FabSwingers.com forum: Sex with guys without husband

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My husband asked me to go out meet a guy if I fancy him take him to hotel and fuck him.then when he has gone husband will return to room then I have to tell him all the details. I have had sex with other guys while husband is there watching and or joining in .but I feel I would be cheating on him if he wasn't there but it is his wish and I would love to do it for him.cheating or not what do you think?????

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By *ere2pleasureUMan
over a year ago

Kington

Not cheating at all. My previous partner and I did this and both of us loved it. So so horny!

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Not at all cheating! We do it all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not cheating at all...I love the idea of my hubby taking a woman showing her a great time and then filling me in with all the details! The problem is finding a lady willing to play with a married man!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Sounds perfect to me. What a wonderful husband you have!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as your both happy and both agree then why not.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

What a fantastic scenario, I stay in hotels every week and would love to meet a woman at the bar, leading to great sex and maybe knowing this role play is happening.

Or would you not tell the guy about your reasons and that hubby knows ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If all agree then why not

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Certainly not cheating if you have agreed to the scenario in advance

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Not at all cheating! We do it all the time

I agree completely with Elcee and surely it's only if your husband isn't aware of what your upto and it's the lies and deceit associated with it

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think you should do it if you both want to but I don't think you should do it if you're not comfortable with it. We all want to please our partners but our opinion isn't worth a light its what the two of you agree on that counts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I personally wouldn't see that scenario as cheating.

However, I'm sure he wouldn't wish you to do anything you weren't 100% comfortable with, regardless of consent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I personally wouldn't see that scenario as cheating.

However, I'm sure he wouldn't wish you to do anything you weren't 100% comfortable with, regardless of consent. "

This

MrP and I play separately sometimes and we really enjoy telling each other and then having our own wonderful sex session

We haven't always done this it is a decent development x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really classed as cheating because he knows what is going to happen where and when, My wife and I meet others separately with full knowledge of who we are with and even a few times ive spoken with the guy she is meeting on the phone while she has been giving him a bj which is very surreal lol

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

It's not cheating , but you both have to want it as much as each other .

To do it and regret it would be awful , so just be sure .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you both agree is no cheating at all.

You might record the meeting and show it to him, I used to do that with my previous gf and was great x

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

It's only cheating if you are doing it behind his back. As you would be doing it with his consent I say it is not cheating.

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By *olonel_kurtzMan
over a year ago

JOHNSTONE

Just a pity you didn't stay in glasgow xx

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

100% not cheating. He wants you to do it and you want to do it for him. Do you want to do it for yourself? If yes, crack on and have a great time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been apart of this scene once it was very horny knowing the husband was gonna get off knowing what we had done as she described step by step .....mmmmmmm memorys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been apart of this scene once it was very horny knowing the husband was gonna get off knowing what we had done as she described step by step .....mmmmmmm memorys

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

you take that chance girl x you will love it eventually x then it will lead to other sexy adventure x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have done this once, and to be honest I Ryan didn't enjoy it, despite been in contact all the way through, including pictures i just felt sick all night until I knew she was on her own again, 1 fantasy that wasn't anywhere near in reality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not cheating at all. Linda meets her regular FB at our house while I am at work. It is such a turn on going home to hear what they did and re enact. Very horny for the both of us and the FB has no complaints....win...win...win situation

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By *u4rFunMan
over a year ago

wigan

Go for it x he obviously is getting a Buzz from it x and I've no doubt you will enjoy the anticipation , excitement , ecstasy and sexual arousal of the meet . But most important of all choose your guy carefully, be safe and your hubby must know where you are at all the time x x x ENJOY

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Its as exciting as hell, a great buzz for us both too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you should do it if you both want to but I don't think you should do it if you're not comfortable with it. We all want to please our partners but our opinion isn't worth a light its what the two of you agree on that counts."

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Not cheating if your husband knows what you are doing and is happy, however, if you don't feel comfortable doing it then don't do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't any of you people appear to be near me??????!!!!!

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By *u4rFunMan
over a year ago

wigan

So true lol why none near me also ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that you've answered your own question -

Regardless of anything else, if somewhere inside you instinctively feel that it's cheating - then it is, and you are knowingly taking a step that could eventually break your marriage.

Don't let sex rule your heart - stick to your standards and don't do it unless or until you are sure in your own mind that it is something that you really want to do for your own reasons.

Experience talking......!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both did it... so horny esp if picture are sent too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it wouldnt be considered cheating in the main by the community here but our opinion doesnt matter. If you don't feel you want to do something, and are doing something to please someone else that is going to make you uncomfortable, then you really need to have further discussion. I've seen too many couples in this game where one is being pressured into doing something by their partner. It's an unhappy scenario...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is how we play often and we love it she love the excitement of doing it and the sex we have after is mind blowing

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By *arleyfanCouple
over a year ago

Dover

We play seperately and together, not cheating at all.

To us cheating would be taking a partner then not telling. My OH has promised to have a meet with a guy one day and then message me out of the blue with pics while I am at work and wants me to do the same.

I somehow think she will be the first one to manage it lol

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By *u4rFunMan
over a year ago

wigan

Mixed opinions and all good valid points being raised x x

Be SURE

' ' SAFE

Both be happy with it , any doubt follow another path , lots of fun scenarios to be had x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it.

I used to have my own personal cd/sub/slave to come to my house and so my ironing whilst my partner was at work. Partner loved to know the details. He even came up when my partner was sleeping from Nightshift! So so exciting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go for it.

Do my ironing and other tasks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that you've answered your own question -

Regardless of anything else, if somewhere inside you instinctively feel that it's cheating - then it is, and you are knowingly taking a step that could eventually break your marriage.

Don't let sex rule your heart - stick to your standards and don't do it unless or until you are sure in your own mind that it is something that you really want to do for your own reasons.

Experience talking......!

The most sensible post in this thread in my view. When we're horny all of these ideas can seem exciting, but everyone should think about this carefully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not cheating at all.

My wife has played with fellas while I have been working the late shift at work.

Loads of text messages from her and pics starting with what she was wearing for the meeting etc.

It's a very horny experience, she's always home by the time I finish work and then I ravish her.

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By *ickey and MinnieCouple
over a year ago

South of Bath

We like to do this but with Mickey meeting alone then coming home to me and telling me all about it

Gets me so turned on

Minnie x

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

You both have to want it for it to be horny

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By *addiesgirl84Woman
over a year ago

liverpool

it not cheating but dont do it if you dont want...

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

Love to help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not cheating, my partner would love me to do this too, however I have reservations as for me swinging is something we do together, I have no desire to fuck a random bloke on my own without D.

So I would say, if you're happy, go for it, if you're not, dont!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to do this with a woman then go meet the husband and tell him all about it while i tease his cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As mentioned he suggested it so its not cheating.

I met a woman in the same position i booked the hotel room and he even dropped her off and picked her up, she just took some pics and text him occasionaly to tell him what we were doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Live video would've been better

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"Not cheating, my partner would love me to do this too, however I have reservations as for me swinging is something we do together, I have no desire to fuck a random bloke on my own without D.

So I would say, if you're happy, go for it, if you're not, dont!

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Probably the best advice and very well put...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Live video would've been better

Happy to send you whatever you want lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great thread

Definitely not cheating as you are both fully aware of the situation

We have a slightly similar scenario where we have met the same guy on 3 separate occasions and all at hotel rooms

Myself and the guy would like my wife to meet him alone but she feels it's cheating

Personally I think it's due to them having a Dom/Sub relationship and she may be worried that boundaries will be pushed if she meets him alone

It is hugely exciting to think about but I'd never push my wife in that direction as I get more excited when she comes to me and asks if she can do something

Maybe you need to meet a guy a few times with all present and have some fun

Then things could move towards a one to one meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't feel comfortable with it and wouldn't do it. I don't see the point if Mr isn't there x

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By *erkshire7274Couple
over a year ago

Bracknell

Definitely not cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow ideal I want to find a couple like this!

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

It's not cheating as he has given consent, but I would say only do it if you actually want to do it, not just to please him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't feel comfortable with it and wouldn't do it. I don't see the point if Mr isn't there x"

Mr is there... if not in body but in spirit. Meeting separately as a couple is completely different from meeting separately as singles because there's a whole world of mis-en-scene (people waiting off stage) that adds enormously to the kink. It just wouldn't be the same if they weren't there

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

If he has given his consent then you aren't cheating.

BUT if you feel like you are cheating then don't do it. Never do anything you aren't comfortable with, even if he is 100% behind you.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

Not cheating at all as per hubbys request this is how I do all my meets & we have been doing it over twenty years now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't feel comfortable with it and wouldn't do it. I don't see the point if Mr isn't there x

That's great that it works for you but it would do absolutely nothing for me. Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd love to meet couples were we have the option of playing as a four on one occasion and then playing separately as any other combination of 2/3/4 at other times. As a fwb couple though need to be very very aware of a 'real' couples emotional needs as well though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I arranged for a guy we had played with before to visit her while I as away great fun was had by all, will do it again if opportunity arises

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Totally agree here. If it feels like cheating to you, even with his express permission then maybe right now isnt the right time? As for our definition, provided all are in the know then it's fair game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We'd love to meet couples were we have the option of playing as a four on one occasion and then playing separately as any other combination of 2/3/4 at other times. As a fwb couple though need to be very very aware of a 'real' couples emotional needs as well though."

Us too. We love the idea of fluid relaxed sexual friendships

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I arranged for a guy we had played with before to visit her while I as away great fun was had by all, will do it again if opportunity arises"

How did you have great fun if you were away?

Where were you - Disneyland???

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"No, I personally wouldn't see that scenario as cheating.

However, I'm sure he wouldn't wish you to do anything you weren't 100% comfortable with, regardless of consent. "

Exactly what miss heels said.

You have to be 100% on board first.

Jools love's it she even has her own profile to meet guy's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done this with my hubby, it turns him on

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By *rben112Man
over a year ago

worcester

Love it!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I arranged for a guy we had played with before to visit her while I as away great fun was had by all, will do it again if opportunity arises

How did you have great fun if you were away?

Where were you - Disneyland???"
comedian oh well we were on the phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on how you both view the matter. If you both see this as nothing other than sex in order to spice things up between you, then it's not cheating, then it's just you and him getting off on a phantasy.

I have been in a similar situation, where my (ex) husband wanted the same. He however didn't love me. He saw me as commodity and as such wanted nothing more than share a bird with other guys. I on the other hand did it to please him, so it wasn't an equal playing field. I would tell him what was going on, as he seemed to get off on it, that was until I met a guy who turned out to be the love of my life on here. Then I stopped sharing what went on, making up the stories based on what I knew got his rocks off. It was so easy as he was so predictable.

My point is, you have to be able to trust one another 100%. As long as you both know that your hearts belong to each other, it won't feel like cheating, believe me, but I would advise, if there's a tiny doubt in either of your minds, don't do it as it will ultimately break you.

Still, it's about you BOTH having fun, so be open with each other; talk about your worries about this, but most importantly, have fun as that is what it's meant to be for all involved.

Good luck xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I do enjoy playing but only have orgasms with my hubby he think it is the pressure of him been there so if I was to play with a guy without him I might let go and have more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to play with a married man whose wife knew we were meeting... she initiated the first meet. What I didn't know is that their rules were he could only ever meet each other people once to stop there being an attraction or connection.

We met several times over 3 months until he confessed that he shouldn't have been meeting with me.

They eventually split as she was bending that one meet rule herself. He found out they split and he came back to me for a few more meets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Meeting the same guy would definitely feel like I was cheating that sounds more like a open relationship gone wrong.a 1off chance meeting I would consider not someone we know and I would not have contact with him again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My husband asked me to go out meet a guy if I fancy him take him to hotel and fuck him.then when he has gone husband will return to room then I have to tell him all the details. I have had sex with other guys while husband is there watching and or joining in .but I feel I would be cheating on him if he wasn't there but it is his wish and I would love to do it for him.cheating or not what do you think?????"
technically not cheating but for me somewhere in my head it wouldn't be right... I know some couples do.. infact we used to but now it doesnt sit right... ( although ive never been into meeting 121) to me thats personal

If you dont feel right then don't do it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds perfect to me. What a wonderful husband you have!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have done this twice with a guy G used to work with, was so horny the after sex hearing all about what they did to each other still makes us horny now lol this is what got us into the scene and would love to do it again but maybe with a couple as most of the guys we've arranged meets with do no shows !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do married women find this as much as a turn on as the lucky guy who gets to have his way with her ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have done this twice with a guy G used to work with, was so horny the after sex hearing all about what they did to each other still makes us horny now lol this is what got us into the scene and would love to do it again but maybe with a couple as most of the guys we've arranged meets with do no shows !!! "

Hmmmm well that's thier loss, I definitely would show if a meet was organised G is very sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not cheating if you both agree , I'd love my Mrs to try this, report back with pics and vids

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By *jr123Man
over a year ago

oldham

"I think that you've answered your own question -

Regardless of anything else, if somewhere inside you instinctively feel that it's cheating - then it is, and you are knowingly taking a step that could eventually break your marriage.

Don't let sex rule your heart - stick to your standards and don't do it unless or until you are sure in your own mind that it is something that you really want to do for your own reasons.

Experience talking......!

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By *jr123Man
over a year ago

oldham

"it wouldnt be considered cheating in the main by the community here but our opinion doesnt matter. If you don't feel you want to do something, and are doing something to please someone else that is going to make you uncomfortable, then you really need to have further discussion. I've seen too many couples in this game where one is being pressured into doing something by their partner. It's an unhappy scenario..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not cheating, my partner would love me to do this too, however I have reservations as for me swinging is something we do together, I have no desire to fuck a random bloke on my own without D.

So I would say, if you're happy, go for it, if you're not, dont!

Probably the best advice and very well put...

Agreed!

This is not cheating.

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By *jr123Man
over a year ago

oldham

"I think that you've answered your own question -

Regardless of anything else, if somewhere inside you instinctively feel that it's cheating - then it is, and you are knowingly taking a step that could eventually break your marriage.

Don't let sex rule your heart - stick to your standards and don't do it unless or until you are sure in your own mind that it is something that you really want to do for your own reasons.

Experience talking......!

The most sensible post in this thread in my view. When we're horny all of these ideas can seem exciting, but everyone should think about this carefully"

If it's what you BOTH want to. Go for it. If you have any doubts at all just stay as you are.

Maybe try it with your other half in the same building but not too close and see how that feels.

Stay safe

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want to cheat which this clearly is, it's up to you it's your choice not his. Looks like there is no love or respect for one another here. If he doesn't satisfy you find somebody else and stop playing mind fuck games.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you want to cheat which this clearly is, it's up to you it's your choice not his. Looks like there is no love or respect for one another here. If he doesn't satisfy you find somebody else and stop playing mind fuck games. "
erm... where did you get the idea that a) its cheating.. b) no respect and c) mind games

Oh and why does wanting sex with others mean our own partners dont satisfy us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

which thread have you been reading?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on for two weeks and all of a sudden you know it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've often played with Couples in cuckhold scenarios with or without the husband present if applicable agree there is nothing wrong in fucking someone else one on one or in separate rooms it's fucking horny big turn on!!

I love fucking Guys wives and Fems whileat work or working away and doing pics and videos for his a!usrment or acting out afantadu for the own fun!!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

The Resurrection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U can have mine if I can join in xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grant his wishes lol did it take alot of pursuing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that you've answered your own question -

Regardless of anything else, if somewhere inside you instinctively feel that it's cheating - then it is, and you are knowingly taking a step that could eventually break your marriage.

Don't let sex rule your heart - stick to your standards and don't do it unless or until you are sure in your own mind that it is something that you really want to do for your own reasons.

Experience talking......!

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

South

Not cheating at all to the OP.

As Long as everything is out in the open and you're both open to the idea then you should go for it.

At least try it once, discuss what happened and decide if you want to do it again.

Me and partner decided that I should meet ladies/couples on my own as it's something she loves me to do so that's why I've got a singles account.

I tell what happens during the meet and take pics and vids too so we look back on the action.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever makes you both happy. At least you've chatted about it and know how you both feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very erotic definitely not cheating . Why not just go to a club and go in a room while your guys waits at the bar ? You might be more comfortable with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"very erotic definitely not cheating . Why not just go to a club and go in a room while your guys waits at the bar ? You might be more comfortable with that

I have done this a few times with couples, althogh not at a club, at a Hotel. I meet them both in the hotel bar, we have a drink, chat and flirt. The wife and I will then go upstairs to the room while hubby waits at the bar. The thrill for both husband and wife being there and for hubby knowing his wife is in the room at that moment is huge!

The sex after is electric for the couple too!

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

Happy to help with or without your hubby present. Does that help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is a fantasy of mine...

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"That is a fantasy of mine...

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Do you think you'd like to make it a reality or keep it fantasy for now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be more than happy for the wife to do this, in fact I encourage it. The only condition is that she brings back some photos/video and tells me all about it. Such a turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Mrs loves doing it. I love hearing about it too. She even sends me videos and photos. It ain't cheating if you both consent. To me cheating implies sneaking around behind the others back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not entirely sure if one could call it cheating if it's consensual by all parties but..

The bottom line is, if it doesn't feel right, then it's not right.

Good luck x

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