FabSwingers.com forum: Face pic then arrange to meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have to say I have sent a face pic to couples and women several times. But, when is it a good time to send a face pic (I like to chat a bit online first)? There are fake couples here who will request one when it could just be a male who is pic collecting. I have often received insults when I want to chat first before sending a pic. So, what are the signs to watch out for? A new profile without a private gallery for friends, and not being verified is a good thing to look out for, but then you need to meet to get verified, so everyone has to start somewhere.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"So, what are the signs to watch out for? A new profile without a private gallery for friends, and not being verified is a good thing to look out for, but then you need to meet to get verified, so everyone has to start somewhere.

Not every new profile is out to get you. Same for non-verified profiles and Ive no idea why we all get so obsessed with pic collectors when theres an internet brimming with as many pics as anyone could ever wish to collect...

So Id say that the right time is when you feel comfortable sending one.

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

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We would be one of those profiles who has no interest in chatting. Or 'getting to know' a profile when we don't know if we'd be interested in meeting that profile.

Clearly we're fake

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I would say dont leave it too long,saves time in the long run.

If we had made contact 1st,we would prob send face pic after a few messages .Then if no attraction,none of us have wasted time.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I thought it was a little blunt of the last couple that contacted me to ask for a face pic in the first message. There was no initial hello or compliment chat. I replied a few cautious messages back and the insults came.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, you've had bad experiences. We are one of those couples that ask for face pics very early in the conversation, because there's not much point going on if J isn't attracted to the guy.

If the facepic is OK then we usually move to a social very quickly amd to a play date very quickly after that if the social was fine.

So, not all those couples asking for facepics are merely collectors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and we would never EVER insult someone. How crude and uncouth is that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know, that is why I thought it was a fake profile and didn't send the pic. I have been bitten before so just a little cautious and would just like to say hello first and discuss what each other is looking for and what we like about a potential situation.

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By *losguygl3Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

I agree with you OP. I am always very uncomfortable sending a face pic with the very first message. Just firing off a very personally identifiable photo blindly to someone completely unknown on the Internet is extremely risky!

But there are lots of ladies and couples who insist on it. I'm sure I end up missing out because I won't do it. But hey ho, at least I'm not going end up revealing myself to someone I'd rather not know we played.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always send one with first message. Simply put, there's no point carrying in if the lady doesn't like the goods!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always send one, that is probably where I am going wrong lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't chat to someone unless I've seen their face. It's a waste of both our times chatting if we don't find each other physically attractive. If someone approaches me and won't send one in the first few messages then it goes no further. I always reply with mine, too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yet again, I chat with the male of a couple and he is straight onto the face pics. I ask for one of his wife and him together clothed and he gets pushy. Is he really part of a couple, I doubt it. Now he has blocked me, what a load of b*ll*cks

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