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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very new to this and have only ever given a double handjob that was over pretty quickly!

Is it acceptable to take it slow and maybe let a guy lick me in return for a handjob as opposed to full sex? Or would this be a disappointment?

All advice welcome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very new to this and have only ever given a double handjob that was over pretty quickly!

Is it acceptable to take it slow and maybe let a guy lick me in return for a handjob as opposed to full sex? Or would this be a disappointment?

All advice welcome!"

Ultimately, it's whatever your comfortable with, communication is the key

Relax, enjoy, and welcome x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk to the people you're meeting and ask them. There is no universal etiquette.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very new to this and have only ever given a double handjob that was over pretty quickly!

Is it acceptable to take it slow and maybe let a guy lick me in return for a handjob as opposed to full sex? Or would this be a disappointment?

It's what you find acceptable, no point rushing something if you're not comfortable. Take you're time

All advice welcome!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go as slow or as fast as you like. Just make sure you feel comfortable in all that you do though. Not much fun for anyone if you feel unsure or uneasy.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Very much horses for courses. Im going to say its most likely that a guy will want the full meal deal. No doubt someone will come along and say i dont speak for all men and say im talking crap soon enough

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By *urely4funMan
over a year ago

london

Id happily go down on you with no pressure for anything in return. x go at your own pace. Live out your own fantasies. X

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By *on and TammyCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

When we started out we took things slowly and found that single guys were very open to the idea of play without penetration.

Looking at your photos I imagine you will have no shortage of takers

What I will say is that your profile text is quite short. We were, and still are, very detailed about what we want from people so you might want to consider stating your preferences a bit more clearly in your text. You may not get as many offers but it you will get more appropriate ones. It will save you and other people a lot of time.

Mr

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"When we started out we took things slowly and found that single guys were very open to the idea of play without penetration.

Looking at your photos I imagine you will have no shortage of takers

What I will say is that your profile text is quite short. We were, and still are, very detailed about what we want from people so you might want to consider stating your preferences a bit more clearly in your text. You may not get as many offers but it you will get more appropriate ones. It will save you and other people a lot of time.

Mr"

Yeah id second this. Make it very clear how you want to go about it.

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By *entleman JackMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

May I suggest you are giving out mixed messages?

On your profile you are inviting "guys with a big cock" to get in touch....

Yet your forum post suggests you are only wanting soft swing only.

Make your mind up............

Cos you cant have it both ways......

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By *es deux lapinCouple
over a year ago

dublin

1I Months here too ,no meets ,im out

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"1I Months here too ,no meets ,im out "

Yep , we second that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Great thanks all - really helpful advice particularly about my profile.

Has anyone had any amazing experiences just being licked and touched?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

11 months no meets and hand jobs (mnah I'd be happy to give a woman oral but couldn't be bothered having this in return just to service me) ... no thanks from me either

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By *scottMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"Great thanks all - really helpful advice particularly about my profile.

Has anyone had any amazing experiences just being licked and touched?"

Back in the days I played as a single guy I had many great experence without actual full sex. Mainly dogging or in clubs to be fair. Had a couple I used to see every other week. It was at least 3 months before she felt was ready for full sex. Started as a random dogging meet, then they started coming to my place. It's all about communication and respecting boundries

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