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By *idrandom94 OP   Man
over a year ago

southend

I am all for loving of all ages but i'm starting to notice as a younger bloke (22) my message count is significantly lower than if i were say ten years older.

Not that this bothers me but I did wonder as I was curious, is it because;

A) I'm seen as having too little experience

B) You prefer men of similar age

C) I'm just unlucky

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP how do you know that you receive fewer messages than a man 10 years older?

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By *idrandom94 OP   Man
over a year ago

southend

Literally just because there are a few blokes in my area that have messaged me and we got chatting

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Literally just because there are a few blokes in my area that have messaged me and we got chatting "

Ok. Have they actually shown you their overflowing inbox in person when you meet up for a pint or did they just tell you about it and you believed them?

Believe it or not they could just be bullshitting you .

Very few men on fab receive lots of messages of ladies and couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't worry my message box is booming with more blokes than women. consider yourself lucky mate haha

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By *idrandom94 OP   Man
over a year ago

southend


"Literally just because there are a few blokes in my area that have messaged me and we got chatting

Ok. Have they actually shown you their overflowing inbox in person when you meet up for a pint or did they just tell you about it and you believed them?

Believe it or not they could just be bullshitting you .

Very few men on fab receive lots of messages of ladies and couples."

What! Blokes bullshitting about being better than they are. Never

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I think it depends on the age group you are looking for.

But at my age, yes you would be far to young for me and therefore would be a waste of your time not adhering to reading profiles and their preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am all for loving of all ages but i'm starting to notice as a younger bloke (22) my message count is significantly lower than if i were say ten years older.

Not that this bothers me but I did wonder as I was curious, is it because;

A) I'm seen as having too little experience

B) You prefer men of similar age

C) I'm just unlucky"

Personally I think if you were to look at the average couple age or even to an extent single women you are possibly you enough to be their son...whilst that will appeal to some it won't be all xx

Just an observation on my part

Mrs K

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Patience......you too will be old one day!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

B for me,prefer my age give or take a few years

Miss

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

If we were meeting privately (which we aren't at the moment) I'd go 20 years down to 5 years up (35 - 60). Someone as young as 22 would be around my youngest child's age and only 3 years older than my eldest GRANDchild so it'd be a massive no-no from me.

Plenty of people like playing with young guys so with patience and perseverance, you'll find the right match

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By *rMrs CumalotCouple
over a year ago

East Mids

I (mr) started at 18, I honestly don't think your age is an issue!! Go to parties and club events!

Look for cub nights etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine would be B OP. It's not about assuming a 22 year old is inexperienced. I'm nearly a decade out of your age range, so you understand that you also have limits on the ages of people you'd like to meet , just like most do on here.

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

I'm going with the age-old (pun intended) option D) you're probably around the age of most folks' kids.

We would, and have gone as young as OP however our eldest is a mere 4 years younger

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS


"I am all for loving of all ages but i'm starting to notice as a younger bloke (22) my message count is significantly lower than if i were say ten years older.

Not that this bothers me but I did wonder as I was curious, is it because;

A) I'm seen as having too little experience

B) You prefer men of similar age

C) I'm just unlucky"

Remember that the first thing that people see of you is your profile.

Maybe that is your problem.

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