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By *aturewomanlover OP   Man
over a year ago

Uttox

Serious question now, but how did some of the less desireable ladies who never leave their house get any of the action that they get now from the 100s of messages from fab and other sites before the Internet? (Think I was about 16 when I first went on the Internet so 20 years ago)

And how did people heat about stingers clubs and where they are??

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By *aturewomanlover OP   Man
over a year ago

Uttox

*hear about swingers clubs/events and where they were?

Like someone from say sheffield hearing about chams?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"less desireable ladies who never leave their house"

Nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Serious question now, but how did some of the less desireable ladies who never leave their house "

Hmmmm now let me think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yellow pages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably the same way the less desirable men did it I would imagine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Serious question now, but how did some of the less desireable ladies who never leave their house get any of the action that they get now from the 100s of messages from fab and other sites before the Internet? (Think I was about 16 when I first went on the Internet so 20 years ago)

And how did people heat about stingers clubs and where they are?? "

Words fail me!

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By *aturewomanlover OP   Man
over a year ago

Uttox

No seriously, ok any women beautiful or not that never left the house to go the pub/club (maybe because of not many friends or home with kids all the time) how did they get talking to men to just invite them round? Surely didn't bring them home from the weekly shop in normids/kwik save!!

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By *aturewomanlover OP   Man
over a year ago

Uttox

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By *aturewomanlover OP   Man
over a year ago

Uttox


"Probably the same way the less desirable men did it I would imagine. "

And how was that? That's what I'm asking?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"And how was that? That's what I'm asking!! "

You're saying that the women on here are housebound but it's ok because there's the internet to invite perverts round?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Probably the same way the less desirable men did it I would imagine.

And how was that? That's what I'm asking?"

Magazine and newspaper personal ads, having pen pals etc.

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By *aturewomanlover OP   Man
over a year ago

Uttox


"Serious question now, but how did some of the less desireable ladies who never leave their house get any of the action that they get now from the 100s of messages from fab and other sites before the Internet? (Think I was about 16 when I first went on the Internet so 20 years ago)

And how did people heat about stingers clubs and where they are??

Words fail me! "

Why? I'm asking before smart phones and the Internet before that women who were stuck at home for one reason or another or didn't like going out, how did they get on??

Come dave before fab and Internet how did you find your nsa sex?

Maybe with being a bloke you went out a lot but for women it could be different

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By *icked weaselCouple
over a year ago

Near Edinburgh..

we met other couples via contact mags.. God i feel Old..

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Contact magazines and letters to box numbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

life was more fun and friendly without the Internet i would say because you out more and having fun..

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"women who were stuck at home"

You forgot the work Undesirable in that post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we met other couples via contact mags.. God i feel Old.. "

Our first meet was a contact mag with a couple in Plymouth which only came about because the news agent we bought it from didn't scrub out the phone number properly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Serious question now, but how did some of the less desireable ladies who never leave their house get any of the action that they get now from the 100s of messages from fab and other sites before the Internet? (Think I was about 16 when I first went on the Internet so 20 years ago)

And how did people heat about stingers clubs and where they are??

Words fail me!

Why? I'm asking before smart phones and the Internet before that women who were stuck at home for one reason or another or didn't like going out, how did they get on??

Come dave before fab and Internet how did you find your nsa sex?

Maybe with being a bloke you went out a lot but for women it could be different "

It was the bit about less desireable women who never leave the house, you don't think that is bad choice of words?

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

Erm! My understanding is that forms of swinging have gone on for centuries, for example the old 'hellfire clubs'...in its current format re availability re clubs/contact mediums, it is a modern development (some would say from USA in the 70's. please correct me if I am wrong)..... Its modern form gives ladies freedom of choice re needs/desires/wants ruined by perpetual messaging from 'less desired males.'

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By *hugwelMan
over a year ago

Jersey


"Contact magazines and letters to box numbers.

"
once told milkmen and postman would exchange names or just addresses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god , I remember being in a magazine. Can't remember the name of it. Used to get a big parcel of letters. Had some fun socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Serious question now, but how did some of the less desireable ladies who never leave their house get any of the action that they get now from the 100s of messages from fab and other sites before the Internet? (Think I was about 16 when I first went on the Internet so 20 years ago)

And how did people heat about stingers clubs and where they are?? "

It was a much nicer place back then.. and it was word of mouth.. invite only... or you had enough imagination and balls to go find it.

laybys and carparks had secret dogging spots.. now they're all car parks of no men waiting on couples and scare em off the second they approach.. truckers knew the score and were often objects of desire to dogging couples believe it or not..

instead of Knights of the Road.. we're now relegated into serial killerdom.

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

Yep! Contact magazines and P.O. boxes pre-internet

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I never set out to look for nsa sex back then, I just had relationships!

Well, almost never.........

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

The Frisky Mare diaries could make avid reading!

Do it! They may even make a movie, you could make a fortune

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Serious question now, but how did some of the less desireable ladies who never leave their house get any of the action that they get now from the 100s of messages from fab and other sites before the Internet? (Think I was about 16 when I first went on the Internet so 20 years ago)

And how did people heat about stingers clubs and where they are??

It was a much nicer place back then.. and it was word of mouth.. invite only... or you had enough imagination and balls to go find it.

laybys and carparks had secret dogging spots.. now they're all car parks of no men waiting on couples and scare em off the second they approach.. truckers knew the score and were often objects of desire to dogging couples believe it or not..

instead of Knights of the Road.. we're now relegated into serial killerdom."

I had a German girlfriend who got me into it and was in Germany.. so My experience may differ.

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By *aturewomanlover OP   Man
over a year ago

Uttox

Thanks for the CONSTRUCTIVE answers folks. It does sound a bit more fun from the mags and po boxes an word of mouth clubs

That's why I think clubs are good. No phones allowed means people speak to each other instead of normal pubs where all the women are glued to their snap chat!

Any minute now kinky minx is goin remind us all on again for the God knows what time about the word undesirables I used......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably the same way the less desirable men did it I would imagine. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Contact magazines and letters to box numbers.

"

I remember one called Rendezvous

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Any minute now kinky minx is goin remind us all on again for the God knows what time about the word undesirables I used...... "

You posted it, expect comments

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By *aturewomanlover OP   Man
over a year ago

Uttox


"Any minute now kinky minx is goin remind us all on again for the God knows what time about the word undesirables I used......

You posted it, expect comments "

Posted what? You'll have remind me AGAIN. I need a bigger net didn't realise how many I'd catch

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By *aturewomanlover OP   Man
over a year ago

Uttox


"Contact magazines and letters to box numbers.

I remember one called Rendezvous "

Lol so were they just top shelf mags in the local newsagents?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Contact magazines and letters to box numbers.

I remember one called Rendezvous

Lol so were they just top shelf mags in the local newsagents? "

Yep

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Contact magazines and letters to box numbers.

I remember one called Rendezvous

Lol so were they just top shelf mags in the local newsagents? "

No. I used to work for a publication that had contact ads at the back. It wasn't top shelf.

Some guys would send all sorts in to the box numbers

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

Way to go OP...

Off back to the man cave...

I'm saying nothing more

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Any minute now kinky minx is goin remind us all on again for the God knows what time about the word undesirables I used......

You posted it, expect comments

Posted what? You'll have remind me AGAIN. I need a bigger net didn't realise how many I'd catch"

Happy to, you said "less desireable ladies who never leave their house".

And I commented on your faux pas. And I know it was a faux pas because you've since back tracked

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By *aturewomanlover OP   Man
over a year ago

Uttox


"Contact magazines and letters to box numbers.

I remember one called Rendezvous

Lol so were they just top shelf mags in the local newsagents?

Yep "

Lol imagine goin in the shop and buying it.

Not as discreet as logging in on here

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Contact magazines and letters to box numbers.

I remember one called Rendezvous

Lol so were they just top shelf mags in the local newsagents?

Yep

Lol imagine goin in the shop and buying it.

Not as discreet as logging in on here "

The newsagent wouldn't bat an eyelid.

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By *irtygirl11Couple
over a year ago

East Cheshire

Rendezvous was the main contact mag...came out bi-monthly. It could take weeks to arrange a meet. Makes us feel old.

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By *osco78Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Rendezvous was the main contact mag...came out bi-monthly. It could take weeks to arrange a meet. Makes us feel old.

"

My parents used to read this, not something for. Mentioning over Sunday lunch.

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By *aturewomanlover OP   Man
over a year ago

Uttox


"Rendezvous was the main contact mag...came out bi-monthly. It could take weeks to arrange a meet. Makes us feel old.

"

Weeks??! About same amount of time if not quicker as on here then

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

adds on the back of the loot news paper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well for us, we used to get ad mag or Escort or Forum magazine, it was very strange as in those days we used toi have to go out and WALK ( good god the exercise we used to get ) to the village shop, I know its very strange, but we used to hand real money over to buy things called magazines.

We would browse through the ads and then get something called paper and a writing implement called a pen, reply to the ad, enclose a couple of discreet photos and then put it in another paper thing called an envelope.

Once this was done, we had to write an actual address to something called a box office number and then put a tiny square thing called a stamp on the right hand corner.

yet more excersize was need to walk again to a thing which was painted red that stood on the street, this had a slot in and we would push this envelope into it and what was the miracle of it all, some guy used to collect it and it would get delivered to a slot in another couples house and they would hopefully start the process all over again.

It was all a miracle really..

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By *aturewomanlover OP   Man
over a year ago

Uttox


"well for us, we used to get ad mag or Escort or Forum magazine, it was very strange as in those days we used toi have to go out and WALK ( good god the exercise we used to get ) to the village shop, I know its very strange, but we used to hand real money over to buy things called magazines.

We would browse through the ads and then get something called paper and a writing implement called a pen, reply to the ad, enclose a couple of discreet photos and then put it in another paper thing called an envelope.

Once this was done, we had to write an actual address to something called a box office number and then put a tiny square thing called a stamp on the right hand corner.

yet more excersize was need to walk again to a thing which was painted red that stood on the street, this had a slot in and we would push this envelope into it and what was the miracle of it all, some guy used to collect it and it would get delivered to a slot in another couples house and they would hopefully start the process all over again.

It was all a miracle really.."

I half think your taking the piss out of me but at the same time all those things will be if not almost already a thing of the past that's why I asked the question as for me I'd of never of thought of goin clubs without joining on here.

'Enclosed a couple of discreet photos' I bet this is where some people struggled even more back in the day, risking sending photos, you know the ones who even now haven't got any photos on their phone to send! Or send you a blurry face pic that they remove from the message after 5 seconds!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Serious question now, but how did some of the less desireable ladies who never leave their house get any of the action that they get now from the 100s of messages from fab and other sites before the Internet? (Think I was about 16 when I first went on the Internet so 20 years ago)

And how did people heat about stingers clubs and where they are?? "

They waved a hanky out of their bedroom window or invited the postman / milk man/ plumber etc in for a cuppa tea or stuck to fucking the lodger/husband.

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop


"well for us, we used to get ad mag or Escort or Forum magazine, it was very strange as in those days we used toi have to go out and WALK ( good god the exercise we used to get ) to the village shop, I know its very strange, but we used to hand real money over to buy things called magazines.

We would browse through the ads and then get something called paper and a writing implement called a pen, reply to the ad, enclose a couple of discreet photos and then put it in another paper thing called an envelope.

Once this was done, we had to write an actual address to something called a box office number and then put a tiny square thing called a stamp on the right hand corner.

yet more excersize was need to walk again to a thing which was painted red that stood on the street, this had a slot in and we would push this envelope into it and what was the miracle of it all, some guy used to collect it and it would get delivered to a slot in another couples house and they would hopefully start the process all over again.

It was all a miracle really.."

Sounds like a 'Flintstones' scenario

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Contact magazines like Experience, Vibrations etc

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Very derrogative words there about women OP!

What is a Stingers club?

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill

Escort contacts... those were dark, desperate days. So slow and but to be fair probably more productive as it took a bit of effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We used Rendezvous a few times

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