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"Perhaps I'm not feeling the love tonight, I mean it's not like me to rant but.... Commenting on a thread is a comment. It is NOT an open invitation to start bugging us with messages we do not want " the dreaded full spread of yellow awaits after making a comment . | |||
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"I someone send a message from thread if it a comment on something I said. Maybe I should stop " I prefer the person to comment on the thread. Unless they are the perfect man and match my profile 100% and it's how we got to notice each other. It may just be me of course | |||
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"Perhaps I'm not feeling the love tonight, I mean it's not like me to rant but.... Commenting on a thread is a comment. It is NOT an open invitation to start bugging us with messages we do not want the dreaded full spread of yellow awaits after making a comment ." It's not just me then | |||
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"I someone send a message from thread if it a comment on something I said. Maybe I should stop I prefer the person to comment on the thread. Unless they are the perfect man and match my profile 100% and it's how we got to notice each other. It may just be me of course " No it's not you, I prefer that to. If someone messages me because of a thread I'll still look at his profile, see he's miles away, roll my eyes, send a short reply or delete and then just delete!!! | |||
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"The introduction threads can be the worst " The introduction or as I call them the 'me me me attention seeking' threads really are the worst. | |||
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"I don't mind that so much.... but when We've looked at someone's profile and they see we've looked... .... there's a reason we didn't wink or message you... so why message us?" Yes that would bug me too | |||
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"I don't mind that so much.... but when We've looked at someone's profile and they see we've looked... .... there's a reason we didn't wink or message you... so why message us?" They take it as you're interested - now that's confusing and how the male brain works | |||
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"I don't mind that so much.... but when We've looked at someone's profile and they see we've looked... .... there's a reason we didn't wink or message you... so why message us?" See i always take that as not interested, unless someone looks on a regular basis. Recently I've had someone send a friend request and still not reply to message lol | |||
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"I don't mind that so much.... but when We've looked at someone's profile and they see we've looked... .... there's a reason we didn't wink or message you... so why message us? See i always take that as not interested, unless someone looks on a regular basis. Recently I've had someone send a friend request and still not reply to message lol" That'll be a man looking to see if he can see your willy | |||
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"I don't mind that so much.... but when We've looked at someone's profile and they see we've looked... .... there's a reason we didn't wink or message you... so why message us? See i always take that as not interested, unless someone looks on a regular basis. Recently I've had someone send a friend request and still not reply to message lol That'll be a man looking to see if he can see your willy " Could be right, it was a couple with an apparently straight male though. Slightly confusing! Also sorry for accidently doing the annoying thing you created this thread for lol | |||
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"Perhaps I'm not feeling the love tonight, I mean it's not like me to rant but.... Commenting on a thread is a comment. It is NOT an open invitation to start bugging us with messages we do not want " Can't say I've ever had that happen, but I've had loads because I've looked at a profile. Should activate stealth mode really. XX | |||
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"Simple solution Posting on threads will bring additional attention, goes with the territory, if you don't want single guys messaging you about threads, simply block single guys from messaging you, why complain when a solution is available? X" | |||
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"Simple solution Posting on threads will bring additional attention, goes with the territory, if you don't want single guys messaging you about threads, simply block single guys from messaging you, why complain when a solution is available? X" | |||
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"Perhaps I'm not feeling the love tonight, I mean it's not like me to rant but.... Commenting on a thread is a comment. It is NOT an open invitation to start bugging us with messages we do not want the dreaded full spread of yellow awaits after making a comment . It's not just me then " Definitely not just you. I wish they would just reply in the thread. It seems to be getting more prolific lately too | |||
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"Perhaps I'm not feeling the love tonight, I mean it's not like me to rant but.... Commenting on a thread is a comment. It is NOT an open invitation to start bugging us with messages we do not want " I do this sometimes but only because I don't want to hog the thread or send it in a related but slightly different direction. | |||
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"I've had messages after posting a comment and had no problems with it Just people trying they're luck " It's hardly the end of the world. If people don't want mail just use mail filters. | |||
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"I someone send a message from thread if it a comment on something I said. Maybe I should stop I prefer the person to comment on the thread. Unless they are the perfect man and match my profile 100% and it's how we got to notice each other. It may just be me of course No it's not you, I prefer that to. If someone messages me because of a thread I'll still look at his profile, see he's miles away, roll my eyes, send a short reply or delete and then just delete!!!" I've had nothing but friendly messages as a result of posts I've made. Even if they're miles away, I appreciate the positivity | |||
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"This really gets on my nerves. If I comment on a hairy man thread saying nice thread I suddenly get loads of messages with pics! Did i ask for them no! It shouldn't be allowed unless they have asked for it " What shouldn't be allowed? People mailing? Block them all. It's simple. | |||
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"Apart from 'game' threads, I've only ever contacted someone directly after a post, and that was another female. I just wanted to tell her I thought her post was brilliant & she'd handled a situation perfectly. But I've been on the receiving end of far too many unwelcome messages. That bore no relation to the thread I'd posted in" it does seem to be getting worse, I've had to post a message on a thread asking not to be PM'd and please post on thread | |||
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