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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you say?

Do you just stand there and scream or what?

We have to book a babysitter now we have to let the baby sitter down when they have already cancelled their own plans.

I know we arnt the only ones with children on here what does everyone else do?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

sometime real life gets in the way of fun... all you can really do is grin and bear it...

as long as you give the other party as much notice as you can i am sure they will be understanding... if not then they were probably not for you in the first place...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why cancel babysitter why not have a date night movies or a meal out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now to me....a timewaster would be a guy who turned up and couldnt perform....or was a crap shag...

I could have been with someone who was great in both departments...instead i chose him, hence ...wasting me time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now to me....a timewaster would be a guy who turned up and couldnt perform....or was a crap shag...

I could have been with someone who was great in both departments...instead i chose him, hence ...wasting me time. "

...and for me a timewaster would be sat in my best gear waiting for someone to turn up who didn't!

Calling someone who couldn't perform (I had one that ran out the house) a timewaster is a tad harsh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It may be sassy , but when im all revved up and ready to go...i wont be all that forgiving at the time....maybe after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It may be sassy , but when im all revved up and ready to go...i wont be all that forgiving at the time....maybe after "

I empathise, as I had a day planned and he couldn't perform. When we met socially his hard on kept moving the table. But once in my bedroom, nothing!

I left the room to give him a moment to compose himself...came back to see him getting dressed and running down my stairs - no mean feet as they're very steep.

He didn't look back and I watched him getting dressed as he ran down the drive...funniest thing I ever saw to be honest, but as I seldom have penetrative sex with my subs - it just amused me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its only ever happened the once, many moons ago.....found out why at a later date.....we had a rematch and all was well.

And, never ever had a problem with any guy since. kin stopping them so i can have a fag is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Timewasters"? Nah, never cum across one yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

drive me batty they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's never happened to us and we don't need a babysitter but we'd have just gone out somewhere.

If we invite 2 people round and 1 doesn't turn up we're still having a threesome. If both fail to show?..Hey,we're still having a shag

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By *o Peep n WoodyCouple
over a year ago

suffolk


"Why cancel babysitter why not have a date night movies or a meal out."

I agree

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By *o Peep n WoodyCouple
over a year ago

suffolk


"It's never happened to us and we don't need a babysitter but we'd have just gone out somewhere.

If we invite 2 people round and 1 doesn't turn up we're still having a threesome. If both fail to show?..Hey,we're still having a shag"

thats a great idea; back up plan. But we find it hard enough to get one meet let alone 2 on the same night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm I have had a shocking week. Mo day night drove 20 miles to pick someone up do we could go to a secluded spot he knew. After driving about for 20 mins he couldn't remember where the spot was, dropped him off and drove home.

Tuesday daytime got abuse via text for not texting someone I was texting prior to holiday - he asked if he had been moved to the back of the line!!!

Tuesday night - guy I was due to meet on wednesday asked me to change it to Tuesday night if possible. So changed plans, text him and he never text back so sat in.

Today - guy from Monday night (secluded spot one) texts and asks to meet up tonight.... Ignored text.

Now from going to an excellent week of fun I have had no fun and been pissed about.

Wonder what Thursday will bring????

Tuesday evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's never happened to us and we don't need a babysitter but we'd have just gone out somewhere.

If we invite 2 people round and 1 doesn't turn up we're still having a threesome. If both fail to show?..Hey,we're still having a shag

thats a great idea; back up plan. But we find it hard enough to get one meet let alone 2 on the same night "

Yeah,Which is why we spend a lot of time shagging each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry text got jumbled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had arrangments last weekend. he confimred the reg playmate

sat came and nothing then a phone call im running late but ee are still on then nothing till the time

" im still at so and so"

that was my weekend ruined new undies not warn and me looking a prat waiting in the pub with aovernight bag

never again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cut out the middle man!

Go straight to a club, no timewasters there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a failed meet last week.

When I got the message to say the arrangements were off I replied that I understood her reasons and not to worry! I never got angry or called her names or accused her of being a time waster. Indeed, as she had asked for discretion I also assured her that the address and phone number was safe with me!

Since then she has been ignoring me on here! lol. Can't please some people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a very good mate, who doesnt swing but knows I do and goes on standby when I have a new meet, so if its a cancellation at the last minute we go to the pub.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Hmmm I have had a shocking week. Mo day night drove 20 miles to pick someone up do we could go to a secluded spot he knew. After driving about for 20 mins he couldn't remember where the spot was, dropped him off and drove home.

Tuesday daytime got abuse via text for not texting someone I was texting prior to holiday - he asked if he had been moved to the back of the line!!!

Tuesday night - guy I was due to meet on wednesday asked me to change it to Tuesday night if possible. So changed plans, text him and he never text back so sat in.

Today - guy from Monday night (secluded spot one) texts and asks to meet up tonight.... Ignored text.

Now from going to an excellent week of fun I have had no fun and been pissed about.

Wonder what Thursday will bring????

Tuesday evening "

Guy who has been texting me and messaging me for the last month absolutely guaranteeing a hotel meet tomorrow night has gone strangely quiet....

Good job there's a works do on! Party!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never had a person nit turn up for a date or cancel at the last minute ...

I'm married my experience comes from affair sites I engage in no dirty talk or nude picture swapping before the fist date I will flirt but I avoid any thing that i feel would put more pressure on the women than she already feels.

I have had more than one women cry at the end of the first hotel date because of conflicting emotions and have known then and then that the affairs over before it has truly begun .....that's why i'm exploring a swinger site if i'm honest hoping to met people who can keep very emotions in check ..

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I have never had a person nit turn up for a date or cancel at the last minute ...

I'm married my experience comes from affair sites I engage in no dirty talk or nude picture swapping before the fist date I will flirt but I avoid any thing that i feel would put more pressure on the women than she already feels.

I have had more than one women cry at the end of the first hotel date because of conflicting emotions and have known then and then that the affairs over before it has truly begun .....that's why i'm exploring a swinger site if i'm honest hoping to met people who can keep very emotions in check .. "

Swingers tend to value honesty more tho,so a serial adulterer is not going to be everyones cup of tea,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My my before words like adulterer are posted about you need to know the definition of the word you are using .....I will not post it but look it up by definition you and i no different ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My timewasters are more guys that I have been chatting with, seem all keen, make tentative arrangements to meet though on some not quite decided on the time only to find that they never message to find out if its still on the best one is that I told a guy I was free a Sunday a week later, yep really keen, sent him a message but then he says well I am off the week after and wants to meet then, and then when I question it, he says well he was busy! So am not meeting him or anyone else that chats rubbish, guess single guys are not that desperate really are they

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My my before words like adulterer are posted about you need to know the definition of the word you are using .....I will not post it but look it up by definition you and i no different .... "

Adulterer according to Wikipedia involves extra marital sex with a married woman without the husband knowing and is a serious offence in some cultures but then I am sure you know what the poster above was getting at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My my before words like adulterer are posted about you need to know the definition of the word you are using .....I will not post it but look it up by definition you and i no different ....

Adulterer according to Wikipedia involves extra marital sex with a married woman without the husband knowing and is a serious offence in some cultures but then I am sure you know what the poster above was getting at "

I suggest you read the law it has nothing to do with who knows...... the act of having sex with anyone other than your spouse is adultery in the eyes of the law in most countries ...... the law does not care your spouse gave you consent its still adultery in the eyes of the law ...by law all married swingers

are adulterers ....the difference I don't pretend I am not so i can rest easy

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