FabSwingers.com forum: Xtasia party this Friday

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've never been to Xtasia before, anyone a regular there who can answer me a few questions please?

Like:-

What's the dresscode?

Do they have lockers?

Do you really have to pay a deposit to use the jacuzzi?

And yes I've checked the club directory but the link doesn't work lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No one goes there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive been a few times lol

yes you have to pay to use the jacuzzi, i think its a towel charge, i could be wrong as i have never been in jacizzi but i think you cant take your own towel and they sell them there and you have to buy it, im sure i will be put right tho if im wrong lol

The dress code is sexy type night club wear

no lockers, you cant take your phone in you have to hand it in and they just put it in a carrier in a coat cupbard, no changing rooms either

not keen on the place myself, they have sofas as playing areas which i dont like, when you think of all the dried up wet patching living in there..... makes you cringe

besides that fancy a shag lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh and is there a party on friday? guess that explains why ive had 3 messages today asking if i want to go xtasia friday with them lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Trust you luv lol

Are you going to the party? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ive been a few times lol

The dress code is sexy type night club wear

no lockers, you cant take your phone in you have to hand it in and they just put it in a carrier in a coat cupbard, no changing rooms either

not keen on the place myself, they have sofas as playing areas which i dont like, when you think of all the dried up wet patching living in there..... makes you cringe

besides that fancy a shag lol"

the dried wet patch made me shudder

ill stick to chams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trust you luv lol

Are you going to the party? x"

i may go just to annoy you

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Firstly, the jacuzzi isn't usually open on a Friday night. In the olden days, it was free to use if you had your own towell, but if you didn't you could buy one there for £3 or so. There was a fully refundable deposit for the use of the locker key too.

Dress Code, well there really isn't one any more. Once it was smart/casual, or "dress to impress". These days, I suppose it's still "dress to impress" except that with the number of people in old jeans, trainers, hoodies, tee shirts etc, not a lot of impressing goes on. I think that the art of seeing yourself from other people's perspectives has been lost, either that or people don't care about their appearance any more.

The club is one where any goings on are on view, to satisfy the more exhibitionistic and voyeuristic people. If you want private rooms, there's a hotel next door. It's not the cheap option for bosses to take their secretaries to for inexpensive nookie, in the privacy of a locked room, like some clubs tended to have become.

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By *ojomalcCouple
over a year ago

B-ham

Club Xtasia is not a sauna club where you wonder around in a towel, it is a nightclub for swingers where you dress to impress. There is no sauna just loads of playrooms to enjoy yourselves together or with others.

The Club is always kept fresh and clean.

The people that visit the Club are usually well presented and attractive.

The Club is not liked by very large people because of this and some of them slate the Club.

See for yourself, you wont be disappionted.

J&M

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The club was disgusting!!!

First and foremost NO SHOWERS!!!!!!

people were playing and then just going back to the bar and carrying on with their evening, all play areas were covered in fabric sheets that stay on all night regardless of how many people play on them!

So unless you want to stand in the ladies toilet, strip off and wash in the hand basin in cold water (as the hot taps didn't work) play is definitely out of the question!

No lockers

No changing rooms

No jaccuzi/wet area

No flippin good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The club was disgusting!!!

First and foremost NO SHOWERS!!!!!!

So unless you want to stand in the ladies toilet, strip off and wash in the hand basin in cold water (as the hot taps didn't work) play is definitely out of the question!

No lockers

No changing rooms

No jaccuzi/wet area

No flippin good!"

someone messaged me saying the same im glad i said no to my invite

im happy at chams

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes me too, I think Chams has set a very high standard that no one can live up too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes me too, I think Chams has set a very high standard that no one can live up too x

just stay there

im hoping to go sunday xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes me too, I think Chams has set a very high standard that no one can live up too x

just stay there

im hoping to go sunday xxxx"
Today? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

next weekend for the beach party

im skint and have loads to do like boring housework chores and bake a dozen cup cakes for a friends daughter x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have spoken to a few people that went friday who said it was a crap night

Its never been a club i like really

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Oh my, a female friend of mine got a similar email so we looked at the website - something about "women, you're in control so the men are for you to use as you please" (Paraphrased, please correct me if I'm way off mark) did put me off so we did not bother (I'm no one's piece of meat to use and drop unless I choose to be).

Just a scary thought what could have been.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"next weekend for the beach party

im skint and have loads to do like boring housework chores and bake a dozen cup cakes for a friends daughter x"
YAY a beach party

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"next weekend for the beach party

im skint and have loads to do like boring housework chores and bake a dozen cup cakes for a friends daughter xYAY a beach party

Roll on Beach Party!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh my, a female friend of mine got a similar email so we looked at the website - something about "women, you're in control so the men are for you to use as you please" (Paraphrased, please correct me if I'm way off mark) did put me off so we did not bother (I'm no one's piece of meat to use and drop unless I choose to be).

Just a scary thought what could have

been."

There were lots of single men who were very disrespectful, hardly any couples or women only a couple of 'girls' who I think were on the payroll who were playing all night with everyone which is very disturbing as there are NO SHOWERS!!!!!

sorry if I keep banging on about it but cleanliness is paramount when swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"next weekend for the beach party

im skint and have loads to do like boring housework chores and bake a dozen cup cakes for a friends daughter xYAY a beach party

Roll on Beach Party!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have spoken to a few people that went friday who said it was a crap night

Its never been a club i like really"
It was dreadful lol

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"I have spoken to a few people that went friday who said it was a crap night

Its never been a club i like reallyIt was dreadful lol

Quite scary to think "near miss". The problem now is for the organiser who was sending out the emails, if they want to hold another event there. They can think:

1) Do I approach the club owner and tell them to sort it out

2) Do I apologise to the people who were disappointed and get their respective feedback/take on the night and what was wrong?

3) Do I say "fuck it" and use another venue instead?

Well, if I were the one, that's kinda what I'd be thinking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The 'organiser' is just someone who is a member and a relatively new addition to fab

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"The 'organiser' is just someone who is a member and a relatively new addition to fab"

Oh dear, they fell for the "Use your lovely profile to invite people to our club" pitch?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Xtasia is really a swingers Disco club and you find alot of new people dipping there toes in go there as not alot go on .. yes play room and dark rooms .. but more like a club . You dress up dance a flirt and have a drink and hotel is next door .

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I went once and you couldnt pay me to go back again.

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By *ojomalcCouple
over a year ago

B-ham

We were at Xtasia on Friday night it was a great night, there were about 80 people there and because it is so large everyone has there own space.

It is a nightclub for swingers and not a sauna club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry if I keep banging on about it but cleanliness is paramount when swinging"

no your 100% right, if i went to a club and a guy had had a sweaty session with a woman theres no way im going to be licking and kissing his dried up sweaty bits after lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I went once and you couldnt pay me to go back again. "
I absolutely agree sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We were at Xtasia on Friday night it was a great night, there were about 80 people there and because it is so large everyone has there own space.

It is a nightclub for swingers and not a sauna club.

If indeed it is a "nightclub for swingers" don't provide places to, or expect to play when there are no facilities to freshen up and change afterwards!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Firstly, the jacuzzi isn't usually open on a Friday night. In the olden days, it was free to use if you had your own towell, but if you didn't you could buy one there for £3 or so. There was a fully refundable deposit for the use of the locker key too.

inexpensive nookie, in the privacy of a locked room, like some clubs tended to have become."

The staff informed us that the jaccuzi/shower & locker area has been closed and locked up for over a year due to lack of use!

Showers that don't get used doesn't speak well of the clientele!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The staff informed us that the jaccuzi/shower & locker area has been closed and locked up for over a year due to lack of use!

Showers that don't get used doesn't speak well of the clientele!"

thats because everyone stays dressed

ive seen people playing on the sofas there and the guys just pull their trousers down and the women pull their knickers to one side, they had sex, re ajust, go back to the bar area

to much trouble to get undressed, have a shower and get dressed again i guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is probably a good thing they closed the jacuzzi...the water was so cloudy the time we went I hate to think of the bacteria thriving in there. The time we went Xtasia was dirty, drug taking in the toilets, arrogant people and to top it off....someone got shot in the street outside the club so we couldn't leave till it was safe.... No thanks, we will stick to Chams.

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

to much trouble to get undressed, have a shower and get dressed again i guess "

People really do that??? We never play at clubs, we just go to meet up and perhaps play in our hotel afterwards. In all the clubs we have been to, we have never seen loads using the showers after playing! If that did happen, there would need to be banks of showers larger than some clubs!

Chams may well be different, I have never been, but it is a "wet" club so would have different facilities! But that brings it's own problems. Playing in the jacuzzi? Euwww! But I am sure it goes on and I'll bet loads go in after that has happened!

Of course everyone who goes will say that THEY use the showers (and re-do their makeup and dry and style their hair!) but I wonder in reality how many actually do...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to much trouble to get undressed, have a shower and get dressed again i guess

Of course everyone who goes will say that THEY use the showers (and re-do their makeup and dry and style their hair!) but I wonder in reality how many actually do..."

cant say how many do

re doing make up and hair is neither here nor there, you dont have to have perfect hair and make up to be clean

As for the showers lots of people use them at chams, infact 9 time out if 10 when i have gone to use them there has been a queue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cant say how many do

re doing make up and hair is neither here nor there, you dont have to have perfect hair and make up to be clean

As for the showers lots of people use them at chams, infact 9 time out if 10 when i have gone to use them there has been a queue"

*nods head in agreement*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i use the showers

as for my hair and make up Looks fantastic when im 1st there

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The staff informed us that the jaccuzi/shower & locker area has been closed and locked up for over a year due to lack of use!

Showers that don't get used doesn't speak well of the clientele!

thats because everyone stays dressed

ive seen people playing on the sofas there and the guys just pull their trousers down and the women pull their knickers to one side, they had sex, re ajust, go back to the bar area

to much trouble to get undressed, have a shower and get dressed again i guess "

That's disgraceful!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

to much trouble to get undressed, have a shower and get dressed again i guess

clubs!

Chams may well be different, I have never been, but it is a "wet" club so would have different facilities! But that brings it's own problems. Playing in the jacuzzi? Euwww! But I am suregoes on and I'll bet loads go in after that has happened!

Of course everyone who goes will say that THEY use the showers (and re-do their makeup and dry and style their hair!) but I wonder in reality how many actually do..."

Come along and find out for yourself and I can assure you the showers get plenty of use, the jaccuzi is monitored and chemicals added accordingly and they provide FREE condoms whereas at Xtasia it's cheaper to buy a mars bar and use the wrapper than buy 1 condom at 80 pence a time lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

cant say how many do

re doing make up and hair is neither here nor there, you dont have to have perfect hair and make up to be clean

As for the showers lots of people use them at chams, infact 9 time out if 10 when i have gone to use them there has been a queue

*nods head in agreement*

* I'm nodding too*

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"Club Xtasia is not a sauna club where you wonder around in a towel, it is a nightclub for swingers where you dress to impress."

Errr... I don't go to clubs to "dress to impress". If my personality or the way I conduct myself doesn't carry it off, what I'm wearing isn't going to help much.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

It is a nightclub for swingers and not a sauna club.

Clearly every other "sauna club" s not a swingers club then... how wrong everyone else on this thread must be

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Club Xtasia is not a sauna club where you wonder around in a towel, it is a nightclub for swingers where you dress to impress.

Errr... I don't go to clubs to "dress to impress". If my personality or the way I conduct myself doesn't carry it off, what I'm wearing isn't going to help much."

Very true

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By *heshirefungirlWoman
over a year ago

ammanford

I went to this club once and would never go again. Do you still have to walk past all the rastas out side the pub and the police cars to get back to your car on Aldi car park across the road, you leave your stuff in a wardrobe at the front door,the play rooms are in the roof no were to put your cloths and no room to swing a cat. The jacuzzi was hidden in the basement after buying a towel and putting a deposit on a locker key you then have to climb up over the ledge to enter the jacuzzi but watch you don't bang your head then sit feeling uneasy as a single female 'cause you are hidden downstairs out of ear and eye sight.

There was a pregnant woman looked ready to give birth, it was dead on what was meant to be its really fetish night everyone there just sat in the smoking area.

No thanks you can keep it, I tried telling people not to bother but they went and found out for themselves and it sounds like it is worse now than then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have fun miss julie and be safe x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry mum will take notice of your advice next time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol

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