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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do I go about telling me wife I want to watch her get fucked??

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

If you watch porn tell her it's a turn on watching and she what she says back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you watch porn tell her it's a turn on watching and she what she says back"

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By *ittenbutnotshyCouple
over a year ago

North Manchester


"How do I go about telling me wife I want to watch her get fucked?? "

Show her your single guy profile and see what she says?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"How do I go about telling me wife I want to watch her get fucked?? "

You know her better than us so how you approach her will very much be down to your usual way of interacting. Aside from that you need to talk to her and listen to what she's saying to you. There isn't a magical formula or series of phrases that will make her agree or make her react how you want her to.

So sit down with her and have a conversation.

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By *amamanMan
over a year ago

Inverness and around. ...

Sometimes fantasy and reality need to be kept apart .....be sure you know what you are asking her ....

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By *estpussylickerenfieldMan
over a year ago

enfield


"How do I go about telling me wife I want to watch her get fucked??

Show her your single guy profile and see what she says?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask her about her fantasy, and then tell her yours take from there and see

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Ill ask her for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just came out with it, she wasn't interested and oh yeah we are still friends but not together so go carefully.

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

MK

tell her you were talking with some mates and they had a fantasy about watching there wife with another guy, and now you got it on your mind, what do you think hun?, is that something you would do if ever it happened in the future?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll ask her later, she's got her mouth full at the minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her your on here for starters

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks to all for your help

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would then be divorced if I told her ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do I go about telling me wife I want to watch her get fucked?? "

I've got the same problem

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tell her your on here for starters "

I would be divorced if I told her I was on here ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her you want to sleep with other women. She will probably come up with the idea of sleeping with other men herself.

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By *eaven and Hell 69Couple
over a year ago

HULL


"How do I go about telling me wife I want to watch her get fucked??

Show her your single guy profile and see what she says?"

great answer xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It will be the horniest experience of your lives

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By *ouple36DDCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

I told Sara's I'd like to see her with another guy. Took a while to set up but this Year I've seen 2 guys fuck her and yes it's the horniest experience ever.

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By *igboy10essexMan
over a year ago

Upminster


"I told Sara's I'd like to see her with another guy. Took a while to set up but this Year I've seen 2 guys fuck her and yes it's the horniest experience ever. "

I'd love to fuck sara in front of you. Happy to have pics / vids taken & be directed fucking her by you

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By *amrod400Man
over a year ago

belfast

Send me her phone number .... il tell her for u

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Tell her your on here for starters

I would be divorced if I told her I was on here ha "

That's genuinely sad .

I don't mean this in an aggressive or unkind way but how on earth can you expect to establish the kind of trust required to swing if you're keeping part of your life hidden from her?

Remove your account and start to establish a more open communication around sex with your partner. It might not lead to swinging but it might open up myriad other opportunities.

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS


"How do I go about telling me wife I want to watch her get fucked??

Show her your single guy profile and see what she says?"

Spot on.

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By *ldest swinger in townMan
over a year ago

kirkcaldy


"How do I go about telling me wife I want to watch her get fucked?? "

DONT! just take her to the woods, arrange for some folk to be strategically positioned to see it all, and fuck her there. she may never be any the wiser.

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By *arygoMan
over a year ago

Corwen


"How do I go about telling me wife I want to watch her get fucked?? "
I had the experience of watching my partner being fucked by another man on Friday night, I posted "Introducing female partner into swinging" and got a lot of good advice. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard one that.It all depends if you think you will eventually want to be with another woman if the answers no then you need to make sure she knows that you mean it. other wise all shes gonna think it is cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was quite easy for me as my ex was a flirt so I encouraged her to stand at a bar in a busy pub dressed up in her sexy attire and wait to be chatted up while I watched.she loved the attention so I encouraged her all the more, she'd text me from the bar to say the guy wants to take her home and so our swinging began. So shower her with compliments get a couple of g&t's down her, get her dressed up, get down a busy city pub and see if she's up for flirting and take it from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

take her to a swing club that's what I did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im amazed at how many men dont know what there wives like / want ?? dont people talk ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not being funny but if you are in a good honest fun filled marriage you shouldn't be asking how to ask your wife if she would try out one of your fantasies. Because it may be yours but if it is not hers end of chat .

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"im amazed at how many men dont know what there wives like / want ?? dont people talk ?? "

I'm not referring to the op here. I think that a lot of people just concentrate on fulfilling their own sexual fantasies, When if they established a relationship where both partners felt their fatasies could be heard and accepted without judgement (not necessarily acted on) their sex lives would be more fulfilling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you should just start the convo with her and ask her how she would feel about trying new things to spice up your sex life?

If that's received Well, ask her how she thinks this can be done....and slowly bring the subject of having someone else involved maybe playing with both of or one of You?

Ask her if she would be comfortable if you tried another man or woman interacting with both of you.

Then if it's still going well say you'll look into it and then take it from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to fuck someone's wife in front of them, it would be so horny being watched as I pleasure his wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to fuck someone's wife in front of them, it would be so horny being watched as I pleasure his wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its awesome watching

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

I used to talk to her during sex and she always fantasised about having another guy so I set it up without telling her and we met the guy on the pretence of he had some PC stuff for me. We met in a pub in Manchester and had a few drinks then he invited us back to his. More wine then he put a blue movie on, I started running my hand up her thigh and started playing with her pussy, I gave him the nod and he done the same, to my surprise she got his cock out and that was it, we undressed her and both fucked her. That was the start of our swinging.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

You could try just telling her.

Start a conversation about fantasies ask her if she has any, hopefully she'll tell you and ask you.

Tell her the Idea of watching her with another guy turns you on.

Then leave it there let it cultivate.

Then maybe in a few weeks discuss it further.

If she is open to the discussion that is.

Sew the seed and gradually add to the fantasy.

At the end of the day what maybe is your fantasy may not be hers.

If that's the case, respect her and leave it be.

You can't do this without trust and honesty and being honest having a secret account is not a good start.

Personally I would delete it.

But that's your choice, don't be surprised if she goes mental at you if she ever finds out.

Bottom line if she doesn't want to leave it,but unless you ask you are never going to find out.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I used to talk to her during sex and she always fantasised about having another guy so I set it up without telling her and we met the guy on the pretence of he had some PC stuff for me. We met in a pub in Manchester and had a few drinks then he invited us back to his. More wine then he put a blue movie on, I started running my hand up her thigh and started playing with her pussy, I gave him the nod and he done the same, to my surprise she got his cock out and that was it, we undressed her and both fucked her. That was the start of our swinging. "

Was she ok with you two setting her up like that?

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

She wasn't aware, she just thought it was a chance happening and judging by her response on the night enabled us to meet him again and she knew what was going to happen.

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable


"How do I go about telling me wife I want to watch her get fucked?? "
i love fucking people's wife's.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"She wasn't aware, she just thought it was a chance happening and judging by her response on the night enabled us to meet him again and she knew what was going to happen. "

Well I guess she knows now

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Indeed she does Don't get me wrong if at any time she showed disapproval then it would have stopped.

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton


"Tell her your on here for starters

I would be divorced if I told her I was on here ha

That's genuinely sad .

I don't mean this in an aggressive or unkind way but how on earth can you expect to establish the kind of trust required to swing if you're keeping part of your life hidden from her?

Remove your account and start to establish a more open communication around sex with your partner. It might not lead to swinging but it might open up myriad other opportunities."

Or she may surprise you An open honest relationship though, is an absolute must (as the advice the advice given above says).

Then try to explain to her as to why you feel it to be a massive turn on for you?.. try to understand why you feel that way yourself first. What dynamic of a wife fucking another man would you want to try? Ie Hotwife or Cuckhold etc

Good luck OP!

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By *arygoMan
over a year ago

Corwen


"im amazed at how many men dont know what there wives like / want ?? dont people talk ?? "

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By *arygoMan
over a year ago

Corwen


"I used to talk to her during sex and she always fantasised about having another guy so I set it up without telling her and we met the guy on the pretence of he had some PC stuff for me. We met in a pub in Manchester and had a few drinks then he invited us back to his. More wine then he put a blue movie on, I started running my hand up her thigh and started playing with her pussy, I gave him the nod and he done the same, to my surprise she got his cock out and that was it, we undressed her and both fucked her. That was the start of our swinging. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her when your in bed together having fun!

Would love it if my hubby said that to me!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Indeed she does Don't get me wrong if at any time she showed disapproval then it would have stopped. "

It's not my business . I would be beyond angry but you know her better than me and that's what its all about.

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

I knew she fantasised about it I just gave her the nudge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mine was same

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By *ssex Lycra LoverMan
over a year ago

Ilford

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