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Why is 'Visiting your area' unpopular?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am holidaying in the uk, but when mailing peeps in that area they're not interested for that reason. How is that?

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By *aughtySxTV/TS
over a year ago

Wigan Bolton North West

You have one public photo which is you opening the metro..... maybe upload some more pics

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"You have one public photo which is you opening the metro..... maybe upload some more pics "

I don't think the OP was asking for advice about his profile or pics.

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By *aughtySxTV/TS
over a year ago

Wigan Bolton North West


"You have one public photo which is you opening the metro..... maybe upload some more pics

I don't think the OP was asking for advice about his profile or pics."

If someone was visiting my area and they only had one pic I wouldn't be interested

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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A lot of people like to build up a rapport with someone before jumping into bed so just saying am in your area on this date doesn't work for them, Maybe try and get talking to a few women regularly and hope that your paths cross when you travel

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A lot of people like to build up a rapport with someone before jumping into bed so just saying am in your area on this date doesn't work for them, Maybe try and get talking to a few women regularly and hope that your paths cross when you travel "

Ah.. Right.. Ta for the info

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have one public photo which is you opening the metro..... maybe upload some more pics

I don't think the OP was asking for advice about his profile or pics.

If someone was visiting my area and they only had one pic I wouldn't be interested "

Fair point though,

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

When im visiting an area and looking to play i put the ground work in first......a couple of weeks before. I wouldnt respond to im in your area ever and wouldnt expect someone else to

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Maybe they think somebody going on holiday to Sunderland is off-putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they think somebody going on holiday to Sunderland is off-putting."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When im visiting an area and looking to play i put the ground work in first......a couple of weeks before. I wouldnt respond to im in your area ever and wouldnt expect someone else to "

It just reeks of fuck n go.

Some people are into that though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you wanna be a tourist attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How I see it is those of the 'I am visiting your area, fancy a meet?' persuasion are just looking for a hole. Any hole will do. They are not interested in me as a person, who they may have some fun with and a few giggles. They may as well book an Escort, cos that is certainly not how I swing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How I see it is those of the 'I am visiting your area, fancy a meet?' persuasion are just looking for a hole. Any hole will do. They are not interested in me as a person, who they may have some fun with and a few giggles. They may as well book an Escort, cos that is certainly not how I swing."

Quite agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How I see it is those of the 'I am visiting your area, fancy a meet?' persuasion are just looking for a hole. Any hole will do. They are not interested in me as a person, who they may have some fun with and a few giggles. They may as well book an Escort, cos that is certainly not how I swing."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How I see it is those of the 'I am visiting your area, fancy a meet?' persuasion are just looking for a hole. Any hole will do. They are not interested in me as a person, who they may have some fun with and a few giggles. They may as well book an Escort, cos that is certainly not how I swing."

I agree too. Strangely

I'm not just a hole. Pay for an escort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How I see it is those of the 'I am visiting your area, fancy a meet?' persuasion are just looking for a hole. Any hole will do. They are not interested in me as a person, who they may have some fun with and a few giggles. They may as well book an Escort, cos that is certainly not how I swing."

yep...its the same as when we get winked by someone from miles away with "trucker" in their user name...it means they're parked in a lay by a few miles away and have blanket messaged every couple in a 5 mile radius...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

unless you were 'in the area' often and /or people done mind the fuck and go types youre fine

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I get so many of these type of messages.

I'm not interested in one off encounters, my profile says so, so I don't bother answering them anymore!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knowing I'm going away for a week I've planned and talked to people in that area. I wouldn't just pop up in the area then try. Needs to be a connection no matter where you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of people like to build up a rapport with someone before jumping into bed so just saying am in your area on this date doesn't work for them, Maybe try and get talking to a few women regularly and hope that your paths cross when you travel "

This. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How I see it is those of the 'I am visiting your area, fancy a meet?' persuasion are just looking for a hole. Any hole will do. They are not interested in me as a person, who they may have some fun with and a few giggles. They may as well book an Escort, cos that is certainly not how I swing."

I agree

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

I agree with the first response you got.

If one were visiting our area and therefore wanted the meet to take place quite soon then there'd have to be a lot of effort put into the profile and or message to cover all bases so as to get the meet arranged within a few messages/hours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one of our quickest turn offs is im nearby its like saying you are not worth the effort of a long journey we find it difficult to make the effort to reply to those messages

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

While I can see the point of views that make it unpopular and maybe even at times insulting. (I'm not a tourist attraction has been my reply to some I've had recently)

I also see the other side of this. I like the idea of one off illicit encounters in hotels. No hang ups worried about what they are really thinking because you never expect to see them again. However respect, manners, effort and attraction are vital on both sides.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Nobody wants to feel like a convenience. While at base most one off encounters are just two people hooking up for casual sex and it shouldn't matter whether they live in the next street or the next country. Many people like to feel as if there's more to their meets than just sex.

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Unless someone is in my area regularly I will just be a convenient one off, and I prefer regular playmates.

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By *eVi101Woman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"While I can see the point of views that make it unpopular and maybe even at times insulting. (I'm not a tourist attraction has been my reply to some I've had recently)

I also see the other side of this. I like the idea of one off illicit encounters in hotels. No hang ups worried about what they are really thinking because you never expect to see them again.

However respect, manners, effort and attraction are vital on both sides. "

Especially your last sentence.

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