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"So... it clearly states in our profile that we are looking for bisexual men. We've had a lot of messages that say something like, if you let me fuck the Mrs, I wouldn't mind putting your cock in my mouth. Do they realise how fucked up that is? Do you really think my partner is going to get any pleasure from this type of bargaining? Do they think that is what bisexual men want...an unwilling cock in their mouth and that's it? I'm thinking we're just going to stop responding now, it's getting boring! " It's incredibly frustrating for us men that are actually bi and will happily play with both men and women if the attraction is there! | |||
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"The men who have straight on their profile but then say they will suck cock in return for s fuck sound a bit desperate tbh - bi is bi isn't it?!" That's what we thought, but the amount of "offers" we get, more on the "you can suck my cock if I get a go on your wife" side of the arrangement is staggering. Almost like they are doing me a favour letting me have a suck once they have finished with the wife. Now, that is a scenario we might like to act out in role play but it's not a starting point for a 3 way relationship for us. | |||
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"It's not easy. It's not easy to relax when you meet either, knowing that they know which buttons to press with each other and know where their respective comfort zones are. You're new to all this, with them at least." I think you put it very well. Meeting a bi/bi-curious couple can be very difficult. As a bi guy, I have no issue with going all the way with a single guy. A couple though have so many more dynamics that need working out and there is the potential for so many more restrictions from either side of the couple. | |||
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"It's crazy what some men will do isn't it?" Any port in a Storm. | |||
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"I'd love a strap on up my ass as I suck your cock" More tea vicar? | |||
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"We just direct them to fabguys, they can have as much cock as they want, hehe" Fabguys is full of just as many straight cock suckers as this place. | |||
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"We just direct them to fabguys, they can have as much cock as they want, hehe Fabguys is full of just as many straight cock suckers as this place." I bet they joined fabguys first haha | |||
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"We just direct them to fabguys, they can have as much cock as they want, hehe Fabguys is full of just as many straight cock suckers as this place. I bet they joined fabguys first haha" I doubt it. | |||
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"They do exist OP but if they don't state Bi on their profile then maybe give them a swerve. Can you filter straight accounts? It would stop you getting the "I'll let him suck after I've fucked her" messages from the desperate ones..." Unfortunately not. Lots have asked. | |||
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"They do exist OP but if they don't state Bi on their profile then maybe give them a swerve. Can you filter straight accounts? It would stop you getting the "I'll let him suck after I've fucked her" messages from the desperate ones... Unfortunately not. Lots have asked. " That's a shame. If a guy is too ashamed to state Bi on profile, it's likely they'll be too ashamed to meet anyway imo! Far too many fantasists on here | |||
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"They do exist OP but if they don't state Bi on their profile then maybe give them a swerve. Can you filter straight accounts? It would stop you getting the "I'll let him suck after I've fucked her" messages from the desperate ones... Unfortunately not. Lots have asked. That's a shame. If a guy is too ashamed to state Bi on profile, it's likely they'll be too ashamed to meet anyway imo! Far too many fantasists on here" Agreed. | |||
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"The amount of straight guys asking to suck my cock outnumbers the bi guys " Very true | |||
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"A classic is being contacted by a 'straight' couple. But the guy is interested in trying cock. Wife doesn't know about it...bloody idiot is risking ruining marriage and family over not telling the truth!" I had one 'straight' guy try and climb my yard wall to get to my door because I was in the shower when he arrived and I didn't answer his call | |||
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"We just direct them to fabguys, they can have as much cock as they want, hehe Fabguys is full of just as many straight cock suckers as this place." Probably more. | |||
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"So... it clearly states in our profile that we are looking for bisexual men. We've had a lot of messages that say something like, if you let me fuck the Mrs, I wouldn't mind putting your cock in my mouth. Do they realise how fucked up that is? Do you really think my partner is going to get any pleasure from this type of bargaining? Do they think that is what bisexual men want...an unwilling cock in their mouth and that's it? I'm thinking we're just going to stop responding now, it's getting boring! " I'm surprised you respond in the first place.. | |||
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"So... it clearly states in our profile that we are looking for bisexual men. We've had a lot of messages that say something like, if you let me fuck the Mrs, I wouldn't mind putting your cock in my mouth. Do they realise how fucked up that is? Do you really think my partner is going to get any pleasure from this type of bargaining? Do they think that is what bisexual men want...an unwilling cock in their mouth and that's it? I'm thinking we're just going to stop responding now, it's getting boring! " We get it all the time... | |||
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"So... it clearly states in our profile that we are looking for bisexual men. We've had a lot of messages that say something like, if you let me fuck the Mrs, I wouldn't mind putting your cock in my mouth. Do they realise how fucked up that is? Do you really think my partner is going to get any pleasure from this type of bargaining? Do they think that is what bisexual men want...an unwilling cock in their mouth and that's it? I'm thinking we're just going to stop responding now, it's getting boring! " | |||
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"We only meet fully bisexual guys or bisexual ladies . The standard message from straight guys , is this " i know my profile says straight , but i am bi . Just dont want to get bombarded with messages from other bi guys !" Or "i am only orally bi" Best is "i`m bi curious , and looking for a couple to introduce me to bisex, as my wife doesnt understand my needs" We just delete and welcome the genuine messages from bisexual people. " Orally bi is a thing though I am not really interested in fucking guys I meet I won't say I never have as that would be a lie, but it isn't something I'd put on the menu up front. I very, very, very rarely take it up the arse myself. Again, I have done but only when I have been in a relationship with the guy. So, whilst I am truly bi in that I have full blown relationships with guys & women, for the purposes of Fab, I am, essentially, orally bi. | |||
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"I know exactly. Well I will suck and fuck Mr if she will watch. That bi enought lol" | |||
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"I welcome all your thoughts. People don't pay enough attention to couple dynamics. I guess we all have our own reasons for swinging, for us, we prefer sharing rather than swapping. You can't do that with straight guys. Xx" I totally hear you. Although its not essential with couples. An MMF with a straight guy gets boring very quickly from my perspective. Danny | |||
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"We both have straight on our profile as we are attracted to the opposite sex and not the same sex. That said we both enjoy play with the same sex and like to play all together so i would say we are bi comfortable but there is no box for that " Same here | |||
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"Comes down to 'different degrees'of bisexuality which can be a new forum on its own." We've just been chatting about this...bi sexual, bi selfish, bi curious, orally bi, bi(if you give me a go of your bird), pansexual. We just like, if you find us both attractive that you want to snog us both, we're happy with that. | |||
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"Comes down to 'different degrees'of bisexuality which can be a new forum on its own. We've just been chatting about this...bi sexual, bi selfish, bi curious, orally bi, bi(if you give me a go of your bird), pansexual. We just like, if you find us both attractive that you want to snog us both, we're happy with that. " I will tell you about how I feel. I don't get attracted to guys face as I can do with a girl so getting attracted to a guy over a meal never happens with me. But In a 3 sum situation I might still play bi even if there is no massive attraction. | |||
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"Comes down to 'different degrees'of bisexuality which can be a new forum on its own. We've just been chatting about this...bi sexual, bi selfish, bi curious, orally bi, bi(if you give me a go of your bird), pansexual. We just like, if you find us both attractive that you want to snog us both, we're happy with that. " Genuine question... What is the difference between bi-sexual and bi-curious? | |||
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"Comes down to 'different degrees'of bisexuality which can be a new forum on its own. We've just been chatting about this...bi sexual, bi selfish, bi curious, orally bi, bi(if you give me a go of your bird), pansexual. We just like, if you find us both attractive that you want to snog us both, we're happy with that. Genuine question... What is the difference between bi-sexual and bi-curious?" You know when you were young and your mother made you try food over and over again to see of you liked it...and then you did! - bisexual. Hahaha!! | |||
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"Comes down to 'different degrees'of bisexuality which can be a new forum on its own. We've just been chatting about this...bi sexual, bi selfish, bi curious, orally bi, bi(if you give me a go of your bird), pansexual. We just like, if you find us both attractive that you want to snog us both, we're happy with that. Genuine question... What is the difference between bi-sexual and bi-curious? You know when you were young and your mother made you try food over and over again to see of you liked it...and then you did! - bisexual. Hahaha!! " | |||
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"Comes down to 'different degrees'of bisexuality which can be a new forum on its own. We've just been chatting about this...bi sexual, bi selfish, bi curious, orally bi, bi(if you give me a go of your bird), pansexual. We just like, if you find us both attractive that you want to snog us both, we're happy with that. Genuine question... What is the difference between bi-sexual and bi-curious? You know when you were young and your mother made you try food over and over again to see of you liked it...and then you did! - bisexual. Hahaha!! " Ha ha so bi-curious is a bi-sexual virgin? | |||
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"We both have straight on our profile as we are attracted to the opposite sex and not the same sex. That said we both enjoy play with the same sex and like to play all together so i would say we are bi comfortable but there is no box for that " I'm in that box too ,, getting bit lonely in here lol! | |||
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"So... it clearly states in our profile that we are looking for bisexual men. We've had a lot of messages that say something like, if you let me fuck the Mrs, I wouldn't mind putting your cock in my mouth. Do they realise how fucked up that is? Do you really think my partner is going to get any pleasure from this type of bargaining? Do they think that is what bisexual men want...an unwilling cock in their mouth and that's it? I'm thinking we're just going to stop responding now, it's getting boring! It's incredibly frustrating for us men that are actually bi and will happily play with both men and women if the attraction is there!" Agreed. | |||
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"So... it clearly states in our profile that we are looking for bisexual men. We've had a lot of messages that say something like, if you let me fuck the Mrs, I wouldn't mind putting your cock in my mouth. Do they realise how fucked up that is? Do you really think my partner is going to get any pleasure from this type of bargaining? Do they think that is what bisexual men want...an unwilling cock in their mouth and that's it? I'm thinking we're just going to stop responding now, it's getting boring! " Not helpful to be honest that your filters are set for site supporters only. Check my Vris for credentials. Thanks. | |||
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"A classic is being contacted by a 'straight' couple. But the guy is interested in trying cock. Wife doesn't know about it...bloody idiot is risking ruining marriage and family over not telling the truth!" we had something similar with a straight couple when we were stating out in this aspect, pre fab.. she was less than pleased to come back into the room and find him and Mrs Surrey sharing my cock.. all got a tad awkward to say the least.. | |||
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"A classic is being contacted by a 'straight' couple. But the guy is interested in trying cock. Wife doesn't know about it...bloody idiot is risking ruining marriage and family over not telling the truth! we had something similar with a straight couple when we were stating out in this aspect, pre fab.. she was less than pleased to come back into the room and find him and Mrs Surrey sharing my cock.. all got a tad awkward to say the least.." Opps! Had he not told her he liked sausage? Poor you two how embarissing. | |||
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"A classic is being contacted by a 'straight' couple. But the guy is interested in trying cock. Wife doesn't know about it...bloody idiot is risking ruining marriage and family over not telling the truth! we had something similar with a straight couple when we were stating out in this aspect, pre fab.. she was less than pleased to come back into the room and find him and Mrs Surrey sharing my cock.. all got a tad awkward to say the least.. Opps! Had he not told her he liked sausage? Poor you two how embarissing." nope.. think he thought as she had had a little too much to drink she was going to take a break and he thought now's the chance.. staggeringly stupid.. | |||
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"So... it clearly states in our profile that we are looking for bisexual men. We've had a lot of messages that say something like, if you let me fuck the Mrs, I wouldn't mind putting your cock in my mouth. Do they realise how fucked up that is? Do you really think my partner is going to get any pleasure from this type of bargaining? Do they think that is what bisexual men want...an unwilling cock in their mouth and that's it? I'm thinking we're just going to stop responding now, it's getting boring! " some guys need to take a look at what they put. And have a look at there profiles they make up. And the pics they put on. Some. Not all. But most think. That women are a easy fuck. And the women just want one thing. Some even make out that its a privilage for you to have them to fuck you. How wrong can they be. | |||
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"So... it clearly states in our profile that we are looking for bisexual men. We've had a lot of messages that say something like, if you let me fuck the Mrs, I wouldn't mind putting your cock in my mouth. Do they realise how fucked up that is? Do you really think my partner is going to get any pleasure from this type of bargaining? Do they think that is what bisexual men want...an unwilling cock in their mouth and that's it? I'm thinking we're just going to stop responding now, it's getting boring! " How about he fucks me as I go down on you then? | |||
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"So... it clearly states in our profile that we are looking for bisexual men. We've had a lot of messages that say something like, if you let me fuck the Mrs, I wouldn't mind putting your cock in my mouth. Do they realise how fucked up that is? Do you really think my partner is going to get any pleasure from this type of bargaining? Do they think that is what bisexual men want...an unwilling cock in their mouth and that's it? I'm thinking we're just going to stop responding now, it's getting boring! " Sad | |||
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"I'm finding this discussion really interesting. I have only just started admitting how bi I actually am (yeah OK, to myself mainly and within Fab - stilladies liberating enough) I'm also I am state of constant arousal, but that's another story I guess my question is for the bi couples, how bi does one have to be and crucially how do I prove I'm that bi? (I know it depends out the individe also... but) Longest FaF? " I'm not sure if anyone needs to prove they are bi. For us, we get a feel for people. We both like to be seduced and flirted with so If we don't both feel like that from the other person, then it probably won't work out for us. I like your profile, quite funny! X | |||
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"I'm finding this discussion really interesting. I have only just started admitting how bi I actually am (yeah OK, to myself mainly and within Fab - stilladies liberating enough) I'm also I am state of constant arousal, but that's another story I guess my question is for the bi couples, how bi does one have to be and crucially how do I prove I'm that bi? (I know it depends out the individe also... but) Longest FaF? I'm not sure if anyone needs to prove they are bi. For us, we get a feel for people. We both like to be seduced and flirted with so If we don't both feel like that from the other person, then it probably won't work out for us. I like your profile, quite funny! X" Thanks | |||
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"We have the same problem....guys will say anything to get at Daisy lol" Looking at Daisy that's no surprise. Hehe. | |||
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"We have the same problem....guys will say anything to get at Daisy lol" Understandable, if deplorable. Bloody hell though I can understand them bending the truth. Hell, I'm on the verge of saying I misyped my age and am actually 41 not a decade older than that but I can't see you buying it. Lass could get away with it but not this old fart. x | |||
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"We have the same problem....guys will say anything to get at Daisy lol" I have too agree, it's understandable looking at daisy! But don't worry I'm fully bi | |||
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"There are many threads on this topic. For me I suppose i am actually "Metrosexual" (bullshit word I know) i just like to play. Sometimes a guy will interest me and sometime a woman will not. Often its the otherway round. Occationally I get to play with both. Sometimes each sepretly and on those wonderful occations all together. Do i fancy woman more then men? In a general sence yes but somtimes only a guy on my cock will do. Could i have a committed long term loving sexual relationship with a guy? No. Sorry i have guys i am very fond of and guys who are ,"family" and love but thats not the same thing. Ultimatly I enjoy sex and meeting interesting people and playing with them. To only fish in a section of the pond seams silly to me when the whole pond has such beautyful fish. " | |||
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