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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There's no search filter for Dom and Sub. So, if the Mrs wanted to experiment with a Dom, what would be the best way of finding one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm this is murky waters anyway. So I would suggest another website? Or potentially looking around with people's profiles. BDSM attracts a lot of crazies though so I would approach it person per person.

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By *onybart2404TV/TS
over a year ago

keady

You have you blocked people dosnt help

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not looking for BDSM and keen to avoid the crazies, but there must be some male Doms on Fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not looking for BDSM and keen to avoid the crazies, but there must be some male Doms on Fab?"
im confused if your after a dom.. surely you are looking for some aspects of bdsm...

Fab isn't a good place to look. To many mr grey wannabes and dim doms. Then again since fifty shades of sh#te so are many fet sites.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not looking for BDSM and keen to avoid the crazies, but there must be some male Doms on Fab?im confused if your after a dom.. surely you are looking for some aspects of bdsm...

Fab isn't a good place to look. To many mr grey wannabes and dim doms. Then again since fifty shades of sh#te so are many fet sites.

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Ii's the SM part of BDSM that doesn't appeal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not looking for BDSM and keen to avoid the crazies, but there must be some male Doms on Fab?"

I think you need to clarify what it is you are after. No such thing as a dom without BDSM. I would suggest you do some reading.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not looking for BDSM and keen to avoid the crazies, but there must be some male Doms on Fab?im confused if your after a dom.. surely you are looking for some aspects of bdsm...

Fab isn't a good place to look. To many mr grey wannabes and dim doms. Then again since fifty shades of sh#te so are many fet sites.

Ii's the SM part of BDSM that doesn't appeal!"
and like with swinging the variations are great. Im not overly keen on that side although it can on occassion have its place but in the right mood Mr can certainly dominate me sexually but to many on here seem to think domination equals just rough and often disrespectful sex. You will need to be clear on what your looking for and then find someone that isnt a dimdom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are Dominants on Fab, but no way to search for them. Your best bet is to do a forum search on Dominants and see who has posted.

Before you consider playing with a Dominant you need to build up trust and set firm boundaries as to what you will do and won't do.

Safe, Sane and Consensual are the watch words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Safe, Sane and Consensual are the watch words. "

Along with trustworthy and what else not.

I think this sufferers the genius problem. Nobody can call themselves a genius.

Same way nobody can call themselves these things and they rarely match them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I think this sufferers the genius problem. Nobody can call themselves a genius.

Same way nobody can call themselves these things and they rarely match them. "

I am not talking about calling yourself Safe, Sane and Consensual but the common understand that any BDSM play has to be Safe, Sane and Consensual. It needs to be agreed on, limits put in place and safe for all parties - what these are changes with the individual but the premise stays the same.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Talk to subs, that's where the real knowledge of what to look for is.

Too much porn and wannabes bring some weird perceptions around the play.

There are signs, talk to subs they will tell you.

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