol

First time have posted on forum and couldn't tell if it had gone on lol

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By *ornyCouple513 OP Couple
over a year ago

bristol

Ninja mode

Do see it as compliment.. What I'm saying is that have tried to make contact a few times and don't get a reply?? Just watchers?? Fake profiles?? There are a few of those on here tbf lol

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

"People are enjoying your pics, but for one reason or another don't want to meet. Maybe they don't meet your profile, or you don't theirs.

Either way, take it as a compliment that someone is attracted to you

. And another profile with some stunning pics on there

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

"Ninja mode

Do see it as compliment.. What I'm saying is that have tried to make contact a few times and don't get a reply?? Just watchers?? Fake profiles?? There are a few of those on here tbf lol "

Probably a little bit of everything, you could be like me and get hardly any views!!

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"People are enjoying your pics, but for one reason or another don't want to meet. Maybe they don't meet your profile, or you don't theirs.

Either way, take it as a compliment that someone is attracted to you

Sometimes they might think you're too hot for them and therefore do not have the confidence to contact you.

You can always contact them and ask and probably break the ice (if they're hot

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By *ucklingsCouple
over a year ago

Rugby

They admire you , take it as a compliment. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the compliment.. It is just weird tho to never even say hi "

A 99.9999999999% deletion rate will do that to you...

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By *ilver_StarMan
over a year ago

Warwickshire

Agree with Drago - So many people dont reply even when you meet their criteria.

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By *wingsingMan
over a year ago

Berkshire/London

"Thanks for the compliment.. It is just weird tho to never even say hi "

Hi, love the profile.. V sexy...

Would message you but you don't allow single males too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who look at you ten times a day and never say anything.. Can send a message a wink and no reply...?? What's that all about???"

Maybe they have sent a message or a wink and got no reply, or maybe just a genuine boneafied stalker haha

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

There's a number of reasons.

Maybe they felt, on second thought, that you're not what they are looking for. Maybe they're being nosy.

If you like them, message them. Don't wait for them to message you.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

I like to see whom I am listening to on the forums ....

Youve posted this thread twice .....did you realise ....

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By *ornyCouple513 OP Couple
over a year ago

bristol

"I like to see whom I am listening to on the forums ....

Youve posted this thread twice .....did you realise ....

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first time have posted on forum couldn't see post so posted again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looked at your profile but no message we are outside your age range so there's another reason you only get views

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By *ornyCouple513 OP Couple
over a year ago

bristol

"Looked at your profile but no message we are outside your age range so there's another reason you only get views "

Yes that's fine for one view.. I'm talking about the people who constantly look at you daily even after we have tried to make contact

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish

"People who look at you ten times a day and never say anything.. Can send a message a wink and no reply...?? What's that all about???"
might have something to do with the fact you have blocked all males!!

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

As a ninja, I can often view a profile of a forumite several times when reading their comments.

As this is your first forum post, perhaps they saw you on local updates and like your pictures but feel they're perhaps 'not your type' or unsuitable, there could be many reasons. Why not drop them a 'hi, I've seen you've been looking' message

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By *ornyCouple513 OP Couple
over a year ago

bristol

"As a ninja, I can often view a profile of a forumite several times when reading their comments.

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have done exactly that that's the point even when we try and make contact they don't reply but keep looking anyway???

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By *ornyCouple513 OP Couple
over a year ago

bristol

"As a ninja, I can often view a profile of a forumite several times when reading their comments.

have done exactly that that's the point even when we try and make contact they don't reply but keep looking anyway???"
obviously your going to get looked at we are all.mostly naked and are here for sex at the end of the day but there are just those who don't engage but look and look and look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wonder this!

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By *arkDesiresPartiesCouple
over a year ago

London

"They admire you , take it as a compliment. Xx"

I admire you!

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By *ornyCouple513 OP Couple
over a year ago

bristol

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By *ornyCouple513 OP Couple
over a year ago

bristol

"I always wonder this! "
just say hi... We are all here for sex as we are swingers... Name of the game right??Your not going to get anywhere just looking..love your profile and pics btw x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Window shopping. I will look at pics maybe more than once and never message or wink because the profile already tells me I'm outside the preferences."

This

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Got to admit, secretly pleased when this happens.

Oh and annoyed that some don't chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always wonder this! "

You'll probably see me pop on yours a bit. I like your pictures, you look great. Only reason I haven't messaged is I'm married which you're not interested in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get a lot of people who look and don't get in touch, we even get the winners who when we wink back still don't get in touch.

We just take it as a compliment that's all.

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

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Some people might have just taken a fancy to your pics.

We have the same, people looking but never messaging. Maybe they just like to look and enjoy a fantasy rather than act upon it.

There's a couple of people that seem to look at the same time every day, we can only assume it may be wank time.

But be careful, we found one guy had stolen our pics for his own profile. We only found out when XX decided to be sneaky and accept his friends request when he was offline. His private pics had some of our public pics in there.

Defriended, blocked and reported.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually got pulled up about this last night, which to I honestly answered that I didn't think tis person would want me to message as I didn't match what they were looking for....I was told these things are only preferences....moral of the story, nothing ventured, nothing gained :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We get a lot of people who look and don't get in touch, we even get the winners who when we wink back still don't get in touch.

We just take it as a compliment that's all.

*winkers sodding autocorrect!

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By *ornyCouple513 OP Couple
over a year ago

bristol

"We get a lot of people who look and don't get in touch, we even get the winners who when we wink back still don't get in touch.

We just take it as a compliment that's all.

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the winkers are the best lol... When you guys free would love to finish what we started xx

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

I look at profiles from either hot pics or update feeds as well as people on the forum. When people post a lot i'll sometimes have a look at their profile and see if it matches my perception of them from their postings. A week later i'll forget and maybe look again. Theres another reason to add to the list. I would think if someone looked a lot and winked as well that would be an sign they were interested. If you repky back then your into the will they, won't they, why won't they message back terriority and all that brings with it of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We get a lot of people who look and don't get in touch, we even get the winners who when we wink back still don't get in touch.

We just take it as a compliment that's all.

the winkers are the best lol... When you guys free would love to finish what we started xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone views my profile lots of time i will normally send them a polite message asking them if they read or saw something they liked. After they just may shy lol it works sometimes other times not but if you dont ask you'll never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What i find even wierder, are the profiles who view ones profile on a regularish basis; that you then end up messaging and they still never message you back

Does that make sense or have i confused you all?

Pete xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm guilty of looking at your profile a lot today. It's great, you guys are very good looking and very sexy.

Not everyone feels you would be interested in them, but maybe they appreciate your profile and enjoy it."
I agree it is a great profile and I don't want to waste your time with message's as I would not have a chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm guilty of looking at your profile a lot today. It's great, you guys are very good looking and very sexy.

Not everyone feels you would be interested in them, but maybe they appreciate your profile and enjoy it.I agree it is a great profile and I don't want to waste your time with message's as I would not have a chance "

What i think most of the times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A number of factors puts me off or frustrates me when I look at profiles.

Either they don't meet my criteria or most probably I don't meet theirs. I fab pics. But a lot have filters to block age or single men so can't message or wink them.

Maybe check your filters if you want to interact with them.

Sometimes people just might want to chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a compatible profile interests me, I take a screenshot as a reminder.

That way, I can digest the content at my leisure, without needing to look again. (Also a handy reference, when composing messages).

I was thinking earlier - instead of a global stealth mode, it would be useful to hide/reveal your views on a 'per-profile' basis. Perhaps a tickbox, to erase your footprints from profiles you dont like, or leave yourself visible, for the ones you do like

That would eliminate the unwanted "you looked at me" messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get loads of views mainly from men

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

"People who look at you ten times a day and never say anything.. Can send a message a wink and no reply...?? What's that all about???"

Either you have filters up, you are out of their league or they have no idea how to message you that wont result a block or a deleted message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would send polite messages to quite a few profiles were I not considered too old for them. I guess that's my own fault for being honest about my age.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"Ninja mode

Do see it as compliment.. What I'm saying is that have tried to make contact a few times and don't get a reply?? Just watchers?? Fake profiles?? There are a few of those on here tbf lol "

Ninjas everywhere, lol

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By *woofuslondonCouple
over a year ago

london

Yep get this too, take it as flattering but frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who look at you ten times a day and never say anything.. Can send a message a wink and no reply...?? What's that all about???"

Also, I tried to message you ("just to say hi") but you are not accepting messages from people of my gender. Maybe this is why no-one leaves a message??

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By *HEEKY MISTAMan
over a year ago

Beds

Unfortunately Everyone on here is wanting to receive.. no one is wanting to give.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get the same....some people look at our profile and pics nearly every day but never message (can't comment on the winks as I don't really take notice of winks)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they like the great pics.

Mabye they not reply as they might not like getting a no reply and as many on here with what seems low self esteem would feel even worse.

Maybe they feel you're out of their league so wouldn't think you'd be interested.

Maybe they're interested but never met a couple before. Theres increased dynamic issues to deal with an extra person.

Maybe bicurious and not got confidence to take the step, again issues of insecurities creep in.

All valid of what I'd call genuine people.

Then there's those who are only here to perve and not meeting for whatever reason.

Then there's the dodgy ones

I dont understand why you're you're concerned though. You're verified, getting meets and have each other if a meet goes tits up.

All good place if you ask me. Enjoy the attention.

Anyone want to meet me

lol

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

"We get a lot of people who look and don't get in touch, we even get the winners who when we wink back still don't get in touch.

We just take it as a compliment that's all.

the winkers are the best lol... When you guys free would love to finish what we started xx"
maybe a lot are single guys that u have blocked

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By *eading28Man
over a year ago

Reading

Maybe they don't think you would meet them so don't take a chance and message. Maybe they just like perving your hot pics, maybe you are just a bit too far away (like for me), or maybe it's because you have single guys blocked! Or other filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People just tend to look at me once and not bother again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i get it all the time member reviewing my profile over and over without any replies especial those who did not reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...maybe a lot are single guys that u have blocked"

I've blocked everything with a penis - they don't show up on the Looked@ list. (Unfortunately, it doesn't stop them fabbing photos).

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By *khotcouple20Couple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

We get this all the time too..and most of the time it's women! And that's what we are looking for so very frustrating..and a little confidence knocker too! X

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By *duk70Man
over a year ago

langley

"People who look at you ten times a day and never say anything.. Can send a message a wink and no reply...?? What's that all about???"

Possibly because they are single guys and are blocked

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

"We get this all the time too..and most of the time it's women! And that's what we are looking for so very frustrating..and a little confidence knocker too! X"
well I went for a fab n left a wink. And ur confidence should be sky high... very hot pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd look at it after a forum post

and think Phoawwwww but sadly think we are so out of that league now LOL, but would have an ogle and then come back for another ogle coz I am such a perve. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above and....... you've blocked everyone of my sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who look at you ten times a day and never say anything.. Can send a message a wink and no reply...?? What's that all about???"

I had a sneak at your profile today .. but you have set not to receive messages from single guys .. guessing with respect that could be the answer to your question? Xx

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

As already said..

You have blocked single males so they perv your profile and pics knowing they can't contact you..

Forbidden fruit.

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