FabSwingers.com forum: Cheated but not bothered

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some years ago my wife and I had a relatively small argument. I went home and she carried on the night with her friends. They moved on to a party and it was a couple of weeks later that she admitted that she had met a guy there and had sucked and had him fuck her in one of the bedrooms of the house the party was in. Strange thing is, or perhaps not strange, I was not, and did not feel cheated in the traditionally associated manner. I will admit that I did get hard when I was being told. And to be honest, I don't think that it was the first time she had done this outside of the swinging scene as a couple. Has this happened to anyone else? How did you react?

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By *imale38Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

Not happened to me but I would love her to find someone else to fuck while I'm at work.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

So you had an argument , she went on to the party and you went home . While at the party she sucked and fucked a guy , and you didn't feel she had cheated in the traditional sense .

Mmmm.... so the bit on your profile that says the lady doesn't meet alone isn't necessarily the case then ?

If you've had an argument she might ?

Can you see how this seems ?

Anyway , it's your relationship , your life and you can do as you please , but for us this completely betrays any trust in a relationship .

On the other hand , perhaps you have a strong cuck side which would be more than satiated if you have plenty of little arguments

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By *opman1111Man
over a year ago

belfast

We have talked about this scenario and turns me on big style

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By *rnynhrdguyMan
over a year ago

plymouth

My ex had an affair at 1st it tortured me thinking of her doing all the things we did i asked to tell me everything she said you won't like it

Turns out it turned me on so much so that asked if she wanted another guy etc but tell me all about it and me watch but it never happened as a couple for us

Guess I could be a cuck in the making

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know what I would feel like if my missus cheated. Think I would be deverstated, but I would rather someone tell me if she was so I could sort it out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheating is cheating! Differebt to this scene. Neither of us do it. We may play solo but we know where we are and what were doing..I wouldn't like to be cheated on and nor would mr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cheating is cheating! Differebt to this scene. Neither of us do it. We may play solo but we know where we are and what were doing..I wouldn't like to be cheated on and nor would mr."
well said.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So you had an argument , she went on to the party and you went home . While at the party she sucked and fucked a guy , and you didn't feel she had cheated in the traditional sense .

Mmmm.... so the bit on your profile that says the lady doesn't meet alone isn't necessarily the case then ?

If you've had an argument she might ?

Can you see how this seems ?

Anyway , it's your relationship , your life and you can do as you please , but for us this completely betrays any trust in a relationship .

On the other hand , perhaps you have a strong cuck side which would be more than satiated if you have plenty of little arguments

well, this was before we were on Fabswingers, and before we started swinging. I suppose it could partly be conceived as a catalyst perhaps, along with other things we discussed from our past, again before swinging. As for her not meeting alone, it's something that we both agree on. On very, very rare occasions and by previous agreement it has happened once or twice and always with somebody we know well (I was laid up and out of action with a bout of angina). Relationship is fine, although I understand your point, usual ups and downs, it's just time that's our main problem these days.

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