FabSwingers.com forum: Bi users and cock blocking

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Straight to the point: Me and another user are going the route of having meets together at my place with Bi men. I'm open minded with past experience (I don't advertise it as there are too many dickheads on here) - she is no herself and wants to see it and we both have conditions/do's/don'ts/needs as any user or couple would.

So far we've encountered numerous guys who say they will, the Mr "You suck me, I fuck you but you're not fucking me and I'm not sucking you", then drop themselves in it to what they really want (just a girl to fuck) to one person with throwing their toys out of their pram because we said no and they prolong their rejection.

It's throwing the idea of meeting bi couples off our radar after the bitter aftertaste of this so... How much is this an issue for you lot out there with "Fab Straight" single men?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

My experience of being being a couple is they just want to fuck the girl

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My experience of being being a couple is they just want to fuck the girl"

Sad to see. The joys of free sites and time wasters who can spin a tale to get their cock wet....

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"My experience of being being a couple is they just want to fuck the girl

Sad to see. The joys of free sites and time wasters who can spin a tale to get their cock wet...."

Why not just say exactly what you want from guys and if they are not willing to do that, that's it.

The only problem is if guys lie and say they will do stuff and when it comes to it they won't. I don't see any problem with guys saying what they will do in advance. If you don't suit each other, you don't take it any further.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My experience of being being a couple is they just want to fuck the girl

Sad to see. The joys of free sites and time wasters who can spin a tale to get their cock wet....

Why not just say exactly what you want from guys and if they are not willing to do that, that's it.

This is it. Guys who will say anything to fuck a girl. You can spend hours, days or even weeks prepping meets and then they drop the bombshell or just want to cum and run

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Not a problem here, but then we openly state who we are and how we want to play.

I imagine being Fab straight you're going to attract the not so bi guys.

Had two rather delicious full on bi meets in the last two weeks

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"My experience of being being a couple is they just want to fuck the girl

Sad to see. The joys of free sites and time wasters who can spin a tale to get their cock wet....

Why not just say exactly what you want from guys and if they are not willing to do that, that's it.

This is it. Guys who will say anything to fuck a girl. You can spend hours, days or even weeks prepping meets and then they drop the bombshell or just want to cum and run"

So you are talking about guys who say they will do more bi stuff than just have their cocks sucked and then change their minds at the last minute?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This does seem to be a common theme but I always insist on sucking or fucking Mr first then they know your serious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if this has a subtle effect on all interactions between self identifying bi men and couples.

Where after so many guys are very specifically "bi" and just want into the lady's pants when a guy messages displaying interest in both they, understandably, go "you're up to something"...

That said, bi couples insisting that I play with the guy first is really hot.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"I wonder if this has a subtle effect on all interactions between self identifying bi men and couples.

Where after so many guys are very specifically "bi" and just want into the lady's pants when a guy messages displaying interest in both they, understandably, go "you're up to something"...

That said, bi couples insisting that I play with the guy first is really hot.

That's how we play. Gets her going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wonder if this has a subtle effect on all interactions between self identifying bi men and couples.

Where after so many guys are very specifically "bi" and just want into the lady's pants when a guy messages displaying interest in both they, understandably, go "you're up to something"...

That said, bi couples insisting that I play with the guy first is really hot.

That's how we play. Gets her going

I can well imagine, it does the same for me

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I must be rare on here. I'm happy to meet with my bi curious fab friend as he wants to meet a gay guy but only if I'm there.

I'm happy to help him explore his bi side as other fab friends did the same for me and thus way he feels safe.

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

I meet bi couples and play with both ,because as it states bi couple ,means a couple not just the female

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wonder if this has a subtle effect on all interactions between self identifying bi men and couples.

Where after so many guys are very specifically "bi" and just want into the lady's pants when a guy messages displaying interest in both they, understandably, go "you're up to something"...

That said, bi couples insisting that I play with the guy first is really hot.

My thoughts entirely. I'll happily start with another guy to get it going and get my buddy going if she asks - but the amount of guys who cum too quick or want the woman involved first and foremost is just a pain in the arse.

All in all - i'm certainly not a novice and not a hardened everyday swinger. But the art of bullshitting about being bi to get a the girl to fuck on here must be considered an art form. I think we'll be employing the male only meet to start in the future.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"Straight to the point: Me and another user are going the route of having meets together at my place with Bi men. I'm open minded with past experience (I don't advertise it as there are too many dickheads on here) - she is no herself and wants to see it and we both have conditions/do's/don'ts/needs as any user or couple would.

It's throwing the idea of meeting bi couples off our radar after the bitter aftertaste of this so... How much is this an issue for you lot out there with "Fab Straight" single men? "

If you say you're Bi from the start maybe they won't try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As poster above says.

sounds like you'd prefer to play so be straight (no pun intended) in your profile and maybe you'll get higher % of genuine offers.

After all that what you want if I've not been mistaken reading your OPand replies. Then it wouldn't be bothering you and partner so much. Just a thought.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"I wonder if this has a subtle effect on all interactions between self identifying bi men and couples.

Where after so many guys are very specifically "bi" and just want into the lady's pants when a guy messages displaying interest in both they, understandably, go "you're up to something"...

That said, bi couples insisting that I play with the guy first is really hot.

You have a straight profile OP.

You accuse guys of bullshitting

And cite the reason for being "Fab straight" is because of dickheads.

We have an openly bi profile. The main problem we have by far are "fab straight" guys messaging us, who we promptly block.

What is your concern? What are these dickheads doing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wonder if this has a subtle effect on all interactions between self identifying bi men and couples.

Where after so many guys are very specifically "bi" and just want into the lady's pants when a guy messages displaying interest in both they, understandably, go "you're up to something"...

That said, bi couples insisting that I play with the guy first is really hot.

You have a straight profile OP.

You accuse guys of bullshitting

And cite the reason for being "Fab straight" is because of dickheads.

We have an openly bi profile. The main problem we have by far are "fab straight" guys messaging us, who we promptly block.

What is your concern? What are these dickheads doing

There are multiple issues to why I don't advertise my preference...

There is a wealth of people attempting to gain "meets" at any time. Specifically after 2am. If anyone asks then I am open and very open to saying no. I just choose not to advertise it due to the "I'm straight but do ya wanna suck my cock/let me fuck you" brigade online.

Primarily, my buddy started looking around for someone fully bi to play with us. More than happy for her to widen the search as most guys hunt for a girl who like anything out if tge normal. She laid down the ground rules and I got last word as she wants to see me pleasures by another man as it does it for her. Likewise.

The issue is twunts trying to bullshit their way into getting their 5 minutes if fun and they'll lie through their back teeth to get their cock wet. Whether it be by message or in a meet - if I'm gonna rim a guy or finger them before I lube them up - they need to be honest before.

If she wants to fuck them with a toy or strap on - they need to be honest before.

I'm honest about my sexuality, but I still don't need to advertise it openly. Not a game of chance where they work up a meet by saying they're up fir anythibg only to turn around later or last minute and say "You can suck me but I'm here for her pussy" type scenario.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Since posting this it's really brought out a few dickheads. Couples where the man only wants to play because they don't want their wife or girlfriend to know want it there and then their own way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Since posting this it's really brought out a few dickheads. Couples where the man only wants to play because they don't want their wife or girlfriend to know want it there and then their own way

dick head am I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

coming from the guy who is single and straight after a bi guy for his (not couple profile)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Dude, if you're going to privately message me from a thread like this - ask if me and my buddy are willing to play in which I said we were looking for a bi male then there is no problem. It takes time.

I then ask you if you and your wife are playing (as you advertise as a couple as my buddy is bi also and on Fab) you then get all funny because you want to play alone, I don't jump to yoyr needs there and then - you then block me. What does that say to most people?

We're not going to jump straight in on your timescale or your needs. It needs to be discussed with her too. It's called respect.

You're not the first to go there and try that kind of thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

block you cos clearly not gonna happen and wasnt after an instant meet with you or ya fb.you wanted a bi guy and like you I am bi but advertised as straight but then you want us as a couple instead?

honestly wish I never bothered wasting my time mailing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"block you cos clearly not gonna happen and wasnt after an instant meet with you or ya fb.you wanted a bi guy and like you I am bi but advertised as straight but then you want us as a couple instead?

honestly wish I never bothered wasting my time mailing.

Well I like to know more before anything is arranged as she would to (and I'm sure she'll read this thread and comment tomorrow). You assumed that I was just after you both then blocked me before I could get you to message her and see what she says (She wouldn't play with one half of a couple where the other half doesn't know). It says a whole different thing when that happens.

All the best to you both.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"I wonder if this has a subtle effect on all interactions between self identifying bi men and couples.

Where after so many guys are very specifically "bi" and just want into the lady's pants when a guy messages displaying interest in both they, understandably, go "you're up to something"...

That said, bi couples insisting that I play with the guy first is really hot.

You have a straight profile OP.

You accuse guys of bullshitting

And cite the reason for being "Fab straight" is because of dickheads.

We have an openly bi profile. The main problem we have by far are "fab straight" guys messaging us, who we promptly block.

What is your concern? What are these dickheads doing

There are multiple issues to why I don't advertise my preference...

If she wants to fuck them with a toy or strap on - they need to be honest before.

Bizarre. But the fact is you are not honest about your sexuality at all.

Fab has a pretty good message filter system available so that you could block all messages from these twunts, dickheads and whatever other insulting word you've used to describe other guys who you claim aren't honest either.

Oh the irony

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By *ornyCouple513Couple
over a year ago

bristol

It doesn't take long to sniff out a fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand the fab straight thing. Why pretend, just be who you are.

But the whole thing goes back to people saying whatever they need to say to get what they want. There will allways be arseholes, on here and in life in general. It's just the way people are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It doesn't take long to sniff out a fake "

It really doesn't. Already had three this morning. Mostly those who want to cum after they agree to meet. The excitement kills them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am the other half of the couple that b24-fun is on about and let me just tell you! He isn't wrong! All we have encountered is assholes saying one thing and meaning another! So many males on here claim to be up for it in order to get into a woman's pants. The idea of us looking for a bi male is so we both get something out of it... so if you ain't bi and willing to do/have both of us! You ain't no good to us!

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By *ick71Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I have had a couple of bi couples where the female just wants to sit and watch her hubby with me. While she offers encouragement and has a little play herself as she gets off watching her hubby with me. I am top mainly and always had loads of fun. And the evening always ends in a full 3some. If anyone wants a genuine bi guy for fun get in touch.

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By *evadomCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

Get it all the time but don't give up always explain exactly what you are looking for and you will find the right male in the end. Men don't read profiles properly and sometimes only see what they want. We have stopped talking to 'straight ' men if it's on their profile curious and bisexual only for us

Good hunting

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