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By *lacksausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Having lived and played ( and worked) in different parts of the UK, it is not strange to learn of various vanilla clubs where white women go to pick up black guys ( or to be picked up by black guys).

To be honest, I never had any qualms about such night clubs. Indeed I did attend quite a few. These clubs did not exclude white guys; they simply had the pedigree of black man white woman ting.

These days I don't go out much due to work and the like and let's be honest, I discovered the sweet art of swinging.

I am finding it difficult attending parties, etc advertised as BBC only. I meet women who want BBC only but going to a party without a singly non black guy in sought fucks with my head a little bit. I don't know why but it does.

Let's hear your thoughts please.

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By *lacksausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

* without a single non black guy in sight*

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

Why does it fuck with your head? If there are girls there into black guys and you're the only black guy surely it's a winner for you

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

There are a lot of black men on here who feel that BBC events are in poor taste, as it perpetuates the black man as just a cock, and hopefully a large one at that.

The choice is yours. I prefer to meet black men because I find them attractive, and they are usually a very good laugh, as well as (usually) excellent in bed. But I wouldn't expect a black man to want to be paraded in a club as some sort of market for us white girls. You meet how you choose to meet.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"Why does it fuck with your head? If there are girls there into black guys and you're the only black guy surely it's a winner for you "

Doh sorry I completely misread your post ignore me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to attend an event where it's the opposite, black women who loooooove white men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a lot of black men on here who feel that BBC events are in poor taste, as it perpetuates the black man as just a cock, and hopefully a large one at that.

The choice is yours. I prefer to meet black men because I find them attractive, and they are usually a very good laugh, as well as (usually) excellent in bed. But I wouldn't expect a black man to want to be paraded in a club as some sort of market for us white girls. You meet how you choose to meet."

Surely your comments are also in 'poor taste'??

You prefer to meet black men because you find them attractive?

'They' are usually a good laugh? Surely wit doesn't know skin colour?

Surely an ugly black man isnt good looking because he's got black skin?

Usually excellent in bed?

But you wouldn't want to parade a black man in a club.... but very willing to allow their skin colour to separate from everyday human traits?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"There are a lot of black men on here who feel that BBC events are in poor taste, as it perpetuates the black man as just a cock, and hopefully a large one at that.

The choice is yours. I prefer to meet black men because I find them attractive, and they are usually a very good laugh, as well as (usually) excellent in bed. But I wouldn't expect a black man to want to be paraded in a club as some sort of market for us white girls. You meet how you choose to meet.

Surely your comments are also in 'poor taste'??

You prefer to meet black men because you find them attractive?

'They' are usually a good laugh? Surely wit doesn't know skin colour?

Surely an ugly black man isnt good looking because he's got black skin?

Usually excellent in bed?

But you wouldn't want to parade a black man in a club.... but very willing to allow their skin colour to separate from everyday human traits?

"

Nah, I just find them attractive and pleasant to be with. If I ever meet a white guy with the same attributes then I'd be as happy to spend time with them, but I haven't yet.

We all have our preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh, let them do them. I tend to find that couples/singles who actually attend these events are a lot more serious about actually fucking.

Its great and all meeting people who may see such events in poor taste, but I think said moral agreement tends to be pointless when you find that there are quite a lot of people on here who bang on about "wanting to meet BBC" only to flake/disappear/UNLOS the moment u want to actually arrange something.

A lot of swinging is non-PC and kinda vulgar too. But then that is the appeal. There are plenty of vanilla sites which cater to those who dont look to fulfill questionable racial fetishes. But this site (and this endeavor) really is not it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was black I'd be uncomfortable with it, but I'm not and have no right to be uncomfortable on their behalf either! If they're happy then good luck to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a lot of black men on here who feel that BBC events are in poor taste, as it perpetuates the black man as just a cock, and hopefully a large one at that.

The choice is yours. I prefer to meet black men because I find them attractive, and they are usually a very good laugh, as well as (usually) excellent in bed. But I wouldn't expect a black man to want to be paraded in a club as some sort of market for us white girls. You meet how you choose to meet."

Spot on and I totally agree

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"Meh, let them do them. I tend to find that couples/singles who actually attend these events are a lot more serious about actually fucking.

Its great and all meeting people who may see such events in poor taste, but I think said moral agreement tends to be pointless when you find that there are quite a lot of people on here who bang on about "wanting to meet BBC" only to flake/disappear/UNLOS the moment u want to actually arrange something.

A lot of swinging is non-PC and kinda vulgar too. But then that is the appeal. There are plenty of vanilla sites which cater to those who dont look to fulfill questionable racial fetishes. But this site (and this endeavor) really is not it. "

Couldn't agree.more

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the comrade of guys of any colour in a party scene...I never specifically have an interest in people who only want black men.

I like to socialise...with no pressure to play like a performing seal, though some are happy with that. It might be a site based around sex, but there are a lot of people who really arent interested if you are a 'nice', 'intelligent' 'funny' guy...when all they really are wanted are is to be a cock for hire essentially. Fair enough it works for some...I just find that I like not to be known for just my cock or its colour..or even if I'm a twat.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House


"Surely your comments are also in 'poor taste'??

You prefer to meet black men because you find them attractive?

'They' are usually a good laugh? Surely wit doesn't know skin colour?

Surely an ugly black man isnt good looking because he's got black skin?

Usually excellent in bed?

But you wouldn't want to parade a black man in a club.... but very willing to allow their skin colour to separate from everyday human traits?

"

I agree with your sentiment here. I like black guys, I've spent enough time getting to know quite a few of them quite intimately. However, just because they're black doesn't make them more witty, any more attractive, any better in bed than others or even more well hung. That kind of generalisation is demeaning.

However, for myself, I find their confidence attractive and seeing their black into my white I find very erotic Is that a demeaning statement for me to make

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting viewpoint! I get lots of messages from black guys with the opening line "fancy some BBC?" Or "had BBC before?" Which is always a total turn off to me and generally gets deleted. I don't judge guys by the colour of their skin. I don't search out black guys but have, over the years been with the odd ones and they have been lovely because of their looks or personality. Not their skin colour.

I get why there are specific nights for particular tastes and guess I would be welcomed at BBW nights but to me,my size doesn't define me nor should skin colour! But hey if we were all the same life would be dismal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting viewpoint! I get lots of messages from black guys with the opening line "fancy some BBC?" Or "had BBC before?" Which is always a total turn off to me and generally gets deleted. I don't judge guys by the colour of their skin. I don't search out black guys but have, over the years been with the odd ones and they have been lovely because of their looks or personality. Not their skin colour.

I get why there are specific nights for particular tastes and guess I would be welcomed at BBW nights but to me,my size doesn't define me nor should skin colour! But hey if we were all the same life would be dismal! "

my cock is huge and almost black..your mouth is amazing

*some parts were made up

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

The BBC events are really cool in my opinion, if you want to meet amazingly beautiful girls, go to a BBC event, the ladies know what am saying, the kind of beautiful babes you don't see on the streets, plus they don't come to waste their time , they are straight to the point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting viewpoint! I get lots of messages from black guys with the opening line "fancy some BBC?" Or "had BBC before?" Which is always a total turn off to me and generally gets deleted. I don't judge guys by the colour of their skin. I don't search out black guys but have, over the years been with the odd ones and they have been lovely because of their looks or personality. Not their skin colour.

I get why there are specific nights for particular tastes and guess I would be welcomed at BBW nights but to me,my size doesn't define me nor should skin colour! But hey if we were all the same life would be dismal!

my cock is huge and almost black..your mouth is amazing

*some parts were made up"

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Plus when I ask the ladies , what is the attraction beyond the sex?, they always tell me the lyrics, when you are at these bbc parties , try and listen to what the guys are telling these ladies, you would see my point, the lyrics would make any lady feel on top of the world, the ladies know it's just lyrics but it makes them feel great and you just see the ladies laughing, then they get into the room and get a massive cock, of course it's a great night for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a lot of black guys who hate the term BBC and find it derogatory and pretty demeaning.

I fully understand why and the kind of stereotyping it plays out. Its essential a white persons stereotyping of black males and assumes much...

Id be uneasy at any event where racial profiling applies, or bkack men are stereotyoed. Thats just my personal opinion.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting viewpoint! I get lots of messages from black guys with the opening line "fancy some BBC?" Or "had BBC before?" Which is always a total turn off to me and generally gets deleted. I don't judge guys by the colour of their skin. I don't search out black guys but have, over the years been with the odd ones and they have been lovely because of their looks or personality. Not their skin colour.

I get why there are specific nights for particular tastes and guess I would be welcomed at BBW nights but to me,my size doesn't define me nor should skin colour! But hey if we were all the same life would be dismal! "

I really wanted to type a comment but you've summed up everything I wanted to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting viewpoint! I get lots of messages from black guys with the opening line "fancy some BBC?" Or "had BBC before?" Which is always a total turn off to me and generally gets deleted. I don't judge guys by the colour of their skin. I don't search out black guys but have, over the years been with the odd ones and they have been lovely because of their looks or personality. Not their skin colour.

I get why there are specific nights for particular tastes and guess I would be welcomed at BBW nights but to me,my size doesn't define me nor should skin colour! But hey if we were all the same life would be dismal!

my cock is huge and almost black..your mouth is amazing

*some parts were made up

"

you would so get a licking..forr a start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have got past the point of frustration with these type of threads, and calling them bbc parties completely misses the point. So this is how I see things. I don't apologise if people are upset. I do apologise for the length.

I have divided it into, discrimination, desire and history.

Let's look at discrimination.

White people don't need to advertise white only parties because most of the parties are private parties to which single black men are not invited. The established clubs have 'regular' swinging nights but the numbers of black men that get to play is low in my experience. There is no need to badge it a white night, as white people just pair off with white people. It has the semblance of openess but the result is the same.

My experience of swinging matches my experience of clubbing. When gave up clubbing for swinging I found it was same sh't different day.

When I used to go clubbing I would go to the main club in whatever town I was living at the time. The first hassle was getting in, even if you got in very few white women would dance with you. If they did it was to show their friends what good dancers they were. I discovered most towns had a small rnb club. I would end up up only going to rnb clubs no hassle getting in, the music was good and the women were up for dancing fast and slow.

I found the same with swinging and that's why I go to interracial parties. It is not so much that I am a black man and they are white women. It is they are looking beyond the fact that I am not white and see me as a man. This is what gets up the nose of certain white people. There is the assumption women of all colours should prefer white men. This prejudice has been going on for years, it used to be called 'jungle fever' it is frustrating when black men start using the modern equivalent calling them 'bbc' parties.

The fact that some women look beyond a person being black still does not guarantee that person play.

This is where desire has effect, because the single black male still has to have the right personality to connect with the woman or the couple. It is not a question that you walk in and the women are on their backs waiting to be banged. You still have to come correct. Even if you come correct you can be too tall, too small, all the other aspects of attraction come into play. Yes there are some greedy girls, but that's no difference from white only parties or 'regular club's.

The attraction is also not just a sex thing because a fair number of the women who attend the interacial parties date black men. So interracial parties make sense from their point of view.

The fact that some men push the BBC connection is because it is a selling point. The same as some advertise their dick size, or muscles, or women their boobs or ass. In fabland you work your USP.

In terms of history you have to remember why the interracial parties started. They were started for the above mentioned reasons of the difficulty of single black men not being invited to parties or not getting play at the 'regular' parties. 4 years ago when I started swinging there were not that many interracial parties. Certain parties have blazed the way BMFC being the best known , but most clubs are now maximising space by adding an interracial night.

So do I have problem with interracial parties, no. I don't think white people go to a party and think 'there are no black people here, something is wrong!'.

Is there a fetishistic aspect to it, yes for some people, but society fetishists physical looks. However for most who attend it is just fun, like the rnb clubs.

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

i think its always nice to have a mix of different people at a party

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill


"I have got past the point of frustration with these type of threads, and calling them bbc parties completely misses the point. So this is how I see things. I don't apologise if people are upset. I do apologise for the length.

I have divided it into, discrimination, desire and history.

Let's look at discrimination.

White people don't need to advertise white only parties because most of the parties are private parties to which single black men are not invited. The established clubs have 'regular' swinging nights but the numbers of black men that get to play is low in my experience. There is no need to badge it a white night, as white people just pair off with white people. It has the semblance of openess but the result is the same.

My experience of swinging matches my experience of clubbing. When gave up clubbing for swinging I found it was same sh't different day.

When I used to go clubbing I would go to the main club in whatever town I was living at the time. The first hassle was getting in, even if you got in very few white women would dance with you. If they did it was to show their friends what good dancers they were. I discovered most towns had a small rnb club. I would end up up only going to rnb clubs no hassle getting in, the music was good and the women were up for dancing fast and slow.

I found the same with swinging and that's why I go to interracial parties. It is not so much that I am a black man and they are white women. It is they are looking beyond the fact that I am not white and see me as a man. This is what gets up the nose of certain white people. There is the assumption women of all colours should prefer white men. This prejudice has been going on for years, it used to be called 'jungle fever' it is frustrating when black men start using the modern equivalent calling them 'bbc' parties.

The fact that some women look beyond a person being black still does not guarantee that person play.

This is where desire has effect, because the single black male still has to have the right personality to connect with the woman or the couple. It is not a question that you walk in and the women are on their backs waiting to be banged. You still have to come correct. Even if you come correct you can be too tall, too small, all the other aspects of attraction come into play. Yes there are some greedy girls, but that's no difference from white only parties or 'regular club's.

The attraction is also not just a sex thing because a fair number of the women who attend the interacial parties date black men. So interracial parties make sense from their point of view.

The fact that some men push the BBC connection is because it is a selling point. The same as some advertise their dick size, or muscles, or women their boobs or ass. In fabland you work your USP.

In terms of history you have to remember why the interracial parties started. They were started for the above mentioned reasons of the difficulty of single black men not being invited to parties or not getting play at the 'regular' parties. 4 years ago when I started swinging there were not that many interracial parties. Certain parties have blazed the way BMFC being the best known , but most clubs are now maximising space by adding an interracial night.

So do I have problem with interracial parties, no. I don't think white people go to a party and think 'there are no black people here, something is wrong!'.

Is there a fetishistic aspect to it, yes for some people, but society fetishists physical looks. However for most who attend it is just fun, like the rnb clubs.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting viewpoint! I get lots of messages from black guys with the opening line "fancy some BBC?" Or "had BBC before?" Which is always a total turn off to me and generally gets deleted. I don't judge guys by the colour of their skin. I don't search out black guys but have, over the years been with the odd ones and they have been lovely because of their looks or personality. Not their skin colour.

I get why there are specific nights for particular tastes and guess I would be welcomed at BBW nights but to me,my size doesn't define me nor should skin colour! But hey if we were all the same life would be dismal!

I really wanted to type a comment but you've summed up everything I wanted to say "

I'm a saybit likevit is kinda gal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have got past the point of frustration with these type of threads, and calling them bbc parties completely misses the point. So this is how I see things. I don't apologise if people are upset. I do apologise for the length.

I have divided it into, discrimination, desire and history.

Let's look at discrimination.

White people don't need to advertise white only parties because most of the parties are private parties to which single black men are not invited. The established clubs have 'regular' swinging nights but the numbers of black men that get to play is low in my experience. There is no need to badge it a white night, as white people just pair off with white people. It has the semblance of openess but the result is the same.

My experience of swinging matches my experience of clubbing. When gave up clubbing for swinging I found it was same sh't different day.

When I used to go clubbing I would go to the main club in whatever town I was living at the time. The first hassle was getting in, even if you got in very few white women would dance with you. If they did it was to show their friends what good dancers they were. I discovered most towns had a small rnb club. I would end up up only going to rnb clubs no hassle getting in, the music was good and the women were up for dancing fast and slow.

I found the same with swinging and that's why I go to interracial parties. It is not so much that I am a black man and they are white women. It is they are looking beyond the fact that I am not white and see me as a man. This is what gets up the nose of certain white people. There is the assumption women of all colours should prefer white men. This prejudice has been going on for years, it used to be called 'jungle fever' it is frustrating when black men start using the modern equivalent calling them 'bbc' parties.

The fact that some women look beyond a person being black still does not guarantee that person play.

This is where desire has effect, because the single black male still has to have the right personality to connect with the woman or the couple. It is not a question that you walk in and the women are on their backs waiting to be banged. You still have to come correct. Even if you come correct you can be too tall, too small, all the other aspects of attraction come into play. Yes there are some greedy girls, but that's no difference from white only parties or 'regular club's.

The attraction is also not just a sex thing because a fair number of the women who attend the interacial parties date black men. So interracial parties make sense from their point of view.

The fact that some men push the BBC connection is because it is a selling point. The same as some advertise their dick size, or muscles, or women their boobs or ass. In fabland you work your USP.

In terms of history you have to remember why the interracial parties started. They were started for the above mentioned reasons of the difficulty of single black men not being invited to parties or not getting play at the 'regular' parties. 4 years ago when I started swinging there were not that many interracial parties. Certain parties have blazed the way BMFC being the best known , but most clubs are now maximising space by adding an interracial night.

So do I have problem with interracial parties, no. I don't think white people go to a party and think 'there are no black people here, something is wrong!'.

Is there a fetishistic aspect to it, yes for some people, but society fetishists physical looks. However for most who attend it is just fun, like the rnb clubs.

"

Good posts. This is the issue, at time I really doubt whether any of this "unease" about BBC fetishism is even real...or whether its just concern trolling. It always struck me as mighty rich when a couple/single would complain about the disrespectful nature of the BBC thing but then have "no blacks" on their profile. Made me think they're not being genuinely honest about how they feel.

I also mentioned one of the points you made before. Society has changed, amrican hip hop culture became the mainstream and you have highly influential people like the Kardashians running around with black men. Along the line, blackness became "cool"...in the mainstream. That may not be a positive thing, neither will sexual access really dispel racism.

But it is sexual access.

You tend to find a sense of "unease" among many men when they perceive that another tribe is gaining leverage with "their women".

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"I have got past the point of frustration with these type of threads, and calling them bbc parties completely misses the point. So this is how I see things. I don't apologise if people are upset. I do apologise for the length.

I have divided it into, discrimination, desire and history.

Let's look at discrimination.

White people don't need to advertise white only parties because most of the parties are private parties to which single black men are not invited. The established clubs have 'regular' swinging nights but the numbers of black men that get to play is low in my experience. There is no need to badge it a white night, as white people just pair off with white people. It has the semblance of openess but the result is the same.

My experience of swinging matches my experience of clubbing. When gave up clubbing for swinging I found it was same sh't different day.

When I used to go clubbing I would go to the main club in whatever town I was living at the time. The first hassle was getting in, even if you got in very few white women would dance with you. If they did it was to show their friends what good dancers they were. I discovered most towns had a small rnb club. I would end up up only going to rnb clubs no hassle getting in, the music was good and the women were up for dancing fast and slow.

I found the same with swinging and that's why I go to interracial parties. It is not so much that I am a black man and they are white women. It is they are looking beyond the fact that I am not white and see me as a man. This is what gets up the nose of certain white people. There is the assumption women of all colours should prefer white men. This prejudice has been going on for years, it used to be called 'jungle fever' it is frustrating when black men start using the modern equivalent calling them 'bbc' parties.

The fact that some women look beyond a person being black still does not guarantee that person play.

This is where desire has effect, because the single black male still has to have the right personality to connect with the woman or the couple. It is not a question that you walk in and the women are on their backs waiting to be banged. You still have to come correct. Even if you come correct you can be too tall, too small, all the other aspects of attraction come into play. Yes there are some greedy girls, but that's no difference from white only parties or 'regular club's.

The attraction is also not just a sex thing because a fair number of the women who attend the interacial parties date black men. So interracial parties make sense from their point of view.

The fact that some men push the BBC connection is because it is a selling point. The same as some advertise their dick size, or muscles, or women their boobs or ass. In fabland you work your USP.

In terms of history you have to remember why the interracial parties started. They were started for the above mentioned reasons of the difficulty of single black men not being invited to parties or not getting play at the 'regular' parties. 4 years ago when I started swinging there were not that many interracial parties. Certain parties have blazed the way BMFC being the best known , but most clubs are now maximising space by adding an interracial night.

So do I have problem with interracial parties, no. I don't think white people go to a party and think 'there are no black people here, something is wrong!'.

Is there a fetishistic aspect to it, yes for some people, but society fetishists physical looks. However for most who attend it is just fun, like the rnb clubs.

"

Very good points, well said

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


" i think its always nice to have a mix of different people at a party "

There are already hundreds of parties with "a mix of different people "

Sometimes it's also nice also to have parties which cater for a specific demographic. You still get a good mix of people in such parties.

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By *hinypants77Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Are white guys, or non black guys banned from these parties? That's just plain racist.

It's fine to have a theme and appeal to a certain demographic but it's blatant racism to ban other races from events.

I'm sure there are plenty of women who find all races attractive.

I find black women really attractive and I also like Asian, Hispanic, Brazilian, Irish, Russian, Australian and loads more. It's the woman that's attractive not her skin colour.

Love a big booty big woman twerking on my dick though! Where's all the big booty black women, white guy events at?

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Are white guys, or non black guys banned from these parties? That's just plain racist.

It's fine to have a theme and appeal to a certain demographic but it's blatant racism to ban other races from events.

I'm sure there are plenty of women who find all races attractive.

I find black women really attractive and I also like Asian, Hispanic, Brazilian, Irish, Russian, Australian and loads more. It's the woman that's attractive not her skin colour.

Love a big booty big woman twerking on my dick though! Where's all the big booty black women, white guy events at? "

Never been but I understand non white gents are also welcome

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"Are white guys, or non black guys banned from these parties? That's just plain racist.

It's fine to have a theme and appeal to a certain demographic but it's blatant racism to ban other races from events.

"

Depends where you are taking about. The club nights around me don't discriminate but some of the private parties I see do state only black guys.

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"Are white guys, or non black guys banned from these parties? That's just plain racist.

It's fine to have a theme and appeal to a certain demographic but it's blatant racism to ban other races from events.

I'm sure there are plenty of women who find all races attractive.

I find black women really attractive and I also like Asian, Hispanic, Brazilian, Irish, Russian, Australian and loads more. It's the woman that's attractive not her skin colour.

Love a big booty big woman twerking on my dick though! Where's all the big booty black women, white guy events at? "

White guys and non black guys are not banned from these parties.

I have attended some of these parties before and I have not seen a single occurrence where non black men were banned. You always have some white and Asian men there too.

And as far as the "booty black women, white guy events " ; well there is a club called BWFC ( black women's fan club ) check them out if you are interested.

So there you go, there is a club which caters for your specific need as well.

Bet you won't call it racist this time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say I'm in heaven at such an event

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are white guys, or non black guys banned from these parties? That's just plain racist.

It's fine to have a theme and appeal to a certain demographic but it's blatant racism to ban other races from events.

I'm sure there are plenty of women who find all races attractive.

I find black women really attractive and I also like Asian, Hispanic, Brazilian, Irish, Russian, Australian and loads more. It's the woman that's attractive not her skin colour.

Love a big booty big woman twerking on my dick though! Where's all the big booty black women, white guy events at? "

From what I've heard some white guys make it there goal to get white girls there. There what you call pimps but no money changes hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are white guys, or non black guys banned from these parties? That's just plain racist.

It's fine to have a theme and appeal to a certain demographic but it's blatant racism to ban other races from events.

I'm sure there are plenty of women who find all races attractive.

I find black women really attractive and I also like Asian, Hispanic, Brazilian, Irish, Russian, Australian and loads more. It's the woman that's attractive not her skin colour.

Love a big booty big woman twerking on my dick though! Where's all the big booty black women, white guy events at?

From what I've heard some white guys make it there goal to get white girls there. There what you call pimps but no money changes hands "

Really the term is, recruiting

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

Hampshire

I've been to a few BMFC events and white men/non black guys are not banned from these events

Anyone telling you different is lying.

Good points being made by the above posters. I've been to clubs as a single guy and as a couple where I was the only black there. I would be approachable, socialise as much as I can with people who were attending. But I am not the type of guy they are looking for at parties where the majority are white. Nothing wrong with that. Just the way it is.

Going to an interracial party, such as BMFC,I know I'm going to surrounded by women of all colours who find me attractive. Even if I don't play on the night, which is fine, at least I know I'm at a place where I feel appreciated.

Nowadays I would only go to a non interracial party if I'm meeting someone who I already know that is going.

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By *empting TravelsMan
over a year ago

London


"I have got past the point of frustration with these type of threads, and calling them bbc parties completely misses the point. So this is how I see things. I don't apologise if people are upset. I do apologise for the length.

I have divided it into, discrimination, desire and history.

Let's look at discrimination.

White people don't need to advertise white only parties because most of the parties are private parties to which single black men are not invited. The established clubs have 'regular' swinging nights but the numbers of black men that get to play is low in my experience. There is no need to badge it a white night, as white people just pair off with white people. It has the semblance of openess but the result is the same.

My experience of swinging matches my experience of clubbing. When gave up clubbing for swinging I found it was same sh't different day.

When I used to go clubbing I would go to the main club in whatever town I was living at the time. The first hassle was getting in, even if you got in very few white women would dance with you. If they did it was to show their friends what good dancers they were. I discovered most towns had a small rnb club. I would end up up only going to rnb clubs no hassle getting in, the music was good and the women were up for dancing fast and slow.

I found the same with swinging and that's why I go to interracial parties. It is not so much that I am a black man and they are white women. It is they are looking beyond the fact that I am not white and see me as a man. This is what gets up the nose of certain white people. There is the assumption women of all colours should prefer white men. This prejudice has been going on for years, it used to be called 'jungle fever' it is frustrating when black men start using the modern equivalent calling them 'bbc' parties.

The fact that some women look beyond a person being black still does not guarantee that person play.

This is where desire has effect, because the single black male still has to have the right personality to connect with the woman or the couple. It is not a question that you walk in and the women are on their backs waiting to be banged. You still have to come correct. Even if you come correct you can be too tall, too small, all the other aspects of attraction come into play. Yes there are some greedy girls, but that's no difference from white only parties or 'regular club's.

The attraction is also not just a sex thing because a fair number of the women who attend the interacial parties date black men. So interracial parties make sense from their point of view.

The fact that some men push the BBC connection is because it is a selling point. The same as some advertise their dick size, or muscles, or women their boobs or ass. In fabland you work your USP.

In terms of history you have to remember why the interracial parties started. They were started for the above mentioned reasons of the difficulty of single black men not being invited to parties or not getting play at the 'regular' parties. 4 years ago when I started swinging there were not that many interracial parties. Certain parties have blazed the way BMFC being the best known , but most clubs are now maximising space by adding an interracial night.

So do I have problem with interracial parties, no. I don't think white people go to a party and think 'there are no black people here, something is wrong!'.

Is there a fetishistic aspect to it, yes for some people, but society fetishists physical looks. However for most who attend it is just fun, like the rnb clubs.

"

Very well said

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By *empting TravelsMan
over a year ago

London


"Having lived and played ( and worked) in different parts of the UK, it is not strange to learn of various vanilla clubs where white women go to pick up black guys ( or to be picked up by black guys).

To be honest, I never had any qualms about such night clubs. Indeed I did attend quite a few. These clubs did not exclude white guys; they simply had the pedigree of black man white woman ting.

These days I don't go out much due to work and the like and let's be honest, I discovered the sweet art of swinging.

I am finding it difficult attending parties, etc advertised as BBC only. I meet women who want BBC only but going to a party without a singly non black guy in sought fucks with my head a little bit. I don't know why but it does.

Let's hear your thoughts please. "

I have been on the scene for many years so my adventures began well before BMFC was established. I have known the owner since the beginning and have nothing but respect for her.

The term BBC used to annoy me but these days I look at what people have to say for themselves before making assumptions about them. If its lazy shorthand I don't have a problem.

However if they have what I sense is an over fetishized fixation on black guys I don't waste my time or energy on them. If me being black is the sprinkling on the cake as opposed to being crucial I'm fine with that.

I also have no doubt that it is NOT a coincidence that none of the white women I have been closest to over the years dated black guys exclusively.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have got past the point of frustration with these type of threads, and calling them bbc parties completely misses the point. So this is how I see things. I don't apologise if people are upset. I do apologise for the length.

I have divided it into, discrimination, desire and history.

Let's look at discrimination.

White people don't need to advertise white only parties because most of the parties are private parties to which single black men are not invited. The established clubs have 'regular' swinging nights but the numbers of black men that get to play is low in my experience. There is no need to badge it a white night, as white people just pair off with white people. It has the semblance of openess but the result is the same.

My experience of swinging matches my experience of clubbing. When gave up clubbing for swinging I found it was same sh't different day.

When I used to go clubbing I would go to the main club in whatever town I was living at the time. The first hassle was getting in, even if you got in very few white women would dance with you. If they did it was to show their friends what good dancers they were. I discovered most towns had a small rnb club. I would end up up only going to rnb clubs no hassle getting in, the music was good and the women were up for dancing fast and slow.

I found the same with swinging and that's why I go to interracial parties. It is not so much that I am a black man and they are white women. It is they are looking beyond the fact that I am not white and see me as a man. This is what gets up the nose of certain white people. There is the assumption women of all colours should prefer white men. This prejudice has been going on for years, it used to be called 'jungle fever' it is frustrating when black men start using the modern equivalent calling them 'bbc' parties.

The fact that some women look beyond a person being black still does not guarantee that person play.

This is where desire has effect, because the single black male still has to have the right personality to connect with the woman or the couple. It is not a question that you walk in and the women are on their backs waiting to be banged. You still have to come correct. Even if you come correct you can be too tall, too small, all the other aspects of attraction come into play. Yes there are some greedy girls, but that's no difference from white only parties or 'regular club's.

The attraction is also not just a sex thing because a fair number of the women who attend the interacial parties date black men. So interracial parties make sense from their point of view.

The fact that some men push the BBC connection is because it is a selling point. The same as some advertise their dick size, or muscles, or women their boobs or ass. In fabland you work your USP.

In terms of history you have to remember why the interracial parties started. They were started for the above mentioned reasons of the difficulty of single black men not being invited to parties or not getting play at the 'regular' parties. 4 years ago when I started swinging there were not that many interracial parties. Certain parties have blazed the way BMFC being the best known , but most clubs are now maximising space by adding an interracial night.

So do I have problem with interracial parties, no. I don't think white people go to a party and think 'there are no black people here, something is wrong!'.

Is there a fetishistic aspect to it, yes for some people, but society fetishists physical looks. However for most who attend it is just fun, like the rnb clubs.

"

True indeed!

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

I was going to say ITV might be better than BBC but its not a laughing matter!

Seriously though who ever runs these events is going to be in trouble once the racist police get on the case.

Its total racism & discrimination against small white cocks.

CONTACT YOUR MP IMEDIENTLY

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

i would be surprised if every black guy had a big cock ..the few ive been with weren't anything special..

are guys allowed in if they have a small or average one or will they be measured up at the door

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By *reokinkMan
over a year ago

London


"i would be surprised if every black guy had a big cock ..the few ive been with weren't anything special..

are guys allowed in if they have a small or average one or will they be measured up at the door"

Well I have an average sized cock that I'm rather proud of and it never stopped me getting my fair share of pleasure when I was single. It wasn't even a problem when I used to cuckold couples.

My single profile made that very clear so no one I met ever felt "short" changed. You got what it said on the tin.

It also did a lot to cut down on that most annoying oh so frequent and rude question ( when its your opening statement) how big is your cock....yawn. Seriously? At least have a conversation first.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"i would be surprised if every black guy had a big cock ..the few ive been with weren't anything special..

are guys allowed in if they have a small or average one or will they be measured up at the door

Well I have an average sized cock that I'm rather proud of and it never stopped me getting my fair share of pleasure when I was single. It wasn't even a problem when I used to cuckold couples.

My single profile made that very clear so no one I met ever felt "short" changed. You got what it said on the tin.

It also did a lot to cut down on that most annoying oh so frequent and rude question ( when its your opening statement) how big is your cock....yawn. Seriously? At least have a conversation first. "

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By *nqiMan
over a year ago

Brussels

Can anyone name a few good vanilla clubs for this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love black cock. Period!

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

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By *ce1977Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Where do I find such an event!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd love to attend an event where it's the opposite, black women who loooooove white men "

now that id attend

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By *hocolate_HeavenMan
over a year ago

Birmingham and Dubai


"Having lived and played ( and worked) in different parts of the UK, it is not strange to learn of various vanilla clubs where white women go to pick up black guys ( or to be picked up by black guys).

To be honest, I never had any qualms about such night clubs. Indeed I did attend quite a few. These clubs did not exclude white guys; they simply had the pedigree of black man white woman ting.

These days I don't go out much due to work and the like and let's be honest, I discovered the sweet art of swinging.

I am finding it difficult attending parties, etc advertised as BBC only. I meet women who want BBC only but going to a party without a singly non black guy in sought fucks with my head a little bit. I don't know why but it does.

Let's hear your thoughts please. "

Enjoyed the BMFC nights at the clubs. Often got the party started for a group of guys where they have not quite broken the ice. Have a veri from one of those nights.

Most of my friends at the clubs are guys of all backgrounds. I don't see any colour. That said I know a few black guys who have said the same from the parties they go to.

There are one or two Asian parties, but they are mostly open to all backgrounds, but couples only predominantly. Wouldn't mind getting to one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought this was a thread about paying a t.v. license..

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By *orra11Man
over a year ago

Manchester & Central London

Id love to attend that mate

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