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Ever regretted turning down a meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have you ever turned someone down, only to regret it later after reading their verifications or seeing newer pics on their profile?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not many single men would do that..lol

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

Quite the opposite I've seen more pictures and been glad I didn't go there

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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only ever regretted meeting someone when i see who they meet after me, i seem to really lower some mens standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More times than I care to think about. I am not very often able to accept invitations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did a runner from a meet in a pub lol. The lady I was meeting looked stunning. But there was this guy at the back of the pub she kept on turning and looking at. then she was on her phone every 5 mins. Constantly back and forth to the toilet. So we barely got the conversation flowing. She then demanded I get another drink for her on her way to her 3rd trip to the toilet. At this point did think maybe she has weak bladder. But it didnt feel right so I did a runner. I now regret it because she was playing a hot wife scenario with her partner. He was watching her from the back of the pub. It could of should of ended up anazingly if only she had informed me first lol.

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By *layful Couple For YouCouple
over a year ago

Lust

Yes, turned down a couple based on the face pics they sent us. A few months later we spotted them at a club and they were both 'stunning', felt far too embarrassed to go and introduce ourselves though. Goes to show that a pic just gives you a snapshot of someone, just showing an instant rather than capturing the dynamic of the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont regret any of the times I have said no.... There was always a reason.... Equaly, don't regret any sexual encounters I went through with...... Life is to short to do things you know you will regret, or to spend time on second guessing yourself after. ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Only regretted one time. When I was a newbie and turned down a MFMF! Dam I wish I hadn't. I was just too shy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had the opportunity on here...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Never.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I did a runner from a meet in a pub lol. The lady I was meeting looked stunning. But there was this guy at the back of the pub she kept on turning and looking at. then she was on her phone every 5 mins. Constantly back and forth to the toilet. So we barely got the conversation flowing. She then demanded I get another drink for her on her way to her 3rd trip to the toilet. At this point did think maybe she has weak bladder. But it didnt feel right so I did a runner. I now regret it because she was playing a hot wife scenario with her partner. He was watching her from the back of the pub. It could of should of ended up anazingly if only she had informed me first lol. "

It was unfair of them not to tell you in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. My gut instinct never lets me down

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

A double regret. New on here and invited to a house party... kind of declined as a bit intimidated as they were gorgeous and clearly knew the ropes.... 2 years on they re appeared and went to their house for a social... we misread each other and left thinking each other unsure... but in car both said would love to have played.... live and learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ya i would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. There's usually a reason I turn down a meet. My gut instinct has kept me going for nearly 40 years. I always go with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Have you ever turned someone down, only to regret it later after reading their verifications or seeing newer pics on their profile?

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My regrets are sometimes not persusing things enough. Sometimes you get chattting to somebody and they are not very chatty back. You are unsure if that is shyness or their way of saying piss off lol.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Have you ever turned someone down, only to regret it later after reading their verifications or seeing newer pics on their profile?

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I once left a meet before we started play as it was obvious the woman was only doing it to please her man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope - would only turn down with good reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined and was too nervous to go round

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Only regret not flirting with someone once but that ships sailed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. But I did meet someone I had previously said no thank you too, and am glad I did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

more like missed opportunities

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By *iSubSlutWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

no regrets here, onward and upward

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

Not keen on regrets. They steal your here and now. And what was a regret back then is almost always a relief now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, have met enough gems not to be concerned about what we might be missing.

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