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"I have a good idea which parties this is referring to and feel shocked that anyone would say that anyone has a choice of women!! For us, attending a party does not mean that you are guaranteed anything, even as a couple, there are no guarantees you will play. However, to 'sell' this to single males, is for me, hinting that the women or couples attending, are expected to give the single males, value for money!!!! I dont like any organisers who think it is ok to over charge single males and personally, charges should be based on the number of people, irrespective of sex. If an organiser wants to limit the number of single males, or even couples, or single females, state it in the advert but dont take advantage of them by over charging. Definitely not our kind of party, and on numerous occasions have explained this to the organiser when they message us offering us an invite " Well said (oh this is Craig of Kiddytoxcpl by the way) | |||
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" Well said (oh this is Craig of Kiddytoxcpl by the way)" Helllloooooooo ........ Would have to charge you twice though, I seen how much you can eat, but your lovely Mrs comes for free, so equals itself out | |||
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"Well said (oh this is Craig of Kiddytoxcpl by the way)" *waves to Craig* hello lovely | |||
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"no one is forcing you to pay it....dont like it dont do it,simple" That's not very constructive! I think the problem is that charging so much for single guys could give some of them a sense of entitlement. Not to mention the risk of them getting d*unk to try and get value for money. Knowing the OP I know he wouldn't be like that and I'm not saying all single guys would. Personally i think that it should be a fixed cost per head. As far as saying you've got a choice of 20 women. Maybe that wasn't meant literally. I think I know of the party you're referring to and I don't think they are like that. | |||
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"70£ holy Mary fucking donkey Better get a prostitute, at least you'll be sure to have sex lmao. That's insane for real." But is the prostitute going to provide you with some 7UP in a plastic cup and some cocktail sausages? I think not | |||
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" But is the prostitute going to provide you with some 7UP in a plastic cup and some cocktail sausages? I think not " I'm dead ahaha well played | |||
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"no one is forcing you to pay it....dont like it dont do it,simple That's not very constructive! I think the problem is that charging so much for single guys could give some of them a sense of entitlement. Not to mention the risk of them getting d*unk to try and get value for money. Knowing the OP I know he wouldn't be like that and I'm not saying all single guys would. Personally i think that it should be a fixed cost per head. As far as saying you've got a choice of 20 women. Maybe that wasn't meant literally. I think I know of the party you're referring to and I don't think they are like that. " Who said postd had to be constructive? My post is true. | |||
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" *waves to Craig* hello lovely " *waving back* to both you wonderful people | |||
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"I'm yet to find a club that doesn't charge single guys more than couples and ladies ?" Better look for Trumps decency, i think you'd have more chance of achieving that ! | |||
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"no one is forcing you to pay it....dont like it dont do it,simple That's not very constructive! I think the problem is that charging so much for single guys could give some of them a sense of entitlement. Not to mention the risk of them getting d*unk to try and get value for money. Knowing the OP I know he wouldn't be like that and I'm not saying all single guys would. Personally i think that it should be a fixed cost per head. As far as saying you've got a choice of 20 women. Maybe that wasn't meant literally. I think I know of the party you're referring to and I don't think they are like that. Who said postd had to be constructive? My post is true. " They should at least contribute something. Didn't say it wasn't true, but it comes across as being rather abrupt | |||
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"I'm yet to find a club that doesn't charge single guys more than couples and ladies ? Better look for Trumps decency, i think you'd have more chance of achieving that !" Dream on! | |||
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"Don't name OP or you'll have sanctions ! Better delete your post naming them, don't worry fab isn't that big" He's right OP. Not worth soiling your good Fab reputation or worse having to start again. I know you are passionate about this issue, but not worth getting in trouble with the admins for. | |||
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"no one is forcing you to pay it....dont like it dont do it,simple That's not very constructive! I think the problem is that charging so much for single guys could give some of them a sense of entitlement. Not to mention the risk of them getting d*unk to try and get value for money. Knowing the OP I know he wouldn't be like that and I'm not saying all single guys would. Personally i think that it should be a fixed cost per head. As far as saying you've got a choice of 20 women. Maybe that wasn't meant literally. I think I know of the party you're referring to and I don't think they are like that. Who said postd had to be constructive? My post is true. They should at least contribute something. Didn't say it wasn't true, but it comes across as being rather abrupt " It did contribute something.... The notion that you can vote with your feet! Dot like it don't go. You can fluff it up all you like but if they aren't breaking the law then there isn't much more you can do other than not go is there? | |||
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"I'm yet to find a club that doesn't charge single guys more than couples and ladies ?" We were talking about this earlier. Doesn't make sense for anyone and we'd encourage equality. Men obviously annoyed at being charged so much and if I were a single fem attending on a much reduced rate, I'd be concerned what the guys thoughts would be towards me. It's 2017, even the prices up. If single women and couples and TVs have to pay a bit more so be it. | |||
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"Hello just looking for general feedback: I seen a party advertised recently in the Manchester area. Charging single females £15 Couples £35 for all you can eat and drink in an appartment in Manchester.But no price for single fellas, i messaged the organisers and was told it was £70 for single fellas.I replied that that was a bit expensive to which their reply was i have the choice of 20 women and all i can eat and drink. Whats the general views on this people?????" Unless the women are prostitutes you don't have the choice of 20 women. The women have the choice of whether you have sex with them or not. 20 women x £15 is £300 Plus the money from single guys and couples. What is being served? Caviar, lobster,champagne etc. It's a money making exercise. | |||
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"Unless they are providing hookers then nothing is guaranteed so it sounds to me like they are ripping off single guys and using the females and couples to do it " I once got an invite to a party. I got asked to pay £20 for contribution cost for food, drink etc. When I got to the party I was rushed into a room by some guy who took my £20. He didn't want the omwen and couples to see me give him the money. It turns out the couples and women invited had no clue this was happening. When they found out they were very rightly furious. | |||
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"You never get the "choice" of women at a party unless they are paid in my opinion. Ok I know clubs that have working girls to ensure men get action. Now that's not for me, but to each their own. For me its about pleasure for all, not obligation by one. Now seeing as it was a pay to attend party for all guests it may have just been a very badly worded response. My partner and I would not allow just "anyone" to join us, it's always our choice who we play with." True. There are some people on here who arrange parties on here. Well they are not swinging parties really. Basically if you pay your £20 you are GUARANTEED a fuck. The woman at the party knows the men have paid and will have sex with everyone who has come. It's prostitution dressed up as swinging. You can tell the prostitution parties as they advertise daily on the meet today section and say single guys very welcome. Yes they are very welcome provided they have £20. | |||
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"i see what ur saying but if you went as a single female the way their selling it is the single man paying £70 can fuck who he wants cause hes paying nearly five times as much as you and twice as much as a couple. Now we all know thats not the case " But why would you pay 70 quid in the first place? Desperation? Surely it's cheaper to go pay a hooker if you want a shag that bad? | |||
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"Unless they are providing hookers then nothing is guaranteed so it sounds to me like they are ripping off single guys and using the females and couples to do it I once got an invite to a party. I got asked to pay £20 for contribution cost for food, drink etc. When I got to the party I was rushed into a room by some guy who took my £20. He didn't want the omwen and couples to see me give him the money. It turns out the couples and women invited had no clue this was happening. When they found out they were very rightly furious. " I bet it happens wayyyyy more than people realise. | |||
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"Hello just looking for general feedback: I seen a party advertised recently in the Manchester area. Charging single females £15 Couples £35 for all you can eat and drink in an appartment in Manchester.But no price for single fellas, i messaged the organisers and was told it was £70 for single fellas.I replied that that was a bit expensive to which their reply was i have the choice of 20 women and all i can eat and drink. Whats the general views on this people?????" That's is far too expensive!! I only charge £40 and only have limited spaces for single guys.. no more then 10.. at least then everyone has a bit of fun. I do kno venues and food etc can be expensive .. but £70 wow!! | |||
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"Hello just looking for general feedback: I seen a party advertised recently in the Manchester area. Charging single females £15 Couples £35 for all you can eat and drink in an appartment in Manchester.But no price for single fellas, i messaged the organisers and was told it was £70 for single fellas.I replied that that was a bit expensive to which their reply was i have the choice of 20 women and all i can eat and drink. Whats the general views on this people?????" Not bad. Most clubs in London charge £60 or more for single men, And most do not permit single men on Saturday nights And they have to bring their own drinks - Mrs. J - | |||
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"I don't think the money is the issue. Good for them, it's a right money spinner! Insinuating they can fuck any woman they want.. that's the issue. Been to clubs where the man on the door inferred the same. Never been back. " Completely agree Some guys, in any club or party, think they have some right. That is where my hubby comes in to 'educate' them otherwise - Mrs. J - | |||
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"Hello just looking for general feedback: I seen a party advertised recently in the Manchester area. Charging single females £15 Couples £35 for all you can eat and drink in an appartment in Manchester.But no price for single fellas, i messaged the organisers and was told it was £70 for single fellas.I replied that that was a bit expensive to which their reply was i have the choice of 20 women and all i can eat and drink. Whats the general views on this people?????" I would be surprised if you had the choice of 20 women, they're not obliged to go with anyone, just because single guys have paid £70. I would question what the organisers were up to. | |||
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"Wow thanks for all ur comments i been on a ban for naming and shaming. Theirs alot of people on fab exploiting the single fellas as in prices. I know alot of fellas will pay the price so theirs always gonna be overcharging on single fellas and people say its to keep the fools away.which again is wrong cause alot of fools have money ..." Don't mention the b word or you'll be on another one! | |||
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"Whenever the charge for single men gets excessive it rings the commercial prostitution warning bell. In my mind there is nothing wrong with being a sex worker (if it is a free choice) but there are other sites that cater for that line of work. Fab should be amateur. I had a man on Fab offer to arrange a gangbangs for me at a private house. I backed out when i found out he was charging £50 a head and would not let me have a friend with me for comfort. " Bloody hell that could have turned nasty. Hope you reported him. | |||
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"Realmilf thats a more realistic price to pay and id expect something around that price keep me informed of ur next party please " Yep but your not guaranteed a shag thou lol. | |||
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"Hello just looking for general feedback: I seen a party advertised recently in the Manchester area. Charging single females £15 Couples £35 for all you can eat and drink in an appartment in Manchester.But no price for single fellas, i messaged the organisers and was told it was £70 for single fellas.I replied that that was a bit expensive to which their reply was i have the choice of 20 women and all i can eat and drink. Whats the general views on this people?????" Fuck that party. I'll have my own.. and beg the forum to come instead.. if I was that keen on the idea. 20 women... between how many men? mine would be 50 50 men women. All from Forum. and my own fweinds.. BYOB.. if you didn't eat before you came.. tough shit. crank up the tunes.. see what happens.. no menu please | |||
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"Hello just looking for general feedback: I seen a party advertised recently in the Manchester area. Charging single females £15 Couples £35 for all you can eat and drink in an appartment in Manchester.But no price for single fellas, i messaged the organisers and was told it was £70 for single fellas.I replied that that was a bit expensive to which their reply was i have the choice of 20 women and all i can eat and drink. Whats the general views on this people????? Fuck that party. I'll have my own.. and beg the forum to come instead.. if I was that keen on the idea. 20 women... between how many men? mine would be 50 50 men women. All from Forum. and my own fweinds.. BYOB.. if you didn't eat before you came.. tough shit. crank up the tunes.. see what happens.. no menu please " Shame I've got a two bed flat Might have to down scale my party to 1x male fabber and 2 female Fabbers.. crank tunes.. see what happens.. bet that one would be the best! | |||
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"Whenever the charge for single men gets excessive it rings the commercial prostitution warning bell. In my mind there is nothing wrong with being a sex worker (if it is a free choice) but there are other sites that cater for that line of work. Fab should be amateur. I had a man on Fab offer to arrange a gangbangs for me at a private house. I backed out when i found out he was charging £50 a head and would not let me have a friend with me for comfort. Bloody hell that could have turned nasty. Hope you reported him. " Yes i did. | |||
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"Well we have parties and never charge a penny. We ask people to bring their own alcohol and that's it. Bloody rip off £70!!" thats the way to do it - i have heard some have a donations box if they have booked an apartment but its always optional - | |||
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"thanks for ur feedback keep em coming i personally think price should be split equally " "choice"?? Does that mean women and couples don't have one? Personally OP, I wouldn't touch it with a bargepole, sounds more like a brothel. | |||
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