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By *livia.88 OP   Woman
over a year ago

london

Let's have some fun.

If an extreme sub was a number 1 and an extreme dom was a number 100.

What number are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What happens if you can switch?

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By *livia.88 OP   Woman
over a year ago

london

Then give the two numbers you switch too and from

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By *itofamouthfullMan
over a year ago

cotswolds/herefordshire

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

All depends on who with! Defo not the same for everyone...my master, prob a 3-4ish(I girl needs punished sometimes lol)...anyone else, more like a 50...could go either way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10/90

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By *livia.88 OP   Woman
over a year ago

london

I guess it's all about the switch tonight

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By *itofamouthfullMan
over a year ago

cotswolds/herefordshire

95 Dom just to clarify - no switch!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

42.....there I said it woohoooooo!!! That's probably about right though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my switch personality, personally I think the sub aspect of play gives me perspective on the power and boundaries of being in Dom mode.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only like dominate masculine men i couldn't imagine being with a guy who was the sub. lol

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By *livia.88 OP   Woman
over a year ago

london

It completely depends on my mood tbh anywhere between 10/90

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By *itofamouthfullMan
over a year ago

cotswolds/herefordshire


"It completely depends on my mood tbh anywhere between 10/90"

Hmmm I'd expect 10 or less from you!

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By *iSubSlutWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

17

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By *exy sandra deeWoman
over a year ago

telford

About 14

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's have some fun.

If an extreme sub was a number 1 and an extreme dom was a number 100.

What number are you?"

50 50 but 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So as expected as most people fit the mould.

The girls like being sub

The blokes like being Dom

But a few are deviants and like to break convention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd put myself about 25 - just love submitting to the whims of a dominant woman

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire


"So as expected as most people fit the mould.

The girls like being sub

The blokes like being Dom

But a few are deviants and like to break convention"

Did you have your naughty play date ?

Did you get some delightful and filthy ideas to try out from fab? Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly not, MrsPS hasn't been well and so we had to postpone. Can't wait to reschedule the meet though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

75

I'm assertive and know what I want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

25

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50 I'm a man of fairness

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By *imale38Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

10. I'm a pervy slut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

80+

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I would raise two points, which are in no way a criticism of OP but observation on the topic.

Firstly what do you mean by 'extreme sub' and extreme dom'

A woman may want to be a 50's wife but not want pain. A dom/domme may be high on protocol and low on the pyrotechnics. Someone's idea of being extreme sub is submitting to being gangbanged senseless, whereas sleeping with one other to some may be extreme. Anyway to find out how subby or domly a person is why not just ask people to complete one of the online fetish tests and post the headline figures that would have more objectivity. Mine are on my profile on the site that can't be mentioned.

Secondly I realise there are people who like to be treated, as vanilla society would see it, as abusive in terms of personal treatment. These folk treat their desire as a itch that needs to be scratched and are not looking for an intense personal relationship.

However, to me, using terms like 'extreme' removes the importance of the personal connection between the sub and dom/domme and opens up d/s to being seen as an olympic sport and competition of who can be treated or treat their sub harder, stranger, and weirder, rather than an affectionate connection between two (or more) people and the kink being an expression of that connection.

I love watching a great kink scene, but what makes it great is not the physical action but seeing the connection in the d/s relationship whilst beastly things are done. That's why I love rope. I suppose my point is this; the word 'extreme' makes the kink less personal and if it is not personal is there any point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

61.7 roughly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

According to Bdsmtest. org I'm 98% submissive so it would be 2 for me. But the 2% that isn't sub is pretty damn feisty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol

98% Rigger

83% Dominant

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

in subspace i am 100% sub

i can switch, however Domming for me is non sexual.if im Domme though im pretty strict.

im 97% pet in normal circumstances

1% mofo in the early morning

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