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"You won't, the damage is done. Move on. Harsh but true." Hang on hang on we don't know what the problem is yet! | |||
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"How do you suggest I make things up to the best thing that ever happened to me on here! I've blew it Depends on your crime really And whether you think the lady is likely to give you another chance, or whether you've burnt your bridges All credit to you for admitting your failings though. Alot of people would struggle to do that Especially publicly" | |||
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"You won't, the damage is done. Move on. Harsh but true. Hang on hang on we don't know what the problem is yet! " Mystic Naughty predicted that. | |||
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"How do you suggest I make things up to the best thing that ever happened to me on here! I've blew it" I guess it depends on what you've done | |||
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"How do you suggest I make things up to the best thing that ever happened to me on here! I've blew it" It's a swingers site not mills and boon, man up and get over it. Offer her a sincere apology but if she doesn't accept it don't follow her around begging as life's to short. | |||
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"How do you suggest I make things up to the best thing that ever happened to me on here! I've blew it" Silly man, you should have sucked it | |||
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"How do you suggest I make things up to the best thing that ever happened to me on here! I've blew it" What did you do? | |||
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"If you've simply slipped into the wrong hole by mistake it's easily done and she might forgive you once the pains gone " This. Just wipe the bogeys off the tip and aim for the mouth again | |||
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"I hate half a story,what have you done exactly?" Mystic naughty predicts we'll never find out. | |||
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"I hate half a story,what have you done exactly? Mystic naughty predicts we'll never find out." I hope Mystic naughty is wrong on this occasion,we can't give advise if we don't know what the problem is can we! | |||
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"Who says it's a fem that he's on about??" He does in his status. | |||
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"Who says it's a fem that he's on about??" Him, in his status! | |||
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"public, self-flagellation isn't the way to go and is usually in my experience a last resort. If the lady in question has cut contact with you there isn't a lot you can do. If she hasn't sort it out in private between the two of you. " She's probably blocked him so he can't contact her thinks he can pull on her heart strings by posting in here He's hurt her and knows he's lost her | |||
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"How do you suggest I make things up to the best thing that ever happened to me on here! I've blew it" That would depend what you did or didn't do, how can we advise if we have no idea what happened | |||
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"Ok what I did was.... i only meet up with this lovely lady every time I travel near her, it works out about every 2 weeks or so we have a night together. We had a row and I didn't message her to tell her I was in the area! Although I was going to message her later that night and ask her to meet me for lunch the next day before I traveled back. She now thinks I had arranged to meet with someone else and is mad, upset and let's just say not happy with me " You're on a swinging site, does it matter if you see someone else? | |||
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"Ok what I did was.... i only meet up with this lovely lady every time I travel near her, it works out about every 2 weeks or so we have a night together. We had a row and I didn't message her to tell her I was in the area! Although I was going to message her later that night and ask her to meet me for lunch the next day before I traveled back. She now thinks I had arranged to meet with someone else and is mad, upset and let's just say not happy with me " FFS, that's 10 minutes of my life I'm not getting back! | |||
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"Is that it? Blimey, the way you'd spoken we'd have thought you'd been caught with your cock up a mans arse or something equally as naughty. All you did was not say you were in the area? Also, unless you've agreed to be exclusive to each other, what kind of person goes mad at the prospect of you shagging someone else? " Exactly this. Seems a bit lame. If someone I met off here acted like that I'd be off. Don't need drama like that! | |||
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"Is that it? Blimey, the way you'd spoken we'd have thought you'd been caught with your cock up a mans arse or something equally as naughty. All you did was not say you were in the area? Also, unless you've agreed to be exclusive to each other, what kind of person goes mad at the prospect of you shagging someone else? " Sounds like an excuse to say Goodbye | |||
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"Is that it? Blimey, the way you'd spoken we'd have thought you'd been caught with your cock up a mans arse or something equally as naughty. All you did was not say you were in the area? Also, unless you've agreed to be exclusive to each other, what kind of person goes mad at the prospect of you shagging someone else? Sounds like an excuse to say Goodbye" Sounds like a storm in a D cup | |||
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"Is that it? Blimey, the way you'd spoken we'd have thought you'd been caught with your cock up a mans arse or something equally as naughty. All you did was not say you were in the area? Also, unless you've agreed to be exclusive to each other, what kind of person goes mad at the prospect of you shagging someone else? " Jealousy rearing it's ugly head,I'd let her stew for a while. You don't seem to have done an awful lot wrong,I'm sure she will unblock you at some stage. | |||
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"Is that it? Blimey, the way you'd spoken we'd have thought you'd been caught with your cock up a mans arse or something equally as naughty. All you did was not say you were in the area? Also, unless you've agreed to be exclusive to each other, what kind of person goes mad at the prospect of you shagging someone else? " We were exclusive and I was just being an awkward cunt | |||
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"Is that it? Blimey, the way you'd spoken we'd have thought you'd been caught with your cock up a mans arse or something equally as naughty. All you did was not say you were in the area? Also, unless you've agreed to be exclusive to each other, what kind of person goes mad at the prospect of you shagging someone else? We were exclusive and I was just being an awkward cunt" Well that's you own fault! | |||
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"Is that it? Blimey, the way you'd spoken we'd have thought you'd been caught with your cock up a mans arse or something equally as naughty. All you did was not say you were in the area? Also, unless you've agreed to be exclusive to each other, what kind of person goes mad at the prospect of you shagging someone else? Sounds like an excuse to say Goodbye Sounds like a storm in a D cup " | |||
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"Is that it? Blimey, the way you'd spoken we'd have thought you'd been caught with your cock up a mans arse or something equally as naughty. All you did was not say you were in the area? Also, unless you've agreed to be exclusive to each other, what kind of person goes mad at the prospect of you shagging someone else? We were exclusive and I was just being an awkward cunt" And now she is. Chill. It'll sort itself out | |||
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"Just keep being generous and lovely with a great sense of humor" | |||
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"As a drama queen myself who doesn't like sharing my cock i'll give you the following advice. Send her a polite message explaining what occurred, as you did above. Tell her she has two choices. Either she believes you or she doesn't, but as you haven't given her any reason to doubt you previously, then you find her behaviour unnattractive and unreasonable, and you have no wish to continue seeing someone with these qualities. In other words...like it or lump it. And get rid of that status, it makes you look like a doirmat " agreed with the status, but she may have OP blocked hence thread and status? | |||
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"Ok what I did was.... i only meet up with this lovely lady every time I travel near her, it works out about every 2 weeks or so we have a night together. We had a row and I didn't message her to tell her I was in the area! Although I was going to message her later that night and ask her to meet me for lunch the next day before I traveled back. She now thinks I had arranged to meet with someone else and is mad, upset and let's just say not happy with me " Send a text or message to apologise, then leave it. When you are next in the area get in touch again to see whether she still wants to meet up. I personally think she is over reacting (or you are) and a two week breather may be all that's needed. If not then she obviously had stronger feelings about the arrangement than you both thought so you might want to discuss your relationship parameters. | |||
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"Ok what I did was.... i only meet up with this lovely lady every time I travel near her, it works out about every 2 weeks or so we have a night together. We had a row and I didn't message her to tell her I was in the area! Although I was going to message her later that night and ask her to meet me for lunch the next day before I traveled back. She now thinks I had arranged to meet with someone else and is mad, upset and let's just say not happy with me " What a joke, I was expecting you to have at least shagged her sister If she's unhappy with that I'd say you've a lifetime of grief if you actually marry her or move in with her at any time. You..Sorry darling I'm 5 minutes late coming home from the pub Her.. You bastard, who is she, fuck off I hate you etc etc etc Run my friend run | |||
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"Who says it's a fem that he's on about?? He does in his status." Note to self, read the OP's profile first, pmsl, never do! | |||
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"Ok what I did was.... i only meet up with this lovely lady every time I travel near her, it works out about every 2 weeks or so we have a night together. We had a row and I didn't message her to tell her I was in the area! Although I was going to message her later that night and ask her to meet me for lunch the next day before I traveled back. She now thinks I had arranged to meet with someone else and is mad, upset and let's just say not happy with me " just a little tiff time will heal it. | |||
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"She sounds like a nut job. What are you, like 7 years old? Ditch the status, grow up. Forget her you've had a lucky escape. What an anti-climax. Zzzzzz" | |||
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"Ok what I did was.... i only meet up with this lovely lady every time I travel near her, it works out about every 2 weeks or so we have a night together. We had a row and I didn't message her to tell her I was in the area! Although I was going to message her later that night and ask her to meet me for lunch the next day before I traveled back. She now thinks I had arranged to meet with someone else and is mad, upset and let's just say not happy with me " Your status says 'I'm a horrible fucking man who has hurt the most caring loving lady on here by being the biggest cunt ever! My loss I know but her heart is breaking' That's way OTT for what happened, especially for two singles on here. | |||
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"Wtf its a swingers site.. i cant be the only one thinking this if you both wanted a relationship with out other people then you should talk about that and both remove you profile. Obvs i dont know the whole story and how long youve been meeting but if its only been a 1 or 2 months then youve had a lucky escape and should move on" it's been a year | |||
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"If there isn't trust on both sides, regardless of if you've agreed to be exclusive or not, it's doomed to fail or at the least be a constant drama. I hope you work it out " Agree totally...... | |||
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"Wtf its a swingers site.. i cant be the only one thinking this if you both wanted a relationship with out other people then you should talk about that and both remove you profile. Obvs i dont know the whole story and how long youve been meeting but if its only been a 1 or 2 months then youve had a lucky escape and should move on it's been a year " You've only been on 2 months. I'm confused. | |||
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"Ok what I did was.... i only meet up with this lovely lady every time I travel near her, it works out about every 2 weeks or so we have a night together. We had a row and I didn't message her to tell her I was in the area! Although I was going to message her later that night and ask her to meet me for lunch the next day before I traveled back. She now thinks I had arranged to meet with someone else and is mad, upset and let's just say not happy with me " Fuck her off then if that's the whole story. | |||
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"How do you suggest I make things up to the best thing that ever happened to me on here! I've blew it" Your status update screams "DRAMA QUEEN" | |||
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"Ok what I did was.... i only meet up with this lovely lady every time I travel near her, it works out about every 2 weeks or so we have a night together. We had a row and I didn't message her to tell her I was in the area! Although I was going to message her later that night and ask her to meet me for lunch the next day before I traveled back. She now thinks I had arranged to meet with someone else and is mad, upset and let's just say not happy with me " Take a mate round and fuck her in both holes. She will soon forgive you | |||
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"Ok what I did was.... i only meet up with this lovely lady every time I travel near her, it works out about every 2 weeks or so we have a night together. We had a row and I didn't message her to tell her I was in the area! Although I was going to message her later that night and ask her to meet me for lunch the next day before I traveled back. She now thinks I had arranged to meet with someone else and is mad, upset and let's just say not happy with me Your status says 'I'm a horrible fucking man who has hurt the most caring loving lady on here by being the biggest cunt ever! My loss I know but her heart is breaking' That's way OTT for what happened, especially for two singles on here." I'm offended by your status. I'm actually the most caring, loving lady on here I'll have you know | |||
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"Ok what I did was.... i only meet up with this lovely lady every time I travel near her, it works out about every 2 weeks or so we have a night together. We had a row and I didn't message her to tell her I was in the area! Although I was going to message her later that night and ask her to meet me for lunch the next day before I traveled back. She now thinks I had arranged to meet with someone else and is mad, upset and let's just say not happy with me Your status says 'I'm a horrible fucking man who has hurt the most caring loving lady on here by being the biggest cunt ever! My loss I know but her heart is breaking' That's way OTT for what happened, especially for two singles on here. I'm offended by your status. I'm actually the most caring, loving lady on here I'll have you know " Me too. I'm actually the biggest cunt ever. MrB | |||
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"Ok what I did was.... i only meet up with this lovely lady every time I travel near her, it works out about every 2 weeks or so we have a night together. We had a row and I didn't message her to tell her I was in the area! Although I was going to message her later that night and ask her to meet me for lunch the next day before I traveled back. She now thinks I had arranged to meet with someone else and is mad, upset and let's just say not happy with me Your status says 'I'm a horrible fucking man who has hurt the most caring loving lady on here by being the biggest cunt ever! My loss I know but her heart is breaking' That's way OTT for what happened, especially for two singles on here. I'm offended by your status. I'm actually the most caring, loving lady on here I'll have you know Me too. I'm actually the biggest cunt ever. MrB" | |||
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"Wtf its a swingers site.. i cant be the only one thinking this if you both wanted a relationship with out other people then you should talk about that and both remove you profile. Obvs i dont know the whole story and how long youve been meeting but if its only been a 1 or 2 months then youve had a lucky escape and should move on it's been a year I joined again without her knowledge You've only been on 2 months. I'm confused." | |||
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"Is that it? Blimey, the way you'd spoken we'd have thought you'd been caught with your cock up a mans arse or something equally as naughty. All you did was not say you were in the area? Also, unless you've agreed to be exclusive to each other, what kind of person goes mad at the prospect of you shagging someone else? We were exclusive and I was just being an awkward cunt" Exclusive? On a swinger site? You're both doing something wrong there. Adopt a kitten together or something since you seem as good as married now | |||
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"Wtf its a swingers site.. i cant be the only one thinking this if you both wanted a relationship with out other people then you should talk about that and both remove you profile. Obvs i dont know the whole story and how long youve been meeting but if its only been a 1 or 2 months then youve had a lucky escape and should move on it's been a year You've only been on 2 months. I'm confused. I joined again without her knowledge " But you said she's the best thing that happened to you on here i.e you know each other from here. I don't get it. | |||
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"How do you suggest I make things up to the best thing that ever happened to me on here! I've blew it" We all fuck up Apologise let the person breath and calm down Move on learn lesson. | |||
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"said the right words but acted with his cock - maybe" My thoughts exactly! Brain not in head. Brain in cock. Me reckons he met another and she found out! Move on OP and man up. | |||
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"Have a pair of bollocks about you and move on! " True, grow a pair and don't waste any more time over it, it's a swing site not a romantic dating site with view to marriage. If you were exclusive, then why did you join this site again, curiosity? You know what that did to the cat.. | |||
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"Have a pair of bollocks about you and move on! True, grow a pair and don't waste any more time over it, it's a swing site not a romantic dating site with view to marriage. If you were exclusive, then why did you join this site again, curiosity? You know what that did to the cat.. " Good point. You said you were exclusive then said you joined here again without her knowledge. I'd be pissed off if it was me. | |||
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"I was so looking forward to finding out what he had done. I declare this a wet lettuce thread" He said but it's way up the line and doesn't seem to ring true. | |||
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"And then he was gone!" I wonder if he'll tell her when he comes back this time ? | |||
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"And then he was gone! I wonder if he'll tell her when he comes back this time ? " I think it was a look at me thread that went spectacularly wrong! | |||
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"And then he was gone!" He won't get to dip his wick anywhere now | |||
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"And then he was gone! He won't get to dip his wick anywhere now " Unless he creates a new profile..... | |||
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"If you've simply slipped into the wrong hole by mistake it's easily done and she might forgive you once the pains gone This. Just wipe the bogeys off the tip and aim for the mouth again " copter | |||
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"Ok what I did was.... i only meet up with this lovely lady every time I travel near her, it works out about every 2 weeks or so we have a night together. We had a row and I didn't message her to tell her I was in the area! Although I was going to message her later that night and ask her to meet me for lunch the next day before I traveled back. She now thinks I had arranged to meet with someone else and is mad, upset and let's just say not happy with me " Mental case. Better off without her | |||
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"It's you lot your all so harsh " I am bloody not. I'm realistc. No time for dramas. | |||
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"It's you lot your all so harsh " nope. he's figured out how to get round being blocked on here i reckon. | |||
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"It's you lot your all so harsh nope. he's figured out how to get round being blocked on here i reckon." Ah reinvent himself | |||
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"It's you lot your all so harsh nope. he's figured out how to get round being blocked on here i reckon. Ah reinvent himself" hope she has her filters on. | |||
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"It's you lot your all so harsh nope. he's figured out how to get round being blocked on here i reckon." If you don't succeed, try, try and try again..... | |||
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