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why choose the 'life style'?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm curious as to why people swing.

Is it the sex?

Is it the social side of meets?

Or a combination?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The social side more now.

It was a combination initially.

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS


"I'm curious as to why people swing.

Is it the sex?

Is it the social side of meets?

Or a combination?"

Why don't you say why you have?

It seems you have been here six months and you are yet to meet someone, but what brings you here? Free sex??

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Sex, then the social aspects. Love being greedy and that's not something I could do in the vanilla world. Love being taken hard and used which is something I can't ask hubby to do on a nightly basis. Different blokes, different strokes, sizes and techniques. It's all fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We see it as healthy conversation.

Surely you don't restrict your verbal communication with only the one person, sex to us is a conversation. The words are the touches, the breaths, the eyes, the moans, the arching of backs, and all the other bits in between.

Having those conversations with the people we choose to at the time makes us better communicators with each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just enjoy fucking multiple people at the same time

I'm greedy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A combination for me nice chat followed by naughty fun is wonderful

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I'm big into the social side, and meets with friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relaxed social side for me. The atmosphere in clubs is so much nicer than vanilla venues

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Just the sex for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just went to a spiritual gathering and, for all the different goings on there, I saw no mention of sex. It feels like I'm just on the other side of a big divide now. It just felt like, for all the supposed spiritual liberation, the lack of any sexual expression and liberation made the whole thing a charade. For all the debaseness of swinging, you lot are the only people truly comfortable with who you are in your fullness... and that, quite frankly, is a type of spiritual enlightenment and self acceptance.

Sex, to me, is quite clearly the most powerful spiritual practice there is. And I see no reason why one shouldn't engage in that practice with a wide range of beautiful souls. After all your life is so short and so delicious. I think the world would be a better place if we all freed ourselves to truly revel in that with lovers, friends, and people we meet along the path.

This isn't a comment on anyone other than me... it's my attempt to describe my mindset and quite how much of the cool aid I've d*unk around here

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love the social side, the laughs the giggles and if we're lucky the sexy frolics

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

The OP has gone into hiding it seems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex, then the social aspects. Love being greedy and that's not something I could do in the vanilla world. Love being taken hard and used which is something I can't ask hubby to do on a nightly basis. Different blokes, different strokes, sizes and techniques. It's all fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, as a single male, it's partly about the sex. Swingers tend to be more opened minded, willing to experiment and know how to have a good time

The other aspect For me is that it's less complicated than dating and usually (unfortunately not always) less drama than the vanilla world.

I've give got a crazy lifestyle, I work hard and play hard which makes its difficult to hold down a relationship, swinging tends to fit in the fun around my lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex initially and over time it's become social/friendship.

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By *ack with a bangCouple
over a year ago

Hastings

Both for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm glad to say I've made friends on here but as a single man I'm definitely here for the sex

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By *stonMTMan
over a year ago

cleveland

For me it was trying some thing different and seeing if could go through with it then after that it was start of life changing journey and meeting a wide range of people an eye opener for sure

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