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"Being a newbie, and a single guy, and not had a verification yet, its seems a bit crazy that some socials dont allow single guys or unverified. Surely a social, by its very nature, is a place to meet and mingle and maybe get verified. Can anyone enlighten me why this is so?" Because an unverified guy is an unknown anomaly. People who organise socials put a great deal of effort into such. Because of this, they want the social to be a success, what makes successful socials are the people that turn up. The people that turn up are regulars on the scene, that attend socials and clubs predominantly. An unverified guy is a risk, a big one, because no one has vouched for you, the social organisers can't prove whether you're a decent guy. I understand that it's a vicious circle for you, how can you get verified when no one will give you a chance right? My advice would be to attend a club, chat to a few people and get verified. This then puts you in a better light for future socials. | |||
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"So basically what your saying is I won't be able to attend majority of socials. Bit crazy really but hey that's life I guess" Start your own social or find a local one that does allow single men or look further afield. | |||
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"So basically what your saying is I won't be able to attend majority of socials. Bit crazy really but hey that's life I guess" Not all socials are like that though, and once you are verified you can attend any you choose. | |||
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"So basically what your saying is I won't be able to attend majority of socials. Bit crazy really but hey that's life I guess" We've been to a few socials, never heard of anyone verified or not being excluded. Very strange. | |||
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"A lot of socials are in regular pubs. Nothing to stop anybody just turning up. We went to one once. It wasn't publically advertised, but word spreads and quite a few single guys turned up. I don't know if many of these guys had any success, as a lot of couples who attend these socials tend to be mainly interested in other couples. Although we did meet a nice guy at that one. Mrs" | |||
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