FabSwingers.com forum: Dark rooms in clubs

By *ozart OP Couple
over a year ago

newbury

What happens , people's experiences

Good or bad ???

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Can be pretty fun when the club is full of people you don't fancy much

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By *ozart OP Couple
over a year ago

newbury

Is it all bare back ?

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Is it all bare back ? "

Hell no !

I don't know if a club that allows bareback in an open room

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

Sounds like fun to me is it anything goes giving and taking and generally filling any hole you can find in the dark I'd love to experience that

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Ooohhh...this is an intriguing concept. I might have to give this one a go!

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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago

Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and

Oh god yeah im up for that (mrs kink)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was good experience. She got me to fuck her ass, while she rode her husband, Then an hour later, they say to me, ! ''the Mrs only likes younger men''. ''No problem I say, I'm going back to the dark room again''.

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

To be honest if you are happy to let anyone play with you then they are great but if you are choosy then not the place to be. We find that the less attractive guys tend to spend a lot of time hanging around waiting for someone to go in.

For us as a Voyuer and exhibitionist couple it doesnt really work

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

One of the wildest experiences I've ever had. A room plenty of bodies sucking, eating, fucking...

No questions, no answers, no remorses...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the idea. Does it spoil the whole concept that I'd want to watch who went in before I followed? I mean I'd want to know all involved were to my liking, I mean you don't want to wander out thinking you've just been in a scene from Eyes Wide Shut, for them to shuffle out to discover it was actually an episode of Benefits Street.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I like the idea. Does it spoil the whole concept that I'd want to watch who went in before I followed? I mean I'd want to know all involved were to my liking, I mean you don't want to wander out thinking you've just been in a scene from Eyes Wide Shut, for them to shuffle out to discover it was actually an episode of Benefits Street. "

Actually spluttered on my popcorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually spluttered on my popcorn

Popcorn? I'm not sure a dark room works as a cinema experience?

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By *rikki1967ukMan
over a year ago

peterborough

Had couple of great nights with in the dark room. Sometimes a little to dark spoils it. I prefer half light and silhouettes.

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By *ighlander80884Man
over a year ago

Inverness

But how do you ensure protection is always worn if you cannot see anything?

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

That is the dark room idea. The physical pleasure is the protagonist; the senses we use the less: touch, smell, sounds..

Why to know who and whom fucked or sucked you? Were He/She/They attractive?

It is a gift for the senses, not for the ego. The lived sensations are the important thing, not our status of atractiveness.

I think one should put apart all the expectatives and inhibitions before doing it. It is not an experience suitable for everyone...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if it's full of short ugly people that wouldn't be your thing and lights go on .Get shock of your life .

Think it's best take torch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is the dark room idea. The physical pleasure is the protagonist; the senses we use the less: touch, smell, sounds..

Why to know who and whom fucked or sucked you? Were He/She/They attractive?

It is a gift for the senses, not for the ego. The lived sensations are the important thing, not our status of atractiveness.

I think one should put apart all the expectatives and inhibitions before doing it. It is not an experience suitable for everyone..."

Not for me then, I don't fancy risking banging Sandra, the 80 year old dinner lady from when I was at primary school, no matter what sensational smells and sounds she might provide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is the dark room idea. The physical pleasure is the protagonist; the senses we use the less: touch, smell, sounds..

Why to know who and whom fucked or sucked you? Were He/She/They attractive?

It is a gift for the senses, not for the ego. The lived sensations are the important thing, not our status of atractiveness.

I think one should put apart all the expectatives and inhibitions before doing it. It is not an experience suitable for everyone...

Not for me then, I don't fancy risking banging Sandra, the 80 year old dinner lady from when I was at primary school, no matter what sensational smells and sounds she might provide. "

Lol not even syrup sponge

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Had lots of fun on them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is the dark room idea. The physical pleasure is the protagonist; the senses we use the less: touch, smell, sounds..

Why to know who and whom fucked or sucked you? Were He/She/They attractive?

It is a gift for the senses, not for the ego. The lived sensations are the important thing, not our status of atractiveness.

I think one should put apart all the expectatives and inhibitions before doing it. It is not an experience suitable for everyone...

Not for me then, I don't fancy risking banging Sandra, the 80 year old dinner lady from when I was at primary school, no matter what sensational smells and sounds she might provide.

Lol not even syrup sponge

Seconds could tempt me.....

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

"Had lots of fun on them

Maybe we ate each other...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the sound of it. What's the etiquette in these rooms, I'm straight and wouldn't want any sort of sexual contact with guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like the sound of it. What's the etiquette in these rooms, I'm straight and wouldn't want any sort of sexual contact with guys. "

Don't bend over and keep your mouth closed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like the sound of it. What's the etiquette in these rooms, I'm straight and wouldn't want any sort of sexual contact with guys.

Don't bend over and keep your mouth closed?

Sound advice

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

One club I used to go to had one. Had some good times but I liked to be watched lol

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"But how do you ensure protection is always worn if you cannot see anything? "

That's where the term "bareback police" comes from. A few years ago the government passed legislation ensuring all sex venues employed people to watch for people not using condoms when swapping. They are just normal people disguised as swingers but they'll pounce if you don't wrap up...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest, using the dark room has never crossed our minds whilst at Infusion !!

Will have to give it a go sometime.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"But how do you ensure protection is always worn if you cannot see anything?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But how do you ensure protection is always worn if you cannot see anything? "

Erm, grasp the cock with your hand, can you feel the condom!!

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

"But how do you ensure protection is always worn if you cannot see anything?

Erm, grasp the cock with your hand, can you feel the condom!!"

Not a bad job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I avoid dark rooms - generally full of unattractive wanking zombies who haven't got the social skills to chat someone up in the club and get a play that way - they all hover around wanking in the dark room ready to jump on anything. I'd prefer to make sure I am attracted to whoever I'm playing with.

Also have had friends have guys try and slip it in bare in dark rooms before.

I'll stick to the rest of the club facilites!

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By *iercedCplCouple
over a year ago

Greater Manchester

"Ooohhh...this is an intriguing concept. I might have to give this one a go!"

I think Pandoras has a couple of dark rooms, we've not been yet, but heard it isn't completely finished yet, so just keep that in mind.

A x

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

One mouth round your cock feels pretty much the same as another mouth x

Note to straight guys ! X

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

See, the *fantasy* of a darkroom is quite appealing and I totally understand the intensity of concentrating purely on sensation and the sheer abandonment and unpredictability of it all.

However, I'm such a control freak that personally I can't ever imagine turning the fantasy into reality. The idea that people I'd already seen in the bar who maybe I'd already declined could then 'get' to me via the darkroom makes me feel nauseous. Nope, not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fantasy if a darkroom is great but personally we'd prefer 4 couples that we've at least spent a little time with to know there's not a lack of attraction. Then a closed dark room for the 8 bodies... that appeals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am pleased i tried it as it was something on my "to do list" id do something similar again but with a group of people who i know if that makes sense

I went to greedy girls night and i had 2 try and fuck me without a condom(!!!) But with everyone I reached back to feel first! And I could see enough to know who it was that was it with them! And someone tried to fuck me anally with no warning- so he got physically pushed away from me!

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

blindfolded in a club, every room is a dark room..

or should that be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it all bare back ? "

Noooo

When single, I used to avoid dark rooms

Now, with my hubby by my side, it can be fun

One still has the option to say "no"

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is the dark room idea. The physical pleasure is the protagonist; the senses we use the less: touch, smell, sounds..

Why to know who and whom fucked or sucked you? Were He/She/They attractive?

It is a gift for the senses, not for the ego. The lived sensations are the important thing, not our status of atractiveness.

I think one should put apart all the expectatives and inhibitions before doing it. It is not an experience suitable for everyone...

Not for me then, I don't fancy risking banging Sandra, the 80 year old dinner lady from when I was at primary school, no matter what sensational smells and sounds she might provide.

Lol not even syrup sponge

Only if she eats all my Tapioca.

Dark rooms - as exciting as they sound (in theory) alas, I don't think they're for me...too much of a control freak.

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By *ackhammer87Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"I am pleased i tried it as it was something on my "to do list" id do something similar again but with a group of people who i know if that makes sense

Ooo if I was there I would of invited you into a 69 postion xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if it's full of short ugly people that wouldn't be your thing and lights go on .Get shock of your life .

Think it's best take torch

I have a fitbit watch; believe you me, it gives of just enough light for me to see; sneaky me

- Mrs. J -

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By *ackhammer87Man
over a year ago

Walsall

Who's ever been Rimmed in a dark room

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Part of the fun in swinging for us is seeing what is happening. Coupled with the issues of safe sex and who you are actually playing with, we've not been tempted to play in them.

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By *he_virgin_maryWoman
over a year ago

Here, there and everywhere!

I enjoy playing in a dark room, providing it's not pitch black!

I find a lot of people in a dark room are less inhibited than a normal room so there are hands and mouths going to places they may not otherwise.

It's relatively easy to check for condoms like someone else mentioned. I've been fucked by people I wouldn't normally play with who turned out to be great shags!

The best example is I normally prefer men to be taller than me and well built but I was playing in a club that had a sling in the dark dungeon type room when someone started to eat me out and alternate with rimming my ass. I was in heaven and had cum a couple of times when he stopped briefly and then I felt a cock push into me, I wasn't going to say no after the way he had performed. It was a really good shag that we both enjoyed.

I followed him out to get cleaned up and take a break and well the best description was Mr muscle crossed with Mr bean. Not my type but a fantastic experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PMSL that had me laughing so hard I've woken the household up! Completely put me off trying there too / being blindfolded for all in sundry to enjoy too! Seems I'm very choosy (as my sexy fella knows)! I'd definitely need to see who else was in there - especially after we went to one club where neither of us would have even taken our shoes off!

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey

"Part of the fun in swinging for us is seeing what is happening. Coupled with the issues of safe sex and who you are actually playing with, we've not been tempted to play in them."

Absolutely agree. We liked the idea of it until we tried it at a club and got out of there in 10 seconds. You couldn't see literally anything, was just too crowded, claustrophobic and you had no idea who you was touching you.

We did enjoy playing in the dungeon room at the Bi Fun Club though, that was dark without being too dark

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I have tried a dark room once - it was good fun playing with a female

Personally not for me as I like to see who I am playing with

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By *orders-cplCouple
over a year ago

middx cpl

I only allow touchy feely in the dark room its not for full on sex I need to know whos fucking me

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By *ucklingsCouple
over a year ago

Rugby

Personally don't like them, I like to see who is touching me

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

I'm weird. I totally don't understand myself. I hate dark rooms and glory holes, yet I'll play blindfolded on occasion

Go figure then come back and explain it to me please

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

"I'm weird. I totally don't understand myself. I hate dark rooms and glory holes, yet I'll play blindfolded on occasion

Go figure then come back and explain it to me please

I am the same - with blindfolds I know that I have someone looking after me

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By *estMidsHotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Malvern

We played in a darkroom at our first ever club visit.

Went in with 2 couples and we both had our hands down some knickers pants, next thing I know one hand is placed into the thickest cock I had ever felt.

Never looked back just lifted up my skirt and let him fuck me, felt so good and as an added bonus he left a huge creampie x

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"We played in a darkroom at our first ever club visit.

Went in with 2 couples and we both had our hands down some knickers pants, next thing I know one hand is placed into the thickest cock I had ever felt.

Never looked back just lifted up my skirt and let him fuck me, felt so good and as an added bonus he left a huge creampie x

Yeah but that's cheating cos you saw them first !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A big fantasy of mine!

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"I like the sound of it. What's the etiquette in these rooms, I'm straight and wouldn't want any sort of sexual contact with guys. "

Oops too late as the tranny goes down you...

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By *ucklingsCouple
over a year ago

Rugby

Xtasia club in the midlands had a really nice dark room a few years back, when we just started going to clubs we were a bit shy so we prayed a good looking couple whom we marked earlier and played with them in the dark room. Later we were all over each other, dark room was a good 'breaking the ice' place in that sense

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

We like to be able to see what's going on, a bit like watching a live porn show, but starring in it too, so a dark room isn't something we'd like.

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By *layful Couple For YouCouple
over a year ago

Lust

"The fantasy if a darkroom is great but personally we'd prefer 4 couples that we've at least spent a little time with to know there's not a lack of attraction. Then a closed dark room for the 8 bodies... that appeals"

Now this simply sounds delicious

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