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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone else get a bit peeved with couples profiles that only show one partner on their pics? I mean, even when I was playing single i'd like to see everyone that was going to be involved, and now as a couple we both wanna see who's getting who before we start the email tennis lol

Anyone else feel the same?

(and I know everyones entitled to put what pics they want up. But c'mon, a couples profile should show the couple lol)

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Yeah, we like to see both... but normally all we get to see of hubby is some blurry out of focus cock-pic... which is a bit of a shame cos Devil likes to ponder over how hubby looks before she say yes...

Wolf ;o)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Totally true Wolf. Same with us...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we put our pics up for all to see what we look like, and it don't half cut down the amount of mail you get, lol.

We work on the premise that if someone contacts us with a view to meeting, then they must fancy both of us.

Most people will send face pics if you ask for them, but even then you still can't be sure who is going to turn up.

It's not uncommon to get pics that are years out of date.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol very true. Hence we do most meets at a club

The annoying thing is if someone winks or messages, how are you to know if you both fancy both of them without seeing whos there?

So annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i met some one a while back and their pix must ave been 10 years out of date!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only have pictures of me on our public facing profile - why, because we both want it that way.

People who don't like it won't contact us. That's ok with us.

We don't meet that many couples. When we are serious about a meet then we show pics of both of us together and we have the obligatory cock pic if people want to check equipment size.

My OH is not interested in being window dressing. And as we meet single guys, no matter how many times I try and force pics of him onto the guys that we meet, they don't really seem that interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" i met some one a while back and their pix must ave been 10 years out of date!!!"

i met a guy once that i didnt even recognise from his profile pic! thought hed sent his dad!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well, thats fair enough, but i'm talking about couples that contact us with only pics of one of them on. From a wink, how are you meant to know if ypu like both of them to reply or wink back if you only see one of them?

It is down to what peope are after on here, but if couples are after couples, how can you decide...


"We only have pictures of me on our public facing profile - why, because we both want it that way.

People who don't like it won't contact us. That's ok with us.

We don't meet that many couples. When we are serious about a meet then we show pics of both of us together and we have the obligatory cock pic if people want to check equipment size.

My OH is not interested in being window dressing. And as we meet single guys, no matter how many times I try and force pics of him onto the guys that we meet, they don't really seem that interested. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" i met some one a while back and their pix must ave been 10 years out of date!!!

i met a guy once that i didnt even recognise from his profile pic! thought hed sent his dad! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've found from our experience that most people look better in the flesh, not everyone is photogenic, and we've been pleasantly surprised on a few occaisions.

We were turned down once after we sent our pics, but when we met at a local party the other couple wanted to play with us, because they said, we looked better face to face. Needless to say, we didn't go there, for a few reasons really.

Something else I've noticed, and this is purely my view, is that although most people generally look better in the flesh, there are some "pretty people" with flattering model type pics that should turn up wearing masks, lol

But like I said early, some people are photogenic but then again, some aren't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, thats fair enough, but i'm talking about couples that contact us with only pics of one of them on. From a wink, how are you meant to know if ypu like both of them to reply or wink back if you only see one of them?

It is down to what peope are after on here, but if couples are after couples, how can you decide...

We only have pictures of me on our public facing profile - why, because we both want it that way.

People who don't like it won't contact us. That's ok with us.

We don't meet that many couples. When we are serious about a meet then we show pics of both of us together and we have the obligatory cock pic if people want to check equipment size.

My OH is not interested in being window dressing. And as we meet single guys, no matter how many times I try and force pics of him onto the guys that we meet, they don't really seem that interested. "

I can see your point and also the point that you may just want a quick browse and not necessarily message even, after all if you can see pics straight away there is no need to waste time by messaging if at a glance you can see they are not for you. Or if both of them are nice then you can write a more indepth first message.

But when one of them wishes to keep themselves a little more private and does not want to be viewed by the masses or even contribute on a forum with the masses or attend socials with the masses then you have to accept their wishes. I agree though it can be frustrating for other browsing couples

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

We do have face pics to pm but as we only meet single guys they rarely care what oh looks like, bless. Lol. Suits him as he isn't keen on having face pics of him out there for various reasons. any couple trying to appeal to couple should have pics of both though. If not it should be treated similar to when no price tag...if you need to ask its probably not for you....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we were looking for a couple as a couple we would send photos of both of us... But as most of the time its me alone.. we don't feel the need.

Cali x

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

The old 100 pics of the female in posed shots and a pic of a hairy cock and nothing else of the male in view

We agree, we send both face pics in every mail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We send pics of the both of us in every mail, even for single guys as we are a couple and are represented as such. Its just the public facing pics that are solely of me.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Anyone else get a bit peeved with couples profiles that only show one partner on their pics? I mean, even when I was playing single i'd like to see everyone that was going to be involved, and now as a couple we both wanna see who's getting who before we start the email tennis lol

Anyone else feel the same?

(and I know everyones entitled to put what pics they want up. But c'mon, a couples profile should show the couple lol)"

kev works with vunerable teens, his pics are pvt unless u want to meet. Our profile,our rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i hate my photos some im ok with and some im not

so im gonan try to do some soon with the weight ive lost and my hairs back to red

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else get a bit peeved with couples profiles that only show one partner on their pics? I mean, even when I was playing single i'd like to see everyone that was going to be involved, and now as a couple we both wanna see who's getting who before we start the email tennis lol

Anyone else feel the same?

(and I know everyones entitled to put what pics they want up. But c'mon, a couples profile should show the couple lol)"

Its our biggest pet hate regarding profiles ..... couples should ALWAYS have photo's of BOTH of them (and together - taken with the same camera).

We fully appreciate the need for photo's in private , thats not in question ....... but when its just tit, fanny, cock pics and they send a face pic and they are of different quality, taken with different camera's , in a mirror?.... its not that difficult to suss out that its a made up profile.

ALL camera's (including phones) have timers on and its dead easy to take photo's nowadays.

Anyone we can see is genuine , we have no problem in forwarding our photo's (which we change regularly - so we do look like it and we are always together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I have chatted to a couple and we all get on and want to take it further I feel they both should have a face pic.I understand some people have jobs were they can't have face pics but as long as they are prepared to go on cam or meet for a chat first then that's good with me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've found from our experience that most people look better in the flesh, not everyone is photogenic, and we've been pleasantly surprised on a few occaisions.

We were turned down once after we sent our pics, but when we met at a local party the other couple wanted to play with us, because they said, we looked better face to face. Needless to say, we didn't go there, for a few reasons really.

Something else I've noticed, and this is purely my view, is that although most people generally look better in the flesh, there are some "pretty people" with flattering model type pics that should turn up wearing masks, lol

But like I said early, some people are photogenic but then again, some aren't. "
yes totally agree with you guys there pics dont always do people justice

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By *ugartitsandhimCouple
over a year ago

North West


"Anyone else get a bit peeved with couples profiles that only show one partner on their pics? I mean, even when I was playing single i'd like to see everyone that was going to be involved, and now as a couple we both wanna see who's getting who before we start the email tennis lol

Anyone else feel the same?

(and I know everyones entitled to put what pics they want up. But c'mon, a couples profile should show the couple lol)"

YES FULLY AGREE !!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok, think I should clarify, we're not really meaning face pics per say... Lots of people have sensitive jobs etc and thats totally understandable, but having couples profiles where there is only photos of one partner, not a greyed out face or body shot or anything of the other.

Lots of profiles you could just do with a taster to get you to reply or say hello in the first place. Playing the lottery with whether the partner matches whatever description is given is not really how to play the game lol

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

We have pics of us both in private, but as MrH only watches and does not play do not really see the point of his mug shot orcock pic to be honest. We do send out ourface pics if meeting but just do not put them both on general display

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By *punkloverCouple
over a year ago

hatfield

we do have both on our profile, just one of Nick at the moment and a few of me ! xxx

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