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By *inkyLondonpair OP   Couple
over a year ago

London

Just wondered what were the main things that would stop you having sex with someone on here.

Can we all name one physical and one personality based absolute deal breakers.

Ours would be being significantly overweight and being openly racist.

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By *oshker71Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

Smoking & to hairy or bad ordour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very overweight or a cock piercing and arrogant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondered what were the main things that would stop you having sex with someone on here.

Can we all name one physical and one personality based absolute deal breakers.

Ours would be being significantly overweight and being openly racist. "

For me...

Personal hygiene

Devious

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

Personal hygiene

Slept with half the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it best to say it was cali not Lee as lee loves bigger ladies but im not into many physical attributes...

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Too many veri's

Poor Hygiene, overweight, short, poor teeth and a rubbish profile showing everything.

Not our bag at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't even get past the social if they weren't a) like their pics and b) as tall as they say. Also no excuse for bad hygiene

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Think the worst we have heard was from a guy.

He arranged a meet and when the lady turned up she looked nothing like the pics on here.

She admitted that she used pics of her sister as she is better looking

Strangely, he made his excuses and left.

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth


"Too many veri's

Poor Hygiene, overweight, short, poor teeth and a rubbish profile showing everything.

Not our bag at all.

"

Define short? What if they are short but not overweight?

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands


"Think the worst we have heard was from a guy.

He arranged a meet and when the lady turned up she looked nothing like the pics on here.

She admitted that she used pics of her sister as she is better looking

Strangely, he made his excuses and left. "

Why would anyone use someone else's photos and then actually arrange a meet, do they think they'll just go 'well your a completely different person but your here so let's fuck' lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hygiene and liars

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By *alldarksurreyMan
over a year ago

surrey


"Think the worst we have heard was from a guy.

He arranged a meet and when the lady turned up she looked nothing like the pics on here.

She admitted that she used pics of her sister as she is better looking

Strangely, he made his excuses and left. "

Why would anyone do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smoking and if I have a social and they haven't made a effort or look nothing like there pics .A lot seem to have old pics on .Hate the smell of cigarettes and e cigs can smell the chemicals .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Underweight

No sense of humour

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford

Maybe I'm just a little shallow but... fat, ugly and unclean are all turn offs for me.

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford


"Too many veri's

Poor Hygiene, overweight, short, poor teeth and a rubbish profile showing everything.

Not our bag at all.

"

How many is too many? Think I might just scrape in on that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that are beautiful on the outside but ugly on the inside. In a world of Narcissism the two seem to go hand in hand.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Bad body odour and prejudice. Instant turn offs. And drug use, but that is more of a meet choice than a personality/physical trait. Couldn't care less if you do it when you're not with me, but please don't get wasted when you are

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Too many veri's

Poor Hygiene, overweight, short, poor teeth and a rubbish profile showing everything.

Not our bag at all.

Define short? What if they are short but not overweight? "

Lol, below 6 ft is short to me as I am 6'3 in heels

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Too many veri's

Poor Hygiene, overweight, short, poor teeth and a rubbish profile showing everything.

Not our bag at all.

How many is too many? Think I might just scrape in on that one"

Should have said too many graphic veris as just don't see the need and would never show one on our profile if someone decided to say somin a veri for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many veri's

Poor Hygiene, overweight, short, poor teeth and a rubbish profile showing everything.

Not our bag at all.

Define short? What if they are short but not overweight?

Lol, below 6 ft is short to me as I am 6'3 in heels "

I could handle you being an inch taller than me

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Bad hygiene

A judgemental attitude

Clingy

Arrogant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Emotionally needy

Compliment seeking

Up their own arse

Having a poor view of others

In a guy, effeminacy

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Too many veri's

Poor Hygiene, overweight, short, poor teeth and a rubbish profile showing everything.

Not our bag at all.

Define short? What if they are short but not overweight?

Lol, below 6 ft is short to me as I am 6'3 in heels

I could handle you being an inch taller than me "

And as we all know, that extra inch can make all the difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many veri's

Poor Hygiene, overweight, short, poor teeth and a rubbish profile showing everything.

Not our bag at all.

Define short? What if they are short but not overweight?

Lol, below 6 ft is short to me as I am 6'3 in heels

I could handle you being an inch taller than me

And as we all know, that extra inch can make all the difference "

It does indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Tattoos

2. Dog owner

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I take each case on its merits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality or attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad hygiene

Bad attitude

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By *omeo1stMan
over a year ago

Littlehampton

Profile states 'No kissing' .... it would be too cold and clinical for me I'm afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being too pushy and getting far too graphic in messages when it's not instigated by us!

Like " I'd love to fuck your wife " erm no!

Bad hygiene

Bad teeth

Dirty fingernails

Overly graphic pictures

Overly graphic veri's

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By *K430Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

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By *K430Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

On a woman? Moustache and BO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many veri's

Poor Hygiene, overweight, short, poor teeth and a rubbish profile showing everything.

Not our bag at all.

"

How you doing?

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By *lueWonderMan
over a year ago

Preston.....ish

Not massively keen on smoking and would definitely have to think twice if the hadn't seemed to make much of an effort when turning up for a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They just don't read the f*ing profile do they!

I think 90% of guys on here see the photos, get horny and just fire of a crude message without even thinking.

The one that really annoys us is the "So I am in a travelodge near you tonight, fancy some fun"

Yes of course we will just drop everything we are doing and rush over to your hotel! or maybe you need to log on to adultwork.com

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

The "wrong" veries!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smokers

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Brexiters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being hairier than me

No sence of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The "wrong" veries! "

That's not fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The "wrong" veries!

That's not fair."

imho

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

Doesn't like receiving oral sex

Arrogance

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Doesn't like receiving oral sex

Arrogance

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Also being too skinny

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"Brexiters "

That's 17 and a half million people you don't want to meet then.

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester


"Smoking & to hairy or bad ordour "
3 of the people you've met state they're smokers

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

Tattoos on face

Far right wing

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Brexiters

That's 17 and a half million people you don't want to meet then. "

Yup

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By *atexbisexTV/TS
over a year ago

Central London

Wanting to handcuff me on a first date

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Wanting to handcuff me on a first date "

He was a policeman, and it wasn't a date.

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By *oiretblancCouple
over a year ago

London

- Racist...obviously

- Being unable to commit to a plan to actually meet i.e.Flakey

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By *atexbisexTV/TS
over a year ago

Central London


"Wanting to handcuff me on a first date

He was a policeman, and it wasn't a date. "

Potentially more interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Brexiters "

Great Cambridge attitude totally agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hairy nips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

False profile

Poor hygene

Racist or bigoted

Wants Bareback sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"False profile

Poor hygene

Racist or bigoted

Wants Bareback sex"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad teeth / bad breath - gotta have a nice mouth to get into my knickers

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By *aelawMan
over a year ago

Paisley

Personal hygiene

And

Arrogant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too hairy and too arrogant.

Amber x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad hygeine.. Simples!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogance and personal hygiene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shorter than me

Sense of entitlement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesnt match their pictures. Had several of those.

Unable to hold conversation. Sadly plenty of those too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor personal hygiene

Overinflated ego

There are many others but those are the two main ones for me.

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

Profiles with a range of assorted vegetables hanging out of fanny .....

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