FabSwingers.com forum: Where are all the straight couples?

By *edoriarty OP Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

We're a couple looking to meet other couples in a club situation or private meet for full swap.

However we seem to be really struggling with this as I'm (female) straight and most couples seem to want bi females for group fun. Does anyone else find this? Are straight couples just in the minority so we need to look harder?

Red x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most straight couples are vanilla and don't swing it seems. From what I've seen on here most couples seeem to have bi female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're busy winking me, sorry

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

There's bi females and real bi females.

We find that a lot say Bi and they only do it for rgeir fella, or they are happy to receive but not give in turn.

I am bi very bi, but am always happy to play straight with another couple.

My advice to you is to over look any lable, and discover the person rather than a lable.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Maybe widen your search to include couples with a bi-curious lady?

Nita

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By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple
over a year ago

nr chester

Hi guys, I wouldn't be too put off by the profile write up of the bi lady couples, their are many like us that are really happy to play straight, I am bi, but it's not a deal breaker or set in stone, we play often without bi play, and most genuine lovely couples will respect your boundries, good luck with your search and don't forget just ask the question, if they are happy to play straight then all is good

Mrs blue eyes

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Yeah N is pretty bi, but she's happy to play straight as she only likes to play with women occasionally

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By *edoriarty OP Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

"There's bi females and real bi females.

We find that a lot say Bi and they only do it for rgeir fella, or they are happy to receive but not give in turn.

I am bi very bi, but am always happy to play straight with another couple.

My advice to you is to over look any lable, and discover the person rather than a lable. "

Yeah I'm happy to discover the person than just look at the label. It's good to know that some bi females are happy to play straight at times too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we definitely find this. J tried a bit of bi-curious and now definitely just wants straight couples. But a bi or bi-curious fem seem almost to be the norm - from our experience.

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By *edoriarty OP Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Hi guys, I wouldn't be too put off by the profile write up of the bi lady couples, their are many like us that are really happy to play straight, I am bi, but it's not a deal breaker or set in stone, we play often without bi play, and most genuine lovely couples will respect your boundries, good luck with your search and don't forget just ask the question, if they are happy to play straight then all is good

Mrs blue eyes

Oh this is good to know. Thanks for the advice

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

A lot of bi fem couples aren't what I'd call bi. By that I mean they don't mind another woman being assertive and playing with her. Though play in return is often limited or non existent.

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By *edoriarty OP Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Yes we definitely find this. J tried a bit of bi-curious and now definitely just wants straight couples. But a bi or bi-curious fem seem almost to be the norm - from our experience."

Yeah this is what we have found so far, there definitely seems to be less straight couples wanting to play

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By *edoriarty OP Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

"They're busy winking me, sorry

I haven't winked you today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs blue eyes

Agree with this definitely, we mostly play without any bi play involved. Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On our couple profile it states I'm Bi curious, which I am.

It's something I'd like to explore, however doesn't mean I won't play straight with the right couple.

So always worth asking if the female is happy to play straight if you see a profile that catches your eye.

Good luck x

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By *edoriarty OP Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

"A lot of bi fem couples aren't what I'd call bi. By that I mean they don't mind another woman being assertive and playing with her. Though play in return is often limited or non existent. "

Yeah I think you're right. It seems the norm to put at least bi curious on most couples profiles

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By *edoriarty OP Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

"On our couple profile it states I'm Bi curious, which I am.

It's something I'd like to explore, however doesn't mean I won't play straight with the right couple.

So always worth asking if the female is happy to play straight if you see a profile that catches your eye.

Good luck x "

This makes sense and I should ask the question more than just presuming couples won't be interested in us.

Thanks.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi red , we're a straight couple. An would love to swap with you. I don't do ladies. Sorry D not even for you. Lol x

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By *he-Dirty-DuoMan
over a year ago

Boston

"We're a couple looking to meet other couples in a club situation or private meet for full swap.

Red x"

We're both straight and find this as well, there seems to be very few straight couples about

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Yes we definitely find this. J tried a bit of bi-curious and now definitely just wants straight couples. But a bi or bi-curious fem seem almost to be the norm - from our experience.

Yeah this is what we have found so far, there definitely seems to be less straight couples wanting to play"

Of course there are , simply because the dynamic in straight play is so limiting .

We would class ourselves as bi playful , so neither of us would want a same sex relationship , but in the play situation are more than happy with same sex touching , kissing etc.......

We have found lots of similar couples in the lifestyle , and we love the variety of options open to us since we became more flexible .

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By *edoriarty OP Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Yes we definitely find this. J tried a bit of bi-curious and now definitely just wants straight couples. But a bi or bi-curious fem seem almost to be the norm - from our experience.

Yeah this is what we have found so far, there definitely seems to be less straight couples wanting to play

Of course there are , simply because the dynamic in straight play is so limiting .

We would class ourselves as bi playful , so neither of us would want a same sex relationship , but in the play situation are more than happy with same sex touching , kissing etc.......

We have found lots of similar couples in the lifestyle , and we love the variety of options open to us since we became more flexible ."

I like the phrase bi playful! I might steal that.

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By *edoriarty OP Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Hi red , we're a straight couple. An would love to swap with you. I don't do ladies. Sorry D not even for you. Lol x

Ha so they do exist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On our couple profile it states I'm Bi curious, which I am.

It's something I'd like to explore, however doesn't mean I won't play straight with the right couple.

So always worth asking if the female is happy to play straight if you see a profile that catches your eye.

Good luck x

This makes sense and I should ask the question more than just presuming couples won't be interested in us.

Thanks.x"
as we arent playing currently mine is set to straight as I will only play with a woman in a play situation... and certainly not looking for girl on girl play unless it just happens as part of it. And there are plenty of ladies that are quite happy to leave out the girl play.

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By *edoriarty OP Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

"On our couple profile it states I'm Bi curious, which I am.

It's something I'd like to explore, however doesn't mean I won't play straight with the right couple.

So always worth asking if the female is happy to play straight if you see a profile that catches your eye.

Good luck x

This makes sense and I should ask the question more than just presuming couples won't be interested in us.

Thanks.x as we arent playing currently mine is set to straight as I will only play with a woman in a play situation... and certainly not looking for girl on girl play unless it just happens as part of it. And there are plenty of ladies that are quite happy to leave out the girl play. "

I think we made the mistake of presuming that for anyone who has bi curious on their profile it's an important part of the play for them, turns out it's not always the case.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Totally ,it seema all the couples in our updates are looking for bi fems. .

Miss

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We're both straight. There do seem to be a lot of couples with bi or bi curious women, if they're genuinely happy to play straight we'll meet them. Just because someone like baked beans doesn't mean they need them at every meal to enjoy food.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On our couple profile it states I'm Bi curious, which I am.

It's something I'd like to explore, however doesn't mean I won't play straight with the right couple.

So always worth asking if the female is happy to play straight if you see a profile that catches your eye.

Good luck x

This makes sense and I should ask the question more than just presuming couples won't be interested in us.

I think we made the mistake of presuming that for anyone who has bi curious on their profile it's an important part of the play for them, turns out it's not always the case."

Well...... we have, on ocassion, found that the bi-curious fem is more than a bit curious. And that puts unwanted pressure on J.

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

Bi people can still play straight you know

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By *UCKY_13Couple
over a year ago

southwest

"We're a couple looking to meet other couples in a club situation or private meet for full swap.

Red x"

We thought the same at the start thought we were the odd ones out but in reality a lot of the couples say bi to help attract other couples and others are like me strait but have no issue in a group situation a woman touching them but don't actively look to please other woman

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By *edoriarty OP Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

"We're a couple looking to meet other couples in a club situation or private meet for full swap.

Red x

xx"

Thanks, yeah this we are starting to realise!

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

"We're both straight. There do seem to be a lot of couples with bi or bi curious women, if they're genuinely happy to play straight we'll meet them. Just because someone like baked beans doesn't mean they need them at every meal to enjoy food.

I like that analogy! Might steal that lol! N definitely prefers straight play, she just occasionally gets the urge to play with women too!

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Jayne is very bi, but happy to play straight, but many couples with straight females seem to be put off, I think they worry that she will try and turn them or something lol!

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By *adyLucknGamblersCouple
over a year ago

Harwich / Colchester

"We're a couple looking to meet other couples in a club situation or private meet for full swap.

Red x"

We are a straight couple and have found this also. though they are couple profiles out there stating the fem is bi or bi-curious but they will or can play straight as there has to be some kind of attraction for fem play just the same as f & m play. So dont be put off by bi fem couples. communication in messages prior to meeting will help xx good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight couple here - Mrs has received oral, kissed and touched another woman but isn't really looking for more, nor is she ruling it out if it happens, so neither of the three profile options fit? Open to exploration in the right circumstances perhaps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're a couple looking to meet other couples in a club situation or private meet for full swap.

Red x"

We have the same trouble Red, finding a couple that we get one with where the fem is actually not Bi and isn't looking for girl on girl is so hard x

MrsK

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

"We're a couple looking to meet other couples in a club situation or private meet for full swap.

Red x"
We are both straight not even a little curious but every couple that seem like we may play with then back track when they find out that Jill will not play with the lady .

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

"We're a couple looking to meet other couples in a club situation or private meet for full swap.

Red xWe are both straight not even a little curious but every couple that seem like we may play with then back track when they find out that Jill will not play with the lady ."

Don't see the reasoning for that. Unless the lady is very, very bi. Nothing wrong with variety!

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By *edoriarty OP Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

"We're a couple looking to meet other couples in a club situation or private meet for full swap.

Red x

We have the same trouble Red, finding a couple that we get one with where the fem is actually not Bi and isn't looking for girl on girl is so hard x

MrsK"

I will keep looking. This thread has given me hope and made me realise that I shouldn't make assumptions about bi females not wanting to play straight

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By *ascals10Couple
over a year ago

lancashire

We are both straight and very proud of it! We are always extremely honest with other couples to manage expectations. Personally (and this is from 13 yrs experience) we have found a bit of pressure on one side of the partnership to be 'accommodating' to the other. Mrs R may occasionally recieve but never give oral.

We are straight and traditional and proud to be so!

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By *otwife8690Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

Im straight (fem) hubby is bi. Even though this is clearly highlighted on our profile people still message for fem fem play.

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"We're a couple looking to meet other couples in a club situation or private meet for full swap.

Red x"

Wiggles is Bi, but thats never stopped us playing with straight couples. Only thing thats ever stopped us playing with a straight couple, is if wiggles dosnt fancy the guy, or if we think the lady is only there so her bloke can get laid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're a couple looking to meet other couples in a club situation or private meet for full swap.

Red x"

For a lot of couples like us it's only part of the fun the lady being Bi or curious. Stefe mainly prefers men but if there is a connection and it feels right she is more than happy to play but only if everyone is happy.

Don't let the lady being bi put you off as like us a lot of couples are happy to straight swap.

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By *edoriarty OP Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

"We're a couple looking to meet other couples in a club situation or private meet for full swap.

Red x

Don't let the lady being bi put you off as like us a lot of couples are happy to straight swap.

Thanks, this is good to know

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

We would answer it from the other perspective.

Bun is definitely bi, not doing it for a show or to please me. Ff play is normally part of a meet for us and we would link up with bi fem couples. But lots of couples who say that on their profile aren't really and the ff is just a bit of a thing on the profile to increase meets.

I think you'll have the same luck as any other couple once their preferences are taken into account.

Have fun.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Ps just realised who you are! You'll definitely get meets

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"Ps just realised who you are! You'll definitely get meets

Haha. Thanks!

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By *egin551Couple
over a year ago

south west !

My husband is straight, I'm Bi but have played straight many times

Just need to read through profile and message couples if you need any other information

Good luck with your search OP

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By *egin551Couple
over a year ago

south west !

My husband is straight, I'm Bi but have played straight many times

Just need to read through profiles and message couples if you need any other information

Good luck with your search OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight couple here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rather play with a couple where the lady was honest and said she was straight rather than a "bi curious" lady who is not bi at all but doing it to please there partner, really off putting

Lots of couples will play straight but maybe not there first choice, personally the girly play for me is awesome

Coco

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ask them

I'm sure most bi ladies would be more than happy to play straight.

I am bi but most of my sexual time is with hubby. It wouldn't bother me one bit to leave that bit out nor would I feel offended.

Go for it you two! You're lovely people

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By *edoriarty OP Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Just ask them

I'm sure most bi ladies would be more than happy to play straight.

I am bi but most of my sexual time is with hubby. It wouldn't bother me one bit to leave that bit out nor would I feel offended.

Go for it you two! You're lovely people

Thanks PNG

I think we previously felt that bi fem play was important to most bi fem couples and so we'd not send messages as we didn't think we were what they were looking for.

This thread has shown us we should just ask the question!

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By *edoriarty OP Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

"My husband is straight, I'm Bi but have played straight many times

Just need to read through profiles and message couples if you need any other information

Good luck with your search OP

Thanks

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By *edoriarty OP Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Rather play with a couple where the lady was honest and said she was straight rather than a "bi curious" lady who is not bi at all but doing it to please there partner, really off putting

Lots of couples will play straight but maybe not there first choice, personally the girly play for me is awesome

Coco"

Yes I agree, I think for some it wouldn't be their first choice but like you say I'd rather be honest about my preferences

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Having had a couple of experiences where bi but willing to play straight ladies have made quite aggressive passes at me I prefer not to meet couples where the woman is bi now.

I don't mean to suggest that all bi women are predatory though, this is just my experience.

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