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By *uriousduos OP   Couple
over a year ago

St Leonards

Morning...

Wanted some advice and ask you lovey lot how you decide when it comes to meeting single guys as a couple.

The fantasy that brought us to FAB was to meet a nice single guy for occasional fun. But it seems the strange, weird and downright mental have kinda put us off a bit.

So we wanted to know how do you guys go about choosing? What do you look for and what rings the alarm bells??

Thanks xx

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Morning...

Wanted some advice and ask you lovey lot how you decide when it comes to meeting single guys as a couple.

The fantasy that brought us to FAB was to meet a nice single guy for occasional fun. But it seems the strange, weird and downright mental have kinda put us off a bit.

So we wanted to know how do you guys go about choosing? What do you look for and what rings the alarm bells??

Thanks xx"

Go to a club - you can see and chat with guys before you commit to playing. If you get on you can always meet them again in private. Works well for us.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

We've been doing this exact thing for 5 years. Sometimes we've met as many as 6 different guys in a year. Most turn out to be slightly mental. Some really want to play with your relationship and will have zero respect for your male half. Its not easy, its a minefield. Good luck.

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By *uriousduos OP   Couple
over a year ago

St Leonards


"Morning...

Wanted some advice and ask you lovey lot how you decide when it comes to meeting single guys as a couple.

The fantasy that brought us to FAB was to meet a nice single guy for occasional fun. But it seems the strange, weird and downright mental have kinda put us off a bit.

So we wanted to know how do you guys go about choosing? What do you look for and what rings the alarm bells??

Thanks xx

Go to a club - you can see and chat with guys before you commit to playing. If you get on you can always meet them again in private. Works well for us. "

Thank you... we have been one club a few times, but maybe we need to try a different one as the one we went to, it was quite a party atmosphere and less ability to chat so we didn't really get approached or find the opportunity to approach others...

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By *uriousduos OP   Couple
over a year ago

St Leonards


" We've been doing this exact thing for 5 years. Sometimes we've met as many as 6 different guys in a year. Most turn out to be slightly mental. Some really want to play with your relationship and will have zero respect for your male half. Its not easy, its a minefield. Good luck. "

That's the worry isn't it... someone who understands their role and what they're there for

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


" We've been doing this exact thing for 5 years. Sometimes we've met as many as 6 different guys in a year. Most turn out to be slightly mental. Some really want to play with your relationship and will have zero respect for your male half. Its not easy, its a minefield. Good luck.

That's the worry isn't it... someone who understands their role and what they're there for "

Yep we've (or she ) met one guy who gets it. But he's rarely available. We've found it works to meet on here, then arrange to physically meet at a club. That way if you dont click you can find another. But be wary of guys who see you as providing accommodation for them in your hotel room. I once woke up asleep in the arm chair as the sun was coming up with some guy kind of asleep and fucking my passed out wife in the bed. Realising i was paying for the room i told the cunt to fuck off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We say meet at clubs/socials. Then get chatting. I feel we have been lucky with our selection of males. But use our gut rection. If any red flags appear. Then 9/10 times they dont play with us. Most guys are cool. Just need to out the no go people.

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By *ockluvincoupleCouple
over a year ago

Erdington

You're obviously on the scene for your pleasure, not to provide a service for all the horny men on here so you want someone who shows that they're going to compliment your sex life.

Someone who shows that they've read your profile and is genuinely interested in you and not whomever is easiest to get into bed with.

Makes an effort when contacting you. "Hi, fancy a shag?" messages go straight in the bin without being opened.

Non-pushy and doesn't try to force their own fantasies over what you're looking for.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


" We've been doing this exact thing for 5 years. Sometimes we've met as many as 6 different guys in a year. Most turn out to be slightly mental. Some really want to play with your relationship and will have zero respect for your male half. Its not easy, its a minefield. Good luck.

That's the worry isn't it... someone who understands their role and what they're there for "

Know your role, jabroni

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By *uriousduos OP   Couple
over a year ago

St Leonards


" We've been doing this exact thing for 5 years. Sometimes we've met as many as 6 different guys in a year. Most turn out to be slightly mental. Some really want to play with your relationship and will have zero respect for your male half. Its not easy, its a minefield. Good luck.

That's the worry isn't it... someone who understands their role and what they're there for

Know your role, jabroni "

Sorry what's jabroni mean??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we've decided to meet guys, the majority can set off well with conversation. Then some let themselves down -

- The ones we've said we'll get back in touch, bombard you with desperate meet messages. Block.

- Everything is fine and then bang, stupid questions and demands. Block.

- Those that get close to a meet, you ask a question, say, "What's your cock length please", and they were unhelpful/arsey in their reply, "You can see my dick length in the photo". Block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is hard to get it right, in fact don't think we have ever got it 100 percent right even the ones we have met have turned out to be weird after the fact,

You just have to set your rules set your boundaries and anyone that doesn't want to play by your rules don't meet them,

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We've found it quite easy to find guys to meet.

Most of them understand that our relationship is strong and respect that. In turn we respect them.

Chatting about what you all want first and making it clear what you expect from each other helps.

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill

Too many time wasters to arrange outside of clubs. Go to a club and choose one of the guys there.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"We've found it quite easy to find guys to meet.

Most of them understand that our relationship is strong and respect that. In turn we respect them.

Chatting about what you all want first and making it clear what you expect from each other helps."

Agrees with this ^^^^^^^

We've met some lovely men.

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