FabSwingers.com forum: Jealousy

By *anky N Panky OP Couple
over a year ago

Hullbridge Essex

Does anyone ever feel a bit jealous when seeing their partner with someone else ?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Yes but in percentage terms it's much less than the arousal. The mix of emotions is what makes tge experience so exhilarating.

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By *anky N Panky OP Couple
over a year ago

Hullbridge Essex

Ok thank you for feedback

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Ok thank you for feedback "

The percentage of jealousy is also proportional to how much i know / like the guy. The better known they are then the less jealousy there is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone ever feel a bit jealous when seeing their partner with someone else ?

As long as you both communicate properly before and after, it shouldn't be a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really a problem, we both know what is going to happen. We talk about it and if one half isn't happy it won't happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple that play together and away separately I've come to enjoy the pit of the stomach feeling I get knowing what he's up to, but counter that with how horny it makes me for him when he comes home...and I vice versa I know hubby feels that way with me too x

I guess it is jealousy covered with excitement

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By *anky N Panky OP Couple
over a year ago

Hullbridge Essex

Ok thank you for the replies but if you were with someone you have really strong feelings for how do you seperate sexy with them and others ?

He says it's just sex is that a bloke thing ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We see swinging as a hobby, we don't fancy the people we have sex with, nor are we in love with them.

We don't have regular partners.

We just meet people who have the same fantastic hobby as us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok thank you for the replies but if you were with someone you have really strong feelings for how do you seperate sexy with them and others ?

He says it's just sex is that a bloke thing ?"

Are you saying you have strong feelings for the person you play with or your partner/hubby?

Obviously I have strong feelings for my hubby....but sex and love are very very different! And yes I do fancy other men but that doesn't make my love or attraction for hubby any less x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id love to see my wife take cock or pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok thank you for the replies but if you were with someone you have really strong feelings for how do you seperate sexy with them and others ?

He says it's just sex is that a bloke thing ?

Are you saying you have strong feelings for the person you play with or your partner/hubby?

Obviously I have strong feelings for my hubby....but sex and love are very very different! And yes I do fancy other men but that doesn't make my love or attraction for hubby any less x"

Sex and love are different things. As a couple we share sex with others, but not love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wish someone wud ease my wife in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok thank you for the replies but if you were with someone you have really strong feelings for how do you seperate sexy with them and others ?

He says it's just sex is that a bloke thing ?

Are you saying you have strong feelings for the person you play with or your partner/hubby?

Obviously I have strong feelings for my hubby....but sex and love are very very different! And yes I do fancy other men but that doesn't make my love or attraction for hubby any less x

Sex and love are different things. As a couple we share sex with others, but not love."

Ahhh I get you! You've feelings for your FWB...ahh babe that tough I never caught feelings for my long term FWB but I did get a bit jealous when he told me if his other conquests

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We don't have any jealousy at all .

Neither of us has anything other than lustful feelings for those we play with .

If you let more than lust enter into a meet up with someone other than your partner , you're fucked . Either your relationship wasn't what you thought it was , or you're playing with fire .

Swinging shouldn't be any more than nsa sex as a couple .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only once have I felt like that but it was at a time where I was unable to play (even with hubby) so I think it was just a bad time on my part x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No jealousy what so ever just incredible feelings of horniness as I see another woman pleasure him. To hear him just about to cum is exhilarating. That alone drives me wild as I know the signals.

We have met couples who have issues during a meet and it just makes things awkward and never to be repeated.

It is just play at the end of the day......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone ever feel a bit jealous when seeing their partner with someone else ?

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We see swinging as a hobby, we don't fancy the people we have sex with, nor are we in love with them.

We don't have regular partners.

We just meet people who have the same fantastic hobby as us."

You don't fancy the ppl you play with ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither of us have felt jealousy since swinging, sex with others is simply that there is much more to our relationship than sex.

I have always fantasised about Fred with another woman, when we first met just talking about made me have a huge knot of jealousy in my stomach but would also arouse me.

As time went on and I became more confident and secure in myself and not just in our relationship I could separate love from sex and was hapy to explore swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah when we first started we would get jealous of each other but the when we sat down to talk about it we found we we more turned on the jealous but nearly 8 years on and sometimes we play separate jealous doesn't even come in it no more xx

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