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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We all get turned down by people not everyone can be into everyone , just wondering what your oddest turn down was , mine was talk with a couple sent them pics they said they both think that im to good looking for them ( not blowing my own trumpet (wish i could thou lol ) )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all depends whether or not you believe what they tell you.

I suppose being told that you're too good looking is better than being told you're an ugly fuck, but at the end of the day, you're still not getting a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often get too big or too tall.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I dont think im that good avrage at best, but ill take the complament and see what comes my way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont think im that good avrage at best, but ill take the complament and see what comes my way"

They may have been being sarcastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol i normaly dont even get a reply , think my profile is far too hohnest for my own good lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I turned a guy done three times cus I thought his photo was a fake

Turned out he really was gorgeous when I did meet him

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By *exybabyMan
over a year ago

Canterbury....ish


"I turned a guy done three times cus I thought his photo was a fake

Turned out he really was gorgeous when I did meet him "

Which only goes to prove that you need to read the first few pages rather than the first few lines of any book!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all get turned down by people not everyone can be into everyone , just wondering what your oddest turn down was , mine was talk with a couple sent them pics they said they both think that im to good looking for them ( not blowing my own trumpet (wish i could thou lol ) ) "

'Too far away' from a couple in Leeds

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

Some people look at your veris and compare themselves with your other meets.

Too good-looking eh? now I could live with that kind of rejection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One woman on here said my body was way too hot!!!

Had to laugh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a couple turn me down for my piercing, i know that may not sound that odd as not everyone likes genital piercings but they messaged me first and theres a pic of it on my profile, so i thought it kinda odd that they mailed me in the first place

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"I often get too big or too tall. "

You've mentioned all your 'big' attributes on your profile but seem to have missed your ego.

Maybe the real reason for the refusals is the highly offensive statement in your profile ... even if I were slim I'd find the 'beached whale' comment nasty and spiteful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i get turned down cos of my eyes.....i hate eyeism!

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"( not blowing my own trumpet (wish i could thou lol ) ) "

Don't bother - I tried and nearly broke my back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often get too big or too tall.

You've mentioned all your 'big' attributes on your profile but seem to have missed your ego.

Maybe the real reason for the refusals is the highly offensive statement in your profile ... even if I were slim I'd find the 'beached whale' comment nasty and spiteful. "

haha i found it quite funny really, in a hyronic way

But yes i agree i would never mail or reply to a mail from someone who had such a comment in their profile

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I often get too big or too tall.

You've mentioned all your 'big' attributes on your profile but seem to have missed your ego.

Maybe the real reason for the refusals is the highly offensive statement in your profile ... even if I were slim I'd find the 'beached whale' comment nasty and spiteful.

haha i found it quite funny really, in a hyronic way

But yes i agree i would never mail or reply to a mail from someone who had such a comment in their profile"

i'd just like to point out that not all beached whales put no effort in

to be fair i think that we have to acept we cant all appeal to each other, and we have to accept that some people cant put their point accross without trying to offend people

shame though cos he has got a nice arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he is that good looking he has no pics on profile lol come on lets all see so we can judge lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often get too big or too tall.

You've mentioned all your 'big' attributes on your profile but seem to have missed your ego.

Maybe the real reason for the refusals is the highly offensive statement in your profile ... even if I were slim I'd find the 'beached whale' comment nasty and spiteful.

haha i found it quite funny really, in a hyronic way

But yes i agree i would never mail or reply to a mail from someone who had such a comment in their profile

i'd just like to point out that not all beached whales put no effort in

to be fair i think that we have to acept we cant all appeal to each other, and we have to accept that some people cant put their point accross without trying to offend people

shame though cos he has got a nice arse "

nice back too

But *sigh* we are not his type so will have tro drool from afar

*swoons off the forums*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

looking for people in my area but i lived too close.

i hv been told in first message im too old by a couple my age looking for same age lol.

try being told your short fat and ugly and to get off the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive never had nasty comments when being turned down

to be honest i dont get turned down offen as i hardly even send out mail first, so most of the people i chat to have contacted me first

But even tho they have contacted me first i still get some change their mind but never in a nasty way

only nasty mail i get are from guys i turn down who spit their dummy out lol

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"I often get too big or too tall.

You've mentioned all your 'big' attributes on your profile but seem to have missed your ego.

Maybe the real reason for the refusals is the highly offensive statement in your profile ... even if I were slim I'd find the 'beached whale' comment nasty and spiteful.

haha i found it quite funny really, in a hyronic way

But yes i agree i would never mail or reply to a mail from someone who had such a comment in their profile

i'd just like to point out that not all beached whales put no effort in

to be fair i think that we have to acept we cant all appeal to each other, and we have to accept that some people cant put their point accross without trying to offend people

shame though cos he has got a nice arse "

I have no issue whatsoever with people expressing their preferences and I fully accept that, as a bigger lass, I won't appeal to everyone but you're spot on when you say some people can't express those preferences without being offensive. I don't understand how they can re-read their profile / message and not think 'oh dear - that doesn't sound very nice'

You're also right in saying not all 'beached whales' put no effort in when having sex ... whenever I'm away from my pod and having some fun I don't spend the entire time on my back.

Like you, I wouldn't be interested in anyone who put their point across in an offensive way - there's just no need for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i got turned down cos of the brown....not anal, i mean because i was brown lol. true story too lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often get too big or too tall. "

mate, your not that tall. I have loads of frinds who are taller than you. Most of my frinds are a minimum of 6'5. the tallest being almost 7'!!!!

Now, imagine a group of tall guys and then a 5'7 tall guy in the group lol

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