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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello you lovely lot!

So it's my husbands ultimate fantasy to have a mmf threesome, we lniw what we want & don't want etc I'm quite a nervous person & was wondering how you get over the nerves we have had a social with a brilliant guy who I felt complety comfortable with I'm just wondering how to take the next step, no experience in this crazy side of life although many years ago I was in a ffm threesome help the wife out peeps ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start slowly and maybe over a sexy game ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's actually a really good idea thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's actually a really good idea thank you! "

Make sure your mr makes the other guy comfortable and encourages play with you too x

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By *ehnicussmMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

Go for a drink first, make it confortable, get to know eachother, than if it's ok you move on... (just a thought)

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Go to a club many single men at most clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go to a club many single men at most clubs"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was thinking of a club but then got put off by the fact women may come on to my husband or I've also heard not many singly guys are allowed into clubs correct me if I'm wrong I'm a total nervous newbie X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I didn't think a lot of sole men could go to clubs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was thinking of a club but then got put off by the fact women may come on to my husband or I've also heard not many singly guys are allowed into clubs correct me if I'm wrong I'm a total nervous newbie X "

You would attract a lot of attention judging by your pictures

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

Lots of alcohol solves everything

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lots of alcohol solves everything "
think I'd need a bottle .... Or two ????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello you lovely lot!

So it's my husbands ultimate fantasy to have a mmf threesome, we lniw what we want & don't want etc I'm quite a nervous person & was wondering how you get over the nerves we have had a social with a brilliant guy who I felt complety comfortable with I'm just wondering how to take the next step, no experience in this crazy side of life although many years ago I was in a ffm threesome help the wife out peeps ???? "

invite him to yours.. have some drinks.. say nothing is definately on or off the cards and just see where the chat takes you.. but bare in mind.. I'd say in this situation.. it's probably best for the couple to initiate anything physical..

Personally I've no problems starting things off confidence or timing wise.. but if I can't read someone well enough.. Or they seem nervous in an unsure way.. then I ease right off the gas and ask probing sexy questions and flirt a little.. no pressure

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands


"Lots of alcohol solves everything think I'd need a bottle .... Or two ????"

I've only been to a club once and it was my first time ever outside as Lilly so I was absolutely terrified but a few drinks before hand with a group of women that were going helped to put me completely at ease

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good on you!

Obvisly in my situation if always have my husband but it's not him who would be being fucked by a man/men!

Obvisly we are all here for our own reasons and I respect all just a total bag of nerves but I'm really open to try new things and would love to be able to do this for my husband and of course myself ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good on you!

Obvisly in my situation if always have my husband but it's not him who would be being fucked by a man/men!

Obvisly we are all here for our own reasons and I respect all just a total bag of nerves but I'm really open to try new things and would love to be able to do this for my husband and of course myself ??"

I'm

Sure you will both get just as much pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would say don't go to a club for your first experience some guys there can be full on and put you off, plus your not certain to find what you are looking for,

I would also say do not drink if you drink to calm your nerves you tend to drink too much and will ruin the whole experience, the last thing you want is to be d*unk and it all to be a fuzzy memory

If you have already meet a guy and felt happy with him, try and develop that relationship make sure everyone knows the boundaries and go from there, meet in a public place first for a chat and then either back to yours or his, take things slow make sure the guy knows that this is your first time and it needs to go slowly, and just do what you are happy with, don't do anything just to please your partner because it will cause trouble later,

And when happy shut back relax and enjoy the feeling of 2 guys pleasing you and all 3 of you enjoying the situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would say don't go to a club for your first experience some guys there can be full on and put you off, plus your not certain to find what you are looking for,

I would also say do not drink if you drink to calm your nerves you tend to drink too much and will ruin the whole experience, the last thing you want is to be d*unk and it all to be a fuzzy memory

If you have already meet a guy and felt happy with him, try and develop that relationship make sure everyone knows the boundaries and go from there, meet in a public place first for a chat and then either back to yours or his, take things slow make sure the guy knows that this is your first time and it needs to go slowly, and just do what you are happy with, don't do anything just to please your partner because it will cause trouble later,

And when happy shut back relax and enjoy the feeling of 2 guys pleasing you and all 3 of you enjoying the situation"

Shut back?? I clearly mean sit back

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we all get nervous.

I had never done anything like this before so it was a big step to take.

I found a male and female pair of fun friends as I always wanted to try a ffm.

I made sure I liked them both and chatted to them on the phone to see if I trusted them and if they were compatatable.

They seemed lovely and we all got on and we were all sexually attracted to each other so we arranged a social meet with no promises of sex.

I drove there and I was littraly shaking with nerves but I went.We just sat there chatting and after a few minutes of meeting them I felt so at ease and we was all soon laughing like there was no forced conversions.

Less than half a hour later we was in bed fucking like we was trying to do a porno and it was amazing.

My advice is just don't pressure yourself and put your nerves to one side and arrange a meet where there's no promises of sex and just let things happen naturally.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think we all get nervous.

I had never done anything like this before so it was a big step to take.

I found a male and female pair of fun friends as I always wanted to try a ffm.

I made sure I liked them both and chatted to them on the phone to see if I trusted them and if they were compatatable.

They seemed lovely and we all got on and we were all sexually attracted to each other so we arranged a social meet with no promises of sex.

I drove there and I was littraly shaking with nerves but I went.We just sat there chatting and after a few minutes of meeting them I felt so at ease and we was all soon laughing like there was no forced conversions.

Less than half a hour later we was in bed fucking like we was trying to do a porno and it was amazing.

My advice is just don't pressure yourself and put your nerves to one side and arrange a meet where there's no promises of sex and just let things happen naturally.

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Thank you so much it's so kind of you to give me your experiences I think I'm feeling better about it already ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't a lot of clubs have a pool table or something in the lounge? Pick a guy you like the look of, let hubby offer him a game of pool and chat, if hubby thinks he seems decent invite him to the table have a drink a chat then find a room if you both think he's suitable

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Get that guy round again for a few drinks and go with the flow. He'll be the nervous one as the 'extra', you two have each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think we all get nervous.

I had never done anything like this before so it was a big step to take.

I found a male and female pair of fun friends as I always wanted to try a ffm.

I made sure I liked them both and chatted to them on the phone to see if I trusted them and if they were compatatable.

They seemed lovely and we all got on and we were all sexually attracted to each other so we arranged a social meet with no promises of sex.

I drove there and I was littraly shaking with nerves but I went.We just sat there chatting and after a few minutes of meeting them I felt so at ease and we was all soon laughing like there was no forced conversions.

Less than half a hour later we was in bed fucking like we was trying to do a porno and it was amazing.

My advice is just don't pressure yourself and put your nerves to one side and arrange a meet where there's no promises of sex and just let things happen naturally.

Thank you so much it's so kind of you to give me your experiences I think I'm feeling better about it already ??"

Always make sure there the right ones for you.Looks,Personality,Likes,Dislikes.

Then get to know them and even chat on the phone to them.

If you still like them then arrange a social meet with no promises of sex.

If you meet and nothing happens as that spark isn't there then you have lost nothing.

But if it happens naturally it will be perfect as your first experience should be perfect.

Just go with what feels right and don't pressure yourself.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Whether you choose to go to a club or meet someone off here or any means is irrelevant.

My advice is dont overthink it. Your already showing signs of doing this. Be confident in your self. Know what you want. Discuss your plans and needs between the two of you and then subsequently any potential meets.

Then bloody enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for you replies ??????

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish


"Thank you all for you replies ??????"

Take it easy,relax see how you feel and just go with it.I must say you both sound great and you look particularly stunning.Enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take you time to get to know people first before you have the mmf where you start it Start slowly when it comes to having fun. happy swinging to the both of you

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