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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it important to you on a meet?

Why do people say we fuck but dont kiss?

Are you a good kisser?

Tell your poor kissing stories as there are a lot lol -)

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I adore a good snog...I see it as part of good sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it important to you on a meet?

Why do people say we fuck but dont kiss?

Are you a good kisser?

Tell your poor kissing stories as there are a lot lol -)"

If the teeth are bad....nope

Kissing is important so without kissing it's to sterile more like a transaction that interaction.

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By *mokey_KinksMan
over a year ago

Essex

love kissing as part of a meet, love to make a connection and kissing is part of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing no action

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By *eldomVanillaMan
over a year ago

London

It's essential x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't meet without kissing.

Did it once and it felt cold to me. Never again. No kiss, no meet. Simple .

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By *urely4funMan
over a year ago

london

I can easily fuck without kissing, but it would be harder, faster, rougher sex.

I find that when i like them for more than just a body, and feel a connection, a kiss would bring me to cum during sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I find that when i like them for more than just a body, and feel a connection, a kiss would bring me to cum during sex. "

I agree, kissing makes me harder

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By *eldomVanillaMan
over a year ago

London


"I couldn't meet without kissing.

Did it once and it felt cold to me. Never again. No kiss, no meet. Simple . "

Who would not want to kiss those lovely red lips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing is just a no no, I always ask a guy up front, it's all part of the build up...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fully respect other people's preferences. However, we do not meet non kissers.

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By *ucklingsCouple
over a year ago

Rugby


"I adore a good snog...I see it as part of good sex "

Exactly this xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fully respect other people's preferences. However, we do not meet non kissers. "

Totally agree kissing is an integral part

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

kissing is the biggest turn on there is. and it can be more intimite than sex in my opinion...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing ....thats why we would only meet ppl we are attracted to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is soooooo much our thing!

I love a good kisser, it's sexy, hot and gets the " sexy " flowing

personally kissing tells you a lot about what's to come

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By *orny girl xWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Kissing is such a turn on ... no kissing = no fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing and for me it's essential for connecting with the person im with and I think it forms big part of forplay, there's nothing like a good sensuous snog to get things moving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both love kissing, we think that its a whole part of sensual sex, love it when the ladies kiss each other too

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Kissing is essential in my book. It breaks the initial ice and makes the whole experience fell less 'cold'. You can express sooooo many feelings and desires through kiss too

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Kissing forplay and banter are the most important part otherwise it's just sterile no fun and a turn off. Well for me anyway

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By *aughtynice23Couple
over a year ago

South West

Same for us, kissing is an essential part of foreplay, and without it much of the intimacy is missing. Doesn't always happen in group sex, but in one to one meets we wouldn't want to do without it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kissing is very important and nothing beats staring ,deep into a ladies eyes then kiss and fucking. Best is gently putting my hand underneath there chin ,and turning then head during doggy style and kissing neck and nibbling on the ears of course

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By *rchanfelMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Agree with the above posts. Kissing, gentle touches and build up are essential. Otherwise it just feels to cold and can be hard to get into.

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

My be personal hygiene problems on past meet may be !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting turned just reading some of these replies!! If someone's a rubbish kisser the rest is usually crap too in my experience

Love a good eyes open, sexy snog!

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

A fuck with no kissing... might as well pay for it. We aren’t in it to just fuck. We want the experience!

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

So many delicious kinds of kissing...

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I love kissing, and good kissing is even better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the best bit for me, massive turn on and can turn good sex into fucking amazing sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't meet without kissing

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Oh yes eye contact very very sexy!! Just can do without it all for play 2/3 of the fun longer the better I think anyway.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Is it important to you on a meet?

Why do people say we fuck but dont kiss?

Are you a good kisser?

Tell your poor kissing stories as there are a lot lol -)"

Kissing isn't important to us, we don't kiss our casual partners.

We say we fuck but don't kiss because that's the way we play.

Yes we're both good kissers.

No poor kissing stories...see above.

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

And l would would love to give sexy massage lots of stimulating and teasing to increase the fun. May be wrong but that is what would make a meet work I think oh and good conversation and banter

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing, no play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing, no play.

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

I am in the no kissing camp when it comes to meets......but each to their own, we are all different...there isn't a right or a wrong...just a "what's right for you"...but there does seem to be bad feeling towards the "no kissing" camp, why?...if it's not for you don't meet them, no biggie!

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Kissing is all part of the eroticism and sensual play

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By *K430Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

Love kissing,tender, more passionate, massive turn on . Am I any good? I think so ,but then I would say that ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Part of the sensual experience, has to be kissing

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By *hunderstruckMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"I couldn't meet without kissing.

Did it once and it felt cold to me. Never again. No kiss, no meet. Simple . "

Love kissing too .

It's the pre curser for what's to come .

Sexy and seductive or a passionate snog love it

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Sorry people if I've offered you I'm just really interested in what you do if you don't kiss and how and what replace it in for play.

And I'm really not judging anyone here everyone has there likes and dislikes that's what makes us interesting after all

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Sorry people if I've offered you I'm just really interested in what you do if you don't kiss and how and what replace it in for play.

And I'm really not judging anyone here everyone has there likes and dislikes that's what makes us interesting after all "

You haven't offended us.

There are very many ways to be sexual and erotic. Kissing is only one.

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By *aughtynice23Couple
over a year ago

South West


"I am in the no kissing camp when it comes to meets......but each to their own, we are all different...there isn't a right or a wrong...just a "what's right for you"...but there does seem to be bad feeling towards the "no kissing" camp, why?...if it's not for you don't meet them, no biggie! "

Absolutely - each to their own. Everyone should do what they enjoy, and no more.

We don't think people are being judgemental, I guess it's just an issue they feel strongly about, and that comes across in their comments. But most comments are just about individuals personal preferences, and nothing more.

Enjoy your pleasure in your own way

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Here here you two as I've said I'm interested and learning on here all the time and would love to know what can replace kissing as may one day try and like it but have no idea what it could be is all and asking people that do if they could share some ideas and opinions as will always try new things out and partner my be into it as well

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I absolutely love kissing. I find it's almost addictive when you really like the other person. A meet without kissing would be totally pointless and just wouldn't interest me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who's going secrets Saturday ? Message me need to go with someone ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Here here you two as I've said I'm interested and learning on here all the time and would love to know what can replace kissing as may one day try and like it but have no idea what it could be is all and asking people that do if they could share some ideas and opinions as will always try new things out and partner my be into it as well "

Just meet the people who interest you and explore together. We all like different things and that's what makes us interesting.

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Never a truer line posted as above all here to explore and have fun

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Had one (our first) meet where the other couple didn't kiss and it felt distinctly odd and wouldn't want to do that again.

Kissing for me is such an intimate act that is the ultimate turn on before, the perfect accompaniment during and a tender after sex that without it just doesn't seem right.

And as a bisexual man that goes for kissing either men or women.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Never a truer line posted as above all here to explore and have fun "

If you tap on replyinforum+quote it will show who you're replying to

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

We kiss, but have had a meet with a couple who didn't and it went fine. The girls kissed each other and after that it was academic..

I think people need to make a distinction between singles meeting each other, where I can see no kissing would be very odd.

Also these threads always bring out all the men proclaiming the essential nature of kissing. But at clubs, lots are more than happy with their cocks through glory holes etc...

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Well I'm being educated by people with different take on it and opening up new avenues and things to try as that's what we're all here for and I like to give pleasure to the person I'm with most of all and if it takes different things I'm happy to learn and try as at the end of the day it's all about what makes you and others happy when together right people !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here here you two as I've said I'm interested and learning on here all the time and would love to know what can replace kissing as may one day try and like it but have no idea what it could be is all and asking people that do if they could share some ideas and opinions as will always try new things out and partner my be into it as well "

I dont kiss other men. Simply because it does nothing for me and can make me feel uncomforable. You dont replace it. Its just a part of sex that for me has no place with casual partner.

And funny enough if I dont mention it first... it had never been an issue... I start by getting my mouth around a cock.. and working from there. Seems to work well x

Does do my head in the way if you don't kiss people assume your like a whore or cold.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


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Does do my head in the way if you don't kiss people assume your like a whore or cold. "

If people assume that then they're not worth meeting anyway. Whilst I personally love kissing as stated above, and would find it difficult to meet someone that didn't - I fully respect people's right to choose not to, and certainly wouldn't think badly of them because they didn't - ultimately it's no different from any other preference stated on here and should be respected as such

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Kissing really gets me turned on, so it's vey important to me in a meet XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Does do my head in the way if you don't kiss people assume your like a whore or cold.

If people assume that then they're not worth meeting anyway. Whilst I personally love kissing as stated above, and would find it difficult to meet someone that didn't - I fully respect people's right to choose not to, and certainly wouldn't think badly of them because they didn't - ultimately it's no different from any other preference stated on here and should be respected as such "
it is but been taken the mickey out of many times.. at parties people have laughed at me and found it quite acceptable to pass judgement..

And yup your right but every time this comes up.. its full of people saying no kissing equals no this.. or cold .. dead... whore like. And any other nunber of comparisons.

Irony is although we do meet women that dont kiss... we prefer if they will kiss Mr as he very much enjoys it. For me I have to trust the person im kissing implicitly... and have a connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes absolutely! Love a good snog. It sets me up and helps gather momentum when getting frisky. The cuddling and the heavy breathing when passionately kissing is also very erotic.

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath


"Never a truer line posted as above all here to explore and have fun

If you tap on replyinforum+quote it will show who you're replying to "

Ok got it I think

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"

Does do my head in the way if you don't kiss people assume your like a whore or cold.

If people assume that then they're not worth meeting anyway. Whilst I personally love kissing as stated above, and would find it difficult to meet someone that didn't - I fully respect people's right to choose not to, and certainly wouldn't think badly of them because they didn't - ultimately it's no different from any other preference stated on here and should be respected as such it is but been taken the mickey out of many times.. at parties people have laughed at me and found it quite acceptable to pass judgement..

And yup your right but every time this comes up.. its full of people saying no kissing equals no this.. or cold .. dead... whore like. And any other nunber of comparisons.

Irony is although we do meet women that dont kiss... we prefer if they will kiss Mr as he very much enjoys it. For me I have to trust the person im kissing implicitly... and have a connection. "

Well I personally find that disgusting behaviour on the part of those people - you have every right to your preferences or choices just the same as anyone else.

Sadly I'm not sure there's any answer to it though other than seeking out people who accept that preference

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Well looks like we put that one to bed

OR EVERY ONE HAS GONE TO BED

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Is it important to you on a meet?

Why do people say we fuck but dont kiss?

Are you a good kisser?

Tell your poor kissing stories as there are a lot lol -)"

Answers to the above in order.

Yes.

Cos they can.

I think so.

Dont have any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would rather have a good makeout session without sex than sex without kissing........ One leaves you walking on air wanting more. .... The other leaves you slightly disappointed wishing youd had more. ....

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I enjoy kissing my partner and kissing other women. I am not at all keen on kissing other men. I have my reasons and I don't have to explain them, just as nobody on fab has any need to explain their own sexual preferences. If some potential playmates consider kissing such an essential part of sex that they cannot do without it then fine, but I am happy not to play with them or have them force their preferences on me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enjoy kissing my partner and kissing other women. I am not at all keen on kissing other men. I have my reasons and I don't have to explain them, just as nobody on fab has any need to explain their own sexual preferences. If some potential playmates consider kissing such an essential part of sex that they cannot do without it then fine, but I am happy not to play with them or have them force their preferences on me. "

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Ops paste!

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