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"I don't like the idea of publicly performing for men's pleasure. Makes me feel like a sex worker, and detracts from whatever I'm doing sexually. I understand that many people love the exhibitionism of such a scenario, but for me, it's a bit objectifying to be ostensibly 'orgying' while a bunch of men watch. Each to their own, obvs." I think the idea is that you girls engage in an all girl orgy for your own gratification and the men just get to watch, you're not performing for them, you are enjoying yourself but being watched whilst doing so. | |||
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"I don't like the idea of publicly performing for men's pleasure. Makes me feel like a sex worker, and detracts from whatever I'm doing sexually. I understand that many people love the exhibitionism of such a scenario, but for me, it's a bit objectifying to be ostensibly 'orgying' while a bunch of men watch. Each to their own, obvs. I think the idea is that you girls engage in an all girl orgy for your own gratification and the men just get to watch, you're not performing for them, you are enjoying yourself but being watched whilst doing so. " This is definitely how I'd experience the above. | |||
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"I don't like the idea of publicly performing for men's pleasure. Makes me feel like a sex worker, and detracts from whatever I'm doing sexually. I understand that many people love the exhibitionism of such a scenario, but for me, it's a bit objectifying to be ostensibly 'orgying' while a bunch of men watch. Each to their own, obvs. I think the idea is that you girls engage in an all girl orgy for your own gratification and the men just get to watch, you're not performing for them, you are enjoying yourself but being watched whilst doing so. " It may well be. But an audience has always detracted from my enjoyment in clubs, and I like to let go completely. Just the way I am. I have sex for myself and the person I'm with. I like to lose myself. I can't do this if I'm part of a live sex show to fulfil husbands' fantasies. | |||
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"I've attended a number of all girl parties; men were very much excluded, much to our collective partners' initial disappointment. We now tend to make a weekend of it; girls only the first night and then clubbing with the chaps on the second. I'm not sure an audience of blokes would work with our group of gal pals. I'm somewhat sceptical of the "he'll only watch" concept. " I did a bit of a splutter and chuckle on this one hh as I know some of your gal pals and I know full well a few of them would tell their partners NO in no uncertain terms lol | |||
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"From a single guys point of view i would watch and wank and that wouldn't be a problem for me, a number of people can vouch I can watch but not touch If my partner was playing, I would be more than happy for her to play, as long as she told me all about it " It's not about your partner telling after the play session. It's about partners being present to view a all ladies orgy only!!! | |||
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"Sorry ladies.... maybe we should have made it clearer. This is an only couples type thing, the ladies play infront of their partners with others of the same dynamic. I'm sure if the Mrs says to the Mr.... sitting and bloody well stay and just enjoy. The man will lol" I am part of a couple; as are the majority of the ladies I described above. We still wouldn't put on a show. | |||
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"Sorry ladies.... maybe we should have made it clearer. This is an only couples type thing, the ladies play infront of their partners with others of the same dynamic. I'm sure if the Mrs says to the Mr.... sitting and bloody well stay and just enjoy. The man will lol I am part of a couple; as are the majority of the ladies I described above. We still wouldn't put on a show. " Maybe other married couples would, if organised well. Probably better than asking single women to join them for just the Mrs to have fun whilst the guy watches. We suspect that alot of single women would question a couples motives of such a situation ie... promising not to play but really wanting to do so. In our suggestion, couples would be able to experience doing and seeing ff play... x | |||
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"This is something that we would definitely be interested in Rach x" Cool... thats two couples. Plus us makes 3.... why not???? Xxx | |||
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"ive had girl orgys and theyre a lot of fun - not sure about doing it for just entertainment though - i could name some friends though who we all know and play together and have the fellas join in after - super fun indeed - " Sounds like a slight variation to the post.... but a super horny possibility all the same Contact us and lets see x | |||
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"...like a load of performing seals? Actually I did a bit of a show with two other ladies for our fellas. It was also my very first girl/girl experience! " Not like performing seals... if the ladies are truely bi.... they are fucking a hot lady that they enjoy the experience of. Their partners are simply allowed to watch... which in a couple dynamic should be a turn on for the couples that are involved. | |||
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"I don't like the idea of publicly performing for men's pleasure. Makes me feel like a sex worker, and detracts from whatever I'm doing sexually. I understand that many people love the exhibitionism of such a scenario, but for me, it's a bit objectifying to be ostensibly 'orgying' while a bunch of men watch. Each to their own, obvs." Think I'd feel the same if I were in that position. | |||
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"I get it babe...and love the idea! Subtlety is kinda lost on these posts. It's like the letters page of a local newspaper. " Thank you x | |||
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"I don't like the idea of publicly performing for men's pleasure. Makes me feel like a sex worker, and detracts from whatever I'm doing sexually. I understand that many people love the exhibitionism of such a scenario, but for me, it's a bit objectifying to be ostensibly 'orgying' while a bunch of men watch. Each to their own, obvs. Think I'd feel the same if I were in that position." The post is intended for couples seeking bi female play... not songle people. Couples tend to love putting a show on for their partners, if the lady is truelly bi x Please try to understand where we are coming from. X | |||
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"I've attended a number of all girl parties; men were very much excluded, much to our collective partners' initial disappointment. We now tend to make a weekend of it; girls only the first night and then clubbing with the chaps on the second. I'm not sure an audience of blokes would work with our group of gal pals. I'm somewhat sceptical of the "he'll only watch" concept. " Watching ain't for everyone. Someone's always going to break ranks in that scenario. (I would) | |||
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"...like a load of performing seals? Actually I did a bit of a show with two other ladies for our fellas. It was also my very first girl/girl experience! Not like performing seals... if the ladies are truely bi.... they are fucking a hot lady that they enjoy the experience of. Their partners are simply allowed to watch... which in a couple dynamic should be a turn on for the couples that are involved. " its not so much not getting it - there is a very different dynamic when the fellas watch say at a club or party where the girls might play and the fellas join in later - there is the obvious 'being watched' feeling and there will be some banter - when no males present at all it is different - if you dont mind being watched then go for it - | |||
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"Hells yeah ! Please make it over Christmas when we're back in the UK " Look forward to it | |||
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"I don't like the idea of publicly performing for men's pleasure. Makes me feel like a sex worker, and detracts from whatever I'm doing sexually. I understand that many people love the exhibitionism of such a scenario, but for me, it's a bit objectifying to be ostensibly 'orgying' while a bunch of men watch. Each to their own, obvs." This! | |||
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"Hi all. For as long as we have been on fabs we have seen lots of couples wanting the lovely unicorn single lady to play with. Haven't we all? Lol Whilst we have had such a experience, and bloody well enjoyed it There still is a lot of couples that would love the ladies to have a play, whilst hubby just watches. No harm, no foul in this aspect really, if all the ladies are happy with bi playou, or simply want to try bi play. So... would a group of you ladies consider a mass lady orgy (no male contact) in front of the guys/husbands? We would.... " We had this fun on a visit to townhouse last year. A few couples got a room and the lasses all started having their fun together whilst the guys watched on. Us blokes were eventually invited over. Although I think at some points we were all well and truly forgotten about. | |||
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"I don't like the idea of publicly performing for men's pleasure. Makes me feel like a sex worker, and detracts from whatever I'm doing sexually. I understand that many people love the exhibitionism of such a scenario, but for me, it's a bit objectifying to be ostensibly 'orgying' while a bunch of men watch. Each to their own, obvs. I think the idea is that you girls engage in an all girl orgy for your own gratification and the men just get to watch, you're not performing for them, you are enjoying yourself but being watched whilst doing so. It may well be. But an audience has always detracted from my enjoyment in clubs, and I like to let go completely. Just the way I am. I have sex for myself and the person I'm with. I like to lose myself. I can't do this if I'm part of a live sex show to fulfil husbands' fantasies." | |||
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"I don't like the idea of publicly performing for men's pleasure. Makes me feel like a sex worker, and detracts from whatever I'm doing sexually. I understand that many people love the exhibitionism of such a scenario, but for me, it's a bit objectifying to be ostensibly 'orgying' while a bunch of men watch. Each to their own, obvs." | |||
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"I don't like the idea of publicly performing for men's pleasure. Makes me feel like a sex worker, and detracts from whatever I'm doing sexually. I understand that many people love the exhibitionism of such a scenario, but for me, it's a bit objectifying to be ostensibly 'orgying' while a bunch of men watch. Each to their own, obvs. " We only play together as a couple. Be it with another couple, male or female. So if XX wants to let her bi side out, XY will be there. It's not necessarily about putting on a show for XY. It's not his fantasy, the girl-girl play is for XX's pleasure. But he will be present, whether he plays or not. It is rare that XY plays with another woman, but our rules don't change. If XX wants to play, XY will be there. | |||
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