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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

We are often approached by single bi sub guys about cuckolding.

Now our interpretation is that a cuck is a male part of a couple. The single guy is the dominating bull role.

So a single bi sub cuck isn't correct for this terminology.

Is this right ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds about right to me.

Not sure how you can be a cuck if you aren't a part of a couple

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Does it matter? Let people call what they want whatever they want. If people understand them, then all is good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are often approached by single bi sub guys about cuckolding.

Now our interpretation is that a cuck is a male part of a couple. The single guy is the dominating bull role.

So a single bi sub cuck isn't correct for this terminology.

Is this right ? "

I think you are correct, that is what been told when I went to school... Not sure whether the syllabus has changed now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kinda right and wrong. A cuck is a role, like the bull, so watching someone fuck even if you're not in relationship and doing cuck things still makes you a cuck. So a single sub guy acting like a cuck for you and your partner is still a cuck tbh

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Does it matter? Let people call what they want whatever they want. If people understand them, then all is good."

Well yes actually. If the cuck is the male half of the couple that would mean Sir is the cuck. He's a Dom

That's a bit like saying you like watersports but when it comes down to it, your understanding wasn't quite right and in fact it's sh***ing on people that's your kink.

No labels and incorrect labelling isn't helpful at all.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Does it matter? Let people call what they want whatever they want. If people understand them, then all is good.

Well yes actually. If the cuck is the male half of the couple that would mean Sir is the cuck. He's a Dom

That's a bit like saying you like watersports but when it comes down to it, your understanding wasn't quite right and in fact it's sh***ing on people that's your kink.

No labels and incorrect labelling isn't helpful at all. "

No, it means that you seem to think a thing can't be a thing unless you can put a label on it other people have given you, and you are unable to elucidate a thing beyond those labels.

And maybe you can't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it matter? Let people call what they want whatever they want. If people understand them, then all is good.

Well yes actually. If the cuck is the male half of the couple that would mean Sir is the cuck. He's a Dom

That's a bit like saying you like watersports but when it comes down to it, your understanding wasn't quite right and in fact it's sh***ing on people that's your kink.

No labels and incorrect labelling isn't helpful at all. "
No your sir is still the Dom. Just call it a cuck roleplay or the sub guy is a wannabe cuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In terminology the single guy would not be the cuckold because he is not the partner of the woman; I personally would have described it as voyeur/submissive roleplay.

No matter what you are calling it, if it works for the pair of you then go for it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In terminology the single guy would not be the cuckold because he is not the partner of the woman; I personally would have described it as voyeur/submissive roleplay.

No matter what you are calling it, if it works for the pair of you then go for it xx"
that definition is too rigid, you can't neatly put everyone into groups. By that definition every male half of the site of a couple is a cuck. A lot would take offeence to that. Then there's guys with a partner who won't swing, but desperately wanna get cucked. It helps a lot for ducks if they're in a relationship, but if a guy identifies with it, let them describe themselves as it.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Does it matter? Let people call what they want whatever they want. If people understand them, then all is good.

Well yes actually. If the cuck is the male half of the couple that would mean Sir is the cuck. He's a Dom

That's a bit like saying you like watersports but when it comes down to it, your understanding wasn't quite right and in fact it's sh***ing on people that's your kink.

No labels and incorrect labelling isn't helpful at all. No your sir is still the Dom. Just call it a cuck roleplay or the sub guy is a wannabe cuck"

So what's the difference between s singkd guy being a sub bi guy and a cuck then ? Thank you for your replies btw, just trying to understand other people's relevant views on the subject

And as a sub where does this put me in your opinion ?

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By *taceylacyCouple
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

Dead right, you can't have a cuckold single guy.

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle

He might be single but with an attitude of a cuck...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By that definition every male half of the site of a couple is a cuck. A lot would take offeence to that. Then there's guys with a partner who won't swing, but desperately wanna get cucked. It helps a lot for ducks if they're in a relationship, but if a guy identifies with it, let them describe themselves as it. "

I think you have misunderstood what I was saying; a cuckold by definition is a male partner of an adulterous woman, so to be cuckolded you need to be the woman's partner. I was not saying that every male half is a cuckold but to be a cuckold you need to be a male partner. If you want to "play the role" of a cuckold with an established couple then great and go for it.

It is symantics and shouldn't stop anyone having fun, I was just agreeing with the OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it matter? Let people call what they want whatever they want. If people understand them, then all is good.

Well yes actually. If the cuck is the male half of the couple that would mean Sir is the cuck. He's a Dom

That's a bit like saying you like watersports but when it comes down to it, your understanding wasn't quite right and in fact it's sh***ing on people that's your kink.

No labels and incorrect labelling isn't helpful at all. No your sir is still the Dom. Just call it a cuck roleplay or the sub guy is a wannabe cuck

So what's the difference between s singkd guy being a sub bi guy and a cuck then ? Thank you for your replies btw, just trying to understand other people's relevant views on the subject

And as a sub where does this put me in your opinion ?"
I think there's a big overlap between the two, so it's up to the individual. My guess is that for a sub, there's more they're willing to do bdsm wise. But a cuck is more about watching a woman they're attracted to have sex and being denied it.

I'd say you're still being a sub to your dom, he's the one cucking the single males in your case. You're still a sub to him even if you like to dominate the single guy. Mainstream cuckolding has a lot of interracial elements to it so that's probably why they're drawn to your profile

These are just my opinions, don't want to imply anyone is wrong on it. I just see cuckold as almost a mindset

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kinda right and wrong. A cuck is a role, like the bull, so watching someone fuck even if you're not in relationship and doing cuck things still makes you a cuck. So a single sub guy acting like a cuck for you and your partner is still a cuck tbh "
well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what's the difference between s singkd guy being a sub bi guy and a cuck then ? Thank you for your replies btw, just trying to understand other people's relevant views on the subject

And as a sub where does this put me in your opinion ?"

The difference between a single bi sub guy and a cuckold is the relationship to the female. A cuckold is the females partner, the single guy is just that single.

As to where that leaves you - you would still be submissive to your Dominant. Your relationship to the single bi-sub is secondary, but I would imagine that it is unlikely that you would be submissive to him. However that is entirely up to you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By that definition every male half of the site of a couple is a cuck. A lot would take offeence to that. Then there's guys with a partner who won't swing, but desperately wanna get cucked. It helps a lot for ducks if they're in a relationship, but if a guy identifies with it, let them describe themselves as it.

I think you have misunderstood what I was saying; a cuckold by definition is a male partner of an adulterous woman, so to be cuckolded you need to be the woman's partner. I was not saying that every male half is a cuckold but to be a cuckold you need to be a male partner. If you want to "play the role" of a cuckold with an established couple then great and go for it.

It is symantics and shouldn't stop anyone having fun, I was just agreeing with the OP. "
I agree that definitions shouldn stop fun, and I too think it's best described as role-playing. But you see why the definition doesn't work right?

"Partner to an adulterous woman", so every male half has to be a cuckold by that definition, so it doesn't really hold up any more. It's more about the interaction with the female and their behaviour being a cuck

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By *taffs_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

People get hung up on dictionary terminologies and believe these to be gospel.

Times are a changing and so are word meanings. Cuckolding to us has many meanings from its original idea to the hardcore porn meanings.

If a guy has cuck tendencies then he is a cuck in the making in our eyes. He's just waiting for his hotwife to come along and give him the lifestyle he craves.

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle


"People get hung up on dictionary terminologies and believe these to be gospel.

Times are a changing and so are word meanings. Cuckolding to us has many meanings from its original idea to the hardcore porn meanings.

If a guy has cuck tendencies then he is a cuck in the making in our eyes. He's just waiting for his hotwife to come along and give him the lifestyle he craves.

"

Well said...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not saying that every male in a partnership is a cuckold far from it, I am saying that you have to be a male in a partnership to be a cuckold. As we all know it is the act of being cuckolded that makes the male in the partnership a cuckold, if he is not being cuckolded then it is simply swinging.

It is like saying all Hoovers are vacuum cleaners but not all vacuum cleaners are Hoovers.

As someone said, the terminology had changed from the traditional to now a wider sweeping meaning. As long as everyone is having fun the fill your boots.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

I think that for a single guy to be a cuck in our scenario there would have to be dynamics involved that just don't work for us and in fact offend our role as D/S.

To that end, we aren't interested remotely in any single guy who identifies himself as being a cuck or expresses an interest in cuckolding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think that for a single guy to be a cuck in our scenario there would have to be dynamics involved that just don't work for us and in fact offend our role as D/S.

To that end, we aren't interested remotely in any single guy who identifies himself as being a cuck or expresses an interest in cuckolding. "
Fair enough, I think a cuck approaching you would be more interested in watching you than getting involved with sub bi play

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By *taceylacyCouple
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

Yes but a cuck couple with a hot wife is only interested in Bulls who can perform not cuckolded guys.

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