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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Women who like hairier or chubby men that do like all men’s cock size are there any on this site those who do not like these types of people please to not comment thanks.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Women who like hairier or chubby men that do like all men’s cock size are there any on this site those who do not like these types of people please to not comment thanks. "

You cannot dictate who can comment on threads, this is an open forum.

There will be many people who find chubby/hairy men attractive but not every single one! Just because someone likes that type, does not mean they will like all men of that type.

Some will find that type completely unattractive but will still play with them as they find other things about that man more attractive,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm gonna comment, just cos I'm an idiot and can.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"I'm gonna comment, just cos I'm an idiot and can. "

Idiot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Women who like hairier or chubby men that do like all men’s cock size are there any on this site those who do not like these types of people please to not comment thanks.

You cannot dictate who can comment on threads, this is an open forum.

There will be many people who find chubby/hairy men attractive but not every single one! Just because someone likes that type, does not mean they will like all men of that type.

Some will find that type completely unattractive but will still play with them as they find other things about that man more attractive,"

oh okay sorry i was only being honest.. if what you say is true everyone would be happy i think my downside is i got my dad bad genes where i am hairier and other things.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Women who like hairier or chubby men that do like all men’s cock size are there any on this site those who do not like these types of people please to not comment thanks.

You cannot dictate who can comment on threads, this is an open forum.

There will be many people who find chubby/hairy men attractive but not every single one! Just because someone likes that type, does not mean they will like all men of that type.

Some will find that type completely unattractive but will still play with them as they find other things about that man more attractive,

oh okay sorry i was only being honest.. if what you say is true everyone would be happy i think my downside is i got my dad bad genes where i am hairier and other things. "

No, that was being honest, that was being demanding or dictatorial.

Rather than moaning and fretting about things you can't change, try changing the things you can.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Women who like hairier or chubby men that do like all men’s cock size are there any on this site those who do not like these types of people please to not comment thanks.

You cannot dictate who can comment on threads, this is an open forum.

There will be many people who find chubby/hairy men attractive but not every single one! Just because someone likes that type, does not mean they will like all men of that type.

Some will find that type completely unattractive but will still play with them as they find other things about that man more attractive,

oh okay sorry i was only being honest.. if what you say is true everyone would be happy i think my downside is i got my dad bad genes where i am hairier and other things.

No, that was being honest, that was being demanding or dictatorial.

Rather than moaning and fretting about things you can't change, try changing the things you can."

*wasnt*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Women who like hairier or chubby men that do like all men’s cock size are there any on this site those who do not like these types of people please to not comment thanks.

You cannot dictate who can comment on threads, this is an open forum.

There will be many people who find chubby/hairy men attractive but not every single one! Just because someone likes that type, does not mean they will like all men of that type.

Some will find that type completely unattractive but will still play with them as they find other things about that man more attractive,

oh okay sorry i was only being honest.. if what you say is true everyone would be happy i think my downside is i got my dad bad genes where i am hairier and other things.

No, that was being honest, that was being demanding or dictatorial.

Rather than moaning and fretting about things you can't change, try changing the things you can.

*wasnt*"
i know i am working on it.. i am real nice guy if you saw me 11 months ago you would not know me i was real chubby

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Women who like hairier or chubby men that do like all men’s cock size are there any on this site those who do not like these types of people please to not comment thanks.

You cannot dictate who can comment on threads, this is an open forum.

There will be many people who find chubby/hairy men attractive but not every single one! Just because someone likes that type, does not mean they will like all men of that type.

Some will find that type completely unattractive but will still play with them as they find other things about that man more attractive,

oh okay sorry i was only being honest.. if what you say is true everyone would be happy i think my downside is i got my dad bad genes where i am hairier and other things.

No, that was being honest, that was being demanding or dictatorial.

Rather than moaning and fretting about things you can't change, try changing the things you can.

*wasnt* i know i am working on it.. i am real nice guy if you saw me 11 months ago you would not know me i was real chubby "

We all know that. You have pictures and you are on the forum talking about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Women who like hairier or chubby men that do like all men’s cock size are there any on this site those who do not like these types of people please to not comment thanks.

You cannot dictate who can comment on threads, this is an open forum.

There will be many people who find chubby/hairy men attractive but not every single one! Just because someone likes that type, does not mean they will like all men of that type.

Some will find that type completely unattractive but will still play with them as they find other things about that man more attractive,

oh okay sorry i was only being honest.. if what you say is true everyone would be happy i think my downside is i got my dad bad genes where i am hairier and other things.

No, that was being honest, that was being demanding or dictatorial.

Rather than moaning and fretting about things you can't change, try changing the things you can.

*wasnt* i know i am working on it.. i am real nice guy if you saw me 11 months ago you would not know me i was real chubby

We all know that. You have pictures and you are on the forum talking about it.

"

ok am i doing it wrong talking about it

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield

there's nothing wrong with talking about it, the issue is telling people who can and can not answer there's no point asking an opinion and then saying only answer if you're going to say what I want to hear

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i actually think it's ok to remind people that commenting you don't like something, on a topic that asks if you like it, is appropriate.

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield

don't get me wrong as a hairy fat bastard I'm hoping everybody say 'yes I love them' lol

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Women who like hairier or chubby men that do like all men’s cock size are there any on this site those who do not like these types of people please to not comment thanks.

You cannot dictate who can comment on threads, this is an open forum.

There will be many people who find chubby/hairy men attractive but not every single one! Just because someone likes that type, does not mean they will like all men of that type.

Some will find that type completely unattractive but will still play with them as they find other things about that man more attractive,

oh okay sorry i was only being honest.. if what you say is true everyone would be happy i think my downside is i got my dad bad genes where i am hairier and other things.

No, that was being honest, that was being demanding or dictatorial.

Rather than moaning and fretting about things you can't change, try changing the things you can.

*wasnt* i know i am working on it.. i am real nice guy if you saw me 11 months ago you would not know me i was real chubby

We all know that. You have pictures and you are on the forum talking about it.

ok am i doing it wrong talking about it"

It's neither right or wrong, I was just commenting on something you said about about loosing weight. We know you're loosing weight, you talk about it and you have some good before and after pictures.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Women who like hairier or chubby men that do like all men’s cock size are there any on this site those who do not like these types of people please to not comment thanks.

You cannot dictate who can comment on threads, this is an open forum.

There will be many people who find chubby/hairy men attractive but not every single one! Just because someone likes that type, does not mean they will like all men of that type.

Some will find that type completely unattractive but will still play with them as they find other things about that man more attractive,

oh okay sorry i was only being honest.. if what you say is true everyone would be happy i think my downside is i got my dad bad genes where i am hairier and other things.

No, that was being honest, that was being demanding or dictatorial.

Rather than moaning and fretting about things you can't change, try changing the things you can.

*wasnt* i know i am working on it.. i am real nice guy if you saw me 11 months ago you would not know me i was real chubby

We all know that. You have pictures and you are on the forum talking about it.

ok am i doing it wrong talking about it

It's neither right or wrong, I was just commenting on something you said about about loosing weight. We know you're loosing weight, you talk about it and you have some good before and after pictures. "

*losing*

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"i actually think it's ok to remind people that commenting you don't like something, on a topic that asks if you like it, is inappropriate.

should say inappropriate, omg. "

Eh?

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"i actually think it's ok to remind people that commenting you don't like something, on a topic that asks if you like it, is inappropriate.

should say inappropriate, omg.

Eh? "

it shouldn't should it haha...seriously being distracted here so badly and i should get off the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey, well done on your weight loss

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey, well done on your weight loss "

thanks that only good thing going for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weight comes first, then your confidence. Try not to be so self deprecating OP. You have come very far ( and another little tip... Not many find someone who puts themselves down all the time very attractive). Embrace the achievements and work on loving yourself for who you are xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Weight comes first, then your confidence. Try not to be so self deprecating OP. You have come very far ( and another little tip... Not many find someone who puts themselves down all the time very attractive). Embrace the achievements and work on loving yourself for who you are xx"

i do love my self so i do not know were you got that idea from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Weight comes first, then your confidence. Try not to be so self deprecating OP. You have come very far ( and another little tip... Not many find someone who puts themselves down all the time very attractive). Embrace the achievements and work on loving yourself for who you are xx

i do love my self so i do not know were you got that idea from "

You do it in practically every thread you put up. Your current status, as it always is... is a down beat one. How many times do you need it suggested to you that being positive and upbeat will yield better results than being negative.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Weight comes first, then your confidence. Try not to be so self deprecating OP. You have come very far ( and another little tip... Not many find someone who puts themselves down all the time very attractive). Embrace the achievements and work on loving yourself for who you are xx

i do love my self so i do not know were you got that idea from "

Every thing I read that you write is self deprecating. You also do a good job of blaming other people for your lack of meets.

There will be someone who wants to meet you, until that happens get rid of the negativity and increase your chances.

Do you live on your own OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've done an amazing job with your weight loss OP, be proud self-confidence is sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have enjoyed the company of several hairy/chubby guys who have also had great personalities and positive attitudes. That, I think is the key here. For me, and I suspect a great many others, it's the whole picture that is important not individual aspects.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Weight comes first, then your confidence. Try not to be so self deprecating OP. You have come very far ( and another little tip... Not many find someone who puts themselves down all the time very attractive). Embrace the achievements and work on loving yourself for who you are xx

i do love my self so i do not know were you got that idea from

Every thing I read that you write is self deprecating. You also do a good job of blaming other people for your lack of meets.

There will be someone who wants to meet you, until that happens get rid of the negativity and increase your chances.

Do you live on your own OP? "

i not negativity i may sound it but i am not and no i do not that the down side not married or have a girlfriend

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You've done an amazing job with your weight loss OP, be proud self-confidence is sexy "

Thanks sexy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have enjoyed the company of several hairy/chubby guys who have also had great personalities and positive attitudes. That, I think is the key here. For me, and I suspect a great many others, it's the whole picture that is important not individual aspects."

that is me all the way but it may not sound it

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Weight comes first, then your confidence. Try not to be so self deprecating OP. You have come very far ( and another little tip... Not many find someone who puts themselves down all the time very attractive). Embrace the achievements and work on loving yourself for who you are xx

i do love my self so i do not know were you got that idea from

Every thing I read that you write is self deprecating. You also do a good job of blaming other people for your lack of meets.

There will be someone who wants to meet you, until that happens get rid of the negativity and increase your chances.

Do you live on your own OP?

i not negativity i may sound it but i am not and no i do not that the down side not married or have a girlfriend "

You continue to miss the point.

You may feel you are a positive, upbeat man and in real life, you may be but nobody wants to find out because on here you post lots of negativity about yourself (apart from your amazing weight loss) and moan about not being given a chance.

In threads that aren't your own, you don't necessarily contribute, you just talk about how you don't get meets.

Now, I have a hunch there is something else going on with you but I have to say, if you join a site like this, you have to be prepared for the hard work no negativity.

The reason that so far, you've not had a meet, is you and taking an honest look at yourself will help you hugely.

Have you been to a social or a club yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Weight comes first, then your confidence. Try not to be so self deprecating OP. You have come very far ( and another little tip... Not many find someone who puts themselves down all the time very attractive). Embrace the achievements and work on loving yourself for who you are xx

i do love my self so i do not know were you got that idea from

Every thing I read that you write is self deprecating. You also do a good job of blaming other people for your lack of meets.

There will be someone who wants to meet you, until that happens get rid of the negativity and increase your chances.

Do you live on your own OP?

i not negativity i may sound it but i am not and no i do not that the down side not married or have a girlfriend

You continue to miss the point.

You may feel you are a positive, upbeat man and in real life, you may be but nobody wants to find out because on here you post lots of negativity about yourself (apart from your amazing weight loss) and moan about not being given a chance.

In threads that aren't your own, you don't necessarily contribute, you just talk about how you don't get meets.

Now, I have a hunch there is something else going on with you but I have to say, if you join a site like this, you have to be prepared for the hard work no negativity.

The reason that so far, you've not had a meet, is you and taking an honest look at yourself will help you hugely.

Have you been to a social or a club yet?"

This lady always gives you good advice OP. She is always supportive of you

And yet you continue to ignore what she says?

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow


"Weight comes first, then your confidence. Try not to be so self deprecating OP. You have come very far ( and another little tip... Not many find someone who puts themselves down all the time very attractive). Embrace the achievements and work on loving yourself for who you are xx

i do love my self so i do not know were you got that idea from

Every thing I read that you write is self deprecating. You also do a good job of blaming other people for your lack of meets.

There will be someone who wants to meet you, until that happens get rid of the negativity and increase your chances.

Do you live on your own OP?

i not negativity i may sound it but i am not and no i do not that the down side not married or have a girlfriend

You continue to miss the point.

You may feel you are a positive, upbeat man and in real life, you may be but nobody wants to find out because on here you post lots of negativity about yourself (apart from your amazing weight loss) and moan about not being given a chance.

In threads that aren't your own, you don't necessarily contribute, you just talk about how you don't get meets.

Now, I have a hunch there is something else going on with you but I have to say, if you join a site like this, you have to be prepared for the hard work no negativity.

The reason that so far, you've not had a meet, is you and taking an honest look at yourself will help you hugely.

Have you been to a social or a club yet?"

This......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Weight comes first, then your confidence. Try not to be so self deprecating OP. You have come very far ( and another little tip... Not many find someone who puts themselves down all the time very attractive). Embrace the achievements and work on loving yourself for who you are xx

i do love my self so i do not know were you got that idea from

Every thing I read that you write is self deprecating. You also do a good job of blaming other people for your lack of meets.

There will be someone who wants to meet you, until that happens get rid of the negativity and increase your chances.

Do you live on your own OP?

i not negativity i may sound it but i am not and no i do not that the down side not married or have a girlfriend

You continue to miss the point.

You may feel you are a positive, upbeat man and in real life, you may be but nobody wants to find out because on here you post lots of negativity about yourself (apart from your amazing weight loss) and moan about not being given a chance.

In threads that aren't your own, you don't necessarily contribute, you just talk about how you don't get meets.

Now, I have a hunch there is something else going on with you but I have to say, if you join a site like this, you have to be prepared for the hard work no negativity.

The reason that so far, you've not had a meet, is you and taking an honest look at yourself will help you hugely.

Have you been to a social or a club yet?

This......"

Predictably OP hasn't returned to the thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women who like hairier or chubby men that do like all men’s cock size are there any on this site those who do not like these types of people please to not comment thanks.

You cannot dictate who can comment on threads, this is an open forum.

There will be many people who find chubby/hairy men attractive but not every single one! Just because someone likes that type, does not mean they will like all men of that type.

Some will find that type completely unattractive but will still play with them as they find other things about that man more attractive,"

I think it's fair enough that a bloke who wants to know which women find hairy/chubby men attractive, prefers not to have the thread filled with 100 people saying "ugh, not me". Since I'd imagine the majority like smooth and in shape, there wouldn't be much space for positive replies.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's a question whereby any answers won't be of any use. Imagine 26 ladies say 'yes, I love hairy, chubby men' - then what? Do they want to meet you? Thats what it boils down to after all.

The thing is, OP, although you say you're a happy positive person, you really don't come across like that all. Your weight loss is good but you only rely on that.

This is an example of things you've said...."One thing going for me is my weight loss which stay at 5 stone 4 pound so far… I know i not prefect but that life for me these days by trying to be my best. Not meeting at this time only chatting due to way i feel and how the people looking at me from their point of view.Oh well my cock is to small then are reading the forum on size which my cock will not get it first British Vagina taste to aroused one i do not lie ....."

Can you see that sometimes what you say is what you think, but not necessarily what a potential sexual sex partner wants to hear?

Be more positive!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Weight comes first, then your confidence. Try not to be so self deprecating OP. You have come very far ( and another little tip... Not many find someone who puts themselves down all the time very attractive). Embrace the achievements and work on loving yourself for who you are xx

i do love my self so i do not know were you got that idea from

Every thing I read that you write is self deprecating. You also do a good job of blaming other people for your lack of meets.

There will be someone who wants to meet you, until that happens get rid of the negativity and increase your chances.

Do you live on your own OP?

i not negativity i may sound it but i am not and no i do not that the down side not married or have a girlfriend

You continue to miss the point.

You may feel you are a positive, upbeat man and in real life, you may be but nobody wants to find out because on here you post lots of negativity about yourself (apart from your amazing weight loss) and moan about not being given a chance.

In threads that aren't your own, you don't necessarily contribute, you just talk about how you don't get meets.

Now, I have a hunch there is something else going on with you but I have to say, if you join a site like this, you have to be prepared for the hard work no negativity.

The reason that so far, you've not had a meet, is you and taking an honest look at yourself will help you hugely.

Have you been to a social or a club yet?"

I see well I apologise for posting those I was being a idiot posting not getting meets at the time not reading what I was posting now I understand it take time and patience. As for going to social or club I am planning it but it take time for me to plan it due to finances being tight and a friend who would go with me but thanks for all the advice really appreciate thank.. I am planning a social meet for my Birthday at my local pub..

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

There's a lady in Chester who organises socials. Do a forum search. You don't need to go with anyone to a club or a social - they won't help you, they will hinder you.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Do they have swinging socials at your local pub OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do they have swinging socials at your local pub OP? "

i do not know its in the centre of town but i going see if i get a little birthday get together there with friends or meet new people via my birthday we see.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Do they have swinging socials at your local pub OP?

i do not know its in the centre of town but i going see if i get a little birthday get together there with friends or meet new people via my birthday we see. "

I see. I thought you meant you were goi g to arrange a swinging social there or go to one that already exists.

Where is the nearest social to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Weight comes first, then your confidence. Try not to be so self deprecating OP. You have come very far ( and another little tip... Not many find someone who puts themselves down all the time very attractive). Embrace the achievements and work on loving yourself for who you are xx

i do love my self so i do not know were you got that idea from

Every thing I read that you write is self deprecating. You also do a good job of blaming other people for your lack of meets.

There will be someone who wants to meet you, until that happens get rid of the negativity and increase your chances.

Do you live on your own OP?

i not negativity i may sound it but i am not and no i do not that the down side not married or have a girlfriend

You continue to miss the point.

You may feel you are a positive, upbeat man and in real life, you may be but nobody wants to find out because on here you post lots of negativity about yourself (apart from your amazing weight loss) and moan about not being given a chance.

In threads that aren't your own, you don't necessarily contribute, you just talk about how you don't get meets.

Now, I have a hunch there is something else going on with you but I have to say, if you join a site like this, you have to be prepared for the hard work no negativity.

The reason that so far, you've not had a meet, is you and taking an honest look at yourself will help you hugely.

Have you been to a social or a club yet?

I see well I apologise for posting those I was being a idiot posting not getting meets at the time not reading what I was posting now I understand it take time and patience. As for going to social or club I am planning it but it take time for me to plan it due to finances being tight and a friend who would go with me but thanks for all the advice really appreciate thank.. I am planning a social meet for my Birthday at my local pub.. "

I think you are getting confused OP with an organised social event and a meet request that you post yourself. I'm not from your area but minimal detective work shows who to contact for information regarding swingers social/group get togethers near you. This is great advice which you should definitely consider and may prove more successful in introducing you to fellow members than a meet request.

If you want to be positive I think it's time to start taking action and not just complaining bitterly and often that you "have no luck". I also think you have a tendency to bring up your past in another country repeatedly which is kind of irrelevant and talk of "British Vagina" or whatever is a tad disrespectful. A lot of members have tried to advise and steer you on a path towards potentially meeting but frustratingly you choose to ignore advice and make excuses. Time to be a big boy and take ownership and lose the negativity. I hope it works out for you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems that people want the escapism from their humdrum lives via meets on fabs... that's why tall muscular gym fit or exotic BBC guys get the meets where as your short chubby beer bellied average joes get little to no interest.

It's not the same for the ladies to have this pressure to be a sexual attractive Adonis that offers untold potential in the bedroom department.

You get lots of highly unhealthy overweight that ssbbw's give the impression that they have the body of a supermodel by not even giving a guy a chance unless he fits the right pigeon hole of being eye candy for them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do they have swinging socials at your local pub OP?

i do not know its in the centre of town but i going see if i get a little birthday get together there with friends or meet new people via my birthday we see.

I see. I thought you meant you were goi g to arrange a swinging social there or go to one that already exists.

Where is the nearest social to you?"

i would love to go to one if their is one close to me that only if some invite me to one that how it works i think

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Do they have swinging socials at your local pub OP?

i do not know its in the centre of town but i going see if i get a little birthday get together there with friends or meet new people via my birthday we see.

I see. I thought you meant you were goi g to arrange a swinging social there or go to one that already exists.

Where is the nearest social to you?

i would love to go to one if their is one close to me that only if some invite me to one that how it works i think "

No, you're wrong. You contact them yourself and ask to go. Be proactive not reactive.

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over a year ago


"Do they have swinging socials at your local pub OP?

i do not know its in the centre of town but i going see if i get a little birthday get together there with friends or meet new people via my birthday we see.

I see. I thought you meant you were goi g to arrange a swinging social there or go to one that already exists.

Where is the nearest social to you?

i would love to go to one if their is one close to me that only if some invite me to one that how it works i think "

Just pluck up some courage and take yourself to a club... honestly it's not that scary and you'll most likely have more success if you manage to talk to people rather than hiding behind a faceless profile on a website.

I really don't understand how a fully grown man can be so scared of visiting a club on his own!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Do they have swinging socials at your local pub OP?

i do not know its in the centre of town but i going see if i get a little birthday get together there with friends or meet new people via my birthday we see.

I see. I thought you meant you were goi g to arrange a swinging social there or go to one that already exists.

Where is the nearest social to you?

i would love to go to one if their is one close to me that only if some invite me to one that how it works i think "

This is what you do...

*Go to the meets section.

*Fill in the search bit according to where you are and when you want to go

*look at what's on offer

*choose one

*follow the instructions given

*turn up.

Socials are occasionally held in swing clubs but most often in a pub or bar. It will be a group of fully clothed people in a public place, having a drink and a natter but with one thing in common...they all call themselves swingers.

Nobody is going to jump your bones, there wont be naked bodies everywhere and all you have to do is buy yourself a drink and chat.

If you really can't do that, you are wasting your time on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do they have swinging socials at your local pub OP?

i do not know its in the centre of town but i going see if i get a little birthday get together there with friends or meet new people via my birthday we see.

I see. I thought you meant you were goi g to arrange a swinging social there or go to one that already exists.

Where is the nearest social to you?

i would love to go to one if their is one close to me that only if some invite me to one that how it works i think

This is what you do...

*Go to the meets section.

*Fill in the search bit according to where you are and when you want to go

*look at what's on offer

*choose one

*follow the instructions given

*turn up.

Socials are occasionally held in swing clubs but most often in a pub or bar. It will be a group of fully clothed people in a public place, having a drink and a natter but with one thing in common...they all call themselves swingers.

Nobody is going to jump your bones, there wont be naked bodies everywhere and all you have to do is buy yourself a drink and chat.

If you really can't do that, you are wasting your time on here.

"

ok i do that then thanks you have nice looking legs

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Do they have swinging socials at your local pub OP?

i do not know its in the centre of town but i going see if i get a little birthday get together there with friends or meet new people via my birthday we see.

I see. I thought you meant you were goi g to arrange a swinging social there or go to one that already exists.

Where is the nearest social to you?

i would love to go to one if their is one close to me that only if some invite me to one that how it works i think

This is what you do...

*Go to the meets section.

*Fill in the search bit according to where you are and when you want to go

*look at what's on offer

*choose one

*follow the instructions given

*turn up.

Socials are occasionally held in swing clubs but most often in a pub or bar. It will be a group of fully clothed people in a public place, having a drink and a natter but with one thing in common...they all call themselves swingers.

Nobody is going to jump your bones, there wont be naked bodies everywhere and all you have to do is buy yourself a drink and chat.

If you really can't do that, you are wasting your time on here.

ok i do that then thanks you have nice looking legs "

Finally, you acknowledge me. Thanks for the compliment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly, there's too many people (mostly single men) who have no idea as to how to approach a sexually awakened female.

They either are too intimidated or think that a succubus woman to be treated with no respect.

It's really quite sad to see how these attitudes still exist in today's society.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do they have swinging socials at your local pub OP?

i do not know its in the centre of town but i going see if i get a little birthday get together there with friends or meet new people via my birthday we see.

I see. I thought you meant you were goi g to arrange a swinging social there or go to one that already exists.

Where is the nearest social to you?

i would love to go to one if their is one close to me that only if some invite me to one that how it works i think

This is what you do...

*Go to the meets section.

*Fill in the search bit according to where you are and when you want to go

*look at what's on offer

*choose one

*follow the instructions given

*turn up.

Socials are occasionally held in swing clubs but most often in a pub or bar. It will be a group of fully clothed people in a public place, having a drink and a natter but with one thing in common...they all call themselves swingers.

Nobody is going to jump your bones, there wont be naked bodies everywhere and all you have to do is buy yourself a drink and chat.

If you really can't do that, you are wasting your time on here.

ok i do that then thanks you have nice looking legs

Finally, you acknowledge me. Thanks for the compliment."
your most welcome with a big teddy bear hug..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about hairy n chubby women lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What about hairy n chubby women lol xx"
i would not know due to not meeting one lol

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By *rongstantineWoman
over a year ago

hull

I adore them. However following the comments on this post from the op is leaving me cold haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit, hairy, chubby guys certainly do catch my eye but it's mostly about personality for me!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Forum troll where are you? We need you back.

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By *oloandsaabWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"It's a question whereby any answers won't be of any use. Imagine 26 ladies say 'yes, I love hairy, chubby men' - then what? Do they want to meet you? Thats what it boils down to after all.

The thing is, OP, although you say you're a happy positive person, you really don't come across like that all. Your weight loss is good but you only rely on that.

This is an example of things you've said...."One thing going for me is my weight loss which stay at 5 stone 4 pound so far… I know i not prefect but that life for me these days by trying to be my best. Not meeting at this time only chatting due to way i feel and how the people looking at me from their point of view.Oh well my cock is to small then are reading the forum on size which my cock will not get it first British Vagina taste to aroused one i do not lie ....."

Can you see that sometimes what you say is what you think, but not necessarily what a potential sexual sex partner wants to hear?

Be more positive! "

Haha at British vagina

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