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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello all,

Love the site, but particularly love the forum section.....A hidden jem to us until recently.

But whats the etiquette regarding winking? Is it like catching someones eye and a smile in the real world, or is it the devils tool, designed for players of the numbers game?

Did a quick search and the posts on it were about a year ago with a mixed response.

If it turns out to be the latter........... sorry, we're new.

Sam & Dave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh you've done it now there's lots of winkers in here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never worked them out myself

im not even sure what im supposed to do in response to a wink lol

I think they ment to mean....hi your nice give me a mail

But i always think they just used by people who reply on the law of average.....you know block wink enough people and eventually someone will mail you back, so im always scared of reply to someone who dont even like me really he just winked me with every other women on the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people hate them, some people ignore them. Personally we wink at people that have looked at us and we like the look of, beyond that we'd rather put the effort in and send a message.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Hello all,

Love the site, but particularly love the forum section.....A hidden jem to us until recently.

But whats the etiquette regarding winking? Is it like catching someones eye and a smile in the real world, or is it the devils tool, designed for players of the numbers game?

Did a quick search and the posts on it were about a year ago with a mixed response.

If it turns out to be the latter........... sorry, we're new.

Sam & Dave"

like most of swinging there is no etiquette,just what works for you.We ignore them, if ppl cant be bothered to send a message we are not interested.However others see it differently.

Go with what u feel is right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We take a wink as someone is interested.

If we like the profile we will wink back.

If not delete.

We sometimes wink other couples who we think may be our cup of tea, if they respond, they do, if not. Nothing lost or gained.

What gets us is the ones who continue to wink every other day or so. Opps sorry didn't reply to the first wink ( ok we could have missed that one) but why will we reply to the next 10 you send!

Almost as bad as facebook pokes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You remember back in the day when we used to lug home holiday brochures before doing everything online. Well I used to look through and turn down the page of the hotels I was interested in, and then I'd go through more thoroughly looking at location in resort, sea _iew, flight times etc and eventually go to the travel agents with a list in hand to book.

Well the initial turning down the page bit is how I use the wink system, its a friendly hello I like you kind of thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello all,

Love the site, but particularly love the forum section.....A hidden jem to us until recently.

But whats the etiquette regarding winking? Is it like catching someones eye and a smile in the real world, or is it the devils tool, designed for players of the numbers game?

Did a quick search and the posts on it were about a year ago with a mixed response.

If it turns out to be the latter........... sorry, we're new.

Sam & Dave"

I don't do it often you don't get much response.

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By *ornwall-maleMan
over a year ago

newquay

a lot of peoploe dont reply to winks and hate them. some people feel if they cant be bothered to type a message then why bother. i got a wink the other day and messaged them to say thanks etc and they never replyed. so why wink me lol. so thats why i find them annoying! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we get a wink, at best that's all we'll respond with, and if I send one, it's all I expect back.

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By *ornwall-maleMan
over a year ago

newquay


"If we get a wink, at best that's all we'll respond with, and if I send one, it's all I expect back.

"

good policy guys. not bias cos your locals lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We generally don't use winks both sending or looking at.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I use them as a complex form of morse code.

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By *ugartitsandhimCouple
over a year ago

North West

Gone off WINKS.......... Tried them didnt like them ..... No point winking if we all people look it as meaning a diffrent thing...... So from today we will not be using winks and deleting the ones we get!!! I am going now to put it on our profile lololol RANT OVER!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the replies guys, although we are totally lost now . It seems that if you are particularly interested then a message would be the safest and best bet, just in case the person / people in question are in the ban winking camp?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a personal choice. I love winks!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

welcome to the forums xx

my opinion a complete waste of time but others really like them ... x

Never ever sent any

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